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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 11 May 10

    @friendly: 10:0p.m. I'll bite. Did you know that Heather Headley (don't know if you've heard of her) is married to a White man? She is a AA singer with a powerful voice. She doesn't get the props she deserves for it in my opinion but that's another couple. Also Serena Williams has had her times with White men. I think she's had a lot of on and off again thingys with them. But she also vacillates between Black men and White men or whatever. I tried to think of more but just can't at the moment. At least not the ones in the spotlight!

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  2.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 11 May 10

    @ Laurelton: 9:45p.m. I know what I said Laurelton, as I've stated it more than once. What I said is not equivalent to being "hurt or used" by them. They never got that far because of their perceived superiority (I felt at least over Blacks and Black women in particular). This is what YOU stated: "Petite was the only one that said “hey they using me like toilet paper and I got a problem with that”. What I'm saying to YOU Mr. Laurelton is that it never got that far. I don't know what part of this is difficult for you to understand. How does what I stated equate to "them" using me? It's not the same thing. Thus, the REASON I asked you NOT to use my NAME to make statements that are somewhat inaccurate. Perhaps it is the contextual difficulty you have of the statement. What you wrote about my experience is not what I've stated here. That's my point. I hope you get my point. If not, so be it. I really don't care. I just asked you nicely, as a man not do to so. If you can be that.

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  3.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 11 May 10

    I just found out that Journalist Suzzane K. Bamford is the daughter of Diahann Carrol and Monte Kay Diahann's first husband in 1956. The reason for controversy of this marriage was not because it was an interracial marriage but because Diahann was engaged to David Frost. Her forth and last marriage was to Vic Damone(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diahann_Carroll) Diahann Carrol is a beautiful woman. It is no wonder she had so many men who loved her. This is encouraging news to those of us who like interracial relationships. Interracial dating is not new. White men do marry black women. Even though the marriage don't always last, it still is a sign that the man is proud to be seen with this woman (typically, there are always exceptions of course).

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  4.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 11 May 10

    A little more celebrity interracial dating gossip. Tina Turner and her boyfriend Erwin Bach have been together for a longtime also, about 16 years or so. Tina is 70 and she looks great. (retreived on 5/10/2010 from http://bauergriffinonline.com/2008/04/tina-turner-and-erwin-bach-lig.php?bfm_index=1&bfm_page=0)

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  5.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 11 May 10

    Okay, I am going to ask the same question until I get a response from somebody (positive). Hey, I was reading about Grace Jones who married her georgeous bodyguard Atila Altaunbay in February 1996. (retrieved on 5/10/2010 from http://www.gracejones.org/grace-jones-trivia-2.php of 1996.) I think they made such a sexy couple. Hey on of my favorite actors who I think has always been very handsome and sexy is Sean Connery. He did a movie with Grace Jones. I was wondering if anyone else can recall popular movie or even real life white men and black women couples. Hey, I just thought of another one Iman and David Bowie. They have been together for a long time. Iman is so beautiful too. They have some beautiful children.

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  6.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    @ Laurelton, bro some times you're like a gun-slinger with a twitchy finger lol. PetiteChick is a fine sista. There's really no need to open up another negative back 'n' forth on this site (especially with a sista; we done with that, surely! Menelik Charles London England

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  7.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    Dear Petite Let me tell you something. If I said you was hurt by a white man. I would say you was. Why do I need to bite my tongue? You mention treat others like you would like to be treated. Nobody is doing that here and that includes you. I don't intentionally use your name out of context because you was arguing with people that I don't even get along with. I give credit where it is due. You managed to tell the truth about what 'really" goes on when black women sellout. In your case, you are a sellout. No matter how you try to "spin it". You said this ............. "When I arrived here, I was not in search of White men, but since I got so much attention from them, I said I’d give it a shot. What I found in doing so, was that in my 6 month period of time here, the majority of them only wanted sex or webcam sex or phone sex. Many played games and acted as though they were superior and that I should be “honored” that are interested because, dammit afterall, they are White. I’ve had several emails and other sorts of behaviors that said so much in so many words. THAT SUPERIORITY THINGY OVER ME AS A BLACK PERSON, let alone a Black woman DOESN’T LOOK GOOD ON ME. I dismissed them as an option." You also said this.... "I’ve dated Black men, African Men, White men, Haitian men. I was married to one Black man for 20 years. I dated 2 White men in the past who I found were not to my liking. One was boring and the other just wanted to “screw.” So after all this happened to you. You are on her lashing out at "certain white men" you know WILL NOT take your ass to task about it. I really don't know who is worse Friendly or you. At least friendly lives happily in her delusions. You seemed to have woke up "to late". NOW, you want to play tough on here. Like I said, I don't make it habit to talk about older black women. They obviously been through enough. I am done for now.

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  8.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    @FitDiva: You said on May 8, 2010 "...Ms Petite and friendly, sistas it is quite sad, pitiful and downright unneccessary. Embrace your differences and disagree w/out the name calling as it is quite juvenile to do so" After you just made some of the following comments as well "... @ Mr Laurelton you are acting like an ignoramus....What’s your black ass doing here. just breathe…Peace and love!!!!!!" Now FitDiva you will get no criticism from me for calling Laurelton Queens and ass, but never the less (even though it is true) it is still calling someone a name. As far as the issue between me and PetiteChick, you are entitled to your own opinion, but that is a matter that has been put to bed. At least with me. But if someone says something harsh to me I will probably will say something right back. So you may not want to read my comments from now on, because I really let them have it. But really I try to keep my converstion positive and on point about "Why white men love the black women." In my opinion, I feel we should all try to stay on point with the relevant topic and stop allowing the haters to get us off the subject that some of us are here for in the first place. But I want you to know that I appreciate your insight.

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  9.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    @ FitDiva 1:25p.m. Ms Petite and friendly, sistas it is quite sad, pitiful and downright unneccessary. Embrace your differences and disagree w/out the name calling as it is quite juvenile to do so -------------------------------------------- I agree with you. I can not lie, another sista friend said the same thing. I just felt like I was being pushed in a corner and being lied on. I asked for cease and desist. But.....that didn't happen and I just got angrier. I don't wish her or any other Black woman on here any harm. I was extremely angry only because I thought she was deliberately not trying to see what my attempts were, but rather to just fight for the sake of doing so. We live we learn. We make mistakes we own them, eat them, shit em out and keep it moving! LOL. Thanks.

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  10.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    @Tom4Blaq@12:57p.m. Comment by Tom4Blaq on 9 May 2010: Dear Ms. Petite: My preference for dating are Black women. I find that you are snooty, but not in a bad way. I had to go back and look at your profile to see that you are not interested in White men. Also, because you were here complaining but when an opportunity presents itself you would rather not consider an opportunity - as a chance toward a friendship. I respect your decision. I tried to email you to explain but I see that you are gone. I did the same. I do hope you get to see this and accept my apology for not explaining. ------------------------------------------------- So, because I chose not to respond to your flirt (if you flirted - I don't recall) I'm snooty? I'm sorry, but I don't care how many places you have travelled.....how many women you have met, snooty is somewhat derogatory. Don't worry about apologizing to me. I'm the devil incarnate up in here! Thanks.

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  11.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    @ Hannes72 12:47 I also asked you, nicely too, to leave me alone. You keep talking of hi-jacking? Listen, take the advice your brethren gave you and shut it down. I have said nothing else to you since we don't agree on anything. I expected that you would do the same. You're kind of young and have much to learn. Even me at 50, can still learn a few things. If someone asks that you not bother them, why would you not honor that in the spirit of a debate that has no winner? Do you not treat people the way you want to be treated? If not, then shame on you. If you asked me to leave you alone, I would do so. I have done so, but you're right back at it again, blaming ALL OF THE BLACK AND WHITE DATING TROUBLES ON LIL OLE ME. This thread is old as Methuselah, but I'm the cause of all of the dissension? I see you will talk down to a Black woman just like your brethren said you would, but you wouldn't dare do it to a Black man. Hmmmmm. I'd love to see you get into it with one of the other Black men here. Nope, you prefer to continue to talk trash to the Black woman who asked you to leave her alone. Go pick on somebody your own size.

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  12.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    @ Otherbrother 12:32p.m. Comment by Other Brother on 9 May 2010: @ Friendly I see you have been kicking some but on here, I am confused though why you went to the threatening with the police comments and disabled comments, This is a big boy and big girl blog, If it comes to threatening with tracing ip addresses then the whole debate thing becomes mute. Every one knows that Petitechick can not comment on white men she knows nothing about them, she doesn’t even date them. Well at first she didn’t then she changed her story and said she did and they disrespected her so she stopped dateing them. Like black men never disrespected her. So now she dates every race of men except white so she will not be disrespected. If she is disrespected by another race and still dates them then she still hipacritical. See my point, you do not need to threaten her, she is trying to make unjustafiable comments like they are the bible. Just do what you do and do not bring in your disabled kids and other things that is something you discuss with the man you decide to start to date. That is just my opinion. -------------------------------------------------- I've dated Black men, African Men, White men, Haitian men. I was married to one Black man for 20 years. I dated 2 White men in the past who I found were not to my liking. One was boring and the other just wanted to "screw." There is NOTHING HYPOCRITICAL ABOUT WHAT I STATED. I gave more of my story than I should have, but did that for the Black women here ONLY. Not so you, a White man can come and twist the words I said. When I arrived here, I was not in search of White men, but since I got so much attention from them, I said I'd give it a shot. What I found in doing so, was that in my 6 month period of time here, the majority of them only wanted sex or webcam sex or phone sex. Many played games and acted as though they were superior and that I should be "honored" that are interested because, dammit afterall, they are White. I've had several emails and other sorts of behaviors that said so much in so many words. THAT SUPERIORITY THINGY OVER ME AS A BLACK PERSON, let alone a Black woman DOESN'T LOOK GOOD ON ME. I dismissed them as an option. If you can find anything hypocritical in that, then I sure wish you would just point it out. This VERY SAME STORY has been repeated here more than once. I FORGOT THAT MEN DON'T TEND TO READ THOUGH. So, what's left for you to do or say now? I still stand by what I came here for. I told all of you, nothing you say or do will change how I feel and what I will state. So other, what do you want to do now? What? I have a right to my opinion, just like you do. You stated yours very emphatically here. I can do likewise. What is this nonsense from everyone about having "say" on this board? Who can say what, when they can say it, how much of it they can say? You must be out of your dayummed mind.

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  13.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    @ Laurelton @ 12:26p.m. Comment by Mr Laurelton Queens on 8 May 2010: Dear Petite You don’t control this board. I am just letting you know that. You don’t like white men. Why are you even here then? I know why I am here, because I dislike sellout black women. What fence are you on? DO NOT get me confused with other people here. I ain’t Friendly, Hannes or Tatt. I have no idea why you are here. Since you here, you can get it too. I ain’t your son. So you better take it easy! You have a nice day. ------------------------------------------------ I don't recall trying to "control this board." What I do have control over is my own person. Not a "board." I simply asked you - nicely not to use my name out of context. I have a right to do that don't I? I think so. If you asked me to do the same I would honor that, as a human being. You know, that how that old thing goes, treating people the way you would want to be treated? It is a code I live by. Sorry for the inconvenience. Get it? What shall I get, Laurelton. Will you tell me about my bad wig, that I'm old, like you've stated so many times before (but I never said a word)? Yes, I am. If you want to call 50 old. Let's hope you get to live to that age, LOL. Do you dislike older folx? You and I never had much of a discourse here. I had planned on keeping it that way. Actually, the only gentleman (Black) was Marlarki5 that actually talked to me. I said very little to you and you to me. So why are you all riled up about me? I didn't come here for the reason you're here. I actually stated that when I first came here and was showered with compliments like I was a the Black female version of you. Never. I stated on more than one occasion and throughout the many threads that are here for all to see what my purpose in joining this discussion was for. Old and washed up? Old perhaps by your standards? Washed up? Hardly. Hardly...... A wrong is a wrong - period. It doesn't matter how you try to slice and dice it. It was wrong for you to use my name in the context you used in (as though I'd proclaimed being hurt by a White man). I simply asked you not to state such a thing because it is not factual based on anything I've written here. That's all I asked. That's all.... Have a good day.

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  14.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    @ Scholar @ 12:09p.m. Comment by Scholar on 8 May 2010: i dont get this, why is this ‘petitechick’ calling that other girl friendly13 crazy, when friendly only made about 3 posts, and petit has made an excessive amount of comments, instead of just letting it lie. In reply to the people bringing up the slave trade, I see where you come from but assuming you are christian, take a tip from god and turn the other cheek. Before it was white man’s fault, but now by bringing up things that happened ages ago you are helping to keep the divide between races, instead of allowing us just to see each other as Man (instead of Black Man White Man). In short, in order to progress we must break the cycle and turn hate to love instead of to hate. ------------------------------ It's quite simple honey. The reason for my many posts to the young lady I had the internet argument with was because she kept at me, AFTER I ASKED HER TO LET IT GO. WE DISAGREED ABOUT WHAT I WAS DOING. SHE THOUGHT ONE THING, WHILE MY INTENTIONS WERE ANOTHER. I DID EVEN ASK MORE THAN ONCE. PERHAPS reading from the very beginning (a bit back) would have cleared that up for you. Another thing: I don't tell you how to handle your disputes, so I don't expect you to tell me how to handle mine. We can agree on that right? Good, I'm glad. Peace...

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  15.   Tom4Blaq says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    Dear Mr. Ichibod: Thank you. It is good to know that Black men have no problem with White men dating Black women. I have an attraction to other races of women, however my preference is for Black women. To Mr. Hannes: This is an inter-racial dating site. There are many colors of women to explore here. Please be reminded of that. I take it you enjoy the company of a Black woman such as myself. One day, I may focus on Asian women, and then certain White Women. There are many many lovely women here. However, like yourself, I prefer Black women. This does not mean that this place is designed for Black and White only. I was only here for a month or less, give or take. And I flirted and had exchanges with a number of women of all cultural backgrounds. I travel a great deal and have met many beautiful women across the globe. I am always, however still drawn to Beautiful Black women. This blog is about Black women and White men, which I think is designed to disrupt. If you look closer at the various topics of discussion you don't find much on Hispanic and Asian dating. The best way for men and women to get to know one another is on a personal level. The freedom of opinion and choices are allowed here, as Ms. Petite so stated at some point. The blog is not necessarily designed for that, as you see it does more harm than good. I hope I cleared up any confusion you may have between the two. Lovely Black Ladies: thomase.harmon@yahoo.com

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  16.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    @ hannes72 Actually, I have a bunch of pictures on the site. I have some silly ones on there too. If you use the next feature it will look like I am moving on some of them. If you get a chance check them out. Hey you are right it is "Right said Fred". Actually, I think he is so silly. But if you think about it when you are watching a runway model it sort of fits the attitude. It has the perfect beat. When I see a model, they make me think like this "I am making these clothes look good" I wanted to be a model once, but I was too curvy in the hips and butt.

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  17.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    @Hannes72 Hey, I was reading about Grace Jones married her georgeous bodyguard Atila Altaunbay in February 1996. (retrieved on 5/10/2010 from http://www.gracejones.org/grace-jones-trivia-2.php of 1996.) I think they made such a sexy couple. Hey on of my favorite actors who I think has always been very handsome and sexy is Sean Connery. He did a movie with Grace Jones. I was wondering if anyone else can recall popular movie or even real life white men and black women couples. Hey, I just thought of another one Iman and David Bowie. They have been together for a long time. Iman is so beautiful too. They have some beautiful children.

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  18.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    This topic is totally hi-jacked, I hope you all know that. There are a millions of statements, but only a handfull are answers to the actual question. This is a question from black woman to white men. So if I look at it closer, no black woman who is not interested in dating white men is supposed to be here as she is not going to help the thread to the next level and will bring nothing than bad energy in here. If a black woman got no intention to date a white man, what other reason to be here could she have than to discourage other black women to date white men??? YES SCHWEINDL-CHICK ITS YOU I AM TALKING ABOUT The same for black men - how do you think you can enlighten the question "Why white men love the black woman"??? Maybe there are some black men here who have been white in there former lifes and they can remeber...... what a nonsense! If a black men appears in a thread like this than for 99,9% to propagandize against black womens attraction for white men, it should only be contrariwise, right? Messeges like the black women try to put black men down to come by them occurs, how ignorant you are. The white man is not standing in your way, you prefer always to run in them! What useful could I add to a thread like "Why white women like black men"??? I am nor a white woman or a black men, so I am out of the game. If a white woman like black men exclusivly, they are free too do so. I saw very handsome blacks and we only got that crazy africans, so I am sure in the states they have real good ones like Tyson Beckford - if I would be a girl, I would do it :D All the black cats like Friendly and Choc get attacked the hard way if they state ther preferences to rub ther black buts on something white. Then they start to get offensive, who wouldn´t? If I would acvice white women not to mix with black men, how would it be called..........???? Whitout blacks asking those girls for justification, the entire thread would look totally different. It even went so far that some racist people here started with topics like slavery, colonies and yield of sexuality. I really wonder what such racists are searching at a page about Interracial Dating. Are some of you are really here only to turn the lost Sisters around? @Friendly13 I did not want to go into your compliments as some of the racists here are angry enough anyways, but have to come to your last comment: Isn´t it Right said fred? I think that is the name. I did not really like the song and the guys looks poor but thanks for the nice compliment tough ;) Yes, I have an contract with Elite-Models (formerly, they are named Look-Models now in Austria). Altough I could do more since you have to go to 10 castings to get one job, so can end up as a 60+hours-per week-job. On the other hand, I have learned some languages from, is also a nice think, isn´t it? I make less pictures, other men are more adequate for foto shootings, my main income over the years have been the catwalk-shows, I am better in that and I like it better. In the future I will reduce it anyways since I started another project and I want put some time and energy in it. I would like to add more pics but I am a non-paying member so I am limited to 5, which is enough otherwise. (by the way, you should add some more pics too, you only have one and that is quit dark, it does not show much) but I would love to see more, VIEL MEHR :D I just am here to look and network as most of the women of that site of course are living in the states and therefor out or my reach, unless the visit europe :) So I network a bit to get to know people in places I am going to visit in the near future. @ the haters: I admonished you to leave Chocs hairs alone, you have no idea about fasion. It is not for people wearing clothes as big as a tent and plastic jewerlery :D

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  19.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    You're a good dude, Tom! Other Brother, black men who date white women exclusively are a minority amongst black men. I've said repeatedly that I only found 2 black men who did that on this site in it's 3 year blog history. I don't even know why you keep this up. Did you read what you typed to friendly about Petite? Do you remember what you said about dating a black woman regardless of what her reasons were for dating you (even if it was to leave black men), and now you want to speak about hypocrisy? Seriously, when arguments break out around here, what do you think they are really about? There have been so many comments posted that spell out clearly what the problem is, but you don't care to read. Any man/woman of any race can be good or bad. No man/woman is entirely good or entirely bad. Therefore, any man or woman using their race's opposite gender as excuses for why they prefer races other than their own is pathetic. "Well at first she didn’t then she changed her story and said she did and they disrespected her so she stopped dateing them. Like black men never disrespected her. So now she dates every race of men except white so she will not be disrespected. If she is disrespected by another race and still dates them then she still hipacritical." Okay, but you somehow don't see black women claiming to be disrespected or something by black men then turn to or claim to have only dated white men, as if white men haven't or won't ever disrespect them? Yet if they continue to date white men only (many of them have acknowledged being in more than one relationship, many relationships with white men, or just no longer with black men) wouldn't that be hyprocritical as well? But for some reason, black women aren't bitter by your understanding? This is the only issue here. This is the only blog thread you've been on in this site. I don't know how you found this site or how many different sites you go on and interracial topics your read, but you are very ignorant of the real issues being addressed here. The strawman needs to go away. No one has ever told a black here to stop dating white men. I'm done with you little boy, please leave this issue to us to solve here. Well, since you don't know how to leave bad enough alone, and have now ruffled the feathers of yet another black woman on the topic "Why White men love the black women" (that's six now), let me ask you a few questions. How many baby fathers does your wife have total? At what age did she lose her virginity? At what age did she have her first child? Where is her father? Oh, and tell her Happy Mother's day for me!

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  20.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    friendly13 said: Okay first of all I did not threaten to trace anyones IP address… Menelik asks: are you sure about that, friendly; like, really, really, sure??? Menelik Charles London England

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  21.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 10 May 10

    @ other brother, Okay first of all I did not threaten to trace anyones IP address....There is no since in me being childish like Queenie and dragging out a matter that is resolved. I think it is a subject that should be put to bed. There is no reason for you to be confused unless you just want to be. And for the record I am a big woman not a girl. I will handle my bussiness however I see fit. Comment by Other Brother on 9 May 2010:

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  22.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    @Mr.Queens, From the bottom of my heart, and soul, thank you so much for the Mother's Day greeting! Very much appreciated!!!!!! Happy Mother's Day to every mother, and moms to be in the future! Hello Ms. Sarah! love godiva

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  23.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    Happy mother's day to all the mothers. That is all I have to say today.

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  24.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    I used to be on local TV in Austin, Texas

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  25.   Tom4Blaq says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    Dear Ms. Petite: My preference for dating are Black women. I find that you are snooty, but not in a bad way. I had to go back and look at your profile to see that you are not interested in White men. Also, because you were here complaining but when an opportunity presents itself you would rather not consider an opportunity - as a chance toward a friendship. I respect your decision. I tried to email you to explain but I see that you are gone. I did the same. I do hope you get to see this and accept my apology for not explaining. To any of the lovely down to earth Black women here who are interested in dating an honest yet busy White guy you may email me at: thomase.harmon@yahoo.com Dear gentlemen: I find it appaling that you would even engage in such hateful and mean spirited conversations with women of any race here. I find it peculiar that Black men here argue with Black women as though they are women themselves. White men are doing much of the same. What are you doing? Whether Black or White, disrespect of women is the very reason you may never get a date or proceed to a relationship. I do not argue with women. I especially don't argue back and forth with men - so don't look for a silly exchange of words with me. No one should have to justify to another their choices. Whatever those choices are. Happy mother's day to the lovely women here.

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  26.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    Queens You have been semi civil, what happened you got spanked again and had to rethink your comments. Why have you still not answered the queston why are you so racist? Quit lieng about not having a white man take your woman. That is exactly what happened and you know it. It can happen when you do not bring your A Game, do not blame yourself or the white guy. He probably didn't know she was seeing you.

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  27.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    @ Friendly I see you have been kicking some but on here, I am confused though why you went to the threatening with the police comments and disabled comments, This is a big boy and big girl blog, If it comes to threatening with tracing ip addresses then the whole debate thing becomes mute. Every one knows that Petitechick can not comment on white men she knows nothing about them, she doesn't even date them. Well at first she didn't then she changed her story and said she did and they disrespected her so she stopped dateing them. Like black men never disrespected her. So now she dates every race of men except white so she will not be disrespected. If she is disrespected by another race and still dates them then she still hipacritical. See my point, you do not need to threaten her, she is trying to make unjustafiable comments like they are the bible. Just do what you do and do not bring in your disabled kids and other things that is something you discuss with the man you decide to start to date. That is just my opinion.

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  28.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    @Tom4Blaq Exactly what is SNOOTY? Please explain

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  29.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    That's has to be the funniest thing ever said on this board Black men who date white women exclusively are a minority? A Minority to what, It is much more prevelant than white men who date black women exclusively, Black men who date only white women do not blame black women on blogs? Funny. Black men so who so called exclusively date white women not because of anything negative about black women, just based on preference, now they are pathetic. There goes the pot calling the kettle black. If that is not the biggest twist of words.

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  30.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    Thank you, TYRANT. Where have you seen a black man putting a black woman down to justify their preference for another race? No where. I was just reading the "Interracial Dating and Black Men" thread, and nowhere does a black man say anything negative about black women. However, black women went there to proclaim their love and desires for white men and said negative things about black men. Even "Black men, Black Women, Best Frenemies" doesn't have any black women willing to say why we're still best friends. I don't used the term sellout to describe these women. I prefer stupid, ignorant, or mentally challenged, but the reasoning is the same. Black men who date white women exclusively are a minority, a pathetic set of individuals. Most black men who date interracially (or black men in general) realize other races of women have vaginas, too. It's amazing that when a black man is a member of this site, some black women assume that they are looking for a WHITE woman. This is what I call white supremacy in non-whites. The fact they they believe this site is only for finding white men. No one has ever said anything about not dating white men. Is it so hard to look for white men without saying something rude or derrogatory about black men while they do it? MzBrown, has her head on straight. "Idiot black men"? I like a women who can accessorize. MzBrown was right for checking that chick. However, a bad weave or wig is just bad.

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  31.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    What's up Tyrant This is what I don't understand. Sellout black women complain we "tear them" down. But they have no sympathy for all that negative shit they say about black men. They got no remorse for the the comments they made. So, when black men "smack them back". They don't like it. The reason they don't like it is because "it directly affects them". White men perceive them a "certain way". Somehow, black men are to blame for that? I never made the comments Choc said about black men. She was more outraged that she would be "relegated" to black men. Then, the comment said by the white man. She never called him a savage or beast. She put his "name" out there. I don't understand the point of snitching. This is what they do. If anything, it makes you look unhinged and pathetic. I still don't understand how you can get worked up over a white man saying "go back to black men". Most white men feel this way. They think you "might go back to a black man. I heard white men say this before. So, why even get upset about it. She went on to say "that a black man has never touched her". A desperate attempt to use black men to get a date. They all do this shit. They indirectly put down black men to appease white men. Every time they do that shit. I will continue to talk about them until I don't care anymore. Friendly, you feel told the truth. I can accept criticism. However, that old lady got on your ass. You turn around and validate what she said about you. You tried to "put up a fight". I will give you that. You contributed to the "so called" tearing black people down. You can't get self righteous if you in the middle of the fight. I am heading to church.

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  32.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    Comment by ChocPrncess on 5 May 2010: Yes…any black woman who does not have a head full of naps is wearing a weave or wig to you idiot black men. Just because your hair is a quarter of an inch long and rivals steel wool does not mean mine is a wig or weave or should be. _____________________________________ As a BLACK MAN (That's right, I said it) I'm PROUD of the hair you refer to as STEEL WOOL, because it's the hair that GOD chose to give me that I got from my mother who is a STRONG BLACK WOMAN. I know you HATE black features (your issue, not mine) but having the hair that we have is a characteristic of being African/Black, so get used to it. Damn, it's one thing to have to listen to an IDIOT who's uneducated, but it's really ANNOYING to have to listen to a MORON who graduated from college even DUMBER than when she enrolled. Ich, Queens, and Menelik...always a pleasure to see you guys.

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  33.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    Oh, Hannes72, I saw you being too sexy (I love that song by Fred Said). I enjoyed the pictures. I figured you were a model.

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  34.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    @Hannes72 You are so right. It is just a name that controlling people use to discourage people. I have noticed that the only people fighting are black on black. If we don't get along why would we want to be together. There aren't any white men on here trying to beat me up and put me down. In fact, there aren't even any white women on here trying to destroy me either. The sad thing is that there are idiots on here who think they have some sort of authority to manage and discipline bloggers on the site because they don't think people should date interracially.

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  35.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    Told the truth didn't I Queenie. No one can get on my ass because they do not have any authority over me, pea brain. We comment and reply. I think that you can see that I fight my own battles quite well. If there are individuals on this blog who haven't read from the beginning then they cannot judge because they only have seen part of the picture.

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  36.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    Hahahaha, Sellout, that word is too funny....

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  37.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    I see people constantly bragging about their education and degrees behaving like kindergartners.

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  38.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    Dear Friendly I just recall Petite getting on your ass. I suppose, I should listen to someone that talks about their body all the time. You mentioned how you are still "hot" at 40 something. I don't know your age. A person that speculates what white men are thinking when they 'see her" (All positive) what a surprise, is seriously delusional person. The sheer absurdity of trying to analyze me. There is nothing to analyze. Since this isn't a "talk show". Then, what would we call this forum then? It feels "talk show like" to me. You said this "Get a life. You are the one who needs to get off of here. Your presence is pointless. At least PetiteChick has people on here who want her advice. She at least has some experiences that some can relate to and want to know about. Her presence is relevant and yours is not." LOL Relevant to what exactly? Didn't she just diss you. She wasn't the only one but still. Y'all went back and forth about "who look better than who". You both old and "washed up". Don't tell me what I need. You need a white step daddy for your kids. If I wanted a white woman, they are not hard to find. I don't got to "blog" to get them. I don't got to go on "ABC" news to broadcast to nation I need a white woman. I certainly do not need "movies" to encourage me. You got all this "support" and white men STILL DON'T MESS WITH YOU SERIOUSLY. What's your excuse now? You got an excuse for every potential relationship with a white man "not working out". You are currently single with your 4 kids. I will tell you what, I might listen to you, if you wasn't so desperate. Do not play the "Big Boys" like me. The old woman just spanked you but you "praising her" for what exactly? That is why you failing now. Good night

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  39.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 09 May 10

    @Queenie: He said "...I know why I am here, because I dislike sellout black women..." from another earlier post Queenie said: "..Looking like she got pubic hairs on her head..." I just want him to hear how stupid that sounds. Look this isn't a talk show for you to air your feelings about why you resent people who like interracial dating. Queenie it sounds like you have anger issues against women because your mommy didn't let you go out and play when you were little. What did she make you go to bed without dinner. lol. Get a life. You are the one who needs to get off of here. Your presence is pointless. At least PetiteChick has people on here who want her advice. She at least has some experiences that some can relate to and want to know about. Her presence is relevant and yours is not. You are not going to change the choices of women who choose to date white men or any other men for that matter. All you are doing is proving that we have a good reason for looking at other options. If you like black women or women at all for that matter go find one that you like and who can find it within herself to like you and be happy and content living your own life the way you think it should be lived. I still think that perhaps you need you a white woman to turn you out. Maybe then you will quiet down. But they probably won't have you either. As far as me being an enemy, I am no ones enemy on here. What, just because I come back and respond to insults made first against me or others. Queenie, even the haters are against you on here. This site is for people blogging about "why white men love the black women" There is no sense in you getting your underwear all crumpled up in a ball over that. I am sure they have a sight with stupid people like you who want to discuss why they think people shouldn't do what they feel shouldn't be done because they think that way. Stupidity is never ending.

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  40.   dannyco56 says:
    Posted: 08 May 10

    It seems that some in here have a control problem but some of the advice is valid whether dating darkskined or paleskinned American men. I think that those who come here looking for genuine interaction with paleskinned men can do so they just will have to navigate through all of the obstacles. You will probably find those paleskinned men out on the streets and in the stores as fast as you will in here. There are a few beautiful darkskinned women that have posted on this thread and any man would find you attractive.

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  41.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 08 May 10

    LOL Hannes You like the weave. I hear you. That is "a lot" of weave Hannes. That hair weave can fit two black women, maybe even three.

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  42.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 08 May 10

    That hairs are coooooooooooooooooooooooooool, sorry to say but you have no idea about fasion. I am from Europe, where all the fasion comes from and I ron down the catwalks in many countries, so I know what I am talking about.

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  43.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 08 May 10

    QQ at Friendly LOL is that right? WOW If I wanted Choc, she would have to change weave or get rid of that wig. From the picture she looks "Petite". LOL Looking like she got pubic hairs on her head. Mz Brown and Tatt I see you. LOL (Leaving out the door)

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  44.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 08 May 10

    Dear Petite You don't control this board. I am just letting you know that. You don't like white men. Why are you even here then? I know why I am here, because I dislike sellout black women. What fence are you on? DO NOT get me confused with other people here. I ain't Friendly, Hannes or Tatt. I have no idea why you are here. Since you here, you can get it too. I ain't your son. So you better take it easy! You have a nice day.

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  45.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 08 May 10

    @ ChocPrncess I read your comments and fully agree. I is ashame that others can say what they want but when we say something it has to be analyzed and criticized. Dont pay Queenie any attention. He is just mad because a beautiful black sister like yourself is out of his reach. You are a strong black sister who knows what she wants and doesn't accept anything outside of that. admire that. But my advice to you is to realize that there is not reasoning with Laurelton Queens. He is just here as a distraction. Of course he suggests that he is being paid to do so. Which I doubt, strongly. Anyway, I look forward to reading more of your insights.

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  46.   fitdiva2010 says:
    Posted: 08 May 10

    Wow! I was just parousing the site and found this foolishness. First of all, we as black people need to love ourselves before we love anynone else! As for you Ms Choc, you are a beautiful sista, yet so lost! Why is it that having a head full of naps is an issue for you! I have beautiful locs and have had them for two years now. It's not about what you have on your head it's about the content of your brain matter! @ Mr Laurelton, I am sorry but I think that you are acting like an ignoramus! I think it's quite odd that you will bash black women as sellouts for being on an interracial website. What's your black ass doing here, LOL! We are obviously on this site for the purpose of opening up the dating pool, is that not accurate? Ha! Please err on the side of caution, as it would make you look pretty stupid in this case. As for the bantering between Ms Petite and friendly, sistas it is quite sad, pitiful and downright unneccessary. Embrace your differences and disagree w/out the name calling as it is quite juvenile to do so. I am new to the site but I seriously question whether or not my time will be wasted attempting to build friendships with folks with these types of mentalities. Damn! I thought the dating scene in ATL was bad but this is outrageous! Just saying...SMH. Let's love ourselves first, leave the baggage in the past, and just breathe...Peace and love!!!!!!

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  47.   Scholar says:
    Posted: 08 May 10

    i dont get this, why is this 'petitechick' calling that other girl friendly13 crazy, when friendly only made about 3 posts, and petit has made an excessive amount of comments, instead of just letting it lie. In reply to the people bringing up the slave trade, I see where you come from but assuming you are christian, take a tip from god and turn the other cheek. Before it was white man's fault, but now by bringing up things that happened ages ago you are helping to keep the divide between races, instead of allowing us just to see each other as Man (instead of Black Man White Man). In short, in order to progress we must break the cycle and turn hate to love instead of to hate.

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  48.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 08 May 10

    @ Malarki @ 8:44p.m. Comment by Malarki5 on 7 May 2010: @ PetiteChick, the reason this white boy’s targeted you is because you’re one of only a couple of Black-identified Black woman to appear on this site. Think about it: he and your nemesis, friendly13, are loved up good. That should tell you all you need to know about certain types of white men. The type that seek out sex and/or relationships with amputee women, midgets, the mentally unstable and others with so many issues they have little option but to embrace the likes of Hannes. Worth a thought, eh? Menelik Charles London England ------------------------------------------------ I saw this the first time you posted it. I'm gonna take the FIRST advice you gave though. I'm done. I only came back in because my name was mentioned and folx posted to me. I think you recall that. Anyways, you enjoy........ C ya!!!

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  49.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 08 May 10

    @Laurelton 8:36p.m. Comment by Mr Laurelton Queens on 7 May 2010: Dear Petite Have I ever been hurt in a relationship? Sure, in my younger years. I wasn’t experienced in relationships until 19 years old. I got into a serious relationship at 20 years old. ----------------------------------------------- Please refrain from using my name in your posts and I will do likewise. I see no point in it. Especially if your present information that is not factual as it pertains to "me." Thanks.

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  50.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 08 May 10

    @Hannes 8:34p.m. @dumbassChick YOU ARE ONLY BOREING AS HELL!!! The question is not if you namend one sellout, the question is if I did it and I did not, I read the first time about that term when you brought me in touch with it and now please LEAVE ME ALONE ------------------------------------------------ OH HAPPY DAY! Now, we agree. YOU KEEP MY NAME OUT OF YOUR MOUTH and I will do likewise. Got it? Good! Good day.

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