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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   Member says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    LOL Tyrant Her country ass. She need a black man in her life. She to much for an average white man. But she keeps on "trying". I will give her that. Tatt I see you! Back to work.

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  2.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Queens Bamababe is too STUPID to notice the difference in writing styles.

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  3.   Member says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Dear MzBrown How dare you respond back? I don't have any hatred towards white men. Why would I hate white men? You do bash black men. Just because you got on "Other brother's" ass for the comments about "hollering at other women" does not change what you are. You readily emasculated "Otherbrother" until he "stood" up for himself. Most white men fold up like a chair around black women. I don't know why that is. You said this to me........ "There can be many reasons some black women hadn’t considered another race as an option. Yes, in most cases, they were simply attracted to their own men. And yes, some may have looked elsewhere only after past relationships failed . But you know what, Mr. inflated headed “First Choice”, what you need to realize is that some black women have indeed considered, was attracted to, and wanted the other man first and YOU , were the settled for, sold out for, second choice. Maybe they just stayed with their own, cause that was what they felt they were supposed to do. Maybe now, they just get to have their first choice. Hmm, you ever thought about that?" Listen, spin it all you want. I can't remember blogs worshiping white men about 5 to 10 years ago. Now there are numerous blogs by sellout black women proclaiming their "love" for white men. The funny thing is, I never hear anything about "love" though!!!! All I hear is the white man "bought me this". The white man "has a six figure salary job". Even that new book "Don't bring home a white boy" by Karyn. Her white husband must be "mute". The guy never speaks in interviews. Karyn runs all over the place to get a "little" shine. Most sellout black women are narcissistic. I am starting to believe that. They feel like the white man is a trophy like their "mineola boots". These relationships is not about "love". The white man has been lied to and used as the "last resort". You come back again. I will spank you harder. Bama aka Queen Latifah is what 40 years old right? You need to wrap it up girl. You are getting washed up. I doubt you will end up like your country bumpkin girlfriends who "lucked up". Hey London and Tyrant. By the way, I am to busy to be switching names to argue with 40 year old women. Good day

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  4.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    @ Queens: you said: "You said this Mz Brown “I think it wasn’t so much not realizing the option, it was more just not considering the option.” See, you didn’t consider the white boys before, but now the sweet chocolate apple pie is ready for them now?? (Mimicking black women) Nice and hot (Waving over here) (Jumping up and down, single available). See, I bashed black men, now do you want men??? " Kick rocks you loser sellout black women. You are getting what you deserve! ------------------ First of all,you are one childish young man, ya know it? And vulgar to boot. The pie remark was a new low. Gosh such class. Also, does it make you feel like more of a man using the term "white boys"? I think your main problem and purpose for being on this sight has nothing to do with your love for black women, but your hatred for white men. You could care less what black women do, just long as it's not getting with a white man and actually finding something meaningful. What I want you to do is go and find "ONE" post where I have bashed black men. Yep, I may bash what you say, but that's YOU. I can only hope and pray that you don't represent the sentiments of all black men. When you get done with that project, then you go find “ONE” post where I have said I choose white men over blacks ones. There can be many reasons some black women hadn't considered another race as an option. Yes, in most cases, they were simply attracted to their own men. And yes, some may have looked elsewhere only after past relationships failed . But you know what, Mr. inflated headed "First Choice", what you need to realize is that some black women have indeed considered, was attracted to, and wanted the other man first and YOU , were the settled for, sold out for, second choice. Maybe they just stayed with their own, cause that was what they felt they were supposed to do. Maybe now, they just get to have their first choice. Hmm, you ever thought about that? And then too just like the one poster, I forgot her nic now, she and her husband just found each other, and found love. It had nothing to do with anyone else, or any bitter feelings from past relationships, or any kind of a pattern or stupid dumb stereotyping. Hey, maybe it is just another form of woman’s liberation. They choose who they want to, and don’t owe nobody a explanation.

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  5.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Bamababe said: I love white men always have and if it’s some kind “phase” I’m going through, then it has lasted damn near 40 years. Menelik replies: then stop referring to them as an "option" since you date them EXCLUSIVELY! Better to consider yourself an "option" for white men since you are last on their list! And at damned near 50-years old, your may not even appear on their list! Bamababe said: If you are such a Christian AS YOU CLAIM to be, you shouldn’t have a problem with people making their choices and decisions... Menelik replied: I don't ever recall claiming to be a Christian. When did I refer to myself as such? Bamababe said: I’m tired of so-called good black men such as yourself bringing your tired ass to our chat rooms trying to start shit because you have a problem with black women wanting to explore our options. Menelik replied: stop playing the martyr and making stuff up. if anyone has an issue with inter-racial dating it's YOU! let me explain. You grew up in a near all-white environment and identified with white females. They represent your ego-ideal just as white males represent Tiger Woods' ego-ideal. Hence when YOU see Black men with white women - far from not giving a damned, it actually represents a painful double whammy. That is to say, you cannot project your disowned Black self onto a Black man dating a white woman, and you cannot identify with the white woman dating the Black man. The results are two-fold 1) you have to momentarily accept your disownd Black self, and 2) you have to momentarily disengaged from your white female ego-ideal since it is now associated with the very thing you rejected i.e. your Black identity. This has gotta hurt! Bamababe said: It’s ok for brothas to date white women but it’s not ok for black women to date white men. Menelik replies: as I suggested above: it is NOT ok as far as you're concerned for Black men to date Black women since this combination causes you identity confusion. It is, on the other hand, ok for Black women to date white men since this, to you, represents an affirmation of your white female ego-ideal. just putting you straight, babes! Menelik Charles London England

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  6.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Bamababe2k9: So, you need to come off of it because what you say or think about me is not going to change my mind. I live my life for me not you or anyone else. Now, I’m done with THIS conversation as well TYRANT says: Let the door HIT YOU on the way out, and since you're leaving, can you leave twenty-dollars on the dresser? I ordered a LARGE pizza but I'm short on CASH. ROFL

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  7.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 25 March 2010: You know what Tyrant, who gives a shit about what you THINK you know. Why don’t you just man up for a change, stop hiding behing this bullshit and come clean and say I CAN’T STAND TO SEE MY BLACK WOMEN WITH WHITE MEN. TYRANT says: Obviously YOU DO, because if you didn’t CARE, as you claim, you wouldn’t waste your time going back and forth with me. You would’ve accept the fact that what you said was WRONG and moved on with MISERABLE LIFE. As for not being able to stand seeing black women with white men, black women can DATE/MARRY whomever they choose, I have no issue with that. However…I do take issue with black women who BASH black men in the process of dating white men. Bamababe2k9: Because you are full of crap. This is what I’m tired of. I’m tired of so-called good black men such as yourself bringing your tired ass to our chat rooms trying to start shit because you have a problem with black women wanting to explore our options. It’s ok for brothas to date white women but it’s not ok for black women to date white men. TYRANT says: When did I ever say I was a GOOD black man? While we’re on the subject, when did I say that I have a PROBLEM with black women EXPLORING their OPTIONS? All you’ve done is make a whole LOT of ASSumptions about me without a shred of EVIDENCE to back them up, proving once again that you’re an IDIOT. Bamababe2k9: Your point of view is of an angry black man who pissed that someone isn’t THANKING God for your black ass. You feel like somehow me and the rest of the black women of the world owe you something. TYRANT says: Oh really little girl, SHOW ME where I remotely indicated that you and the rest of the black women of the world owe me something? My BLACK ASS! My…aren’t we sounding like the little WHITE SUPREMACIST this morning. LOL Bamababe2k9: You should be thankful there are decent black women left who’d want to put up with your behind. But your behavior and your attitude towards me is the exact reason some black women run SCREAMING from you and into the arms of the white man because they are tired of all the macho bullshit some dudes like you carry around. TYRANT says: Listen DUMB ASS-and you are definitely a DUMB ASS. If a black woman…what’s the phrase you used? Ah yes, PUTS UP with my behind it’s because she LIKES ME and appreciates me for being the STRONG, AGGRESSIVE, INTELLIGENT, PASSIONATE, WITTY, LOVING, SADISTIC (Oops, I meant kind) person that I am, and unlike you, she’s going to judge me as an INDIVIDUAL. You’re so STUPID that you can’t even have a conversation without dragging every single black man in the world into it. Why? Because deep down you HATE black men. I wish black women, like YOU, would date/marry white menn, because that’s one less GOOD black man who’s life you’ll make MISERABLE. As a matter of fact, I’m going to HOPE and PRAY that you get MARRIED in the next five seconds, because I can’t see myself, or any other black man in his right mind, pining away over a LOSER like you. Why would I waste my time thinking about some STUPID woman (That would be you) who’s not only UNWORTHY of me, but BENEATH me? That doesn’t make sense to me, and if you take two seconds to think about it, it won’t make any sense to you either. Bamababe2k9: While you busy on here sounding like a bitch about what I had to say, why don’t you find someone and stop worrying about this side of the tracks because we are FINE without you. TYRANT says: Get it through your THICK SKULL that I DON’T CARE who you crack your legs for, it’s NONE of my BUSINESS. You posted a comment that I DISAGREE with and I replied to it. DEAL WITH IT! Listen, this has been so much FUN and I’ve had a great time. Thank you for CONFIRMING that you’re a STUPID, IDIOTIC, WHITE SUPREMACIST, BLACK MAN HATING (Yeah, that about sums it up) FOOL.

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  8.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Menelik YOU DON'T KNOW ME so how can you analyze me and try to tell me how I feel. I'm not brainwashed nor do I need to be converted by you. I love white men always have and if it's some kind "phase" I'm going through, then it has lasted damn near 40 years. It wasn't something a black man did to me it's my choice and my attraction. I'll tell you like I told Tyrant, cut the bullshit and admit you can't stand seeing black women with white men. This isn't about me, this is about your own insecurities and your own racist views. If you are such a Christian as you claim to be, you shouldn't have a problem with people making their choices and decisions instead trying to force your beliefs down someone else throat because of your own insecurities. So, you need to come off of it because what you say or think about me is not going to change my mind. I live my life for me not you or anyone else. Now, I'm done with THIS conversation as well

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  9.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    @Bamabbabe, actually, girlfriend, not for one magic moment do I believe that the likes of you prefer white men: no I do not! Instead, I believe the blacks who grow up in mainly white enclaves prefer to be the white person of the same sex! Does this make sense? Perhaps not. But look at it like this: Black girl grows up around little white girls with their lily-white skin and long blonde or brunette hair. Black girl feels odd, not quite right: inferior even. Mass media reinforces black girl's sense of inferiority e.g. with the dolls, the music the white romantic heroines etc etc etc Thus, Black girl cannot but help identify with white girls and all their particular tastes be it in music, fashion or... boys. Herein lies a solution to Black girl's identity problems: identify wholly with white girls. The greater the identification the less stress associated with being a Black girl. Bamababe said: I like (prefer) white men… because of the environment I grew up around…but as I got older, there were qualities that make me love white men even more. Menelik says: as Black girl becomes woman she realises that she is liable to rejection, marginalisation and racial discrimination at the hands of the very group of people with whom she socio-culturally and racially identies i.e. white males and females. This presents a range of differing problems and issues. So, new politically correct guises must be sought after and utilised. "We are all the same!" announces alianated Black woman (ala Martin Luther King) "but I prefer white men...as opposed to Black, Asian, Hispanic and Bi-racial men, and if you don't like it, that makes YOU the racist!" But as I'm suggesting above, this so-called preference hides one simple truth: that our black friend would much prefer to be a white female since these females are percieved as the feminine norm unlike Black females! So in essence, these Black women are in distress since they are uncomfortable in their own skin and uncertain of their own femininity. They dare not lash out at white women as this would portray envy of them. And lashing out at Black women would alert others to their own self-loathing. That only leaves one target. Black men. White men are simply a cover for their desire to be white, female and to have a light-skinned child. in no other respect are white men seen as useful. Black men are men (just like daddy); white women are women just like their internalised ideal. Black women are simply mules! This is the internal reality of the likes of Bamababe. A reality she attempts vainly to conceal behind her alleged white-boy love. It aint anything of the sort: it's white-girl envy. This is where here real issues lay. Thank You. Menelik Charles London England

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  10.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    True Sal,but he picked the right one tonight because I needed to get that off my chest and now I feel better.

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  11.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Never wrestle with a pig in the mud. You both get dirty, but the pig enjoys it.

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  12.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    You know what Tyrant, who gives a shit about what you THINK you know. Why don't you just man up for a change, stop hiding behing this bullshit and come clean and say I CAN'T STAND TO SEE MY BLACK WOMEN WITH WHITE MEN. Because you are full of crap. This is what I'm tired of. I'm tired of so-called good black men such as yourself bringing your tired ass to our chat rooms trying to start shit because you have a problem with black women wanting to explore our options. It's ok for brothas to date white women but it's not ok for black women to date white men. Your point of view is of an angry black man who pissed that someone isn't THANKING God for your black ass. You feel like somehow me and the rest of the black women of the world owe you something. You should be thankful there are decent black women left who'd want to put up with your behind. But your behavior and your attitude towards me is the exact reason some black women run SCREAMING from you and into the arms of the white man because they are tired of all the macho bullshit some dudes like you carry around. While you busy on here sounding like a bitch about what I had to say, why don't you find someone and stop worrying about this side of the tracks because we are FINE without you. I'm DONE.

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  13.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 25 March 2010: Since when does calling someone OUT because you don’t like what they have to say a show of some kind of power or intelligence? I let myself lower to your level just to prove what? I never said my point was the gospel truth, but I do read,I talk to my black sistas and I do observe and I formed my own opinion from what I know. TYRANT says: You're kidding right? Now you want to act like you're concerned about POWER in INTELLIGENCE, when we both know, you could care less. If you were so CONCERNED about INTELLIGENCE then you would've used what little you posess to READ and UNDERSTAND what I typed. Don't even attempt to FLATTER yourself by saying that you came down to my level. No, all you did was wallowed in the MUD with the rest of the PIGS while I kept feeding you SLOP. Bamababe2k9: And the fact of the matter is you went on attack without reading everything I said and then when I tried to explain my point, you STILL had an issue with me so why should even try to talk to you when you don’t want to listen or hear someone else’s point of view? Huh? TYRANT says: I heard your point of view and deemed it...lacking. If you wanted to TALK then you should've DEBATED, but no, that was too much like RIGHT, and now after spending a couple of hours going back and forth, you want to be REASONABLE. Are you for frakkin real? I SWEAR, at times we can be our own WORSE ENEMIES. It's no wonder that no matter what site you go to that deals with the subject of INTERRACIAL DATING black women and men are at each other's throats.

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  14.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Since when does calling someone OUT because you don't like what they have to say a show of some kind of power or intelligence? I let myself lower to your level just to prove what? I never said my point was the gospel truth, but I do read,I talk to my black sistas and I do observe and I formed my own opinion from what I know. And the fact of the matter is you went on attack without reading everything I said and then when I tried to explain my point, you STILL had an issue with me so why should even try to talk to you when you don't want to listen or hear someone else's point of view? Huh?

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  15.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Menelik it's my preference now if I said I hated black men, you'd have a point but I just prefer white men and I'm more attracted to them. Now, if you have a problem with it, that's your cross to bear not mine.

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  16.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Bamababe said: I am a Christian so being a Christian it also says in the Bible love thy neighor. How is it right to hate a race of people? Menelik asks: But do you love your nieghbours equally? Bamababe said: I judge the indidivual, not the race of a person and I would hope and think that people would do me the same way. Menelik replies: but this does not answer the question posed! bamababe said: I like (prefer) white men… because of the environment I grew up around…but as I got older, there were qualities that make me love white men even more. Menelik says: that just about answer my question! Bamababe said: what Dr. King fought for is that we be seen as indidivuals and not judged based on our race, culture or religious background. Menelik says: and this completely contradicts your answer above since you clearly judge a man's value based on his race and social environment! Isn't it a pity that the very race of men you place above all others (Blacks, Asians, Hispanic etc) place you at the bottom of their dating list! Truth be told, your nothing but a self-loathing, Black-male baiting, white supremacist, Babe! Menelik Charles London England

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  17.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 25 March 2010: Tyrant if degrading me is the best you can do, then you don’t have a lot of bullets in that chamber now do you? Surely, you can do better then this. Surely you are a better person then this. TYRANT says: I don't have to degrade you because youu're doing such a WONDERFUL job of demeanig yourself. At this point I can SHOOT BLANKS and still do DAMAGE. As for being a better person, that's not the issue neither you nor I are concenred about, because if you were, you would've acted like a better person instead of LASHING OUT like some pubescent teen on the MAURY SHOW.

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  18.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Wow Menelik you up to 2am chatting on here. SERIOUSLY? Even I value sleep more then this.

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  19.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Tyrant if degrading me is the best you can do, then you don't have a lot of bullets in that chamber now do you? Surely, you can do better then this. Surely you are a better person then this.

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  20.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 25 March 2010: Now who has anger issues? If you can’t handle the truth then maybe you shouldn’t read post. Grow up and get a pair. TYRANT says: And what TRUTH would that be, that you're STUPID? Too late, I've figured that one out for myself and I've accepted it. NEXT!

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  21.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    @ Bro Andrew, the time in the UK is just gone 1.45 in the morning. Menelik Charles London England

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  22.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Now who has anger issues? If you can't handle the truth then maybe you shouldn't read post. Grow up and get a pair.

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  23.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Bamababe, you are such a DUNCE. I don't need anyone to AGREE with me because my argument has something your post is lacking...SUBSTANCE. You couldn't deal with the fact that my argument made sense so you started ATTACKING my PENIS as if it got up (of it's own volition) ROBBED and RAPED you three nights past. If you can't handle the fact that your ideas (no matter how silly they are) are going to be SCRUTINIZED then you shouldn't say ANYTHING. By the way, I'm from the BRONX.

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  24.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Hey Menelik what time is it in London?

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  25.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Clearly you two are the SAME person. LOL what a joke you want to call me a loser and I have issues and yet you have to MAKE UP people to agree with you. Boy what a dumbass. If you going to do this, stop copying yourself. Geez

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  26.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Menelik says: Bro Tyrant, your so-called opponent asked us to fill in the blank and so I did using her own exact words. What a gal lol TYRANT says: Bamababe is nuttier than a fruit cake. I explained to her in clear, concise English why I DISAGREED with her, and this IDIOT just went off on a TANGENT. She's ATTACKED my PENIS and QUESTIONED why I'm here. ROFL Clearly the woman, and I use that work loosely, has ISSUES.

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  27.   Member says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Dear Lilly I am glad you are seeing what is going on. However, black men going downhill is affecting black women. Some black women blog authors think they can 'separate' themselves from black collective. When people meet you they see "a black woman". Not a black woman that wants a white man. Some black women fail to realize this. I haven't been inspired for awhile to write a new blog album. I might do it soon. THE DAY AFTER TOMORROW FOR BLACK WOMEN. I am trying to make time for it. I was watching Millionaire Matchmaker and a black couple got together on the show. I was feeling that!

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  28.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Oh and Tryant you still talking in third person and you still look stupid doing it.

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  29.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Why do I have the feeling that Queenie, Tyrant and this dude from London are ALL the same person? Has anyone else noticed that or is it just me? They talk alike, write alike and seem to have all shown up at the same time? Things that make you go hmmm.

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  30.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Oh and queenie if 25k isn't a lot doesn't that defeat your purpose of being on here in the first place to kinda of "convert" those whom you feel have fallen for the white man?

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  31.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Bamababe said: 1) I haven’t read many sistas on here who said I date a white men BECAUSE of...FILL IN THE BLANK. 2) I like white men... BECAUSE of the ENVIRONMENT I grew up around...but as I got older, there were qualities that make me love white men even more. Menelik says: Bro Tyrant, your so-called opponent asked us to fill in the blank and so I did using her own exact words. What a gal lol Menelik Charles London England PS Hi Bro Queens!

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  32.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 25 March 2010: Tryant: I like to talk in the third person to make myself sound like I know what I’m talking about but TYRANT doesn’t. Tryant is a frustrated black man who if Tryant was getting any, Tryant wouldn’t be on here in the first place. Isn’t that right Tyrant? TYRANT says: Look, don't CONFUSE me with you, you're the IDIOT who doesn't know what she's talking about, and that's why you're FOAMING at the MOUTH. You knew that what you said was absolutely STUPID, and I called you on it. DEAL WITH IT! Have a nice night...LOSER

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  33.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    @Queenie is that the pot calling the kettle black? I would ask why aren't you with someone but that's kinda obvious. LOL

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  34.   Member says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Bama aka Queen Latifah She kept on about country bumpkin girlfriends getting married to white men. My question is, what happened to you? (Pointing at you). To answer Sal, he said...... "Again. I never spoke of the majority. But having ANY women is false and Blacks not having ANY woman is false. Not my fault you can’t handle facts. Interracial marriages attest to this false claim. Even during Jim Crow, 25,000 marriages is not a few celebrities." LOL You made it seem like 25,000 is A LOT. Are you helping black women or just laughing at them. I am not sure anymore. Good night

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  35.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    Tryant: I like to talk in the third person to make myself sound like I know what I'm talking about but TYRANT doesn't. Tryant is a frustrated black man who if Tryant was getting any, Tryant wouldn't be on here in the first place. Isn't that right Tyrant? Tyrant: That is so right Tyrant. LOL Which person Am I going to talk to this time? The first,second or third Tyrant, Tryant. Like I said, you make the perfect clone.

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  36.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 26 Mar 10

    TYRANT says: You're determined to prove to the WORLD just how STUPID you are, and what I find DISTURBING is...you're actually SUCCEEDING. Look, I'm sorry you're having such a hard time with this, because all I wanted to do was present a different point of view, but you're so IDIOTIC that you can't even appreciate that and the argument behind it. I suggest you either CALM DOWN or HANG YOURSELF. Either way, I don't care because LIFE will still go on. bamabake2k9: IF too many people like yourself start agreeing with me, then I’ll get worried. Pissing you off is just part of the fun. Enjoy. Oh and you can put your penis back now, I’m sure it’s tired of being stepped on by me. TYRANT says: Why are you so WORRIED about my PENIS? What has my PENIS ever done to YOU? You NEED to go get LAID; it doesn't matter if you get laid by a man or by a GARBAGE TRUCK, just go GET LAID, because you sound FRUSTRATED.

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  37.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    Let's say it together: My name is Tyrant and I'm an idiot. You ever listen to the Jim Rome show? He calls his callers "clones" that's the clowns he let's call up to his show and they go on their long manifestio about sports. You sound like a Clone with that last sentence. All you needed was the AM OUT! comment and you would be the perfect Clone. Tyrant you not liking what I have to say is of no concern to me in fact get a number and stand in line with the other people I've managed to piss off on here. IF too many people like yourself start agreeing with me, then I'll get worried. Pissing you off is just part of the fun. Enjoy. Oh and you can put your penis back now, I'm sure it's tired of being stepped on by me. :)

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  38.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    bamababe2k9: I don’t accept your back handed apology and as I said before you don’t like what I have to say too damn bad because I’m not here to kiss your ass, wipe your tears away and soothe your ego which apparently you need. TYRANT says: I DON'T CARE if you accept my apology or not, I'm not going to lose not one ounce of sleep over it. I didn't like what you said because I thought it was STUPID.Period. bamababe2k9: And you are right, I do know better then to get into a pissing match with someone who obviously has an issue with the topic at hand and rather then having a decent conversation, has to play the who penis is bigger card in order to prove himself to be right and get some kind of approval. TYRANT says: Apparently you don't know better, because if you did, you would've QUIT while you were behind, not when you got KNOCKED OUT. I don't have an issue with the topic, but I do take issue with your comment, and I said my piece on the matter. The only one who's concerned about who's PENIS is BIGGER is YOU. If you can't handle your thoughts, opinions, and ideas being CHALLENGED then maybe you'd be better off NOT DEBATING anyone. Enjoy the rest of your evening. I AM TYRANT AND I HAVE SPOKEN. ROFLMBAO!!!!!!!

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  39.   bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    I don't accept your back handed apology and as I said before you don't like what I have to say too damn bad because I'm not here to kiss your ass, wipe your tears away and soothe your ego which apparently you need. And you are right, I do know better then to get into a pissing match with someone who obviously has an issue with the topic at hand and rather then having a decent conversation, has to play the who penis is bigger card in order to prove himself to be right and get some kind of approval. So you can go sit back down because I'm not apologizing and as the Dixie Chicks said, I'm not ready to play nice.

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  40.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    You really need to CALM DOWN because all I did was respond to your SILLY post. What I said is just my opinion; granted, an opinion that has more SUBSTANCE than yours, but still an opinion. I APOLOGIZE for getting you ALL bent out of shape, but you should KNOW BETTER. By the way, I'm willing to wait for you to GROW UP and become a MATURE ADULT so we can continue this discussion, though to be honest, I don't think you'll be ready then either.

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  41.   bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    If you don't like what I have to say too damn bad. So get over it and yourself. No one is here to kiss your ass and make you feel better. Sounds to me you the one with the problem.

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  42.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    Comment by bamababe2k9 on 25 March 2010: I’m sure all the black women love you and your nasty attitude that’s why you are on a board for people who date interracially making an ass out of yourself to prove what I don’t know. If you want to discuss this like an adult cool but I guess at the present time, we are ONE adult short. TYRANT says: I'm sure all the men-whoever they are-love you for being the IDIOTIC woman you are. You posted a comment and I responded to it. Don't get MAD at me because I took the time to READ what you wrote. Be MAD at yourself for not taking the time to THINK before you TYPE. I'm on an INTERRACIAL BOARD because there's NO ONE-yourself included-who could stop me. I don't have to make an ass out of myself to prove what you don't know because you've done a FANTASTIC job of making a TOTAL ASS out of yourself.

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  43.   bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    I'm sure all the black women love you and your nasty attitude that's why you are on a board for people who date interracially making an ass out of yourself to prove what I don't know. If you want to discuss this like an adult cool but I guess at the present time, we are ONE adult short.

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  44.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    Tyrant is this not a board for people interested in dating outside of their race? I believe it is so why you here is beyond me but I digress. If you read any of my other post which apparently you haven’t, I said that MOST black women marry and stay within the race because they PREFER black men TYRANT replies: No you didn't and I quoted you, but since you want to be DUMB about this let's revisit that quote. Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 25 March 2010: bamababe2k9: I agree with you EDub and that was my point too for the reason why a lot of black women still date within the race rather then explore their options loyalty and a sense of obligation to the black man. TYRANT says: You should READ what you write before posting a response, because you just made yourself look really STUPID. bamababe2k9: My point was which apparently you didn’t bother to read or missed was a lot of black women refuse to give themselves options out of loyalty and obligation to black men. TYRANT says: DUH! You missed my point entirely-not surprised. Black women DO NOT date black men out of some MISGUILDED SENSE of LOYALTY. They date them because that's their PREFERENCE and who they're ATTRACTED to. What part of this paragraph are you having a difficult time understanding? bamababe2k9: So, calm down, get off your high horse and do a lot bit more reading before you open your mouth the next time. TYRANT: I've got a better idea...Why don't you THINK before you TYPE, and save EVERYONE the trouble of having to CORRECT you?

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  45.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    LMAO. Queens perception of his verbal boxing is as good as his his perception of statistical analysis. In other words, pure delusion. Again. I never spoke of the majority. But having ANY women is false and Blacks not having ANY woman is false. Not my fault you can't handle facts. Interracial marriages attest to this false claim. Even during Jim Crow, 25,000 marriages is not a few celebrities.

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  46.   bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    Tyrant is this not a board for people interested in dating outside of their race? I believe it is so why you here is beyond me but I digress. If you read any of my other post which apparently you haven't, I said that MOST black women marry and stay within the race because they PREFER black men. My point was which apparently you didn't bother to read or missed was a lot of black women refuse to give themselves options out of loyalty and obligation to black men. That's why you don't see more black women with white men. Not because white men don't want us or not interested, a lot of the times we aren't interested. So, calm down, get off your high horse and do a lot bit more reading before you open your mouth the next time.

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  47.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 25 March 2010: I agree with you EDub and that was my point too for the reason why a lot of black women still date within the race rather then explore their options loyalty and a sense of obligation to the black man. Black men don’t have that some pressure when it comes to dating outside the race as we do. TYRANT says: I DISAGREE, most black women date/marry black men because that's their PREFERENCE, not out of some misguilded sense of LOYALTY or OBLIGATION. Think about it, when was the last time you told a black man that the only reason you're dating him is out of LOYALTY and OBLIGATION? If you said that to me I would've CURSED YOU OUT. Why? Because you reduced me to NOTHING. You didn't look at the fact that I'm STRONG, AGGRESSIVE, AMBITIOUS, LOVING, INTELLIGENT, and HANDSOME. In fact all of those qualities go out the window all because you're dating me out of LOYALTY. Every, and I do mean EVERY single black woman I've dated and have been ROMANTICALLY involved with, I was with because I was PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED to them, and once I got to know them I discovered that they had other qualities I enjoyed like STRENGTH, AMBITION, HARD-WORKING, LOVING, and when you add to that the fact they appreciated me as an INDIVIDUAL it was PERFECT. I can't see myself fixing my mouth to say something so utterly STUPID and DEGRADING like the only reason I date black women is out of LOYALTY because that's not just an INSULT, but a HARD SMACK in the FACE. Pro-IR black women have got to QUIT using this LAME-and it's very lame-ass line as the reason why MOST black women date/marry black men because not only does it INSULT and DEMEAN black men, but it just makes you sound like you have NO OPTIONS.

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  48.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    What's funny Queenie is that you claim for the most part that basically white men have really no interest at all in black women and I just proved that three Southern, educated, beautiful sistas not only have husbands but all three are white. Oh did I mention two of the three just had babies? I bet money when the census numbers come out, there will be more interracial marriages between bw/wm then ever before. What it comes down too if you a sista is whether or not you choose to date a white man. They are out there, they are interested, just up to the woman whether or not we decide to go for it.

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  49.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    (Eating popcorn) Menelik how are you sir? Yea Sal tends to not "learn his lesson". I am like Floyd Mayweather and he is Marquez. I gave him a "verbal" boxing lesson last time we spoke. He still comes back and spouts is nonsense. As for Queen Latifah, I like her. She keeps bringing up her country bumpkin girlfriends married to white men. That does not mean black women "overall" are marrying white men. That is like saying handicap men are dating more and more black women. That don't mean all black WOmen is with a handicap man! You damn light skin KOALA BEAR! Oh yea, this idea that black men do not have "pressure" when they date white women. That is really not true. I have seen comments said to black men with white women that is shocking and sad. Lastly, Sal brings up a "few upper class blacks". Many of whom "passed off for white". Sorry you border jumper lawyer. The sheer absurdity of you bringing up mulatto Negroes with an Irish maid. That was status to have an "Irish Maid"? Irish was dead broke like black people. They eventually used their "white skin" to get ahead in society. A matter of fact the Irish entered the "police force" at a rapid rate. Many of them racist and crooked. But black people having an "a maid" of ANY color was not the "norm". Stop making a mockery of black people. You said this "Again, depended on status, region, woman’s status etc. Upper class Blacks in Boston were kown to have Irish maids, for example. Yes, they ‘had’ them too." Upper Class black prior to the 1960s= light, pass off for white. Show me a dark "couple' with a god damn Irish Maid you illegal immigrant lawyer? You giving us a youtube link now???????? You also said this.. "Sorry to burst your bubble, but there was no one African American history. Different regions, classes, etc had different experiences. Many of the people you would call Black today weren’t even considered Black back then. I’m not talking of individual cases. Yes the majority was worse for Black identified people. But there was a significant minority that held reins of power" Who were the significant minority that held REIGNS of power?? You need to show me this because this is some bullshit. I wish, I could say it in "Spanish". You make up numbers and now you are distorting history. You might be in for a Floyd vs Marquez Part 2. So, I can give you another ass whipping on the board again just for distorting the truth and preying on the weaknesses of black women with your Latin wife. You got a Latin girlfriend or wife whatever she is. But you on a black board claiming you support black women. I am tired of this immigration lawyer! Have a nice day.

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  50.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 10

    @ Bamababe This 'debate' is now at an end as far as I'm concerned! Bye menelik Charles London England

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