How to Get a Guy to Like You with These 2 Simple Words You wouldn’t believe how many women read every blog, watch every YouTube video, and follow every Facebook post I put out, and yet still say: “Yeah, Matt... I get it. But there’s this one guy tha...

Are Millennial Women Absolutely Deluding Themselves About Dating. I’ve recently made a commitment to myself to read more. In an effort to have some accountability in that department, I bought a subscription to the New York Times weekend edition. I absolutely MUST ...

What He Says Vs. What He REALLY Means Ever had a guy say one of these phrases and wondered what it really meant? “You’re kind of intimidating...” “How come you’re single?” “I’m just having fun in my dating life right no...

Why Rachel Lindsay and Newsweek Show That "Swirling" Is STILL Relevant I wrote Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate, Mixing Race, Culture and Creed back in 2012. Upon it's publishing date, it was met with excitement, a celebration of how far we’ve come, and unfortun...

This Emotion Will Destroy Your Love Life... How’s this for scary? I’m in the studio on The Today Show opposite Kathy Lee and Hoda. It’s not my everyday situation, and I’m trying to make sure I’m on my best game. “So, what should a...

The TRUTH About Interracial Relationships Yesterday when I read an article on Vogue.com called, The Truth About Interracial Relationships, and saw that it was written by a black woman, I admit I started to bristle. I thought it was going to b...

How to Win in a Changed Dating Game The dating game has changed that's for sure. Things aren't the same as before. It has evolved. The landscape of dating is different now. The dating sites used to be small. People would hide that they...

THIS (Innocent) Phrase Scares Away Great Guys I can’t believe how many women still write this on their dating profiles. Every guy I’ve asked knows what I’m talking about. This toxic phrase scares off a huge amount of men, yet it feels like...

What To Do When He Is Not Investing In You Not investing in you? Have you ever wondered what to say to a guy who is not investing in you? A guy who is not showing you enough interest? Let’s face it: We live in a flaky dating culture. People...

Feeling Insecure? This Video Will Change Everything Dealing with insecurities This video lets you have a peek behind the curtain and see the footage from my live retreats on dealing with insecurities. And I couldn’t resist sharing this woman’s incr...