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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 04 Mar 10

    Nice articles Bama.They tell the truth but offers hope and solutions instead of just the down sides.

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  2.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 04 Mar 10

    I like this article too http://www.nypress.com/blog-4036-black-and-white-dating-black-women-white-men.html

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  3.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 04 Mar 10

    Queenie you should read this article. You are going to LOVE IT. guarantee it. Maybe queenie the question you should be asking yourself is why can't YOU find a good woman or in fact why can't you keep one? Is it always the way the people that have no one in their lives like you, can't find a woman and damn sho don't know how to keep one but you always the one trying to tell the rest of us how we should be living when you living fowl yourself. Oh and Queenie THANK GOD YOU AREN'T INTERESTED IN ME!!!!! If I turn you off then Thank you Jesus just tell me what else I need to do to keep you AWAY from me. LOL Enjoy the article ya'll. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/sophia-a-nelson/the-strong-educated-black_b_421548.html

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  4.   tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 04 Mar 10

    @ Mr Laurelton Queens LMAO @ sell out Black woman. Am I a sell out Black woman? I love my White husband very much and he loves me. I'm not unmarried like 40% of Black woman because I met my perfect mate and had to ignore that he wasn't Black. That wasn't easy as we both have a prefrence for our own race. It was just love. Firt time swirl for us both. I married at 35 and I should've waited until I was 45 to marry. I know I can't have kids at that age but I should've passed on the love of my life and having children just so some buffoon on the internet won't call me a sell out. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA P.S. Was once married to a Black man in college. It didn't work out because he cheated. Not because he was a bad guy...we were just too young. Look at all this goodness he's getting. http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b397/tamn8ercl/tril.jpg http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b397/tamn8ercl/6176_1175544822248_1036902982_30572.jpg http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b397/tamn8ercl/DSCN0653.jpg HA!

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  5.   Member says:
    Posted: 04 Mar 10

    (Looking over Bama) I have sense of humor Big eyes. Queen Latifah, god bless her "little heart". She is mentioning her "own life" as the example for ALL black women. The problem with her statement is where is she going with these "two white men"? Yea you can get "a lot of dates". Ultimately, the goal is a "NBA ring" (wedding ring). Nobody cares if you can drop 50 points in a game and "lose". Sorry, I am a basketball fan. I like to use analogies. Now the "slut" word. Perhaps, that was "harsh". I would have used another word like "money hungry". Loose booty was taken by "Tatt". I ran out of words to 'call you". I am sorry, I mean to keep that "comment in my head". It was just an instant reaction to calling you "slut bucket". I shocked myself by that statement. You are the type of woman that has a "good job" but constantly "spends the next man's money". This type of behavior is quite common in some "Southern women". Some are "graceful" about it. I am pretty sure Queen Latifah" plays the "damsel in distress very well". Queen Latifah said this.............. "Make up your mind son and stick to the point, in fact make a point. My theory has been most white men are interested in black women, history shows us that. But most are afraid to make that move because of two things: A)afraid of what society would think or B)afraid of being rejected." Essentially, you are saying white men are to cowardly to get involved with black women. You mention white men have desired you through history. Was it after the slavery whipping or before. "Massa" raped you so he "desired" you. What are you rambling about 'Sweet Alabama"? Please stick to the topic. You are starting to swim in the "deep" part of the pool with this "history' stuff. Dip your "toes" in the shallow part of the pool. Sal might have to google some stuff for you. Google is like his best friend. Don't laugh Big eyes. I really haven't seen someone obsessed with google? No wonder he does not have a black woman. (Getting a headache) Now I remember when I was reluctant to get involved with "country black women" like Queen Latifah. Why would you want to be with cowardly white men????????? AND you are giving advice to other black women! That is like 'Ray Charles" being a crossing guard at the local elementary school. It just does not make any sense!!!!!!!! (Closing the door)

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  6.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 04 Mar 10

    @ Mr.L.Queens Look, I KNOW you are making of fun of me and count me as a sellout black woman just like the rest of 'em. I have NEVER expected anything else,lol. Now, I know I'm going to be accused of "swinging from your johnson 24/7" as it was so lewdly and crassly put, but I can't help it,you absolutely crack me up,LOL. I think because I don't take myself so seriously. I was WONDERING WHEN you were gonna let me know I had been dropped,LOL. Maybe some will be happy now since they will see this a you "cutting the apron strings",even though they were never there(wants you hate me so bad,lol). Anyways, you make some valid points about the numbers though;maybe the numbers will change for the better,maybe they won't, but I do have faith that some of us are working hard to change our image and take responsibility.

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  7.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 04 Mar 10

    Civil but misinformed conversation. Didn't you just call me "slut" because I have two white men interested in me and I'm a full-figured black woman? Isn't that contridicting what you said earlier? So which is it? White men aren't interested in full-figured women or they are? Make up your mind son and stick to the point, in fact make a point. My theory has been most white men are interested in black women, history shows us that. But most are afraid to make that move because of two things: A)afraid of what society would think or B)afraid of being rejected. As the years roll by and people become more accepting, you see more white men become more open to dating and or marrying black women. We as black women just need to be more receptive. Although, I will say Interracial dating is not for everyboy, I told one of my black gf's that last week. You have to willing to open yourself to something new and understand not everybody (queens) will be accepting of the life you have chosen for yourself.

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  8.   Member says:
    Posted: 04 Mar 10

    (Eating popcorn) I leave for a minute and look what happens. I am not even going to address Sal and his multiple black women he hides from his Latino Wife "allegedly". (Smiling) Latino men notorious for staying "within" their race. LOL That is another subject for the "Mail". Let me address Mssexy................................ I am not going to disagree or agree with you. People do have an impression of you when you voice your opinion. I merely counter the arguments people make on this board. They say " I twist" their words. Show me where I twisted their words unless I was being "sarcastic". They bragged about using "two men". How can you twist that? They said "they shut down black men" from the safety of their computer. I never tried to be a "Latino" tough guy womanizer. I have been in "long-term" relationships with black women. The same people that accuse me of "certain behavior" do the same thing. They just point the "finger" at me because I am more vocal. Let me just just touch on some of your points respectfully. You said this... "I just recently started reading this and i think that Mr Queens is very interesting. Have you noticed that every time a black female makes a comment staying the opinions of and African american male, that he makes it know that we dont know what the black man is thinking." Thank you, because I find you equally interesting aside from the misconceptions about me. If black women KNEW "what black men" were thinking, there wouldn't be this great "valley" between us. Even my "detractors" on the board will tell you there is tension between black women and black men. Numbers don't lie concerning the dating struggles of black women. You also said this, thus "backing up my point" " Love especially real love is hard to find whether its same color or different and if you find it regardless of race you embrace it and hold on to it. How dare you say that a white man is not capable of loving and caring about a black woman the way a black man can. If in this great big world a person is lucky to find the person they connect you should applaud it. right now statistics say that 40 % of black women will never get married. Its because of this mindset, that if i cant find a black man then i can not be happy or whole" (Putting my drink down) How dare I say white men are not capable of loving black women? Well, they did a yahoo online dating article. The same thing with E Harmony. From my understanding, black women fell in the 7 percent. White men rather be with "white women, Asian, or Latin woman" before a black woman. 4 percent of you are currently married to white man. That is atrocious. (Standing back and looking at the numbers"). Could it be white men "are not all that interested in black women". What other theory can it be???????? This is all facts. (Putting my hand on my head) Ask Sal to google it. You also mention 40 percent of black women will never be married. So if white men were interested right, shouldn't that statistic start coming down from the 40 percent? Don't let the "smoke and mirrors" fool you on this board. Most have an "agenda" and it is to keep you "worried and desperate". These "men" here, who supposedly, got "love for black women", they color struck too. The same way black men are "accused" of being color struck. Look at what they did to "tatt". I like "tatt" but they dropped her ass and ran to "Big eyes". After that, they moved on to "Tricc". (Throwing hands up). They need to thank me for getting the black women out to this board. Sal is happy because he gets to add to "his harem" of women but promoting another website for them to "meet him". His "little suggestion" of black women to go to another site. Ambulance chaser is a slick immigration lawyer. White men will not date full figured black women. They said "it" themselves. Ask some of them in the room. Black men marry black women more than any "other group". These are facts. Black men pick black women "first" consistently. Actions speak louder than words. My blog is THE TRUTH! (Waving at Big eyes) You have a nice day. I am always happy for civil conversation. http://mrlaureltonqueens.blogspot.com/

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  9.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 04 Mar 10

    Damn, some real good posts lately. Mssexysapia, great post. Just one correction. European people DO have melanin. Just not in the same degree as most African people, ON THE SKIN. They are not Albinos. Lighter skin developed in regions where vitamin D wasn't processed as well because of lack of sunlight. And in regions where sunlight varied a lot because of the season, tanning developed. Tanning is a regulatory process to supply melanin as needed. Now ALL humans have neuromelanin to the same degree. So when you hear comments like "Whites don't have melanin," tell them they are full of shit. Rooster, you are funny. But I am going to be a ball breaker and tell the truth that hurts. One, Asians aren't a monolithic group, so all Asians do not have the same physical proportions. But it is true that there are Asian populations that have smaller penises, erect or flacid. That is just nature. The women of those groups also tend to have shallower vaginas and less behind. Length in males is directly proportional to depth in women. I have found Asian and Latina women I literally could not fit fully in, and I am of average length. There are also Asian populations that do not have small penises. I will make you a bet that the bigger the booties you see in the females you will also notice longer penises in men. Of course I am talking in the extremes, but this is the truth. Necessity develops change. In Europeans and Africans most studies have shown that in the majority of the respective Bell Curves, Europeans and African overlap. That is, they have similar length and girth. When you go to the extremes of the bell curves, there is a slightly higher percentage of African males who have longer penises, and in Europeans there is a slightly higher perecentage of shorter penises. We are speaking in the 10 to 15% percentile. The opposite is true in girth. Europeans in the extremes tend to have it thicker than Africans. And yes, Europeans tend to enlarge more during erections, while Africans tend to have more length during flacidity. There was a long study about it a while ago. Basically because sexual myths were rampant. Also, while there can be people with proportions that don't match height, the average rule is still that the taller you are, the larger overall you are. Body proportion. You are rarely going to find an Asian the size of Yao Ming with a micro-penis. Hey, just the fact. Have at it. Me, I am happy with my average size. Women I have had experiences with (I am just going to laugh to death when Queens goes nuts with this) have never complained about me being too small. But, like I said before, is some cases I have been too big, and that sucked beyond belief. I do not envy guys who frighten girls or who have to have sex only partially putting it in all the time. Talk about a perpetual tease. And I know some guys like to do that, but I'm not into giving a woman pain, so I am not trying to put it in farther than when the woman starts saying it hurts her. JMHO.

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  10.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    Oh and if you not watching millionaire match maker, please do. If not else for anything else then for the the shit and giggles factor. lol I love it

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  11.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    @BE I might have to do that chick. :) Thanks.

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  12.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    @Menelik Never said I wasn't being approached, just not what I'm looking for. Good for you though. @Salsassin Thank you so much for your insight. I signed up for one of the meetup.com groups of my interest near houston and I'll be attending my first one on Sunday! If not for you, I wouldn't have ever known about this, thanks again. @Bama, try this in your area. I checked out some groups in my old town just for giggles. I think you might like it.

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  13.   Member says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    @ the ladies, you know, it always surprises that have difficulty hooking a man. Women get approached in all and every situation. I met my partner in a public library while her head was stuck in some books! Daring? No, just doing what men do! Menelik Charles London England ps hi bro Ich!

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  14.   Member says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    i really dont understand what the hang up is about white men dating black women or latino dating black people . i have been involved with black women since i was a kid it feels natural to me that i being a white man dating a black woman - it is so natural to me its like breathing oxygen ineed it to live -samegoes for black women i need them to live so all those people hate white men who date black women i feel soory for you because you really dont know what your missing - black women are the sweetest kind of women on the planet

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  15.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    i had mine held once too but I assumed because I signed in room. maybe they starting to read some of the post and decided to do some censorship on certain people.

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  16.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    I think the people who post a lot are having their posts held for moderation. I first got that message after I noticed many of my posts were being deleted a few weeks ago.

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  17.   Member says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    I am tired of Black & White Men defining beauty! I am tired of Women defending their narrowmindedness! I am happy being a Happy! Healthy! Human Being! The White Man will never admit to his jealousy of the Black Man & The Black Man will never admit to his anger with the White Man for painting him as inferior! I refuse to be a pawn in their tug of war! Sign Me Off- A Happy Black Woman! with a Crazy Black Man! LOL!

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  18.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    I'm with you BE I've pretty much given up on this site except for the blogs. I've had more luck on other sites then on here. But I would say I'm looking for someone who is attractive,funny,intelligent,spirtiual,honest and attentive.

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  19.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    Try meetup. I have gotten plenty of friends hooked on the site. And whenever I travel for a few weeks, I look up local meetups to see if anything fun is going on.

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  20.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    yes,I got that,lol.

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  21.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    Mine is still awaiting moderation as well. I just retyped it while modifying the links so that they weren't links anymore. But you can still get to them.

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  22.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    I have pretty much given up on THIS site anyways except for the blogs.

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  23.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    I'm looking for someone who makes me laugh. Who does most of the talking when we first meet and then let's me,...ha. He has a job, cute, christian, catholic, protestant,etc.,loves Star Trek, likes to travel,no adrenaline junkies though, and has a decent body. The awaiting moderation comment only seems to appear when I hyperlink,oh well. I think I will try those suggestions,good looking out.

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  24.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    No, mine don't go through all the time. Your comment is awaiting moderation. So anyway, Ladies, what do you expect to find here? I am curious. While I did end up meeting some cool people on here which are good friends, I don’t know if this is the best place to meet someone when you have a huge chance that the person is looking for a stereotype. You are going on profiles that say what they supposedly do, instead of looking in places where those activities occur, and bumping into men there. I’m not saying that you should stop trying here, but explore event sites. You will meet a lot more like minded people. w (w) w (dot) m e e t u p (dot) c o m DO a search for your favorite activities, or for what you were always chicken to try. Then go meet new people, and you will surprise yourself with who you connect with. Two good friends of mine on Sky is the limit. a t l a n t a (dot) s t l a d v e n t u r e s (dot) c o m One a White Georgian, the other a lady from Africa, neither ever having dated inter-ethnically before, met each other doing common events and found out they met their match. Just a thought.

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  25.   Mssexysapia says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    I just recently started reading this and i think that Mr Queens is very interesting. Have you noticed that every time a black female makes a comment staying the opinions of and African american male, that he makes it know that we dont know what the black man is thinking. Yet time and time again he seems to be "getting into the psyche of the black woman." So basically we as black women cannot possible comprehend the vast mind of the black man. But because black women are so "simple" and he is so far superior he can summarize the lot of us into one sad and pathetic category. What more Mr queens is so far superior to everyone else in intellect that he now can not only speak for inferior black females but he now has the market on what white men are thinking as well. You truly do fascinate me. No one knows better than you do. When others throw valid arguments all you manage to do it spin them around and turn it into a black woman is ignorant and cant possibly comprehend. Well dear i am sorry to tell you but you stand alone. Sure you have a right to your opinion. And i applaud that, but at times you speak as if you just want to hear your self talk. You rhetoric is that of the past. Not everyone agrees with me for dating white men, but i have that right, and i have the right to do as i choose without being looked down at as being ignorant or a sell out. Last time i checked i was a living breathing, thinking rationale adult who can make my own choices. As someone said earlier, who died and made you God to tell me that what the person i love, because they lack Melanin, its wrong. Love especially real love is hard to find whether its same color or different and if you find it regardless of race you embrace it and hold on to it. How dare you say that a white man is not capable of loving and caring about a black woman the way a black man can. If in this great big world a person is lucky to find the person they connect you should applaud it. right now statistics say that 40 % of black women will never get married. Its because of this mindset, that if i cant find a black man then i can not be happy or whole. Love is love plain and simple. If a person can find and attain the real thing, then love whether its within your race or outside can withstand anything and everything. Even know at all with messianic complexes like you. FYI a Black woman is strong, determined,opinionated, a survivor, and the fact they have to put up with men like you puts them at the top of the list.

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  26.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    oh yes I have seen them together but I thought they were already married...bit of foreshadowing then,lol.

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  27.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    Well you know Mr. Big, Chris Noth is about to marry his black gf.

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  28.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    I think he's cute,LOL. I think he's actually jewish too. Oh yes I forgot about Eve and Serena williams, you probably already know about her though. Robert De Niro, Tina Turner,Even brad pitt has dated sisters;I always suspected him,lol, he has features and bone structure similar to a black man's to me,lol. OOh them lips ha ha. I'm a christian but I ain't dead,LMBO(laughing my butt off)

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  29.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    I didn't know Eve was engaged to a white man? Where have I heard of Shane Powers before got to look him up. @BE Girl Matt looks much better now then he did back then. And his wife looks very classy and beautiful.

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  30.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    ok what's going on? Why was his link accepted right away and mine wasn't???My link is being moderated,wt??LOL who cares as long as it can be googled.

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  31.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    Erica Dunlap (Miss America 2004) & Husband, Brian Kleinschmidt Suzan Lori-Parks (Pulitzer Playwright & MacArthur Award winner) and Husband, Paul Oscher (Award-winning Blues Guitarist) Eve (Rapper) and fiance, Shane Powers (Actor) Stacey Dash and husband Emmanuel Xuereb A ton more here http://www.blackfemaleinterracialmarriage.com/

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  32.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    Just google Matt Stone and Angela and it should come up right away a picture of them. She is a beautiful black woman who got her a good one,LOL.It shocked me too. go on and make that list;you will be surprised at how many there are:-)

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  33.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    Girl see I learned something new. I want to make a list of all the famous bw/wm relationships.

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  34.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    LOL my other comment with the hyperlink of their picture is awaiting moderation because of the hyperlink. No he doesn't have cancer but he is married to a sister and he isn't broke, a criminal, he's talented and attractive. It's just an example of an interracial marriage that some seem to think is so rare and unlikely.

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  35.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    LOL, no I mean they are a good example of a successfully married interracial couple between a caucasian man and black woman,something that people seem to think is so rare. http://www.google.com/url?sa=D&q=http://www.blackgirlsrockit.com/2008/12/married-matt-stone-and-angela-howard.html&usg=AFQjCNEgU-WXwIHAc80_02DFhuUWJsH4Iw

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  36.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    @Bigeyes Matt Stone? Did he have cancer and is he married to a sista?

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  37.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 03 Mar 10

    @Bamababe Yes, Robert Ebert and his wife are a good example but also Matt Stone one the two creators of the notorious show South Park.[URL=[http://www.blackgirlsrockit.com/2008/12/married-matt-stone-and-angela-howard.html]orious South Park.s show South Park

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  38.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Dear Sal I don't duck any question you ask me. By the way how is you're wife or girlfriends doing? Oh yea, you are pleading the fifth. You must be a "public defender" or immigration Lawyer. Just tell people what you are about. This is not the courtroom lol. Pleading the fifth on what exactly? You damn "Spanish rice eating" prick. LOL This is not "Law & Order". All you do is interpret the law to "Spanish" speaking illegal immigrants". Some low income Spanish girl with no visa you take advantage of is impressed by that. Maybe, even a black girl with a "nursing certificate" might be impressed. You don't fool me. (Shaking my head) This does not make you a man! I will be back. (Closing the door)

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  39.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Sal You're wife is coming home or girlfriend?. You better leave. Take it easy. Hope to see you on my blog again. LOL I hope she finds a white man to be with. LOL No, I really mean it. I got nothing bad to say about her. I am a "STAR" and she is not moving in "my direction". I mentioned this on my blog quite often. I have been dumped before. But I cut her loose, she was really on "thin ice" already. I could have done that Valentine's day. I gave her the benefit of the doubt. She said " Oh you talking to "N***". I said you are in no position to question me girl. LOL See, I am done talking about it for now. By the way the woman from Florida is not Mrs "Kitty". See, I am not the bad guy. I gave her enough rope to hang herself. She knew I liked another girl in "Florida". We previously met in New York when I first wrote my blog. She wanted to meet the "Blog Legend" Laurelton Queens. So I took her to the movies and dinner. But, I put that off trying to be "loyal" to the game. I won't go into any further. I do my writing on my blog like I said. There are plenty of black women to choose from. Now go back to you're "two white men", who clearly are not even "serious" about you. Look for " IF TOMORROW COMES FOR SELLOUT BW" AND THE FOLLOW UP ALBUM 'THE DAY AFTER TOMORROW FOR SELLOUT BW". (Laughing)

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  40.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    OK, OK last one. I PROMISE!!! :) Did you mean Why are you still ducking the question or did you mean why do you keep ducking the question? You are the one who studied criminology, so investigate. I am the one who studied law so I plead the fifth. :)

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  41.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    @ tamn8ercl I know, I know. It's just, he is so easy!! OK, OK. I'll behave. I'm out.

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  42.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    (Eating popcorn) I have degree in Criminology. I never said criminologist. Now are you married, engaged, or have a girlfriend? Why are you keep ducking the question?

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  43.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Yeah, Roger Ebert is a great example. So Queen got dumped. LOL. No wonder he has become active again. She must have left him for a White guy.

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  44.   tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    @Sal Really Sal?!?!?!?!?! Again with this idiot?!?!? I see we have something in common. Can't walk away from someone who is begging for a kick in the ass without helping them out with their request. Try, love!!!!

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  45.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    A true interracial love story is Roger Ebert and his wife Chaz. They have been together for 18 yrs and she stood by him during his cancer. That is true love.

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  46.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Dear Sal I am going to take the bullet out of that gun right now! I am not engaged or have a "girlfriend". (This happened very recently). Again, nothing to hide punk. LOL Let me take the other "bullet" out of that gun because I "cut her loose", not the other way around. That is all I am going to say about that concerning my personal life. I do my talking on my blog. Try again Now are you married, engaged, or have a girlfriend? Trying to shift the subject? I am heading to the gym right now. For the record, I hardly go on Blackplanet. Most people are on Facebook. I hardly go on that too! Sorry "Marquez", I am like Floyd Mayweather, I keep beating that ass!

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  47.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    I don’t mind sharing my experiences with other people if I think it’ll help that person. People can think what they want, they do anyway but do I feel obligated to justify myself? No, not especially to someone who doesn’t know me. That's my answer.

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  48.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Now he is a Time Warner Criminologist. LMAO!! And he acts like he owns Black women. Like he birthed them or something. Hahahahaha! He fakes the shit more than Mayweather who refuses to fight Pacquiao or any MMA fighter.

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  49.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Let me address this crooked Lawyer Sal He said this statement about black men "I do agree ethnocentric jealousy exists in many groups, but online I tend to encounter it from Black males the most, so those are the ones I comment on the most. When any other group kicks in I shoot them down as well." (Throwing hands up) Now we are the problem? This Latin tough saying he shoots black men down. The same man that refuses to tell people he got a woman. He won't even say if he is married. But running around here like god almighty himself. Black men only address you when you stick your nose in our business. Black women are our business. You claim you live in the black community with your "stable" of black women and Latin women. But want to lecture black men on how to treat black women. People may dislike me but I have nothing to "hide". You said you wasn't even registered on this website. Why is that? You claim you are here for debates. What are you exactly "debating". You are just a Latino "Mail womanizer that manipulates black women. I got a degree in Criminology. You duck more than Marquez did when Floyd Mayweather beat on his ass. Again, are you married to a black woman or not? Do you have a black girlfriend or not? All you have to do is answer. I am sure your "stable of black and Latino girls" will not desert you. Crossing dressing Latino tough guy allegedly slapping down black men. That is a joke. I am heading to the gym.

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  50.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Blackplanet wants to know Andy, are you engaged while you hitting on all the sisters? LOL. Now considering the fact that I post on this site quite often lately, wouldn't a wife have noticed by now? hmmmmm. Of course a fiancé would have probably noticed by now as well. Makes you wonder about your claim of engagement.

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