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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    has anything to do with you….. Ooops, HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH MEEEEEE!!!!!!!!

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  2.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    Also Sals dude: I don't tell stories, Salassin - I tell the truth. Sour? It might not be what you like (my reality) but it ain't got nothing to do with you. Nor does your story (if you have one) has anything to do with you..... See how that works?

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  3.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    Well, that's kool if folx wanna pay to come to a forum to share their stories. I asked how it's done and if it's free. Cause I intend to come back and do likewise. Why you have to be so nasty? You are the sour grape, I asked a VALID QUESTION. I will wait to hear from Sarah...... Also, how can one get two handles? Anybody know?

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  4.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    Good morning to you, Sarah! How's Scoff doing? MzBrOwNSuGaR, "... I’m so sure you will see one has nothing to do with the other." How so? My point is, what does it matter that the topic refers to another race or gender? Some people like reading and/or hearing other people's opinions on different things. Again, it's called human relations. I feel that you only typed that comment to Bama hoping to make black men feel guilty about posting on a topic with "White men" and "Black Woman" in the title. Oh, was that comment not for anyone other than Bama to see (on a public SPACE)? Nice try though. "Also, most black men DO care, which is why we come running when we see things said about black women. When we find out what black women are saying about us, when the topic says nothing about us, then that becomes a problem." It's a shame that you don't care to know what others may be saying about us. The part about the US military was regarding knowing what others are doing before it affects our country. Hard to see the correlation at first if you're purposely trying to misunderstand me.

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  5.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    PChick Maybe they are on because they like forums. Maybe they like chatting with people in similar relationships. Maybe they just like sharing their stories with people who explored like them in the past. Kind of like you share your sour grape stories.

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  6.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    From Petite Chick on: Comment by Kalynada on 6 April 2010: Oh man. I’m seriously thinking of taking the highlights from this thread and posting them somewhere. I think I could actually sell some of it… -------------------------------------------------- That's kool, but lemme ask you a question. How do you get two handles? Kalynada and Love Theorist? I wanna pretend to be more than one person too. I wanna be able to get me a man from here and come back and brag about it, like Sarah did. Can anybody hook a sista up?

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  7.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    Scoff/Sarah Can I ask you something? If you have a wonderful relationship with a white man, why are you still a member of this site? I wanna know cause If I get a success story with a Black/Latino or multiracial gentleman I wanna know if I get a free pass to come back to participate on these blogs. How you do dat? As a matter of fact, I will open that question up to all the women (Black or White) if you have found your interracial must, why are you STILL HERE?

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  8.   Scoff/Sarah says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    Questions and more Questions ????????? Why do men and women fall in love? Love and race what's the connection? Just random thoughts as I listen from the side lines, I will say sometimes I laugh at some of the ideas or misconceptions I see. Sale out Black women, the best one came from the king of the blog,(Mr.with out a real life Mr. Queens) delusional. Thank you Mr. Queens To the rest of my dear friends, I'm still around and enjoying my relationship with a white man. Love and God Bless Sarah

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  9.   Member says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    I like dating black women because they aren't pushovers like white women. It is more of a cultural thing than a color thing. White women (in my opinion) tend to be clingy and timid. I want a woman who can match me for wits, doesn't have "daddy" issues, and can take a joke. I also notice black women are more down to Earth and less pre-occupied with themselves.

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  10.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    (Ich) said : doubt James needs to be of each race and gender in order to write a topic about them. It’s called human relations. Maybe the US Military shouldn’t be in other countries listening to how many people there hate us. Who cares what plots exist to attack our country. We should respect other people’s choices and space, right? WRONGGGG!! You need to reread what I said and then reread what you just said and I'm so sure you will see one has nothing to do with the other. Nice try tho

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  11.   cherie says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    i'm a young black female from South Africa and in our young democracy where racial prevalence is still the norm. i've learnt to be more open-minded and therefore have dated outside of my race. we are made in the image of God and in my understanding, we one in the same although our skin colours are different. i have dated all sorts of men and enjoyed the relationships as well as the pains that have come with them. with that said: we should not let our racial division come between us but instead we should embrace our differences even when a white man is dating a black women. it took me 8 months before i could interact in sexual relations with my white partner. so this shows that it went beyond the outter appearances. my man loves me for who i am and not for what i have. i am a strong women of good character, regardless of my race and i don't limit myself to stereotypes. life is too short to be wallowing in unnecessary prejudice and my social diverse circle has taught me to be accepting of who they are, even though they are so different...(^^,) enjoy your day people

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  12.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    "Why do you think this ‘Other Guy’ is so angry at black men after all these months? He’s already been straightened out by two women about calling me racist after making comments about white women (go figure). We asked him what makes him think that I’m racist, and he disappeared for 5 months. He can’t prove it and now he wants Queens to answer a question about being racist. His grammar still sucks. It’s not hard to see folk’s true motives." And there he is again.

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  13.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    My other point was the attitudes on boths sides does not help the cause, if anything it confirms the myth that some have about one another.

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  14.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    @Queenie so bashing black woman is going to solve the problem right? See the reason I really don't take you seriously is because you won't take a belt to some of your brothas as well. Black men aren't perfect. But instead of bashing black women why don't you bash the media about their coverage of black men and relationships. Hell for that matter, I don't see the media covering white men and relationships either but that's not our fault. How many men are really going to open up about their feelings?

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  15.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    Comment by Mr Laurelton Queens on 14 April 2010: (Listening) -------------------------------------------- I am in FULL agreement with everything you said under this heading Queens. Indeed!

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  16.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    Bama: Exactly it’s the offensive talk about black women that pisses me off. I understand where you coming from but a lot of sistas are talking from a place of hurt also and some do feel a white man can save them until they find out that white men aren’t better or worse then any brotha out there. A lot of brothas find that out too. And you are right what pisses both sides off is when a black man says white women are BETTER then black women or when a sista says the same thing about white men. ------------------------------------------------ THIS IS THE POINT I'VE BEEN TRYING TO MAKE. WE ARE GETTING SOMEWHERE!!!!!!

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  17.   Member says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    Let me interject here. Let me stop the beating Bama is taking here. You asked me why do I care about black women dating white men? I am a black man; I care what happens to black women. I might have daughters. Obviously, what I "see" out there is very troubling. I happen to think sellout black women date white men to "retaliate" against black men who date white women. That is my personal opinion. There are rare exceptions to the rule but not that much. I was troubled when black women would go on television and bash black men in the process of justifying dating white men. The funny part of the interview is all of them were with "black men" at some point like Karyn (Author of Don't bring home a white boy). I have read many blogs over the years. In particular, black women blogs. The underlying theme of 99 percent of their blogs is bashing black men. It is no way around it. They can sugar coat it all they want. They don't take any personal responsibility for the situation they are in. To make matters worse, they never let black men go on television and "tell their side of the story". They never interview black men on their opinions. I can't recall a black man on television getting the opportunity to talk about his white wife or dating outside of his race. You might see it on a damn talk show years back. But I can read magazines, media segments, and etc. That are sympathetic towards black women. But when it gets to the point that "all black men" get lumped together. That is when I have to "push back". The entitlement is getting out of hand when it comes to educated black women. How do you go on television and "read off your resume" and just "expect" to have a man. You can't learn about relationships through a textbook! It is the same old interviews "Shameka is qualified, accomplished and childless". But "oh wait" she can't find a good black man. Then, they cut to these bitter middle-aged black women who happen to live in cities where they outnumber black men 5 to 1. They interviewed black women from DC and Atlanta (throwing hands up). Journalism is failing every year. I remember one segment the black woman said she ain't have sex in "10 years". Who wants a black woman who ain't had sex in 10 years? That don't even sound right! That is real pathetic. I could understand if she was a virgin. I am trying to stop black women from embarrassing the black community at this point. Black women act like they are the only ones with "dating problems". White women outnumber white men too. I don't see white women on television tearing down white men! If you have, please show me the interviews, books, and other sources. Good day.

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  18.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    Trust me when I say you didn't give me much.

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  19.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    Trust me, you had it COMING.

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  20.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 15 Apr 10

    No Tyrant the reason we started fighting was the ugly tone you took with me.

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  21.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Bama, I'm NOT asking you to READ anything I said, because the fact that you didn't even take the time to READ is what started us FIGHTING in the first place. Your PROBLEM is you SEE what you WANT to SEE instead of actually READING.

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  22.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    You can't name anything I've said to you that was a lie and when I TRIED to explain my point, you basically cussed me out so you right, why should I try. I give Ich credit for taking the time to have a dialouge about this and hear my point and I heard his.

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  23.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Bamababe said: @Tyrant what lie have I told on you or other black men? WHAT? TYRANT replied: Bama, WHY do YOU care, it's NOT like you even take the time to READ. If you did, the odds are quite high you and I wouldn't be on OPPOSITE sides of the fence now.

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  24.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Queens I'll ask, why does it matter to you who we date? That's the question you need to asking yourself. Like I said I don't go on other boards preaching to brothas about dating white women because I just don't give a shit. You just can't admit that you can't stand seeing a white man with a black woman because it hurts your ego. @Tyrant what lie have I told on you or other black men? WHAT? The main thing I've been saying from the jump is that if a black woman isn't with a white man, nine out of 10 times it's because SHE doesn't want to be not that SHE can't have him.

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  25.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Ichibod said: Also, most black men DO care, which is why we come running when we see things said about black women. When we find out black women are saying about us, when the topic says nothing about us, then that becomes a problem. Hence, the emergence of a guy like Queens! TYRANT replies: This is the part that black women like Bamababe and friendly just can't seem to UNDERSTAND. No one has an issue with them dating white men, but when they have to make up LIES about black men to JUSTIFY your attraction, then yes, that's going to be a PROBLEM. Why? Because I'm NOT going to sit idly by and let some black woman who looks like me, but sounds like RUSH LIMBAUGH, down me. I ain't having it.

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  26.   Member says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Dear Other Brother Basically, you are just lashing out right now. Are you having issues at "home" with your black woman? You are rambling about us "being racist". I don't dislike you because of your skin color. I can't say I dislike you period. I could have "came after you". But I restrained myself because I don't like talking to0 much about a man's wife. You keep asking me why am I so racist? I really don't understand your statement. I am supposed to automatically accept you dating black women. I don't know what your background is. Maybe, you got fed up with white women and decided to date black women. My question is, why are you against white women? That is you're race of women right? People can say what they want "about me". But I have always dated black women and some Spanish women (None of Sal's past Latino girlfriends) . I am firmly on this side of the fence. That does not make me racist. Definition of racist racist person: somebody who hates others who are not of his or her own race I don't "hate" anybody. You haven't done anything to me. Since you like running your mouth, what made you START dating black women? Because I haven't heard a response yet!

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  27.   Member says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    The Pot called the Kettle Black Ichibod called someone pathetic. WOW a Bitter Racist confused black man who can not tell the truth is calling someone pathetic. What is coming of this world, a bllack man who has no clue as to what the hell he is talking about tries to explain what makes him an expert on Why White Men Love Black Women. Now That is really pathetic

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  28.   Member says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Queens, Just Answer the question why are you so racist? Again I ask what is so hard about that question. You keep trying to side step the question.

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  29.   Member says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    (Listening) NOW, I am part of the problem. For pointing out the simple reality of the situation for black women. It is not about interracial dating. It is about white men picking black women last. So, what do sellout black women do? They put up blogs attacking black men and worshiping white men that do not even 'want to date them". They point out the selective "few" white men that do date them. Most of which, have a black girl "fetish". I will touch on this issue one more time concerning black mrn dating white women. Because I hear it all the time on my blog. 99 percent of black men from a young age always picked black women first. Black men do not worship white women like black women "claim". Black men are actually harder on white women than black women. Quite often, black men sleep with a white girl and "move on". Black men don't sit around making up delusional stories about the power of "white women". Black men don't give you a "romance story" about meeting a white woman. What sellout black women want to do is retaliate at black men and some white women for "whatever reason". To make matters worse, they believe they get special treatment being with a white man. It comes off very petty and vindicative. When they receive a backlash, they start crying and whining. Black women literally sit on a blog. Tell you "the white men can't keep their hands off them". They will also go on a tirade about "saving other black women". From what exactly, I still don't know? How can you abandon the black community and you are "black"? It does not make no god damn sense. Even, if you moved with your white man to a white neighborhood. Your kids would be considered black. Oh yea, if more black women move in a white neighborhood with a white man. They would consider that a "biracial ghetto". A term a white racist said that I thought was hilarious. Lastly, since the topic is why white men love black women? I have yet to see white men say anything substantial about black women other than her hips, breasts, and skin. All signs of a fetish. Good day.

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  30.   BigPapa911 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    I have been sitting back reading this blog and it is so off topic, but I just wanted to say "Can't we all just get along" I respect the opinions of others and the respectable debates, but when people (Of ANY race) come up on here disrespecting others and using the phrase "Sell-out Black Women" or calling them "Tameka" (which, I guess is supposed to mean the person is living in poverty and is of lower-class). You guys have no idea where "Tameka" came from or her past, her hardships, what she's been through and with whom. I'm just saying before you lash out at others please try to be a little understanding. I understand that when someone lashes out at you, your first tendecy is to lash back, we are all HUMAN. I want to share this video. This could be "Tameka". http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rihVLNG4VSc One People - One World - One LOVE, John PS. My name is John I am a Career Firefighter (25+ years) I am a wm and in a relationship with a bf for 2 years now and I LOVE HER!

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  31.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Exactly it's the offensive talk about black women that pisses me off. I understand where you coming from but a lot of sistas are talking from a place of hurt also and some do feel a white man can save them until they find out that white men aren't better or worse then any brotha out there. A lot of brothas find that out too. And you are right what pisses both sides off is when a black man says white women are BETTER then black women or when a sista says the same thing about white men. Queens though is a piece of work and he takes advantage of the situation and rather being a voice of reason and part of a solution, he becomes part of the problem.

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  32.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Also, most black men DO care, which is why we come running when we see things said about black women. When we find out black women are saying about us, when the topic says nothing about us, then that becomes a problem. Hence, the emergence of a guy like Queens!

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  33.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    It doesn't hurt me to see a black woman with a man of a different race. It hurts to hear offensive talk about black men. Only the simple minded individuals use each other as excuses. I have no options. In order for there to be options, there has to be a standard. Girls/Women have been a standard for me all my life. The only women that I would consider optional, are women that I like, but don't like me and women that like me, but I don't like them. The prior is rape, and the latter is called a "one night stand" or "jump off". Neither are my cup of tea, and definitely never the prior.

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  34.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    The thing about it is Ich I don't go to other boards reading what other people say about you guys being with white women because like I said I just don't care. My preference is white men and has always been that way because that's who I am attracted to. But I think the main thing you said is "hurt." A lot of black men and black women won't admit that it hurts to see one of us with a person of a different race and the hurt turns into anger and resentment on both sides.

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  35.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    F13: "With that I am not wasting anymore time responding to your lame messages because I am trying to talk about “Why White Men Love Black Women”……" James: "Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is why some white guys are opening themselves to black women? Let’s concentrate on that." Who is she trying to talk to about this? Bama, "Black women aren’t sell-outs if they decide to date outside their race and we shouldn’t use black men as an excuse to date a white man." If you understand this, then why were you still asking the question about why black men aren't being referred to as sell-outs on this board? I already said that I found 2 black men (in another topic) that if I were to use to term sell-out, it would be for them. A third guy, I just called him a token for different reasons. I remember TricciNicci called a women out for just straight hating her blackness. Some women feel the need to use statistics or a type of brotha that, quite frankly, never should have been considered a part of their dating pool to justify their emotions. And when they speak of "dating outside their race", it's always a white guy or a preference for them as though they are the saviors, the end all, better than everything else, the Trump card, or gods. Not even those black men's comments that I read threw black women under a bus, however it was like phychologically leaving the toilet seat up. And I found that offensive. It's sad how stuff like this is not seen as obviously offensive: "Whitemen are like anyother man. They like to play around like blackmen do." 'Play around' is synonamous with black men. That hurts. "It is more likely that I will be asked to get married by a whiteman than a blackman in todays society because many blackmen simply do not appreciate blackwomen anymore." Boyz II Men's "A Song for Momma" is still my mother's day jam. Oh, my mother is black and the standard by which I view women, by the way. "I am not going to down whitewomen anymore because blackmen tend to prefer them." She actually downed them? And believes we prefer them? So the majority of black men married to or dating black women are fronting? Nevermind that white women may be preferring black men, and men in general have a hard time turning vagina down. Men coined the phrase, "Pink on the inside". I have yet to hear white women being praised on this website... aside from the 2 times I've mentioned earlier. I've heard white men say stereotypical stuff about white women in praise of black women. Why do you think this 'Other Guy' is so angry at black men after all these months? He's already been straightened out by two women about calling me racist after making comments about white women (go figure). We asked him what makes him think that I'm racist, and he disappeared for 5 months. He can't prove it and now he wants Queens to answer a question about being racist. His grammar still sucks. It's not hard to see folk's true motives.

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  36.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Al why don't fix yourself some grits and make sure your ex is there to serve you. LOL

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  37.   Member says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    I will be back later on this evening. Queen Latifah shouldn't you be doing missionary work? It is a nice day outside. Put your flower dress on.

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  38.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Shouldn't you be trying to get you some or eating some hot grits Al Green? LOL

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  39.   Member says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    (Drinking orange juice) Shouldn't you be spending time with your two white men?????? Or Attending choir practice.

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  40.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    @Queens on your BEST day I'm still better then you son.

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  41.   Member says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Dear Bama you better not. LOL I will spank you again!

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  42.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    @Queenie I was going to write this long response but quite frankly, you aren't worth it. LOL

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  43.   Member says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    LOL at Friendly's comment Now, you are giving advice to black men on how to treat their wives. No wonder you are making up stories of white men chasing with four kids. You take black men for granted. You also have the audacity to imply white men are happy being second place. Listen why don't you ask white men in the room if they would take you "on" with your 4 kids. Other brother might do it. His home seems to be a "rest haven" for all the wayward black women and their children when they "holler" at him. Maybe, I will listen to you then. LOL

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  44.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Menelik put it to bed. You have a life. It is time you buy your wife some flowers, take her out to a nice dinner, or better yet fix her a nice dinner instead of wasting your time on here worrying about what I am doing and thinking. How can you make love to your wife at night up thinking about the next rebuttal against a woman you don't even know and who clearly does not care about you. All you are doing is showing the world imperical evidence that you take black women for granted when you don't pay attention to your wife or she just might leave you for a white man. With that I am not wasting anymore time responding to your lame messages because I am trying to talk about "Why White Men Love Black Women"......

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  45.   Member says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    (QQ at Bama) Stop whining and complaining about me. Nobody stops anybody from stating their opinion. I didn't see you step in when Tatt disrespected Big Eyes. Are you supposed to speak for all black women on the board? You got a real selective memory. I hardly come on this board like I use too. What halfway decent conversation will you be looking for when I AM GONE? I get blamed for everything here. White men afraid to say why they love black women. OH, that is Laurelton Queens fault. You are past a sellout. You manipulate two white men for money. You call that "dating". Most of the men here didn't even get on your ass about that. Sal said you was "exploring relationships with your vagina". Talk about how you use two white men before you even mention my name in your whining and complaining posts. Plus, you just got here. You want to dictate rules and regulations on this board. Shut your punk ass up. If you don't like what is said. The door is open. Nobody forces you to stick around. I am pretty sure the two white men you are currently with are calling your cell phone right now! Obviously, they don't know about each other. You even admit this. Man, keep bringing my name up. I will get on your 'REDBONE' ass again! I am gone

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  46.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Black women aren't sell-outs if they decide to date outside their race and we shouldn't use black men as an excuse to date a white man. I've explained my reasons for dating white men and NONE of it has to do with hating brothas, but a lot of people don't want to hear that or they ignore the facts. People have just as much right to choose who they want to be with and love that's the bottom line to me. Me or you or anyboby else for that matter, shouldn't have to justify the choices we make for ourselves and our general happiness.

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  47.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Not specfically YOUR case but some of the men then all hell breaks loose. Then it's the name calling, the brow beating and the hateful tones on both sides. And for what?

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  48.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    Get on my case about what exactly? Queens has called me worse things as I've said before.

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  49.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    And what you also don't understand Ich, is that this shit stirrer is keeping all of us from having a half way intelligent conversation about IR relationships. He has managed to basically put the black men against the black women and you and some of your other buddies, are just too blind to see that.

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  50.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 14 Apr 10

    No it's called a double-standard Ich. It's ok for Queenie to call us out about dating white men, but Lord forbid if me or any of the other ladies get on your case then all hell breaks loose. I can't wait to see the day when Queenie calls you a sell-out. And no what sad Ich is you seem like a half way decent person with intelligence but continue to roll around with his person picking up fleas and are blinded by his foolishness.

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