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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    I have to give myself props on that I did get under your skin lol Seriously, some women just want a good man in their lives and don't matter if he is old and fat. I for one like a cute man does he have to be Brad Pitt in his younger days no? That's too "pretty" for me. A lot women aren't that into looks as much as men are and maybe that's the key. A guy can be fine as hell but if he has no personality or an unattractive personality, that makes him unattractive to me. And Queenie let me say this, I think if you just cut the bull with the sell-out black women stuff and just speak real talk, more people would take you seriously. Every once and awhile, you sound like you got some sense.

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  2.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    I ain't talking about you. I am talking about them damn sellouts that responding to a fat man's picture I put up. Trust me, if they are that desperate for a fat white man, I question their sanity. They can be my guest. At least a couple of sellout black women got "standards". See, you are trying to get under my skin. I would spank your redbone ass in Alabama! These women were no "Tyra Banks or Stacey Dash". Perhaps, I would be a little bit troubled if they were. I will have to apologize because I didn't know the level of desperation of sellout black women. This is very shocking to me. The ego of some sellout black women is simply amazing at times. It must be a new "trend. Old sellout black women talking about " Yea thousands of white men have seen my page". I thought Friendly only said this shit. I turn around, and I had 2 older black women say this on the phone to me. It is a great accomplishment to have white men look at your "personals page". LOL Yea, you went to the playoffs but you ain't win no NBA ring. Come back when you got a wedding ring. Then, I will say alright "you won". Oh yea, I am heading of town for the Floyd Mayweather fight. Also, working on my new album for blog. I don't even know what to name it. The White man Bailout album is coming too (Popular series). I got so much projects that I hardly have time to work on them. Eventually, I will branch out into radio and live streaming. I can cover more ground on the sellout black women bloggers that way. Right now, they black balling the black male bloggers. I talk to one of these sellout black women editors for a "popular newspaper". She was like " you coming to hard on it", her white bosses think it is a bit extreme". I told her "I don't even like the limelight". I just want to get my point across. I got several people that I can push already. The sellout black girl "Editor" is like " You will intimidate the sellout black women in debates". We don't want "thuggery". I got a degree in Sociology. I am a credible speaker. These stupid sellout black women make me sick. You can put a womanizer like Steve Harvey on a panel and Sherri ( I love abortions) on a panel. But you can't put me and one of my "people" on the panel. Anyway, I am okay with her, she got to "keep her job". Black men literally have to bully their way to the top. You can make money off the misery of black women. The black man try to get into this "arena". They don't want your point of view unless you are a Chicken George Negro. These media outlets "pimping" black women and their "struggles" in the dating scene. London can do his thing and others. You know what they won't open the door. I will just have to kick the door in. I am gone.

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  3.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    Why would I go outside my race to find fat and ugly? That's your perception. Put your pic up against fat boy's then come talk to me because my dear if they still WANT him then maybe the problem is you. :)

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  4.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    Dear Bama LOL Man, we ain't make you frustrated. You made yourselves frustrated. What you mean if they 'wanted a Brad Pitt" type? Are you telling me that sellout black women want an "homely white man? If that is the case, you are a damn disgrace. The desperation is "worse" than I thought.

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  5.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    I think it's funny you bragging about this which it should be sad to you because that's how frustrated some of these women are with some black men that they'd rather go with a fat older white guy, then a black guy. From the looks of it, seems to me they if they were looking for a Brad Pitt type, they wouldn't be flirting with a a picture of an old fat white guy.

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  6.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    (Listening to Bama) "@Queenie you laughing at some of these sistas is comical because basically these women would rather have a 400 pound white man over you;now THAT’s funny." Ah, nice comeback. I don't know if that is funny or sad. It could be actually both. My only thing with it. Don't try to hype the man like you got "Brad Pitt" on your arm. Sellout black women do have a 'vivid" imagination when it comes to describing their "mate".

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  7.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    @Petite I hope to see you around soon sista. Take care.

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  8.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    @Queenie you laughing at some of these sistas is comical because basically these women would rather have a 400 pound white man over you;now THAT's funny. Oh and is the so-called spanking you gave us, is that going into one of your 30,567 books "How I spanked these women on an Interracial Dating Site." LOL

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  9.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    Anyway, I am glad some of these old women are done talking. So I log into this site, My name is Laurelton. This is what I get in my email. Dear Laurelton, We wanted to let you know about some new members that have joined since you were last logged into your account. To be automatically logged in click here. MsCoco72 is a black 34 year old woman living in Texas, United States. She is 5'2"-5'6", has an athletic build and wants to meet men. douxcacao is a black 30 year old woman living in Texas, United States. She is 5'2"-5'6", slim/slender and wants to meet men. Tahjuana is a black 33 year old woman living in South Carolina, United States. She is 5'2"-5'6", has a large build and wants to meet men. Tanisha417 is a black 26 year old woman living in Pennsylvania, United States. She is 5'2"-5'6", a few extra pounds and wants to meet men. eureka26 is a black 26 year old woman living in South Carolina, United States. She is over 6'0", has an average build and wants to meet men. JEZZZY WHEEZY, Their can't be this many DESPERATE sellout black women. I put a fat white man's picture up too. Like 400 pound white man. They actually tried to flirt with his ass. CMON SON, (Like my nephew likes to say). Personally, I think all the white men "here" are laughing at your desperate asses. Shit, I would pull your panties down, spank it and never call you again. (Happened to Friendly, Tatt, and Bama) more than once. Y'all getting it on "with any old white man". How can white men respect that? What's up to E dub and Kingpin. I lost respect for you sellout black women EVEN MORE after this email debacle. I never log into this site. But this is damn disgrace how sellout black women throw themselves at white men. Then, get on here, and lie about it. Lastly, I don't discriminate when it comes to dating older black women. I might go out with a 48 year old black woman right now. She kinds of runs her mouth to much like Petite. I might overlook it because she got a big butt. Her "oddness" made me interested. (If oddness is a word). She is a bit delusional though. She plans to do modeling, singing and all this other shit at 48. Yea she might be a "Friendly" disciple. They simply don't live in "reality". Anyway, long story short, she goes on like Friendly about how sexy she is and etc. She said, she might do stripping. I said "HOLD UP". Stripping at 48 years old??????? She kind of realized that ain't sound right. I told her on the phone. "You know what, I will pretend you never thought about stripping at 48 years old. By the way, this is a true story. My friends laugh about it. I am starting to think white men date sellout black women for "entertainment". It is like going to the circus except you get sex out of it. I am going back to work.

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  10.   JackobTylor says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    I´m a white man from Czech Republic (Heart of Europe) my opinion in simply points: WM loves BW (i love them so muche), because they are more native woman, familiar, hot-blooded, wild and they respect a man. Many of my friends are WW and if i see how they are acting with theyr man I´m wondering to not be theyr boyfriend. WM is scared to contact a BW because of thous BW who shows that they like only BM (many of them). Many WM I know thinks that BW hates white people. Many of czech people thinks that BP feels that we are responsible for slavery and racism. But its nonsens because our nation never did anithing to anybody from other nation, race or culture. WM is scared to contact a BW because of her black brothers and fathers. Many WM i know thinks that a family of BW´ll kill em. One of my friends dated a BW but she can´t tell it to her father because he would kill em. Buts its normal for doughters. Sons can often take home whotever woman they want but doughters not. In my country are only a few BW and many BM... I wonder and houpe for some migration of black woman to the Czech Republick. Who try black, never go back

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  11.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    @Bamba my sistah friend. Sister I hear you and you make valid points. We are different in our approach to things, clearly. But trust, that you have provided me with sound advice and I hope that I have been able to do the same for you. Our discussions ranged from womanly issues, to Maxwell and so much more in between. You keep doing you, girl! I have no doubt that when and if I get back here on a full time basis you will have a nice story to tell of someone you have met. If I'm back here that will mean just the opposite for me, LOL. Dang it! My sistah friend!!!! YOU KNOW WHEN YOU WRITE, I RESPOND SO....If you happen to write again and I don't see it immediately please know that I am not ignoring you. I find this rude. I like to respond to people who speak to me. I GOTTA GO, GIRLIE! Best wishes........ PetiteChick

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  12.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    Hi E-Dub! LOL I didn't know you were late in a response to me. The stats I posted was because OtherBrother asked for them. Simple. As I have mentioned here before that any two people who can find love (intrinsic and not superficial are indeed lucky). LOVE is a relative term but if you're happy and you are with a Black woman, that makes me just that more pleased. You see, I DO want Black women to be happy. What I don't want is for them to be used. Peace and Blessings. *You don't have to respond* Everytime someone responds I feel obligated to reply, LOL. I'll read from time to time but it's for now I'm gonna go do some other things. Peace

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  13.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    @ tatted Well, I thought I was done for a lil while here, but you posted to me and I would be remiss of me not reply. Well, I see you were in lurk mode! LOL. Good….then you should also know then that I asked this young woman to leave me alone. I asked her more than once. This – stemming from some lie a White male came here to start. The derogatory remarks he made about Blacks and this young lady was about to fall for it hook line and sinker. That is when I intervened and told her he would probably be the type to use her (based on what he said). I went after HIM with a vengeance. In her defense! Don’t we as Black women have enough to deal with – without having to deal with people with not so honorable intentions? I think so. I did this because, I read her posts and how she talked about being hurt and mistreated by men. What female amongst us can say they have not? If you’re here, raise your hand and let me know how that went. *smile* The same holds true for me. We will love, we will lose, we make another go at it. Sister tatted, my opinion was not presented in the form of bashing of any one group. I stated what I firmly believe about inter-racial dating as it relates to White men and Black women on a grand scale. I arrived at this conclusion (for myself) based on a variety of factors. I didn’t bash White men I simply stated how I felt about relationship matters with them from a past perspective and taking into consideration what is currently happening to us in this country. Dating amongst Blacks and Whites has a long way to go. Further, I never once said it was not possible for the two races to find love amongst one another, but rather let’s take a realistic approach about it. If you have been reading along then you know I sated that I have dated White men, African men and Haitian men and African American men. And out of those categories it was the African American man who treated me with the most respect. Now, I didn’t say that to say all African American men are respectful; many are not, just as many other races and ethnicities of men. I could NEVER hold in high esteem another race of people over my own. No bashing, Black man hating here. I have Black children – what would that look like for me? I have Black male son, so why would I bash Black men and say they are this, that the other when I have done everything in my power along with his father and I to see to it that he is a well rounded African American young man. And indeed he is. To Bash Black men would mean I bash my own. That’s my humble OPINION…not gospel. And you are correct in the fact that no one wants his or her character to be assassinated. However, white men (who supposedly love Black women) told me “I hate you”, not that I care and I took them on too. What’s so petite about you? Fat. This coming from the fact that I simply disagree with their premises. None of this is warranted. It’s just that – a difference of opinion. In further evidence that many who claim to have such adoration over us don’t really. Mind you, this is because of my OPINION. Which I, and the rest of us here have a right to have. The negativity you speak of didn’t come from me. So, if you’ve been reading along then I think you will recognize that. Then from a fellow Black female (not sure of African American) but still considered Black in this country. Oh my….time after time, she kept coming making some of the most ludicrous statements to ever come from a stable minded person (that she appeared to be in the beginning). I chatted with others, we debated and sort of fussed, but that was it. Accusing me of trying to call attention to myself from white men, “dominating scenes.” I love to talk…..especially to my people. Anyone that knows petitechick well could tell you this. Meanwhile, the fact is I stated my opinion about my lack of desire to seek them out. accusing me of paying someone to come and flirt with me, making snide remarks about under garments and so on. One after the other. I’d say my piece to her and keep it moving. Here she comes again, and so on. If you don’t stand on your principles, why have any? I stand on mine and will not allow someone to attack me for the sheer fact that we disagree on a matter. Attack me for a valid reason. Not because of my opinion. We all have them and they don’t always align with the popular thing at the time. It’s just silly. I will not now, or ever cower or run and hide from challenge. Never. I’ve never done it and I don’t expect to do it now. Peace and Blessings to you.

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  14.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    E-dub....I really appreciate your post (love the "minority of one" thing....I might have to steal that one...LOL). With all due respect to boots (luv ya and have missed ya, dude), I think you hit the nail on the head by mentioning the "group responsibility" issue. I have always been on my soapbox about people being responsible for their OWN actions....not necessarily those of others around them. I mean, I totally understand the "sense of the community" but with most issues nowadays it can get a bit silly to try and hold to certain "codes". Especially when not everyone is on the same page, in that respect. (enjoying the CALM AFTER THE STORM) Peace

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  15.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    Wow-a-wee-wa.....LOL This is funny (deja vu all over again) yet so sad at the same time. Petite, whilst I don't agree with all your ideologies, I do respect your "fire" and spirit. And I love the tips that you gave Friendly (Although I feel there are MANY women of color that could benefit from that advice.....LMAO@the "creamy crack"). Friendly, I don't know.....that post that she is referring, was a little personal. But I also understand where YOU are coming from (frustration at the negativity in here, generally speaking). I am the last one to try and come in on the middle of a convo and try and "peacemake". But it just is a little disheartening. I had my go in this "thunder-dome" direction not too long ago, but through it all I maintained my sense of humor. I realized where and with what and whom I was dealing. My humble suggestion is that we (Christians and otherwise) realize that we are not perfect and ALL have ISSUES. Try and show some compassion first; follow that old cliche on how you would like to be treated. Other than that just come to grips with where you are here AND in your real life. If you have so much JOY in your real life, why spread the hatred here???? Just a thought for those that care to think. NO ONE likes to have their character put into question....no matter what the venue....no matter what they might pretend and say. It really is best to not get too personal here because in all honesty you DON'T know other party in that way. I HAVE LIVED AND LEARNED THIS. To all the strong-minded (AND IT SEEMS LIKE WE MAY HAVE FINALLY WEEDED OUT SOME THE WEAK ONES....LOL) women here, we DO have it in us to naturally respect one another and not see each other as the enemy/competition. Let's grow from that fact. (Petite, you definitely seem to be on to that program.....judging from your last few posts...... *smilez*) Peace and Blessings tatted2death

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  16.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    I just see no winner in this. I really don't. I see two women who have been hurt in the past by men taking out their frustrations on each other. And when Jesus was attacked, he didn't respond. He took it like a man because He knew in his silence he defeated his enemies. Sometimes we need to know when to hush and move on regredless of what someone says about us. I had to learn that lesson too. Sometimes it's not worth the fight.

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  17.   e-dub says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    Dear Petite Chick; Sorry the delayed response, I don’t have cause. I didn’t marry my wife (BW) because she is black but because she is an extraordinary woman and I’m lucky to have her in my life. If, I have cause it’s profound dislike for stupidity fortunately evolution has made that self correcting. Thank you for the stats, I hadn’t seen them before. I agree that the fastest growing stat is meaningless. I suspect it’s related to the historical prejudices against these relations. Dear Boots; No kidding, I don’t know what it’s like to a black man—never said I do. You see, I’m a little different than most people. I know that I’m a minority of one; I was born into this world a “Stranger in a Strange Land,” and only give pragmatic attention to what other people think and say. I love my wife and she loves me and that’s enough for me. As for what White people owe—just a word of warning a lot of people throughout history have tried to use group reasonability and it’s always ended badly.

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  18.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    @Bamba I understand what you say about having your person being attacked. They did that to Jesus Christ too! However, the difference here is that I will consider myself the victor because of my heart's intent. It is the motives that count. See, because I know what it was, what shaped this situation in that regard, I can stand firm and claim the victory! Indeed. I meant her no harm in my attempts to defend her when the man came in here and made derogatory remarks about Blacks as a whole. Because quite frankly I understand hurt just as she does. There is no one amongst us that can say they have not been or at least disappointed at one time in their life. With that said, she could have said "Petite" don't worry, I got this, or it's kool, and I would have left it that. Instead she chose the rough paved route. That's fine. My heart, my intentions make me the Victor! Can she say the same?

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  19.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    Dear Ich I thought that was odd too. Clearly, a hurt black woman. DEEPLY, hurt by men. I don't think she is a healthy choice for any relationship with ANY man. WOW

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  20.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    What was the point of bringing up her "disabled sons"? It's good she saved all of the posts to this point, so she can read them over and see how pitiful she sounds.

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  21.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    Petite I have had worse said about me but I come to realize doesn't matter what anyone here thinks of me, the only people who care about is God, my family and friends; what strangers think especially strangers who don't know me really doesn't matter. LIke i said there were no winners in my eyes, just a loss for both sides and another black eye on black women and blacks in general in our fight to try to get along

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  22.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 29 Apr 10

    @ Bambabelle, again I can not argue with your logic. I did say you were the sistah that makes sense (to me). There was nothing to be gained by an exchange of words, insults and innuendos. My character was assassinated so I felt the need to defend it. However, what was lost was the possible chance at two women of color who could have made alliances with one another despite our differences in opinion. Gain, no? There was never to be gain for me. I stated clearly why I was here. Loss, yes which saddens me at the state of Black women vs. Black women and us as a people. More like, sadness. I consider myself the victor because I have the truth standing behind me. Truth always wins. I'll be popping in and out. I am glad to have had the opportunity to have had discussions and laughs of all sorts with you. You, Ms. Bamba, ARE MY SISTAH! Peace and Blessings.

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  23.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 28 Apr 10

    LITTLE CONFUSED: Marlarki et. al Menelik (comment by, signed by)..... Anyway, I reposting this because I'm not sure who made the comment. Comment by PetiteChick on 28 April 2010: Malarki: Thank you for your concern. I do understand your point. Angry are the not the proper words to describe what I feel. I am outraged and disgusted. For the record, I didn’t threaten to go to her home. Verbal tango “I would, could kick your ass” not literally. However, if she were in the New York area and wanted to look me up I would take her on. LOL. It is enough that I won this verbal battle THAT SHE STARTED. I’d left the girl alone. Had not responded to her and continued my dialogues with others here. See, she does not like to be ignored, I think. Well too bad. The ISP thingy, well that CAN be done - you know this. Government does it all the time to track what people do on the internet. If I thought she was a real threat to me (which of course I don’t) all I need to do is call the officials and have ISP address located and sue her for harassment under Cyber-stalking laws. Her verbal tirades towards me are well documented here. However, I personally don’t have any ability to do such a thing. When I fight, I fight… LOL. If you gonna talk crap, back it up, stay and defend your position. It’s how I was taught. Was I supposed to crawl into a hole because “herself” was perturbed about my disagreement on the views of White men loving Black women? Hell no! I’m done with her. She’s no longer worth ANY amount of my time. I feel sorry for those who associated themselves with her, however. There really is something terribly wrong with her. You’ve seen the crazy stuff she writes. “She had it in” all because I ASSUMED she was a sistah with honor - I defended her. I am my sister’s keeper. I will always be. My blog (that’s supposed to be started) between everything else I’m doing…whew will have this tone. Nothing she or anyone else says to me will change that! Not here, another blog, forum or any other outlet to speak my mind. I’m Black FIRST. I believe today is the last day I can send emails. But I will be around from time to time. I have so much other stuff to do. I am preparing for my son’s graduation gala, amongst other things. I will be getting ready to take my walk as well and then I must prepare to sit for license testing. Since I don’t intend to re-up here (until I check out some other dating sites - hoping they got free trials, LOL), I’ll stick my head in from time to time. To say hello to you all. Thank you for your concern and the respect you’ve shown me here.

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  24.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 28 Apr 10

    I wasn't going to say anything but I have to speak; what did either one of you get out of this exchange? What did you gain Petite? And what did you gain Friendly? There was no money involved nor a man in sight so what was the gain? Both of you have children and what would they have thought seeing their mommas treat each other like dirt. We talk about how the white man has done us and the truth is, we wound ourselves even worse. I am so sad and disappointed at the both of you. Nobody "won" anything in this other then seeing two beautiful sistas beat each other up. I've said my peace, I'm going back to my writing.

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  25.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 28 Apr 10

    Malarki: Thank you for your concern. I do understand your point. Angry are the not the proper words to describe what I feel. I am outraged and disgusted. For the record, I didn't threaten to go to her home. Verbal tango "I would, could kick your ass" not literally. However, if she were in the New York area and wanted to look me up I would take her on. LOL. It is enough that I won this verbal battle THAT SHE STARTED. I'd left the girl alone. Had not responded to her and continued my dialogues with others here. See, she does not like to be ignored, I think. Well too bad. The ISP thingy, well that CAN be done - you know this. Government does it all the time to track what people do on the internet. If I thought she was a real threat to me (which of course I don't) all I need to do is call the officials and have ISP address located and sue her for harassment under Cyber-stalking laws. Her verbal tirades towards me are well documented here. However, I personally don't have any ability to do such a thing. When I fight, I fight... LOL. If you gonna talk crap, back it up, stay and defend your position. It's how I was taught. Was I supposed to crawl into a hole because "herself" was perturbed about my disagreement on the views of White men loving Black women? Hell no! I'm done with her. She's no longer worth ANY amount of my time. I feel sorry for those who associated themselves with her, however. There really is something terribly wrong with her. You've seen the crazy stuff she writes. "She had it in" all because I ASSUMED she was a sistah with honor - I defended her. I am my sister's keeper. I will always be. My blog (that's supposed to be started) between everything else I'm doing...whew will have this tone. Nothing she or anyone else says to me will change that! Not here, another blog, forum or any other outlet to speak my mind. I'm Black FIRST. I believe today is the last day I can send emails. But I will be around from time to time. I have so much other stuff to do. I am preparing for my son's graduation gala, amongst other things. I will be getting ready to take my walk as well and then I must prepare to sit for license testing. Since I don't intend to re-up here (until I check out some other dating sites - hoping they got free trials, LOL), I'll stick my head in from time to time. To say hello to you all. Thank you for your concern and the respect you've shown me here.

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  26.   boots says:
    Posted: 28 Apr 10

    @ kingpin78...... regarding your comments to Malarki5 on april 25 I've been reading Malarki5' posts and his understanding of the racial issues here on "this side of the pond " are profound....It is you, phil, e-dub , other brother and the rest of you white dudes that dont understand .Just because there might be a small% of blks who are direct descendants of slaves is pointless, as a group, blks were mistreated ,denied opportunity kept in poverty through social engineering ,murdered and raped by whites.So if Malarki5 has some hard feeling so be it,I share some of his antipathy too as do many other blk people who know of your history toward people of color around the globe.And when you make mention of your family that migrated from the former Czechoslovakia, making vodka etc. But when they made it to the shores of this United states immigrant or not, their status was better than a blk man in 1930.Please read your history white men! and understand this ,while this country was inviting whites from all over the world to come here, claim land and share of it's wealth she held Blk people in chains.Then you left all the wealth and land to your children and gandchildren.And they still have it, guess Iam just suppose to forget all that.....Phil.. you.. and all the rest of you guys can keep on loving blk women as you say (what you call love)what ever the attraction is ,I dont give a hot f@#k...But until white people repay what they have stolen from us through hundreds of yrs of slavery and jim crow...there can be no real love only some false perversion....all your so called love for blk women, bs......will it translate into social justice for blk people, in particular blk males,I dont think so b/c most white men dont want to deal with blk males ....Iam waiting

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  27.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 28 Apr 10

    I honestly think this is getting out of hand, I really do. Sista PetiteChick, please, I know yo're angry but let it go it just isn't worth it! I'm just translating all of yours and so-called freindly13's words into a street fight, and it doesn't look nice! Call it quits, Sista Petite. Thanks Bro Menelik Charles London England

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  28.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 28 Apr 10

    Look cheapchick....you don't scare me. If you come to my home I will protect my two disabled sons from you. You stay on your side of the street unless you want to be in court and/or jail. Trying to be bad and implement respect for your stupid handle is just going to get you in a world of trouble. I have saved all blogs up to this point and will continue to record them after today. I will make no more contact with you since you want to threaten physical harm on me and my children.

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  29.   Laurelton says:
    Posted: 28 Apr 10

    (Observing the conversation) Damn, she was harsh on "Ich". I wonder if she would be "friendly" to me? She wouldn't look "three" times in my direction. This got to be the baddest girl I ever met with 4 kids! It is like literally talking to Tyra Banks. I don't even think Tyra Banks is that mean. I remember 50 cents tried to holla at her. She said, she couldn't do her girl "Vivica Fox" like that. I got off track. I don't know if her ego could fit a "white man in her life". She said "thousands" of white men seen her. LOL Shit "hundreds" of black women saw me. That don't mean they "all want me". Epic fail of the day. LOL Jesus Christ lol

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  30.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 28 Apr 10

    I'm dealing with that ass now, Whatever you got going on with the Black men on here ain't my business. Don't make it mine! That's between YOU and them!

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  31.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 28 Apr 10

    MS TEEEEEEEEEEEEECHA: Who's gonna care for them babies of yours if you go to jail for harassing me about my opinion? No I don't think they'll throw you in jail you might be committed to the nearest mental institution which is probably worse.

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  32.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 28 Apr 10

    AS A MATTER OF FACT I MIGHT GET ON THAT ISP SEARCH RIGHT AWAY............. THE OFFICIALS WILL SEE YOU'RE A STALKER AND CRAZY PERSON BASED ON EVERYTHING YOU WRITE HERE. THERE IS ONE OBVIOUS WAY TO KNOW WHEN A PERSON IS CRAZY. THEY DON'T RECOGNIZE IT!!!!!!

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  33.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    DON'T RUN AND HIDE BITCH....STAY FOR THE NEXT ROUND. I will have your ISP traced!!!! And every bit of harrassment and name calling you've thrown at me FIRST, will my proof to have you thrown in jail or sued. Not that I'd get anything.

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  34.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    Look, you dumb hoe. You're delusional and need to get off the Board and get to teaching. EARN YOUR KEEP. I don't know how anybody can ever see your face cause it's all in the dark. I don't give shyt about how many men viewed your profile? Why you ain't GOT AT LEAST ONE BY NOW THEN? You still here though? You don't scare me either. I don't give a fly'n crap about you. IF I COULD MEET YOUR ASS I WOULD KICK IT FROM SUN UP TO SUN DOWN. AND HAVE YOU ARRESTED FOR HARASSMENT. PHUCK OFF DELUSIONAL BITCH. I DON'T WANT NO WHITE MAN - YOU DO. CAUSE I AIN'T LOOKING FOR ONE ALLOWS ME PLENTY OF TIME TO SIT HERE AND WRITE MANUSCRIPTS, MISSIVES AND ANY SHORT STORY I PLEASE. I DON'T HAVE TO WORK BIYATCH.....YOU DO. I WAS A FULL TIME GRAD STUDENT. I DON'T HAVE TO WORK!! You do - you got two jobs...... I DON'T HAVE ONE, CAUSE I GOT IT LIKE THAT. Stay right there with that tired ass line. YES, I'LL KICK YOUR ASS YOU DUMB BITCH. KEEP PHUCKING WITH ME AND I WILL HAVE YOUR ISP ADDRESS TRACED FOR HARRASSMENT. IT'S ALL RIGHT HERE, THE FIGHTS YOU PICKED WITH ME. IT'S HERE. THE PROOF IS IN THE PUDDIN. YOU RUN-A-WAY BITCH. YOU DON'T STAY TO TAKE ME ON. YOU PUNK OUT AND COME BACK LATER, YOU DELUSIONAL HOE. IF YOU WANT RICK WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL HIM ABOUT YOUR PRETTY DRAWLS........ YOU BEEN ANNOUNCING THAT TYPE OF SHIT UP HERE SO WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL EM YOU WANT HIS DYCK? STUPID HEIFFER. STAY AROUND....DON'T PUNK OUT BITCH.

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  35.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    Oh got mad did you.....Look chicken...you can come here and try to do something to me if you want to. Waste your time trying to make yourself feel pretty by trying to get attention from Rick. If you had it so good you wouldn't be on here 24/7 meddling in other peoples dating business about to get yourself put in jail for threatening physical harm that you can't even do without help. Ichibod is only saying ouch because he knows I wouldn't look twice in his direction. As far as needing someone to pay my bills bitch....no. I am not a hoe like you. That is why white men don't want you because you sit on here insead of working and making a productive living for yourself. Oh, I forgot you are probably retired. That is why you can get on here all day and write manuscripts. If you think you can beat me up you can always try honey since you are a cyber stalker. Then I can have your ass thrown in jail for battery and stalking you angry bitch. The advantage you would have is that I wouldn't recognize you without all that make up on your face. The only people who read this blog anyway are people like you who don't like women like me. I have had over 10,000 white men looking at my picture, bet you can't say that. There is nothing you can do to change that. If you keep on bothering me you can wind up in court or jail. You need to just go home and sit down somewere. If I have enough grounds, I can file a charge and have all your information released from this site to have a restrainin order put against you with the information that I have from your blogs threatening me. Do your ghetto mess and try to make yourself feel young again. What you need to do is get yourself a man (any color man).

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  36.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    @ whoever, sista PetiteChick makes angry seem sooo sexy...when you're NOT the object of it lol Menelik Charles London England

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  37.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    Friendly said: I am slow to move to the intimate level with any man because of everything I have been through. I always had the black men’s back until I realized that they did not have mine. Now I am open to the white brothers. I like them. Menelik asks: and could you once again remind us as to the EXACT reasons…point-point, and with the UNDERLYING reasons in brackets, please. Friendly13 said: 1) I have to ask why I’m reserving myself for only black men when they are not reserving themselves for me? (Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me!) 2) It’s likely that I will be asked to get married by a white man than a black man because many black men do not appreciate black women anymore. (Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me!) 3) I am not going to down white women any more because black men tend to prefer them. (Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me!) 4) I have learned a hard lesson. I have learned that I should open my choices up instead of closing them. (Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me!) 5) We have been left by black men for white women in past relationships. (Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me!) 6) Instead of us crying and feeling bad about ourselves we should consider white men who like us… (Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me!) Menelik replies: it seems as though everything you do in life is because a Black man rejected or abandoned you i.e. rejected you for a white woman or abandoned you with a kid. I mean, think about it; you have stated in the clearest possible terms above from 1-6 that you ARE Black men’s reject! You can put a romantic aura around white men as much as you like, darling, and falsely present yourself as a martyr to racial intolerance like Romeo & Juliet - but it simply will not work: you are Black men’s reject! A simple fact which you cannot tolerate and which I have defiantly exposed to all here! Good Morning America! Menelik Charles London England

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  38.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    Ouch!!

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  39.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    @friendlyhoe REMEMBER THIS BITCH, unless you own this site you can't make me go nowhere. Have your discussion. There are other opinions to be heard. And last I checked my 4th amendment rights (Ms. teeeeeeecha) are still in affect. Stupid teecha too. DUMB teacher it's your FIRST amendment rights. You din't tell me nothing chica, you sound like bamba! Is that why she disappears when you come here and vice versa? Nah, I won't believe it. Stupid teacher too talking about 4th amendment rights. stupid teacher don't know the constitution of the united States. I looked at your profile to get goods on you bitch. We're fighting remember? This how it's done. Since I can't wipe the floor with your ass, I use other resoures which means by any means necessary. Can't stand the heat get the phuck out da kitchen...... I WILL BE RIGHT HERE. HAVE YOUR DISCOURSE. I'M LIVING IN AMERICA and nothing YOU say or anybody else say's will stop me from coming here. If you believe what you do so fully and have no fear of reprisals from White men (cause they do love you so much) then nothing I say should keep them from you. I'll look where the phuck I want to look too, but it dayumed sure ain't looking at your run down shack all up in the dark. You must need somebody to help you pay your bills. You silly hoe, Bring it... Chica.....

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  40.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    I'll be back with more for your dumb ass tomorrow. If you start with me. Just cause I ain't paying for this site doesn't mean I can't post. I asked people on here about this before, thinking that when your subscription runs out you get a new persona just to post. But I see that it is not necessary. I have 2 days left...I ain't desperate and won't be changing my profile to ask men to write to me in order to stay in touch with me. T A C K Y! But I will re-up maybe. Maybe I won't. Until then, I'll be here writing to your ass as long as you come at me wrong. And when I re-up (if I do) I'll be right here as long as this forum is up and your silly ass is still here.

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  41.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    She gets upset that I'm even here. Cause she thinks that I'm running White men away from the forum that might want to talk to her and other women on here of like mind. She has accused me of trying to control the scene to draw attention to myself from the white men. The fact is that since my arrival I have come out and stated my opinion that White men are not my cup of tea right now, and they were not a choice for me. In addition, I stated why. Which is that I don't think they're that into us just yet. You even said so yourself, that by probably 2020 things may improve on that front, but it's not the case right now. I didn't tell her or anybody else not to look. Just said be cautious and don't get hopes up too high. OMG, you would have thought I was stealing somebody's gubment cheese. LOL. I have just as much right to my opinion as she does. She has called me all kinds of names, so have white men here because of my OPINION, which has no bearing on what they want or do. It's either this trick is crazy or she is a different persona of another person that comes here to stir up trouble. Not sure, trying to observe patterns here.

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  42.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    @ Paula here's what she said several days ago which caused a major showdown..... Comment by friendly13 on 24 April 2010: Petitechick: You claim that I have lied on you and called you out of your name…..That is why a whiteman will never stick with you or a black one for that matter because you keep up too much unneccessary drama. The only two people that I really had it in for was Queenie and menelike and now this ichibod. You got into it all on your own. You are mad because I am right about you. All you are doing is trying to dominate the scene here. Perhaps you think that will help you be more noticed by whitemen. But since there are few whitemen on the blog, I guess that is a futile mission. So you would rather help Queenie, Ichibod, and Menelik run them away. You will try to run me away but it will not work. White men do love black women who are lovable and don’t have to wear huge wigs and two pounds of make-up with a nasty drag queen attitude. I know you will try to comeback with some mess because you know am telling you right. And why would I try to school someone who is old enough to be my grandmother.

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  43.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    @ Paula friendly13 Read her for a good laugh, seriously....I'm dead serious.

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  44.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    Whispering in his ears...my magic potion for love...telling him, I'm sincere and that there's nothing too good for us, I just got to be free.... Freee Freee Freeeeeee I just want to be free SING THAT TO YOUR BOO.

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  45.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    Just in case college educated friendlyhoe13 didn't know she can't have no children either at 42. The chances of a woman producing healthy babies after the age of 35 decreases dramatically. You more damned kids? What you want a football team? I don't want no more chilrins......I have two adult ones. I don't want the burden of lil ones no mo. I am FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE And I just got to be free...free, free as sung by the beautiful Deniece Williams

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  46.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    Comment by paula99 on 26 April 2010: that is so funny.. about rick they need to shut the sex sites down.. dont you pay for it.. you know he is a low life bum. --------------------------- The crazy chick friendly13 thinks I paid him to come on here and give her attention. A white man I'm taking from her. Teeheeehheeeeheeeheeeheee C'mon is this pathetic or what? Have you ever in your life Paula? Pay a mofo to come talk to me? On a website to do what? Impress who? This is the grandest old shyt I've ever seen. I'mma copy and paste her whole post cause I think something's wrong with her and she's unstable.

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  47.   paula99 says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    petite chick... who are you venting at.. who is this girl? with bipolar issue?

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  48.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    Honestly I don't know why I bother wasting my time with you. Your are really pathetic and should be ignored. Really. I am amazed cause I have never quite seen or read anything quite like you. I might suggest you as a case study to one of my professors. Lordy. I almost feel sorry for you. At times I do, but then you phuck it up and make it hard for somebody to know where you coming from. That's why I was ignoring you. You're strange....... Girl, all I got to say is you need to seek some help. I hope you do before the men on here take advantage of you. Unless that's what you want. Oooops, I forgot that is what you want. *shaking head* and thinking about praying for friendlyhoe13..........

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  49.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    People be mad? Why they mad at her? PERSECUTION.... I DETECT SOME DELUSIONS OF GRANDEUR AS WELL, BUT MOSTLY PERSECUTION.... I tell you girl, I be working them hips, they look much better than they were when I was 23 (said she) What your hips be doing girl?

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  50.   paula99 says:
    Posted: 27 Apr 10

    that is so funny.. about rick they need to shut the sex sites down.. dont you pay for it.. you know he is a low life bum.

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