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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    What part? I've been to Destin, Pensacola, Tampa, Orlando and West Palm Beach.

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  2.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    @Bamababe2k9: Yes, my youngest daughter and I are planning to go to florida this summer. I have never been there. I do need a vacation.

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  3.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    @PetiteChick I have never heard of the Ahava, I am going to have to look for it and give it a try. I enjoy Neutrogena products also. Have you ever tried the sugar scrub. Oh, it is so delicious smelling. The only problem that I have with te sugar scrub is that I get stung by bee's too often. Went for years never getting stung. Last year I used the papauya and I got stung five times. Once was even while I was asleep. I woke up feeling like I was being cut by a razor blade. under my pillow. Turned out is was a mad bee. I decided not to use anymore sugar scrub, at least not in the summer.

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  4.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    OK, brother has turned to VHI music channel.... @friendly & bamba thank you for the well wishes. It was a tough one with him. He worked and did school full time. Took him longer cause he changed majors once.... It's done. My job with his done! LOL. I did have to deal with his father, but we are cordial more often than not. Uugghhh. He irked me that day for some reason. LOL. Friendly, Bamba, doesn't it feel good? Ms.Friendly girl I know that was a relief on you. We always want better for our children than we have for ourselves. Thank you ladies. It's on....brother says last episode one of the detectives gets killed off.....gotta see tv. LOL G'nite girls!

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  5.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    @ Mr. Laurelton Queens: Hey, I like having that option for my son and his father too. My oldest sons father lives far away. The phone is okay but the skype calling is much better. Even though my sons father visits him several times a year when he is able to, he still misses him when he has been gone a few days. It is just as good as being there when you can't. His dad spends so much money to come see him. I feel sorry for him sometimes. I know that he misses his son as much as my son misses him. This is an inexpensive way they can be together more often. I love it. Yes and you are right, the visit doesn't require interaction with the other parent when they prefer not to communicate. The main thing is that the child gets to experience the attention and concern of both parents. I know how you feel because when I was in the military my oldest daugter stayed with her grandparents most of the time when she was little. I was the absent parent trying to take time off to go see her and paid childsupport. People picked on me about it because I was not there physially all the time. It would hurt because I loved my daughter. But the job at Hardees was not taking very good care of her and offered us no future. I can relate. Of course her father was there on a regular basis. No disrespect for him at all. It doesn't mean you don't care because you are not the custodial parent. That only applies to parents who do not contribute to the childs overall well being. You know that. I am just sharing an experience. So, I can relate.

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  6.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    Ladies I have a must for relaxtion take a trip with your gf's. Doesn't have to be a fancy one, just get away for the weekend and enjoy yourself. I'm planning my summer vacation. I'm a beach girl myself.

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  7.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    @Ms Friendly: Sounds like you have a nice regimen going. Yes, bubble baths are the bomb. You know what I like? Neutrogena has a light sesame body oil. I use it while my skin is damp. Girl it is so nice, no over powering smell (which I like) cause I have parfumes I prefer. Wonderful for the skin. I also use Ahava for my skin. Mud mask is the bomb. Their mud soap for daily cleansing of face and body is great too. Combining that along with the neutrogena is good for my skin. The water where I live wrecks havoc on it. I really can't use salts. On advisement of my Dr. But Ahava has one that relieves achy muscles and is relaxing. Moisturizing for face was typically Ahava but I have found something better. Neutrogena has a nice non oil moisturizer which has virtually no scent and a lot cheaper than Ahava's. Ahava's moisturizer costs so much and I still had the oily T-zone. With neutrogena, I don't. I'm gonna watch the Season Finale of Law and Order SUV. Will say hello tomorrow. Good nite ladies!

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  8.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    Congrats to both you ladies on your kids graduating. 15 yrs ago this summer I graduated from college, glad it's over. lol

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  9.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    @ PetiteChick Oh, I wanted to congratulate you on your sons graduation. I know you must be proud. My daughter also graduated with her first BS degree on May 8, 2010. Whew! One down and three more to go.

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  10.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    @ Bambababe: So your hunk is holding his own. That's kool. Now I didn't know you were into American Idol. If I watch that at all it's the very beginning to see the auditions. The Boondocks is baaaaaack. I watch that occasionally with my son. He's into it, I'm not that thrilled about it. They do say some funny stuff on there though. Glad you're good sis!

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  11.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    @ Godiva Oh, that makes me feel soooo much better! Knowing I can go buy a whole set of different wigs and such and pull em out when I want! LOL. Silly chile.... Hmph, sounds like to me your party going was a lot less interesting than the "dress up." Teeheeeheee! I might get bold enough to try a new color. Ummm...well now, let me rethink that. Purple won't look too good atop my head. I only like red finger nails, so that won't do. What do you think of the new organge? CTFU! Peace sis

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  12.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    Man Listen my child can see me on webcam. These damn black women can't seem to keep up with technology. I just put the laptop in the child's room teach her how to use the webcam. See, daddy right here. The best part is you don't even have to interact with her mother. Oh yea, we have teleconferencing too. You can be on webcam and talk. I love Skype. Peace.

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  13.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    For someone who says they aren't oppose you sure's hell have an opinion now don't you? Again you talking about someone else child when you aren't even in the same city or even COUNTRY as yours and yet you worried about Friendly's kids? When I'm guessing your baby momma is doing the same thing she is doing and that's taking care of YOUR child. Like I said sweep around your own porch first.

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  14.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    friendly13 said: @ the black men posting on this blog and beating up my sister Bamababe; leave her alone. She has right to speak about what she wants to and date who she wants to, like the rest of us women are doing. You guys can make your choices too. Menelik replies: you really like making stuff up, don't you? I'm not opposed to people like you and 50 cents dating white boys (do the race a favour and go!), you silly sausage! White men ARE generally opposed to dating and marrying you! Do you realise the number of white men dating and marrying Asian and Latino women as opposed to African-American women? Get real, girl; the primary opposition to dating Black women are white men themselves. And you have 4 (Black?) children, two of whom are handicapped, and you seriously believe some white man's going to beat a path to your door? No, darling, I think they'll leave you the-hell-alone, don't you? Menelik Charles London England

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  15.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    Bamababe said: but your little secret is you a dead beat dad; now don’t that beat all huh? Menelik replies: lol you tell that to my little boy! Menelik Charles London England

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  16.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 20 May 10

    @Queens, I agree, life is too short, and sometimes too hard to be serious all of the time, and never make time to laugh, or enjoy the sunset, or a beautiful full moon. I saw a ten year old who lost her life this week to leukemia, not pretty! Tatt is a nice lady! Back to the color purple, I love the scene when Harpo was trying to explain to Mister that it was old Joy the Mule that kicked him in the eye, when it was really Sofia, who dotted that eye(lol). When I really need a laugh, I pull out my favorite comedy, "Friday". Chris Tucker and Bernie Mac,had me rolling on the floor, too funny! love godiva

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  17.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    LOL Godiva Aw man, that had me laughing. "You told Harpo to beat me". LOL I always wonder where Tatt is. Life is too short to be serious all the time. LOL

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  18.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    @Queens, You got me cracking up over here, Harpo and Sofia, sometimes you are just too funny! One of my favorite movies. Especially that scene at the juke joint(lol). Why you always messing with my girl Tatt? You pick with women who you really like, don't you(lol) You trying to hide your sweet side, but as I told you many times before, you can't fool me!! love godiva

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  19.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    @ Petite Chick To pamper myself I enjoy completely saturating myself from head to toe with a rich by Avon or Aveeno and just taking my time at each body part and digit. I also enjoy having my eyebrows and other essential area waxed. One of my favorite pampering technigues is scrapping my nails accross wet soap and getting them white and clean. I will also share another one of my favorite treatments and that is soaking in a hot bath loaded a parfumed seasalt. They have expensive brands at bath & bodyworks. But with this economy the way it is I have found a much cheaper and reasonably effective brand at Wal-mart which is about 70% cheaper than my favorite.

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  20.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    @Bamababe2k9, Hey there! I haven't heard that "dust around their own porches" in a while,(too funny)! My daddy used to say something similiar to my older sister, who was ALWAYS in others business, she was a real busy body, but for the life of me I'm drawing a blank, I'll get back with you on that! love godiva

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  21.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Ike and Tina Nice Godiva. I went as Morgan Freedman from the movie "Driving Miss Daisy". Hopefully, me and Tatt can go to the next Halloween Party as "Harpo" and Sofia.

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  22.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    @Friendly thank you sis. My thing is people need to dust around their own front porches first before dusting around someone elses. Hey Godiva and Petite. Ok Petite here is my DWTS (dancing with the stars update)Max is still on there he has made it to the final three for next week's final but I am torn between all three couples that are left because all of them can dance but I'm leaning towards the hot olympic skater.And I like Casey on American Idol but I think he gets booted tonight. Oh and will be watching and Pulling for the Lakers later

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  23.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    @PetiteChick, There's nothing wrong with having "special occasion" attire, wigs, red stiletto's, whatever(lol). I've only wore a wig once, and that was when me and my late husband went to a Halloween Party as Ike and Tina Turner, we had a blast! The party was nice too(lol) love godiva

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  24.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    No I ain't figured out nothing about the hair. *sigh* I just figure I'm gonna go wig shop and find one that's nice to wear for graduation. Hahahahhahahaha. I'll keep that one for special occassions. I'm still working on it though. LOL.

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  25.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    @PetiteChick, I'm doing outstanding!! I don't like to complain or whine because it could always be worse. How are you today? I have a day off, and I'm loving it! So have we decided about the hair for the summer?? Good to see you and I hope you and the family are well! love godiva

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  26.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Hey Godiva, didn't see you earlier! How yeeeer doin? LOL.

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  27.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Bambababe! Sistah girl, what's going on in the sports world? And please do tell me what's going on with that dancing show with your hunk!

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  28.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    @friendly, girl I understand. You having the boys and household chores and other personal things. It gets hard sometimes. But see, I see you doing what you gotta do. I really do. Rest....ahhhh! I'm getting some now. After all of the hoopla over son's graduation I can rest. I wait now for my final grades to come in. June 10th is my day and I'm done....finito. Not making a scene about that one, cause I just don't want to. Not necessary for my old arse! Teeheee. Keep up the good work sistah and always take time for self!!! What are some of things you like to do to pamper yourself? I know you got some! Let me in on some secrets.....I need to get back to my pilates. Just ain't been feeling like it. I should have utilized it even more so this last semester because exercising is good for relieving stress. You are smart about it though, you do your thing.

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  29.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    @ the black men posting on this blog and beating up my sister bamababe2k9 Stop it and leave her alone. She is a beautiful sister and as a right to speak about what she wants to and date who she wants to, like the rest of us women are doing. You guys can make your choices too. If you want to narrow your choices down to women who obviously are not trying to make you happy, maybe you disgruntled black men (only the ones hating on this blog) need to start looking at the women who will bow to your every whim, speak only when spoken to, and who is a complete intellectual vegetable. You know they say that a dog is a man's bestfriend. But, even he will bite you if you mistreat him. Think about it fellas.

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  30.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    @Mr. Queens, Why do you refer to yourself as ugly??? For what it's worth, I don't think you should ever refer to yourself as ugly!! Cut yourself some slack(lol) love godiva

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  31.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    @ PetiteChick: Hey, girl...yes my threads have been dissapearing too. I have put the same one on twice and it is still not up. I made reference to some sites. Perhaps they are being reviewed for copyrigt purposes. I got some rest, did some work on my yard, did some more homework. But mostly, I finally got some rest, especially with the site down. I was glad to see it back up again. Yes, I enjoy seeing cute babydolls. They say that Kelly Rowlands is a really big star in London Paris.

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  32.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Edub You prefer black women face down and ass up like the cards on the table?

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  33.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    @e-dub 11:25a.m. I prefer that as well. No sugarcoating nothing..... Like to know where ya stand!

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  34.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Good morning my sistah friends! I thought this thread was a goner! How you doin' Ms. Friendly? Hope all is well. The last thing I read from you on the 15th was that you were tired from writing! LOL. I hear ya! Bambababe: What's going on sis? I read part of your last thread and kept coming back to see if I could post. How you doin? @MsFriendly you getting around checking out those hunks, I see. I ain't mad at you! Eye candy. What sister can't use a little eye candy? And who said women aren't visual too? lol.

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  35.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    OH No he wants to GO there we can go there. I wasn't talking about his child, I talked about him being a dead beat which apparently he is.

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  36.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    (WHOA) Breaking up the fight between London and Bama. Why are we attacking the child? Keep the fight clean. That is a low blow.

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  37.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Malarki5 is that the best you can do? LOL I mean seriously I have to keep black men out my mouth or what? You going to write a scathing insulting blog? LMAO oooooooooo I'm sooooooooo scared. Why don't worry about that kid in LA that you aren't raising. Apparently you are more concerned about my life and other folks lives then you are my own. If you such a big man as you think you are, then why aren't taking care of your kid Mr. Big and Bad or is that your source of anger and resentment towards sistas is because your baby momma got your child in LA and you hate her for it. Or maybe she is raising you kid with a white man because you aren't there to do it. You love to talk all this trash but your little secret is you a dead beat dad; now don't that beat all huh?

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  38.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    (Hugging Bama) I am big, black and ugly. I am biased because I will spank a big red bone. People are going to say I practice "colorism". I have been with dark women. I don't want to hear it. These black women like to talk back to much for real. I am out.

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  39.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Okay, for those of us ladys who love the white men that "..love the black women" have you seen Kelly Rowlands "Comeback" video. Check it out. There is a babydoll in it. But you won't see him until about the middle of the video. It's worth watching.... http://www.metacafe.com/watch/sy-1490258213/kelly_rowland_comeback_official_music_video/

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  40.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Bamababe2k9 said: I feel sorry for most white women because they have to live up to an unrealistic standard that if you aren’t thin, you aren’t beautiful. At least in our culture, all shapes and sizes are appreciated that’s I think more brothas are more appreciative of full-figured women because they haven’t been brainwashed like a lot of white men. Menelik replies: but you are NOT of our culture, (as you put it) and you allegedly prefer white men! I guess also you have a weight issue, right? Black, fat and 50? Not much chance of snagging a white man, if you think about it lol Menelik Charles London England

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  41.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Bamababe2k9 said: I’m very opinionated…my momma doesn’t bite her tongue neither does my grandmother nor my aunt’s. We tell it like it is and some people don’t like it. But I’ve had white men tell me they love that about sistas. That we speak our minds and never hold back. Menelik replies: and doubtless the majority of white men would find all this “nagging” (as they call it) simply to much to bear. Bamababe2k9 said: A lot of white women aren’t like us and I believe that’s why some brothas like white women because they stay in their place so to speak. Menelik replies: it was all going so well until you brought Black men into the equation! You couldn’t resist it could you? And what’s with this nonsense about white women being passive? Why do women like you deem white women who are agreeable, and feminine, a soft touch? Not all women are insufferable, mean-spirited, products of matriarchal families, you know! Menelik Charles London England

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  42.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    @ Bamababe2k9, you take sly digs at both Black men and white women for no reason other than their sex and race. And you expect me to remain silent? NO WAY! Keep Black men out of your conversations if all you have are bitchy little envious snipes at them, ok? Just leave Black men and their relationships out of your internet-based life. Not to do so only proves to me that KARMA is unfolding in your life, and it don't like very pretty, sweetie! Top O' the morning to ya! Menelik Charles London England

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  43.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Menelik what this is about is US meaning sistas not wanting you sissy boy. You call me fat, black ugly all day but at least I don't spend my time on here picking on sistas because they don't want me. That's what this is about baby. No one wants your black ass. And I don't have to be blond, blue-eyed and thin to get a man. I may not be everyone's cup a tea but rest assure my dear unlike you, I do get my share of sips and that probably eats you up. See you want to believe that bull you spout because it eases your ego. Believing that a lot of white men actually do pick us first would hurt that delicate ego of yours who doesn't like to be challenge by a strong black woman as myself. So you keep believing in that fantasy of yours that no one wants us doll, maybe that'll help you sleep at night. Because regredless of what you say or think about me, doesn't matter because I know I have it going on can you say the same? Probably night. Sweet dreams.

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  44.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Bamababe said: Like I said the other day Menelik you sound like a jealous gay man. That’s what a lot of them tend to do talk shit because they are jealous they aren’t a woman. Menelik replies: and you're jealous you aren't white, blond-haired and feminine! What you can't handle, butch, is some nigger boy quoting you word-for-word contradicting yourself all day lol Bamababe said: @Edub I heard the same thing from plenty of white men that they like that about sistas. Some men can talk that and don’t feel threaten others like Menelik can because it challenges his manhood of what’s left of it. Menelik replies: you gotta make your mind up, girl; am I gay i.e. effeminate, or a straight guy lacking manhood i.e. masculinity? Oh, and plenty, meaning MOST, white men pick Black women LAST so do please get your facts straight, madam. Also most men prefer feminine women NOT women like you...whatever their race! Menelik Charles London England

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  45.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Like I said the other day Menelik you sound like a jealous gay man. That's what a lot of them tend to do talk shit because they are jealous they aren't a woman. Of course that would be an insult to gay men to compare them to you. @Edub I heard the same thing from plenty of white men that they like that about sistas. Some men can talk that and don't feel threaten others like Menelik can because it challenges his manhood of what's left of it. lol

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  46.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Bamababe2k9 said: I feel sorry for most white women because they have to live up to an unrealistic standard that if you aren’t thin, you aren't beautiful. At least in our culture, all shapes and sizes are appreciated that’s I think more brothas are more appreciative of full-figured women because they haven’t been brainwashed like a lot of white men. Menelik replies: but you are NOT of our culture, (as you put it) and you allegedly prefer white men! I guess also you have a weight issue, right? Black, fat and 50? Not much chance of snagging a white man, if you think about it lol Menelik Charles London England

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  47.   e-dub says:
    Posted: 19 May 10

    Personally, I find the the bluntness of black women refreshing. When it comes to personal issues, I like the cards face up on the table.

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  48.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 15 May 10

    @Petite Hey Petite Hey Friendly. I thought about this yesterday and to me as a black woman part of the reason why have to be more aggressive and loud sometimes is because unlike women of other races, we had to be. Black woman had to fight for every crumb we have ever gotten in this world and let's be honest here,most other races of women didn't have to. We had to be our own advocates. As far as the weight goes gentleman, I feel sorry for most white women because they have to live up to an unrealistic standard that if you aren't thin, you aren't beautiful. At least in our culture, all shapes and sizes are appreciated that's I think more brothas are more appreciative of full-figured women because they haven't been brain washed like a lot of white men.

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  49.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 15 May 10

    Dear Otherbrother You make a good case. However, black women and white women are obese. You even admit that 78 percent of black women are overweight. Obviously, I wasn't lying. We can argue what is the "definition" of being overweight. The fact remains black women are not "in shape" period. Now, if you said well "black women" need to go the gym more and focus on their health. I would understand your argument. We can argue if a black woman weighing 180 pounds at 5ft6, in comparison, to a black woman weighing 200 pounds at 5ft 4 is overweight. The chart is wrong because the weight finds its way into her breasts and ass. That makes a black woman "attractive" but necessarily "fit". The fact remains they are still "out of shape". You also mentioned it is based on a "white woman's chart or whatever you mentioned. That is convenient to say that. Black women carry their weight differently than white women. I agree with that. The fact remains they are 'still out of shape". Your argument is more emotional that mine. The numbers don't lie. If you are going to tell me that overweight black women are "fit", you might be smoking something. You backed up all my points but "yet" I have no argument. Your whole argument was blaming "white women charts". The way "society" views black women. It sounded like one "big excuse". I will tell you what, I will pretend you didn't just write that to me. Because I am tired of knocking you out like Floyd Mayweather. Good day. Say, hi to your skinny black wife.

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  50.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 15 May 10

    I cant believe, something smart from Malarki I agree too: Sounds like to me you like weak women and don’t like to be challenged. Menelik replies: for the record, I like feisty, feminine, women NOT monstrous old has beens who spend their time nigger-baiting instead of dating men of their preference (if they can find any lol) Menelik Charles London England As for me, weakness in a physical way is very sexy to me. Hate nothing more than if want to help my girl to cary something and she tells me "No, I can do that by myself" Let a man be a man. As for the testostaron, what was nonsense my conversation with friendly13? Menelik, you are always looking for opportunities to screw people.

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