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Matthew Hussey: Do's and Don'ts for Your First Date
Matthew's at it again with a few gems of advice to prep you before you go out on that date. Matthew suggests:
- Don't take too long to get ready for a date. The longer you prep, the more nervous you get.
- Get physical right from the start. Give your date a hug, a high-five, a touch on the shoulder.
- Let him be the man. Let him feel needed and chivalrous.
- Don't spend time worrying about awkward silences. Let the silence pass without worrying about filling the space up.
- No complaining! No whining! Make a positive impression and don't moan about your life. Remember you're selling yourself!
- Laugh through the date. It's a great way to break the tension. Guys like women that make them feel funny. He'll have more attraction for you.
- Let every part of your personality shine through.
- Don't talk about your ex! Even if he asks, he really doesn't want to know.
- Make eye contact. When he's speaking, stare deeply into his eyes.
- Make the date short and sweet. Leave him wanting more!
- Most importantly, RELAX!
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Winnyyy says:Posted: 24 Aug 19Wow... Thanks for the tips especially point 9.
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Emma1977 says:Posted: 19 May 19
Give her a hug & buy her a drink& I will not have her in a close door meeting
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Khanshahar50 says:Posted: 06 Oct 17Hi I'm single want really love really life
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Ruthcute says:Posted: 18 Jul 17
They are really great and enlightening.. thanks Matthew.
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kahm123 says:Posted: 02 Jun 17Hi am a nice guy looking for a right relationship a right lady lovely beautiful
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Trini60 says:Posted: 26 Apr 17Great advice
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22chris says:Posted: 11 May 18
Hello Trini I just looked at your profile...first yo are beautiful and I like your words of who you want as a man...God fearing is the key to a successful relationship..but I must confess I like you
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Dorcas31 says:Posted: 21 Apr 17
I hope to find my dream men here, someone who well make me happy forever.
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joansony.7 says:Posted: 07 Feb 17i hope to find my dream man here..n some one who shares the same chemestry
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nadia80 says:Posted: 27 Jan 17
am 36 and am looking for much between 38 to 50.
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NaturalBarbi says:Posted: 01 Dec 16
I love this article! Looks like I don't have any issues in this department.
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shacelisa says:Posted: 18 Oct 16Thank you so much matthew for those tips .such kind guesture
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Ugann says:Posted: 21 Jun 16
Any one who's serious place email me flove2383@gmail.com am black African I need white lady , if your not white please don't text me.Thanks
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Samkethe says:Posted: 03 Jun 16Thanx Matt.
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shillameg says:Posted: 20 Apr 16Thanks for the advice I will keep it in mind I need a matured christian man
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hearthealed says:Posted: 30 Apr 16I know the feeling.. I myself is seeking a god fearing man.
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Wie28 says:Posted: 05 Oct 16Same here
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miray001 says:Posted: 13 Jan 17Looking for a kind hearted man and loving too God fearing i know when we have known each other a little
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kahm123 says:Posted: 02 Jun 17
Hi babe u look very beautiful I rally love to have a lovely relationship with u
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Janesty says:Posted: 04 Mar 16Thanks for the advice. I'll try not to mess up my date. :) Thanks.
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mdota says:Posted: 03 Mar 16
Hi iam here waiting for my soul lover to meet her wl be the happest thng in my live
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whitcap says:Posted: 22 Feb 16
I want a date with a guy ,i want a man for a long relationships am lonelly pliz Asist me pliz
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