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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Hannes I'm not complaining about Blacks (my people) YOU ARE!!!!! I made a direct quote about what you thought of Black women from a certain part of Africa. Didn't you do that? Didn't you? Yes, and I quoted it. I'm not complaining about Blacks, I'm complaining about White men who pretend to want to be with Black women. See, how that works. Your're new to this conversation. You brought up fat Black women in AFrica (not me) You brought up gasoline prices in Austria vs the prices in the US (not me) You brought up at least your government isn't raiding countries (not me) That's where I had to stop you dead in your track. YES, YOU DO NEED A LIBRARY CARD. You came into the middle of this conversation, having not had a chance to read the prior discourse and jumped on some stupidness. I fixed that right up for you. I'm not angry. I just think some of you white men think we should be "privileged to be in your company." I don't like that. It is not a privilege. You are NOT BETTER THAN WE ARE. You never will be. Stop lying on me. If you're going to come to a forum to discuss things at least tell the friggin truth. Can White people do that? Do it......just tell the truth.

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  2.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Friendly13’s re-occurring rejection theme repeated over and over again. She said the following: I have to ask why I’m reserving myself for only black men when they are not reserving themselves for me? 1) Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! It’s likely that I will be asked to get married by a white man than a black man because many black men do not appreciate black women anymore. 2) Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! I am not going to down white women any more because black men tend to prefer them. 3) Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! I have learned a hard lesson. I have learned that I should open my choices up instead of closing them. 4) Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! We have been left by black men for white women in past relationships. 5) Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! Instead of us crying and feeling bad about ourselves we should consider white men who like us… 6) Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! Friendly13 then goes on to make the following startling revelation below: I am adopted because my biological mother was only 14 and her parents helped her to give me away for adoption. Menelik says: This explains a lot because the constant themes in all of your posts are abandonment and rejection. Check them again for confirmation. Check also that any Black man with whom she disagrees is either 1) going to lose their partner to a white man 2) can’t get a white man or 3) is in some way ugly. Rejection is the over-riding theme in all of her posts. It comes as no surprise that she herself was rejected by her birth mother and her grandparents. Very sad. But why does she continually project her own rejected, self-loathing status onto those who disagree with her? Why? Can’t she simply move on and stop warring with men who simply no longer want her? get a white boy and be happy for heaven’s sake! Menelik Charles London England

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  3.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Bro Ichibod, I promise you her words are but a red herring! Please re-read my previous posting below on what the real 411 is and you'll see that Friendly13 is merely attempting to make Black men feel as racially rejected as she has been by Black men supposedly in favour of white women! friendly13 interest in white males is merely of a HETEROSEXUAL nature. They have no special masculine qualities that distinguish them from other races of men as you surely are aware! She inadvertently makes it apparent below that white men are her last stop...just as Black women are their last stop. Don't take the bait! Menelik Charles London England

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  4.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    "But I will admit, I like white brothers. I like their strong minded ways and courage. I am not saying that the black men don’t have courage. I am just saying what I like about white men, but I can’t and won’t put down black men. I wish they would do the same when they choose white women over us. But they don’t. They say that white women are better than us rather than simply attributing their behavior to preference and attraction." I don't understand a statement like that. 'Not saying black men don't have courage, but strong minded ways and courage belongs white men' is what I'm getting from this. "I wish they would do the same when they choose white women over us. But they don’t. They say that white women are better than us rather than simply attributing their behavior to preference and attraction." Where has any black man done this on this blog? My attraction does not and will never rule out black women.

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  5.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    @friendly13 I know nothing about the black/white dynamics in the USA, I am sure it is something different over there. I just can say: As for Austria, for sure the white girls arent better than the blacks. White girls make me crazy, either they are fat and ugly or the looks ok and believe they are wonders of the world. They are the ones who act, when rejected, how described in the posting above. Halfcast-girls, when looking ok, start beeing so as well. So tell you brothers the whites are not better for sure, and that comes from the land where they came from ;)

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  6.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    @petitechick You misunderstand something, I dont need a library to know what europeans have done. I dont deny it, I just dont want you to make a black/white thing out if it. Or do you want to tell me that Africa is a peaceful earth and I dont refer to the present time, go several 100years back. Its not me who should visit the library, it is you. I am not the guy who says blacks did this and black do that, it all about humans. Alone the conflicts of the 3 major-tribes in Nigeria are bad enough. Even here in Austria, Yuroba fights Ibo, Ibo fights Haussa, Haussa fights..... and so on and so on. Unfortunately, thats what humans do how it looks and I am happy that you are not a queen or a president, as aggressive and xenophobic as you are. As for the point todays men dont know how to approach woman. I just can say woman never knew it. I am not after girls, getting them is my smallest problem, believe me. Means, I have no concept how to approach women too, since I dont practic it. You should see how angry rejected women can be, they think you should be honered when they come for you, but if you show them that you are not interested they call you ignorant, arrogant, bigheaded or they just say that you come for them and they rejected you and now you are angry with them. Woman are just a joke if it comes to that things.

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  7.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Petitechick: You are right about that. Yes, there are educated men from all backgrounds. My father is one of them. he is a retired engineer, married to my mom who is a blackwoman. He loves her to the hilt. But it seems that so many black men in my age group are being snagged by beautiful whitewomen or maybe sometimes the status they think they assume when they are with one. I am not mad. I think that education sometimes makes people think outside the box little bit and often times connects them with people of other races and they beggin to socialize with them and discover that they really like them in a more romantic way. I think people should go with their heart and their preference. This way they are not always looking over the fence and wishing they could be there. I love to see President Obabma and his wife Mrs. Obama. The are so perfect toghether. But they met on the same intellectual level in the same intellectual setting and they are blessed. They were compatible. I think compatibility outweighs color any day of the week. But I will admit, I like white brothers. I like their strong minded ways and courage. I am not saying that the black men don't have courage. I am just saying what I like about white men, but I can't and won't put down black men. I wish they would do the same when they choose white women over us. But they don't. They say that white women are better than us rather than simply attributing their behavior to preference and attraction.

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  8.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    @PetiteChick Chile, you know some of these men ride the crazy train when they get rejected. LOL And I'm talking about the Ozzy Osbourne crazy train. LOL

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  9.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    @ Hannes: You charge other people alot, I hope you are that strikly with yourself and you people ------------------------------------------------ Languge barrier I suppose..... What are you referring to? strikly? Do you mean strict with my own people? If so, yes I am. I am my sister's keeper. It is what brought me to this thread to begin with. I didn't come here to put anyone down. I came here to enlighten. Some will not see it that way, but it is my intention. Tell you what though, stick to what you know best. We'll do likewise (whatever that is.....) As far as me "charging a lot of people" I didn't charge anybody. Your own books written by Europeans charge you. They wrote the history and lived it. I didn't. I'm repeating it. So, I recommend you get yourself a Library card if they exist in Austria and get learned.

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  10.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Petite, I’ve never gotten that kind of response on here. Everybody experiences is different but the few men I have met have been real polite to me. But as I said, there are assholes everywhere; not just white men but you don’t think some brothas, some hispanics and others approach women of color or white women the same way? Child,please. I think the problem is a lot of men in general don’t know how to approach a woman and some don’t take rejection well. I get LOTS of responses from white men on other websites and I reject several because the email I got from them is stupid. lol But I’ve had emails from brothas who get down right angry with me for putting and ad out there for JUST white men. But you know what? Most of them have been extremly classy and nice so it comes from both sides especially when they find out, it’s not about them as some brothas think it is. -------------------------- I can't argue with that logic. My thing is the way they come at me with it appears to be I'm missing out on such a good thing. Then the ones I refuse to participate in webcam activities with get even madder. I'm used to dealing with with brothers, and know how they can strike back when rejected. This whole white/black rejection thing is a whole nother beast for me. I don't see it as it's just them being hurt and rejected (too many other good looking chicks on here, move on...is all). All that other mess ain't necessary. I understand fully what you're talking about, but coming from them, I get a different vibe.

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  11.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Hannes72, I understand now. And I do agree with you. A woman is a woman to me. There are many different stigmas and faux pas in American, but what does that have to do with what would make a heterosexual man jollies dance? I was apparent to me at 3 years old that black women weren't the only women with vaginas (even though I didn't know what they were back then), but it's amusing, as well as disappointing, reading comments from black women who act like they just found out that white men have penises. It reminds me of a line from "Clerks II". Jay said that he wanted to be the first one to discover an alien life form on Mars... and then f_ck it! I mean seriously. Movies and cartoons have made alien and monster chicks look hot for decades. You can go anywhere on the internet and find some chick with a dog or a horse, but being with a white man was such an obtuse idea to some black women. It's now a new option. Closing one option to option up another is not open minded. 1-1+1 still = 1

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  12.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Hannes: I asked you about your picture because it DOES look like it is either a potrait, avatar or some really good airbrush work. I have no desire to look at your fotos, sir. Though I see you've taken the liberty of looking at mine. I was not trying to be funny with that one.... Why must everyone make relationship innuendos because a woman agrees with something a man say's. This sounds very very familiar to me and it is getting stale. LOL. Really... As for the President of Nigeria well yeah, crooks will be crooks. He is perpetrating it on his own kind, however which is still unfortunate. We have crooks in our elected officials as well. I suspect we will continue to have them. Any person who rules a country who does not care more about the people of said country, but more about their own political gain or financial reward in said position are certainly NOT leaders. They are CROOKS.

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  13.   weatherman444 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Over the years I have found that black ladies are more compassionate and sincere than white ladies. To me, it seems that Caucasian women are somewhat self-centered and, for lack of a better word, "snobbish". Of all the black ladies I have known, they have more charm and emotion. I would very much like to be with a black lady, but alas, here in the notheast, most black ladies do not care to associate with white men.

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  14.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    LOL@"Daffy"...again with the "I see you" BS....trust me, you probably with NEVER "see" me; not even with the Hubble Telescope, dude...LOL. And before you go and get the "big head"...I am NOT back here because of you "calling me out"....(funny joke about me "bullying" Big Eyes though....seems as though you can't make up your mind about that shyte either.....Am I the bully???.....or did she "hand me" MY ASS???....LOL.....and you better believe she is not "gone"...LOL....watch and WAIT FOR IT...LOL). I am actually wanting to thank kingpin.....Thanks, babe for the "honorable mention".....You called it right...."same people, same BS"....(or sometimes, even sadder,...."different people, recycled BS"....lol)....I feel like if certain members here want to be the "rulers" or "dominators" of such a hate-filled forum...they can have it. I know what it used to be like here and it that was when REAL LOVE ruled and the Truth of Mutual Respect reigned supreme...... forever PEACE and Blessings tatted2death

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  15.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    I dont want to go any deeper in the topic but pilfering question: The president of Nigeria is one of the worlds most richest people but the country is down to the ground. Make your own calculations about that, are the whites responsable in that case? As for the church, they are real criminals, I agree. I am not religious, many blacks are and they go to church regualry but no need to make something bad out of it, just wanted to note it. You charge other people alot, I hope you are that strikly with yourself and you people.

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  16.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    @Ichibod Didn´t you really understand the meaning of my comparism??? The question is why do white man love black women. My statement was as simple as reasonable. What kind of answer do people looking for - you would not ask why do someone like dark, the other one blond hears or one prefer cats over dogs and another contraiwise. IT WAS JUST AN COMPARISM, you seems to be clever enought to undstand such a simple thing. The answer is way to simple to me, its just taste. It will first generate a problem when people start discussing about the why since there is no reason to ask for! @petitechick (what the hell is petite on you???) If you would be a little smart, as you expect a man to be, you just would take a closer look to my profile if there are more such pictures. Then you will see it is not an avatar, it is me. It was the cover of an british photographers magazine so of course the quality differs to the average holiday picture.

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  17.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Comment by nikab on 18 April 2010: So, why do white me like black women? Are there any white men out there that care to enlighten us? @ nikab: We have queens as their spokesperson on that subject. Even when they do come and speak, he tells em what they really think and what their motives are and stuff. Heck, he even tells them what conversations they have with other white men. He black tho

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  18.   Member says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    (Smiling) You people are hilarious. I really mean it. Somebody said, "please enlighten us on why white men love black women"? "Other" than, the admiration for the black woman's vagina, hips, and buttocks. (Throwing hands up) No answer! Otherbrother and my friend Kingpin rather talk about taking in black women with kids from a black man. Man, what the hell is going on in America? I am seriously considering dating a black woman with an "adoptive" white son. She adopted a white kid. It was so strange I had to ask her out. How y'all like them "apples"? Oh yea, Bama got a son (I assume he is black). Get it together girl. You want a black man in your life. Stop talking about your perverted Irish boss that wanted to spank you. These women kill me with the nonsense. You point out the "slut comment". I told you that was the wrong statement. I can admit it was the wrong thing to say at the time. I should have said "exploring" relationships with two white men. I sincerely apologize. (Thinking) Again, nobody addressed my previous comments. Are you white men dating dark, fat black women? Why are they ducking and dodging my questions? Are you going into the "hood" for Tameka and her kids to date them? Nobody like the name "Tameka". Let me change it to "Shaneka". Lastly, Kingpin we got to meet in Williamsport. I have to talk some sense into you. I don't want you to end up like "Other brother". He is bitter and angry because he is taking care of everything financially. So, he calls everybody racist that is black. It is not our fault you want to move on from your situation. Just say look " I want to holler at other black women". I am pretty sure she will accept it. These white boys got no "balls". He who controls the money, controls the WOMAN! Tatt I see you. Tatt ready to bully Big eyes. She ain't here Tatt. Let it go already. (Grabbing Bama's hips) Heading out the door. I have work to do.

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  19.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    @ Salsassin: You said: Queen is always entertaining in his self delusion that he “beats” people in his debates. ------ Lol, thats my exact same thought every time he says he is "spanking" somebody. What a joke LOL

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  20.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    @ Bamababe: You said: I guess you can call me the black Polly Anna, lol but I just wish we judge the indidviual, not the race as corny as that sounds. --- Thats not corny at all girl. You keep on being you.

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  21.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    it is not my bad that only blacks live in that places, right?” @ Hannes. You trying to get down with the Black speak? LOL. Hahahahahahahaha.

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  22.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Hannes: Is your foto computer generated or an avitar or something? Doesn't look natural to me. Just wondering.

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  23.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Everything Ich said!!!! Yepper........

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  24.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Bamba: I have white friends (associates as well). I don't necessarily call them friends because while we are cordial to one another and I've known them for years, we just don't mingle in the way I would call them friend. FRIEND is a big deal to me and I don't use the word loosely. However, I can say this, it is up to our younger generation of people to stamp out this hatred. They are the ones who were bold enough to stand and elect the First Black President of the United States. BTW, the best Boss I ever had in my life was an Older White (Irish) man, who gave me a chance to move up the ranks a little 8 years ago. He has since retired and I know longer work for the company. However, we do keep in contact with Christmas cards and the ocassional email. Whenever I moved somewhere else, I let him know where I was and he in turn would talk to me about his grands and his wife. I liked her too very much. He recommend the school my son will be graduating from in May. We looked into it, saw that the tuition was reasonable and the rest is history. He reminded me so much of my gregarious dad (Leo). I saw so much in his mannerisms and they way he handled things like my father and I admire him to this day and will never forget his kindness toward me and my son, ever!

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  25.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Nikab: I've not heard one good explanation yet about why do White men love Black women except the very small majority who are open-minded and have the egalitarianism of an open-heart to find that true love without regard to race. They are rare indeed. Otherwise, they will make mention of the contrast of skin tone? Like WTF? I guess that's the white bodies pressed against Black skin (sex) or some other such nonsense. Other than that not much more than that. And to think of all the White women they're leaving behind who benefitted from Affirmative Action.

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  26.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Hannes72, You were doing good by being the only one to follow the topic; a white guy explaining why you like black women. However, you said: "I dont understand the entire discussion. Nobody ask why one man is after black haired - the other after blond haired woman!" The topic ask "Why white men love the black woman" and nobody in this thread has said anything about why one man is after blond haired women. Also, no offense, nobody ask your opinion on black men in Africa. I liked the first half of your post, but then I knew you would catch heat for that because we weren't discussing the topic at the moment. It was sort of personal, and should've been discussed in "Black Men, Black Women. Best Frenemies", but oh well. That's all I had an issue with. I agree with you when you say: "it got nothing to do with racism, I talk about Nations, not races, it is not my bad that only blacks live in that places, right?" Exactly! It's no one's fault that Europe contains mostly whites, either. Historically, Mongols aren't angels themselves. Attrocities in Darfur, Sierra Leone, Egyptians enslaved the Hebrews, and ofcourse the Iraqis invasion of Kuwait. This isn't an issue of race. It's an issue of spritual wickedness in high places. Any race can be there and has been there at least one point in human history. You've said your piece, Dude. Thanks for almost getting this topic on the right track. Nice hat, by the way.

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  27.   Member says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    @ hannes72, what non white country has invaded another country? Lets not talk about Iran, of course their white, or Iraq they are also white!. I guess some people do not get it. Your right it is not a white thing. However it has been done in great detail by America. It is ahame what we do sometimes.

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  28.   Member says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Wow were do I start Petite Chick seems more amd more lokie queenie evry day, she finally stated some actual truths, but then went right back to lying. Such a foul moutyh from such a classy lady. Think of it never rejected by a black male, never had a black male get mad she turned them down, or she has never turned them down, either way it sounds pretty silly.

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  29.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    One more thing before I lay to rest.... The United States of America is a predominantly European centered country. But that's changing quickly thank God. So...when you speak of people stealing oil, guess who are the ones doing the stealing? It sure ain't Blacks. G'nite.....

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  30.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Yes, every European country has done nothing but pilage through other countries since the beginning of time. If you are Austrian you should know your man Hitler annihilated close to a whole nationality of people. Whites have invaded every corner of the earth for their greed. These are facts. I see in your country you don't know too much about European history. They invaded Cuba (the Spaniards), Went to South Africa and other parts of Africa to use up its natural resources (diamonds and other gems) and then White people are the ones who pretend that diamonds are rare. THEY ARE NOT. One large conglomerate (whites) own the majority of them and keep them off the market to exponentially keep the prices high. Can you say DeBeer's? Great Britian and the Catholic Church...I could go on, but you don't need a history lesson from me. Blacks didn't invade any countries. By the way, Blacks don't run the United States. Last time I looked the powers that be are rich White men. We have a wonderfully educated Black/White president but he ain't the man in charge. The FED is. Guess who runs that? If the information I've provided for you appears racist then so be it. It just so happens to be the truth, however. So take it for what it's worth, yanno? No, I have never been to the motherland, the cradel of civilization. I will one day. My problem will be deciding which country to visit. Irish came to the US escaping the Potatoe Famine The Italians came escaping problems in their country. And guess what? Every group before them looked down on the newcomers. The chinese helped to build our railways and they were treated too, as less than human. You came with your puritinism and patriarchy, hiding behind a cloke of religious belief. In the name of religion many people have died. We can go at this for a long time. I love it. I have links for you to check out and some recommended reading for you as well. It is currently 1:00A.M. in the Big Apple and I am going to bed. Good nite

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  31.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    I really undertand the way you combine things here, but invading other peoples countries is a white thing? And that is the next racist message again, hot it looks the term racism works only if it refers to whites. Thanks you both support my theory better then I ever could. And if you know only a little bit (even less than a little bit) that you should know that invading countries is not a white thing AT ALL. But to know that would need some education. By running around and calling every white racist keeps less time to read books of history. It is funny how you ran around the facts I wrote. BTW, the UK supports the USA very energetic. The way you arge is too childish, you cannot challange with me, its too lame.

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  32.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Hannes said: As for the statement “It is a black thing”, if a white would say “That is a white thing”, what do you think you would call it… Menelik replies: I'd call it a 'white thing'...just like racial discrimination, invading other peoples countries, paedophilia etc lol Menelik Charles London England

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  33.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    As for the statement "It is a black thing", if a white would say "That is a white thing", what do you thing would people call it... How I stated before, it is visual where racism seems to come from most of the time.

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  34.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Have you been in Africa anyway? I have been in Accra and in Kenya. As for the "The whites are there to pilfer the natural resources", now that is what you would call racism!!! If anything, then nations are there to pilfer, and not whites. You got balls, you are american and talk about someone is pilfering in Africa, hahahahaha, that is great. In Austria we pay around 2,5USD for the liter of gas, because we dont seize countries and take there oil, we buy it. Well, I am sure for all what is stolen from differnt nations in the world like Gold, Diamonds and Oil you pay more that a white american only whites americans benfit from the USA-politics. Thanks for your words, I could not have ever proven my words better then you did it for me. You are ver clever, really...... That is why I said for my experience racism comes mostly from black people.

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  35.   nikab says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    So, why do white me like black women? Are there any white men out there that care to enlighten us?

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  36.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    HANNES babe, it's a Black thing. You know nothig of it. I can talk circles around you if I choose to. At the present time, we are discussing matters that are "heated" and disturbing. One would expect a certain degree of rancor..... If you can't understand that, then don't read my posts. Keep it moving! Now as far as your ignorant comment about a couple of countries on an awfully large continent, it is not hard for me to believe you feel the same about all. Considering the fact the vast majority of African nations are what you just described...Yepper. But we have your kind to thank for that and then you want to lay blame elsewhere. And indeed there ARE white people living in these various regions of Africa. They're not there for the reasons you think though. They're there to pilfer the natural resources. Don't ever tell me how to write or speak. Yes, I mentioned your fuckery! Cause that is just what it was. Black woman to superior White man (NOT)

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  37.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Sorry for the mistakes, it is 5:00 in the morning in Austria and I did not sleep.

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  38.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    @PetiteChick Thanks for refering to my posting but in that thread is only space for you and 4 other members how it looks. When I talk about my experience about the Nigerians and Gambians than it got nothing to do with racism, I talk about Nations, not races, it is not my bad that only blacks live in that places, right? There are good examples as well, I like the people of the republik of Kongo. You can use that message board to unload your anger but it would be polite if you next time state my username at least. Its a question of education, I think. My name is Hannes and not "some other guy" For me it is equal if you are black, white, yellow, brown or green, in any case you seems to be a very rude person and it would say the same if you would be caucasian. Last but not least, if you are interested in educated men, you should not write in ghetto-style like "I love that shit", especially not in your age. Thanks

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  39.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    kingpin said: Tyrant…You are just an angry angry hateful person, that just can not and will not get past the whole black and white thing. TYRANT replies: There's NOTHING that I've written that even remotely indicative of me being ANGRY over the whole BLACK and WHITE thing. Apparently, you haven't READ any of my post, for if you had you should've QUOTED me. Anywho...thanks for your opinion and have a nice evening.

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  40.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Thanks, Kingpin. And good to see you again. "It does seem though, that you are a lil quick to “jump all over” someone whenever someone says something you disagree with. (especially the women) I think you should just respect people’s opinions more…" I've been hanging out here just over a year now, and I've read so much. I've always liked debating. I'm just the type of person that calls stuff out as soon as I see it. When I don't, then "others" call it silence just because I happen to not be logged on that day or week, or if I don't feel like I even need to say anything. Don't be a stranger, Dude. Stop by more often.

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  41.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Petite I can't speak for no one but myself, but I haven't had that kind of experience on here or most of the sites I've been on. I've had guys act like jerks but not because they thought they were superior to me, more like because all they were seeking was some bootie and I wasn't having that myself. lol If anything, I haven't met the kind of man here that suits me.

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  42.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Petite, I’ve never gotten that kind of response on here. Everybody experiences is different but the few men I have met have been real polite to me. But as I said, there are assholes everywhere; not just white men but you don’t think some brothas, some hispanics and others approach women of color or white women the same way? Child,please. I think the problem is a lot of men in general don’t know how to approach a woman and some don’t take rejection well. I get LOTS of responses from white men on other websites and I reject several because the email I got from them is stupid. lol But I’ve had emails from brothas who get down right angry with me for putting and ad out there for JUST white men. But you know what? Most of them have been extremly classy and nice so it comes from both sides especially when they find out, it’s not about them as some brothas think it is. --------------------------------------------------- I've had Black men stalk me on this site. So, I understand men in general can be and will do stupid ish. But my problem is with White superiority that I have experienced with trying to date White men on THIS site. Now I can speak to other online venues, just this one. I've been on BlackPeopleMeet.com where White men were in the minority and they still had this notion....so! I'm not a racist bama. What I don't like anybody, anything, anytime, thinking they're better than me. Period. That right there is some plain ole fuckery to me.

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  43.   Member says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Replying back to Kingpin If you was in Williamsport, you ain't say nothing. What's good with that? 80 percent of black women are obese. You can google it. Also, I speak in general. I don't think you lie to your black wife. You claim you have plenty of white friends with black wives and girlfriends allegedly. I do get out much. I hardly see white men with black women. Especially, in Williamsport PA. Holla at me if you are out here again. You seem like a good dude.

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  44.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 18 April 2010: Petite if I was talking to you, I’d say you. But there are several people I was talking about. --------------------------------------------------- GOOD DEAL! Cause whenever I have something to say to someone I address them. See my other post about why I asked this to begin with. Ooops, there is ONE exception: "Other Brother." I will no longer hold a conversation/debate with the likes of him.

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  45.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Melenik I love boxing. Especially, the heavyweight stuff. The last good match I saw in the States was several years ago with the Mayweather and De La Hoya! Dang it...

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  46.   kingpin78 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    queens.... "Before you even attempt to. How many of you’re “white male friends” are dating black women with kids from a black man? How many of your white male friends are even dating black women??????????" who really cares. what does it matter. I never said it was common to find wm/bw relationships. But just because its not common, it doesnt mean I cant be happy with a black woman...but if you must know, i have several white male friends with black girlfriends/wives...i could think of at least 10 examples off the top of my head. Its quite common in the PA/NJ/NY area. You should know, you only live about 40 miles from me. Or maybe you dont get out much. I was just in Williamsport a couple days ago...with my black wife and kids...oh yeah, I have a kid with her as well. A beautiful 2 1/2 year old girl. Queens..."By the way, I bring up obese because they say 80 percent of black women are “overweight”. I dont believe that one minute. Where did you hear that?....who is "they"? "Basically, what you white guys are doing is giving them “false hope”. That is the worst form of using women. I rather you just fuck a black woman and leave them. You giving them “false hope”.... WTF!..you cant be serious...what on earth are you talking about?....and now I am lying to my black wife about my intentions to be with her?....Man, you really live in your own little world dont you?.....

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  47.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    I'm a liberal and I can't stand tea party people myself but one of the best white people I know is my best friend. SHe is one of the sweetest people I know and one of the most liberal. I was in her wedding, invited to her home, eaten at her house, stand there too a few times and consider her like a sister to me and she is one of the most liberal people I know. There are always going to be bad people in the world on both sides and I guess you can call me the black Polly Anna, lol but I just wish we judge the indidviual, not the race as corny as that sounds.

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  48.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Bama, I have. Plenty of them. As I said: I will simply ignore them from here on out. I'm Black, you're black. The difference is YOU are looking to date White men aren't you? You wouldn't experience that. I do because I'm not currently looking to date them.

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  49.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Bama: Thanks for the clarity. The reason I asked what I did at the time I did is because of the nature of the threads. Basically it was Queens and I having the back and forth dialogue and it APPEARED as though your comment interjected something along the lines like he was leading me or I was following him. And indeed there are racist White men and Racist Black men. However, it is more prevalent then we want to admit. That's my point. IT JUST IS, unfortunate - yes, but these are the facts in our country. Too many of them still have this self-indignation of superiority. That don't sit well with me. Never has never will. I live in an area of New York (an outer borough) whose section is extremely diverse, however racism rears it's ugly head here. Tea Parties all over the country. Everyone needs a scapegoat. My feelings and thoughts as of today are: We have a long way to go. I'm seeing and reading too much right now and I don't trust them, as I don't believe many of them have our best interest at heart! Just look at the hate being spewed toward the FIRST BLACK PRESIDENT of these United States....(and he's half White)! When they come down off that superiority driven bullshyt - I might not see them in the light I currently do.

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  50.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Petite, I've never gotten that kind of response on here. Everybody experiences is different but the few men I have met have been real polite to me. But as I said, there are assholes everywhere; not just white men but you don't think some brothas, some hispanics and others approach women of color or white women the same way? Child,please. I think the problem is a lot of men in general don't know how to approach a woman and some don't take rejection well. I get LOTS of responses from white men on other websites and I reject several because the email I got from them is stupid. lol But I've had emails from brothas who get down right angry with me for putting and ad out there for JUST white men. But you know what? Most of them have been extremly classy and nice so it comes from both sides especially when they find out, it's not about them as some brothas think it is.

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