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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   kingpin78 says:
    Posted: 26 Apr 10

    another comment....on the reoccurring theme on here..."white men pick black women last"...i keep hearing it over and over. On a grand scale, I cannot disagree with that. As much as it is increasing, its still the rarest form of interracial dating. Thats just my opinion obviously, based on observation...and I have been all over America, and I been all over Canada...been to Mexico, South Africa, Zambia, and the U.K...London....(hi Menelik Charles)...so you can say I have a pretty broad perspective....and I will tell you WHY (in my opinion) it is still the rarest form. Because there are sooo many white men that would love to be with a black woman, but dont make an attempt to pursue it for the simple fact that they just assume that black women only want a black man...im sure i'll get disagreed with, but thats just my opinion...now this leads me right into my next topic of discussion. Now WHY are there alot of white men that love black women. Now let me touch on what the title of this blog started as. Obviously, I cant answer this question for every white man. I can answer it for me. Why do I love black women. I think for me, growing up, it was like black women were exotic to me. Just like a lot of things in life, the more rare it is, the more desirable it is. Like a car for example. Your average white girl was my Honda, and an average black girl was a Lexus. So classy and stylish.....you see. I grew up in one of the "whitest" part of America. Northern Vermont is where I was born and raised. In my town it was very rare to see any black person. So therefore black women became very desirable and I developed a deep attraction for bw....ok, thats all I got. Just wanted to share that with everybody....PEACE

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  2.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 26 Apr 10

    @bamba @Phil to use a 70’s term, RIGHT ON!!!!!!! you are the type of man I was telling one of the other ladies about to look for in a white man. Someone who actually just loves and appreciates sistas, not someone who just looking for a good time. --------------------------------------------- Exactly Bamba, Black women want to be loved. Why is this so hard to fathom?

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  3.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 26 Apr 10

    Actually Petitechick I can, but I am not trying too. I have dated men from here and we are still friends. You are so nosey.... Word to SUSANE...girl you are so right in your statements. It made the haters so mad that they have tried to overshadow your comment with negetive nonsense as usual. But you are so right. Although I can't bash every single brother in the world, there is a trend among those black brothers who go white girl excusive who bash us and get some of the white women against us. They are just doing that to keep them in bondage so that they will not find out the truth from us that they only find out later on. That is when they call the cops and have them thrown in jail. lol.

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  4.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 26 Apr 10

    @Hey Lady, I think I caught the gest of what you were saying. :) Still if you want you feel free to hit a sista up. I've gotten to the point with some discussions on here that it ain't worth the battle sometimes. @Phil to use a 70's term, RIGHT ON!!!!!!! you are the type of man I was telling one of the other ladies about to look for in a white man. Someone who actually just loves and appreciates sistas, not someone who just looking for a good time. @Kingpin, forgot to say hey to you. Edub, didn't want to leave you out,like what you got to say too. I appreciate the white dudes who actually do love and appreciate black women and aren't afraid to admit it and aren't afraid of those who may question it.

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  5.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 26 Apr 10

    Comment by Phil on 25 April 2010: Been listening to this crap since I was a kid. I’ve always loved Black Excellent! However your relationship is in the minority. The facts are that there are more BM/WW couplings than the reverse. I stated this fact and was pounced upon like I stole someone's government cheese. No one disputes that these relationships exist. But we must face the fact that America has still a long way to go in the race department. We do. Look at our country today. Unless you are hiding behind a rock you know that the divisions amongst the racists (particularly Black and White still exist on a grand scale). Someone told me that when we elected the first Black President, that we have come of age and we have made progress. Hardly, racial tension on the uptick. Your special relationship with your wife is not as commonplace as the other scenario I just mentioned. Hopefully it will change. But it won't change until people deal with one another honestly. I say that because I don't believe many White men are honest about what they REALLY want from African American women. Many are curious (lots actually) and there are other reasons as well. Blacks (women) are viewed as "masculine" by societal standards, aggressive, not the standard of beauty at all. I'm sure you know this to be true. Ignoring facts won't change our situation. Finally, just cause you believe it don't make it true.

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  6.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 26 Apr 10

    @kingpin whats goin on everybody??…all you crazy phucks… The crazy phucks you speak of happen to be African American. Does that make us even in the y'all, them, they department?

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  7.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 26 Apr 10

    Hi Bamba, Waving at ya! No worries..I think you got the gist of that dialogue that was taking place yesterday, right? Good to see ya. I'm sorry too that I can not get along with friendly13. This was a closed topic as far as I was concerned but she took it there. In one of my very last emails to her during our first round, I told her - look we don't have to talk. *clue* you don't bother me, I don't bother you. She's insistent. I prefer to have laughter and jovial discussons (as we were doing - until she came in and spoiled it). Placing her insecurities on me, based on my own opinion. You have yours, you are firm in your position, I don't have a problem with that. She has hers, she is firm in her position I can respect that, but that's got nothing to do with me. Why she felt the need to treat me as though I'm inconsequential with air of haughtiness is beyond me. No one is above another. Especially not her.

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  8.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Kingpin: You are wrong in your assertions. Your assumptions are wrong. Typically most people's are. I have had to learn that the hard way - yet AGAIN, right here on this forum. I am not a racist. Far from it. My son and I live in an extremely diverse party of NYC and he has friends of all races (that he went to school with) who are welcome in my home. In addition, I have a former boss of Irish descent who I look upon as a father figure when there was a time he saw a need for me to earn additional money immediately after my divorce. It was he who gave me the opportunity. What I discuss here about the African American experience is factual and quite frankly most often misconstrued in the history books. Everything I stated was true. Please don't insert yourself into a conversation about the African American experience just because you may date or have married a Black woman. We are not monolithic people. My problem at this current time is the following: I AM OF THE OPINION THAT THE INTENTIONS OF WHITE MEN TOWARD BLACK WOMEN ARE LESS THAN STELLAR. I am entitled to my opinion. I ENTERED THIS FORUM SPACE TO OFFER MY OPINION ON IT and had discussions back and forth with different women on the topic. I am cordial with one who prefers White men (Hey Bamba)!!! I simply disagree with her in this regard. She respects me, I respect her opinions. What I will not tolerate is for two people to disagree and begin name calling and mud slinging. I can do that. I prefer not to, and asked this individiual in an earlier series of emails to her to let it go. She has chosen not to. That was her choice. She should be held accountable for what she says. It is my intention to see that she does since it relates to me. No one has to agree with my assertion (based on my observations on this dating site, and my other life experiences having dated other cultures which include white men). SORRY, we must deal with others' opinions. However when expressing your opinion being called a liar, fat, ugly, drag queen, and the like, are not what I call a descent discourse. In such circumstances, I stand ready to defend myself and my position. These are the names that have been leveled at me because I don't "get" what everyone else gets. Last time I looked this was AMERICA. And I have freedom of speech and freedom of opinion and the ability guaranteed by the consitution to express it. This does not warrant blatant name calling. Such as "what's so petite about you? I hate you?, etc. I can speak to how others who handles such situations, but alas you see how I handle it. That's not something YOU should concern yourself with. Dominating: Hmmmm, well now let's see how that goes? I am an assertive individual and I don't take too keenly to folk I reach out to, (especially a person of color such as myself) talking to me like I'm a child. So...you've read the posts....You should know then what this stems from. "They, them, y'all refers to White men in the context of the individual I have a dispute with. It's got nothing to do with you. Nor does it have anything to do with Caucasian people in general. So...your assumptions are incorrect. Again, like I said people on the outside looking in typically assume incorrectly. Peace, kingpins.

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  9.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @Petite hey chile, what's up? It's a beautiful day here was about to fix some din din, decided to check up on the board today. Hey Friendly, hope all is well with you. I hate you two ladies aren't getting along at the moment because I really enjoy your both. :) Anyway Petite(and Friendly for that matter) I have two ID's on here I think the other one is Bamabelle2000 or either Bamabelle2k9. I couldn't remember one so ended up having to get another ID. Anyway, if you can't find me, I use the first one on yahoo mail so feel free to hit me up there.

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  10.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @ Petite's silly self: The first one I stopped in thus far: Can we shelve race? Out of the 25 people who have responded in that thread there are only 5 Caucasian individuals who have participated. And not all 5 are White. ---------------------------------------------- That don't make no sense! LOL. Out of the 5 who participated in this discussion five were White, however not all five were males. See friendly you make my blood boil. I hope when you show your ass up in here you don't make one or two posts and then cart your ass off somewhere to make a remark at me when I leave. Punk stuff to do. STAY YOUR BUTT RIGHT HERE, let's DO THIS. Where you at? I've been on and off this site all day JUST FOR YOU. Woman up!

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  11.   kingpin78 says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    whats goin on everybody??...all you crazy phucks... I just read a week's worth of posts....time to throw my two cents in. Queens...whats crackin?...really great post you did bout 5 or 6 days ago. You was talkin about white teachers working at "inner city" schools...was very cool...many good points you made. Friendly....Bama...whats good Ms Petite, how are you today?...you be runnin shyt on here lately..:)...couple things for you young lady. I would never say anything negative to you and please dont consider this an argument. Just a friendly discussion between adults...first of all, why do you constantly constantly refer to white ppl as "they" or "them" or "the likes of you"?..like we are are a different species or something..lol..its ok, I understand you have a very deeply rooted hatred for white people, that goes back generations. You probably wont admit it, but it is painfully obvious. And in a weird way, I almost dont blame you. I aint mad atcha. I respect you. I have a deep respect for what your ancestors had to put up with, or what you have to put up with for that matter...But it seems to me that your whole perception of white men is mainly based from your dealings with white men on dating websites. Wow you sure are dealing with the "cream of the crop" there...lol...that is not and should not be used as an accurate assessment of all white people. I just hope you dont think all white guys are like the ones you have dealt with. There are plenty of white guys out there that are cool as shyt...like me..(holding chest out)...:)...So dont let the bad ones steer you wrong...I hope you have a nice day Petite..and I hope you didnt take anything i said to you the wrong way..I mean absolutely no harm...I am your friend. Menelik Charles...good day mate...couple things for you sir...response to a quote from you on a post April 21:.... "I’d find it excruciatingly humiliating pursuing a race of women my ancestors were enslaved to! Especially in a complex, race-conscious society like the US." my response: there is no doubt you know about racism and probably experienced it in one form or another, but how much do you really know about racism that occurs here in the States other than what you see on tv. It is a whole other ballgame here on this side of the pond...and also, please dont hold all white people accountable for slavery, like now you have a deeply rooted resentment towards white people, when there is probably a very very small percentage of people that are direct descendants of slave owners. If you must know, my family/ancestors migrated from Czechoslovakia in the early 1930's. So my ancestors were in Eastern Europe making vodka...lol.....oh and stop tryin to make Friendly13 feel bad about her choices in life...blah blah blah..black men dont want her, black men dont want her...ok ok, we get it....she had to "settle" for white men...(rolling eyes)...how you think that makes me feel? whatever you wanna think dude, ya bloody wanker.....oh, one more thing. Other than a little disagreement here and there, you seem like an awfully smart cat, and I always look forward to reading one of your posts. Well after only goin on here once a week, there are like a hundred things I wanted to respond to, but I wont.....You all have a great day/night/evening....PEACE

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  12.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @ e-dub CORRECTION: I am of the firm belief that a great deal of Caucasian men who claim to be attracted to African American women are not, and are simply attempting to do so on a "trial basis," curiosity or simply just sex. Additionally, the ranks of BW/WM relationships, may be growing, but they are not at the levels some Black women believe. That is the synopsis of this discussion at this time, and has been for quite some time since my arrival here as a voice of dissent.

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  13.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @friendly 13 of the 131 posts on Dating and the Black man, I have counted 5 White men who offered an opinion. Only one stayed to stand his principle. So, I ask, how can I be the cause of White men not participating in these forum discussions? Why are they not here, there or any of the rest with similar topics? PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE AND STOP SCAPEGOATING ME. If you need treatment, I would recommend bio-feedback as a way to rid yourself of your delusions of persecution. You do have them. It is not uncommon in this country and there is help for them.

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  14.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    e-dub Have you stayed to fight your cause in a particular forum? That's the point I'm getting at. Good for you that you have stayed to defend your choice of Black women. However, unfortunately, the tone of this thread (at the current time) is one you will not appreciate as a White man. I am of the firm belief that the majority (not all) are dating Black women for SOME of the reasons Black women believe. I don't think it's impossible, nor do I think it does not occur. THE FACT OF THE MATTER IS THAT IS NOT ON A GRAND SCALE. These are facts that can not be denied. Additionally, my preference is not Caucasian men. To each his own...but back to the nature of the posts. In my attempt to defend a fellow African American female against a white guy who came here and made derogatory remarks about Black women, I interjected on her behalf. She is of the belief that so many White men love Black women. Of course, all this being relative. She accuses me of trying to keep White men from her by taking up space here with my opinion. When in fact, I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO MY OPINION, as she has her own. She further has done an injustice by not recognizing that I was attempting to defend her honor. Instead she claims I am the cause why white men are running from this forum topic. Me and the likes of others who disagree with her premise. These forum spaces are for the purposes of expressing opinions. I have mine and there is no way I will allow her or anyone else drive me a way anymore than I would attempt to do them. Having said that, thanks for your comments. BTW, please feel free to answer my first question. Which was: HAVE YOU STAYED IN THE MIDST OF A DISCUSSION TO DEFEND YOUR CHOICE?

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  15.   e-dub says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Dear PetiteChick; I am one white man who does have a preference for black women (and in particular my black wife). I don't often comment but occassionaly I do. One reason, I don't comment is quite often a white person in a group of black people is damned if you do and damned if you don't so I make sure the potential grief is worth it. Please count me in as a person who loves black women and has stuck around the site for a while. Another side issue: check out the episode of Dr Who on BBC America. I love the character of Queen Elizabeth the X -- boo-yah!

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  16.   Phil says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Been listening to this crap since I was a kid. I've always loved Black women. Fell in love with a Black nurse when I was 5 years old in the hospital. Asked her to wait for me ...LOL. Married to a beautiful Sistah for 20 years (she is now happily married to another white man) and we are still great friends. My children are the light of my life. They are grown and doing very well thank you. I tell them to be with who they love, whatever race, religion, color or creed. Dating outside your race is not about denying your background nor excaping from it. It is about what you desire. If I wanted white women, that's what I'd have, or any other race etc. you could name. I date Black women. They are what I desire. I love the look, the attitude, the strength that exudes from them. Other women can be just as strong, but I'm stuck like chuck on Sistahs. You all can argue till doomsday, but I'm gonna be with who I want as long as they want me back. I'd rather be alone for ever than with the wrong woman. Ya'll keep yangin' but ya ain't changin' nuttin'!! Peace.

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  17.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @ friendly Black women have no option (forum discussion) Of the 200 posts I was able to view, I counted 6 White men who interjected their opinions on Black women. Only one stayed to keep his point (one who does not prefer Black women). Again, the majority of the topic discussion is being discussed by Blacks. Why are they not prolierating boards and sticking to their principles as lovers of Black women (you)?

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  18.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    I've perused the other forum topics: The first one I stopped in thus far: Can we shelve race? Out of the 25 people who have responded in that thread there are only 5 Caucasian individuals who have participated. And not all 5 are White. More to come.... Why are they not proliferating these boards and sticking to their principles as lovers of Black women?

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  19.   boots says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Greetings to all.......@... the susan chick,regarding your april 24 comment,please tell us more on why blk men are so terrible....I think we got another blk men hater on this site.Tell us more.... how we are(blk men) the scum of the earth, right..etc etc...lol

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  20.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    TYPING SO FAST: HER PROFILE SAYS she wants friends..... sorry for the typos. This drag-queen, make up wearing grandma can type too fast sometimes. YOU WOULDN'T LEAVE THINGS BE, FRIENDLY. YOU KEEP IT ROLLING.... GET YOUR ASS UP!

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  21.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    I am slow to move to the intimate level with any man because of everything I have been through. I always had the black men’s back until I realized that they did not have mine. HER PRPFILE SAYS SHE WANTS FRIENDS. (We all know what that means): PETCHICK KNEELING:' I DO HEREBY PROMISE TO NOT RUN AWAY POTENTIAL DYCK FOR FRIENDLY13. I DID NOT REALIZE SHE WAS IN SEARCH OF SUCH. HAVING THIS NEW KNOWLEDGE, I SHALL REFRAIN FROM 'RUNNING HER MEN AWAY.'

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  22.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @friendly: Anderson Indiana: Population profile Races in Anderson: • White Non-Hispanic (80.9%) • Black (14.9%) • Hispanic (2.1%) • Two or more races (1.4%) • Other race (0.9%) • American Indian (0.8%) Out of all these damned white men in Anderson you can't find NOT ONE. NOT ONE? The outnumber Blacks by far. Is this your way of reaching out to them? You can't use the net "only" to look for a man. Sway them hips you claim you got, strut your stuff in the grocery aisles (if you shop); get giddy with em in the face at your work. Try other websites..... Don't you ever in your 42 year old life tell me the reason they not flocking to YOU is because of ME. Get your ass up!

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  23.   malarki5 says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Here’s what I wrote below. Please note my suggestion that certain aging, single, and/or child-burdened Black women on here get off their arses and go seek their ‘white Knights’ in the real world Menelik said on 19th April: My view is that if there are so many compatible, attractive, white men out there willing treat Black women with such delicacy and grace, then why the hell are they on an anonymous dating site searching for said men? It makes no sense! ‘Good’ Black men are apparently scarce while ‘good’ white men are in the abundant millions. For heaven’s sake, girls, get out there, flutter your eyelids, fix that smile and make yourself available! Surely, you don’t need to be on this site warring with daddy substitutes at your ages, do you? Friendly13 said 20th April: The reason that there are not a lot of white men wasting their time on this site is the same reason that I like them. They want to date black women and so they are spending their time finding black women who want to date them on here instead of wasting their time on this blog. Menelik replies: see how this individual has translated what SOME may interpret as white male passivity to intervene, like ‘white knights’, to defend their choice of women into men with swagger prowling the ghetto streets and downtown offices searching for their ebony queens? My original question to the likes of this rampaging fruit bat, was why wasn’t she out their making herself available to this endless stream of suitable white hunks rather than being on this blog beating up on Black daddy substitutes? But as usual my question wasn’t answered; and it will NEVER be answered as the answer require is SIMPLE.. but therein lies the problems! Can I get an answer? Menelik Charles London England

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  24.   malarki5 says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    friendly13 said: I am slow to move to the intimate level with any man because of everything I have been through. I always had the black men's back until I realized that they did not have mine. Now I am open to the white brothers. I like them. Menelik asks: and could you once again remind us as to the EXACT reasons…point-point, and with the UNDERLYING reasons in brackets, please. Friendly13 said: 1) I have to ask why I’m reserving myself for only black men when they are not reserving themselves for me? (Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me!) 2) It’s likely that I will be asked to get married by a white man than a black man because many black men do not appreciate black women anymore. (Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me!) 3) I am not going to down white women any more because black men tend to prefer them. (Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me!) 4) I have learned a hard lesson. I have learned that I should open my choices up instead of closing them. (Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me!) 5) We have been left by black men for white women in past relationships. (Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me!) 6) Instead of us crying and feeling bad about ourselves we should consider white men who like us… (Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me!) Menelik replies: it seems as though everything you do in life is because a Black man rejected or abandoned you i.e. rejected you for a white woman or abandoned you with a kid. I mean, think about it; you have stated in the clearest possible terms above from 1-6 that you ARE Black men’s reject! You can put a romantic aura around white men as much as you like, darling, and falsely present yourself as a martyr to racial intolerance like Romeo & Juliet - but it simply will not work: you are Black men’s reject! A simple fact which you cannot tolerate and which I have defiantly exposed to all here! Good Morning America! Menelik Charles London England

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  25.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    I ain't got one yet. Was waiting to finish my semester's studies. I'm done and will be doing that. Mind you I have no clue about how to do it. I use Flock so, will that help? It has a blog creator within the browser. And yes, just like stated before it will be directed at why Black women can't get along with one another for the back-biting and backstabbing we do amongst one another in the name of MEN..... Gotta get my son's friend over here to help me. I ain't that technologically saavy! LOL. That's a southern thing I think "trollop." (Not sure though) I got southern roots mane....

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  26.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Dear Petite Give me the link to your blog. Did you say Trollop lol? That is taking it "way back". Speaking of Trollops, it is getting warm and the black trollops are looking sexy. And they say I never have anything nice to say about black women. Good day

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  27.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @FRIENDLY GET UP STRUMPET!

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  28.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    YOU WANT friends. That explains why you defend men looking for coochie only. Friends with bennies. You aint got no exes or nothing you can hook up with? Gotta be careful about dang-a-lang swinging men. Make em wrap it up or you'll be preggers again. What an awful thing that would be for you with 4 kids @ FORTY-TWO.

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  29.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @ friendly Stay right there you trollop! I'm gonna be on your butt like white on rice. Keep talking shyt. You 42 and up here telling I'm old enough to be your grandmother. I guess I would be if your started having them babies @ 8 years old.

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  30.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @friendly Comment by RICK HAYES on 24 April 2010: OLDER BROTHER, I would love for a black woman to come to me with the heavy intention of making love one day after another ******************* THEN Comment by PetiteChick on 24 April 2010: Listen: Rick Hayes Your type is the very reason I have mistrust for some White men. You think Black women are pieces of meat, you want to try us on for size, not because you care about us. Get out of here. You troll all the forums doing this. I’ve seen you. You probably one of them dang-a-lang slingers that good Black women don’t need. Get a clue…get out of here. There are loads of sex sites - but you better hurry cause gubment fix’n to shut em down. Get on over there and your freak on cause you won’t get it here. Uuuughhhhhh. Better yet, ride up and down your local haunt to get you a trick. Ain’t no tricks in here. Whatsamatter? Don’t wanna pay for it? Stank fool. ---------------------------------------------------- This what you referring to when you say I "run them away?" Hehehehehehehe. OK, then, I see, but so did bamba: Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 24 April 2010: Rick my love, if all you want is sex more then go to a sex website. Most of us are looking for a boyfriend and or husband not a piece of white dick. LIKE I SAID YOU EITHER SLOW ON THE UPTAKE OR JUST WANNA PHUCK WITH ME. BUT WE CAN DEFINITELY DO THAT. AND I'LL WHIP THAT BEHIND WORD FOR WORD!

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  31.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @bamba: Girl I looked for you to send you an email about yesterday, couldn't find you the system. I wanted to explain what I was doing *Psychology?*

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  32.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @friendly: Comment by friendly13 on 24 April 2010: Petitechick: You claim that I have lied on you and called you out of your name….. SO BECAUSE YOU'RE A LIAR A WHITE MAN DON'T WANT ME? HOW DOES THAT WORK AGAIN? YOU ARE A LIAR. That is why a whiteman will never stick with you or a black one for that matter because you keep up too much unneccessary drama. I SEE YOU'RE KIND OF SLOW ON THE UPTAKE TOO SIS. I WROTE THOSE POSTS (ABOUT YOU) ONE RIGHT AFTER THE OTHER AND YOU APPARENTLY DIDN'T READ THEM. IT'S A SAD THING WHEN BLACK FOLKS DON'T READ. YOU MADE NO MENTION OF THEM UNTIL YESTERDAY. I THOUGHT YOU'D READ EVERYTHING I HAD TO SAY. I TOLD YOU - YOU DON'T EVER HAVE TO SPEAK TO ME AGAIN, BUT HERE YOU ARE. NOT EVEN WOMAN ENOUGH TO SAY, I APOLOGIZE. WHAT KIND OF WOMAN ARE YOU? I AM DUE AN APOLOGY, BUT I WON'T HOLD MY BREATHE. YOU STUCK ON STUPID SO....I SHOULDN'T EXPECT YOU TO HAVE ANY PRINCIPLES AS A PROUD BLACK SISTER! YOU SEE, REAL SISTAH'S HAVE HUMILITY, UNDERSTAND THEIR FAULTS AND CAN ADMIT WHEN THEY'VE HAD A SHORTCOMING. THEY ARE NOT SUPERFICIAL LIKE YOU. YOU KNOW, THE GOOD WOMEN. The only two people that I really had it in for was Queenie and menelike and now this ichibod. WHAT YOU GOT IN FOR ME? THE FACT THAT I CALLED YOU OUT AS A LIAR SAYING ALL KINDS OF DUMB STUFF WHEN I WAS TRYING TO DEFEND YOU? YOUR DESPERATION REEKS OF I NEED A MAN, I NEED A MAN, I NEED A MAN. BRING WHATEVER YOU WANT, GIRL. I WILL NO LONGER REFER TO YOU AS A SISTER. YOU ARE A PRIME EXAMPLE OF WHY I SAY IT IS WOMEN WHO ARE THE CAUSE FOR THE WAY MEN TREAT US IN GENERAL. JUST LOOK AT YOURSELF. You got into it all on your own. You are mad because I am right about you. WHAT ARE YOU RIGHT ABOUT? DO TELL. THAT I AM A PAYING MEMBER LIKE YOU, ON A DATING WEBSITE IN THE HOPES OF FINDING A POTENTIAL MATE? WE HAVE THAT IN COMMON. WHAT ELSE ARE YOU RIGHT ABOUT WHEN IT CONCERNS ME? BECAUSE I COME HERE AND CAN SPEAK MY MIND AND DON'T CARE WHO RISES TO ME WITH THEIR DISSENSION? I AM THE DISSENSION HERE. IS THAT IT? WHAT ELSE YOU GOT, THAT I LOVE TO TALK TO PEOPLE, TALK ABOUT CURRENT EVENTS, TALK TO MY BLACK PEEPS? I DO THIS ALL OVER THE INTERNET. ON MANY FORUMS DEDICATED TO THE AFRICAN AMERICAN EXPERIENCE. All you are doing is trying to dominate the scene here. DOMINATE WHAT SCENE? YOU CALL THIS FORUM A SCENE? OH MY. UH, OK. "the scene" AS YOU PUT IT COMPRISES OF NOTHING BUT BLACK WOMEN AND MEN AND A SPRINKLING OF WHITE MEN WHO PASS THROUGH HERE TO OFFER AN OPINION AND THEN THEY MOVE THE HELL ON. NOTHING I'VE SAID BRINGS THEM HERE. NOTHING YOU'VE SAID OR ANYONE ELSE BRINGS THEM HERE. WHERE ARE THEY? THE VOICES OF REASON? WHERE THEY AT? THE SCENE. LOL Perhaps you think that will help you be more noticed by whitemen. NOPE, THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD BE DOING. YOU SHOULD BE HERE ENGAGING IN THE DISCOURSE TO CALL ATTENTION TO THE WHITE MEN. YOU FORGET THAT I DON'T WANT THEM. SO IF THEY WERE TO READ MY POSTS ABOUT HOW I THINK THEY BELIEVE BLACK WOMEN ARE INFERIOR TO THEM THAT MAKES ME WANT TO ATTRACT THEM. IF ANYTHING AT ALL, SINCE THIS BOARD IS DOMINATED BY BLACK FOLKS IT SHOULD BE THE OTHER WAY AROUND. SEE, I TOLD YOU - YOU ARE SLOW ON THE UPTAKE. IT'S JUST LIKE YOU FELL DOWN WITH THE RAIN..... But since there are few whitemen on the blog, I guess that is a futile mission. AGAIN I AIN'T GOT NO MISSION ON THIS BOARD OTHER THAN TO TELL THOSE WHO WILL LISTEN THAT YOUR WHITE MAN AIN'T HERE FOR YOU LIKE YOU THINK. I'M NOT THE ONE LOOKING FOR A WHITE MAN. YOU ARE. SO WHEN THEY PASS THROUGH HERE YOU OUGHT TO GET TO FLIRTING. ENGAGE THEM IN CONVERSATION. I DON'T DO THAT IN A DEMURE FASHION WITH THEM CAUSE I DON'T WANT ONE. IT'S ON MY PROFILE, I GIVE YOU PERMISSION TO LOOK, CAUSE I KNOW YOU TO SWING THAT WAY. CAUSE YOU GOT KIDS. SO GO AHEAD GIRLIE, LOOK AT IT AND COME BACK AND SEETHE. YOU ARE NO COMPETITION FOR ME, AND I SHOULDN'T BE ANY COMPETITION FOR YOU, WE DON'T SEEK THE SAME THING. YOU SO SILLY. LOL. LIKE I SAID SLOW ON THE UPTAKE. So you would rather help Queenie, Ichibod, and Menelik run them away. HOW DID I RUN THEM AWAY? WHO IS THEM? THE WHITE MEN? SEE NOW HERE'S MY THING WITH THAT RIGHT THERE, IF THEY SO CARED, AS THEY PROCLAIM THEY DO, WHY ARE THEY THE PUNK OUTS. WHY NOT STAY AND DEFEND THEIR CHOICES LIKE AT LEAST OTHERBROTHER DOES. POOR ARGUMENT ON YOUR PART. *TIP* WHEN YOU POST MESSAGES ON A FORUM, YOU SHOULD AT LEAST TRY TO MAKE SURE THE MAKE SOME SENSE. You will try to run me away but it will not work. NOW I'M TRYING TO RUN YOU AWAY? LOL. GIRL YOU FUNNY, THAT'S ALL I GOT TO SAY. YOU FUNNY AS HELL. I DON'T KNOW WHY YOU'RE NOT HERE MORE OFTEN THAN YOU ARE. IS IT MY FAULT I HAVE TIME TO BE HERE AND YOU DON'T? YOU NEED A SCAPEGOAT. I AIN'T IT THOUGH.L White men do love black women who are lovable and don’t have to wear huge wigs and two pounds of make-up with a nasty drag queen attitude. YES, SOME WHITE MEN LOVE BLACK WOMEN, BUT NOT AS MANY AS YOU THINK. NOT NEARLY. NOT NEARLY. A FRACTION. AND YOU'LL NEED TO DESCRIBE LOVE CAUSE THAT'S A RELATIVE TERM. DO THEY LOVE BLACK WOMEN FOR THEIR STRENGTH, DIGNITY, ATTITUDE, PERSERVERANCE, EDUCATION, OR JUST POOHNANNY? KNOWING YOU - YOU'D SAY THEY LOVE YOU CAUSE YOU HAVE A NICE ROUND BOTTOM AND WEAR SEXY PANTIES. AND AS YOU PUT IN ANOTHER POST, "YOU BE WORKING IT." GO ON WITH YOUR BAD SELF GIRL, GET ON OUT THERE AND GET YOUR MAN. THE KIND YOU WANT NO LONGER APPEALS TO ME. I know you will try to comeback with some mess because you know am telling you right. And why would I try to school someone who is old enough to be my grandmother. YOU ARE MOST CERTAINLY RIGHT ABOUT THAT COMEBACK PART. LET ME ASK YOU A QUESTION. HOW OLD ARE YOU? ABOUT 35 OR SO? YOU GOT 4 KIDS? EVER BEEN MARRIED? IF YOU ARE THE AGE I SUSPECT WHICH IS ABOUT 35 OR SO, YOU SURE DID START CHURNING OUT THOSE BABIES EARLY. BUT THEN I DO RECALL A MUCH EARLIER POST THAT INDICATES THAT YOU ARE IN YOUR 40'S OR MAYBE IT WAS SOMEONE ELSE WHO SAID THAT, I DUNNO. BUT IN ANY EVENT, I CAN'T POSSIBLY BE OLD ENOUGH TO BE YOUR GRANDMOTHER. JEALOUS MUCH? I'M 50 AND LOVING IT. WHAT ABOUT IT? HERE ARE SOME FRIENDLY TIPS FOR FRIENDLY 13 1. Take the weave out your hair (White men know that ain't y'alls hair). Just like any man (preferably Black) knows my wigs are not my hair. WEAVES WILL MESS YOUR HAIR UP. THE CHEAP ROUTE IS GLUE. I HOPE YOU DON'T PUT THE MESS IN YO HAIR GURL. YOU PROBABLY DO THOUGH. NOT ONLY THAT, THEY ARE TOO EUROCENTRIC LOOKING FOR ME. I TRY NOT TO DO THAT BONE STRAIGHT LOOK. Under my wigs, my hair is natural. My hair hasn't seen a touch of the creamy crack since 20005. I just don't know how to manage it. IT'S THICK AND OUT OF CONTROL AND I MUST APPLY SHEA BUTTER ALL THE TIME TO TAME IT. SEE IT'S BLACK HAIR. MY HAIR. I'm thinking about loccing it, but don't know if it will look good on me or not. See everybody cant pull of these styles. I LOVE MY WIGS. BESIDES, THEY ARE CHEAPER THAN WEAVING. HEY SAVE SOME MONEY AT THE SAME TIME. HAVE SOME FUN WITH YOUR LOOK, MIX IT UP A BIT, USE SOME CREATIVITY AND VERSATILITY. DON'T GET MAD, TAKE EXAMPLE!!!!!! 2. Add a lil lip gloss (I recommend MAC - if you can afford it) I SAY MAC OR BENEFIT BECAUSE IT HAS NICE MOISTURIZING PROPERTIES IN THEM. ASIDE FROM THE LIPSTICK OR GLOSS, I MAY DO EYE SHOWDER, I LOVE THE COLOR COOOOOOOORDINAAAAATION THING. BUT OTHERWISE I DON'T WEAR ANY MORE MAKE UP THAN THE NEXT WOMAN. I WILL NOT LEAVE MY HOUSE WITHOUT THE LIPSTICK THOUGH. NADA. 3. Don't wear body enhancing garments,lest it's a bra. Them badboys gotta stay put and sit up at attention all the time! 4. change your profile frequently, add new fotos, change the wording (the site actually recommends it) I do it regularly. 5. BTW, STOP THE DESPERATION ACT. IT TURNS MEN OFF. IT MAKES MEN FEEL AS THOUGH YOU WANT TO GET EM HOOK LINE AND SINKER. MEN RUN FROM THAT TYPE OF STUFF. CASUAL KOOL. OTHERWISE YOU COULD TRY SOME PHEROMONES, BUT THEY WON'T WORK THROUGH THE COMPUTER!!!! 6. NOW GET ON OUT THERE AND GET TO WORK! YOU SO SILLY. 7. DON'T GET MAD AT ME IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO WORK YOUR GAME ON HERE. IF YOU WANT TO KNOW, ASK SOMEBODY. NOW SEE THERE, THIS DRAG QUEEN, WIG WEARING, MAKE-UP LADEN SISTER GAVE YOU A HOST OF GOOD INFORMATION. EVEN THOUGH I KNOW LONGER CONSIDER YOU A SISTAH!!! BUT CHECK IT, YOU WON'T GET NO MORE.

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  33.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    GOOD MORNING AMERICA!!! I am beginning to believe that are those who frequent this space to stir trouble rather than debate. Hmmmmmm, I arrive at this conclusion based on patterns I have observed. OK, well the forum masters are doing a good job at keeping this topic "relevant." However, if I will be talking to "fakes" and not real people I think shall go where there are some real bonafide folks talking about stuff and take my message there. Aside from my own blog of course!

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  34.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    See, I tried to walk away from the confrontation. Obviously, some people are not really "friendly". You got 4 kids and you are meeting strange white men off this website and god knows who else. You are in no position to critique anybody or call them names. Obviously, desperation has damaged your brain. As great as you "think you are". You haven't found anybody. You warned other black women about being used sexually by white men. I would have to assume that has happened to you various times. You hope people "know better" as they get older. Unfortunately, for some women it doesn't turn out that way. Good day

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  35.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Petitechick: You claim that I have lied on you and called you out of your name.....That is why a whiteman will never stick with you or a black one for that matter because you keep up too much unneccessary drama. The only two people that I really had it in for was Queenie and menelike and now this ichibod. You got into it all on your own. You are mad because I am right about you. All you are doing is trying to dominate the scene here. Perhaps you think that will help you be more noticed by whitemen. But since there are few whitemen on the blog, I guess that is a futile mission. So you would rather help Queenie, Ichibod, and Menelik run them away. You will try to run me away but it will not work. White men do love black women who are lovable and don't have to wear huge wigs and two pounds of make-up with a nasty drag queen attitude. I know you will try to comeback with some mess because you know am telling you right. And why would I try to school someone who is old enough to be my grandmother.

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  36.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    LOL been a strange night. why are the nuts come after you? Have a good one sis.

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  37.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    I'm going to bid everyone a restful night right about now. It's been.....well it's been entertaining to say the least. Bamba sister, ttyl. I'm fix'n to go get ready to get my dance on for a while......... (notice how the country comes out in me at times, LOL). It comes and goes. Hehehehehehehehehe Good evening to all (except the resident trolls)

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  38.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    I GUESS NOT

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  39.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Listen: Rick Hayes Your type is the very reason I have mistrust for some White men. You think Black women are pieces of meat, you want to try us on for size, not because you care about us. Get out of here. You troll all the forums doing this. I've seen you. You probably one of them dang-a-lang slingers that good Black women don't need. Get a clue...get out of here. There are loads of sex sites - but you better hurry cause gubment fix'n to shut em down. Get on over there and your freak on cause you won't get it here. Uuuughhhhhh. Better yet, ride up and down your local haunt to get you a trick. Ain't no tricks in here. Whatsamatter? Don't wanna pay for it? Stank fool.

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  40.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Bamba: They don't wanna be skinny no mo. Many of them want we have. Tanning themselves to death (where I live at least). Some refer to them as orangettes. I don't really care what they do. But they always somehow find a way to want what we have to some degree. That say's A LOT ABOUT US!

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  41.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    PetiteChick, are you still there, baby?

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  42.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    OLDER BROTHER, I would love for a black woman to come to me with the heavy intention of making love one day after another

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  43.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    I use to laugh at the skinny white girls who use to run around campus trying to keep in shape because most of their bf's liked curvy women. I had this qb at Alabama who use to flirt with me all the time when he saw me. I was too shy to approach him, plus he had cheerleader for a gf. ANd you right, you can't change anyone.

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  44.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Some of these comments on here are funny as hell at times!

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  45.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 24 April 2010: @Petite Amen to all you said. If you man is laying up in your house not doing shit, the fault lays within that woman. ------------------------------------------------ It's the truth, girl. We just have to face reality. We get em, try and fix em up (seen it so many times) from women of all socio economic backgrounds. It is a woman's nature to "nurture." But we choose the wrong ones to nurture. We need to stop trying to fix what can't be fixed anyways.

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  46.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 24 April 2010: Rick my love, if all you want is sex more then go to a sex website. Most of us are looking for a boyfriend and or husband not a piece of white dick. ----------------------------------------------------- My sister friend told you what time it is. Get outta here, I can't stand your type.

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  47.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    PETITECHICK?

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  48.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    The question rick is why do white men love black women, queens is that you? LOL

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  49.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 24 April 2010: Other, I will say this. To each its own. Like I said I’m full figured and not every white guy has been into me, but quite a few have been and they haven’t been disappointed. :) But I have noticed that more black men are into to big girls and quite frankly a lot of us are full figured and I think we have it going on more then the full figured white girls who seem to be ashamed of themselves if they have big butts, big boobs or big thighs. Lots of men love curves and God Bless them for it. Not everyone can be a size 8 ------------------------------------------------- Someone recently asked me: "What's so petite about you?" Well my stature for starters, standing at 5'0 tall. That aside, you are so right about the curves. I ain't to keen on buying garments that inhibit my hips. Women are supposed to be curvy - it's what distinguishes us from men. When women want to buy products that slim their hips and thighs I'm amazed they want to be reduced to looking like sticks. Think of straight line from top to bottom! Then it still goes back to our societal views and otherism. I've said it more than once. Societal views that have been established by eurocentric culture. But check it....White women are letting it all hang out now. They're getting butt implants, lip implants, botox injections, and more. Wonder what the fancy is to looking fuller? Could it be? Nooooooooooooo, could it be that they want the lovely figures of African American women? Quite possibly. Remember the time there was all the rage over J-Lo's butt? Sister's been having butt like that for years and what? I was like, whah??????

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  50.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    PetiteChick R U there?

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