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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    PetiteChickm R U there?

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  2.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Rick my love, if all you want is sex more then go to a sex website. Most of us are looking for a boyfriend and or husband not a piece of white dick.

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  3.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    The truth is I am lonely as hell

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  4.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    I am white and I would love to be loved all one night by a black woman.

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  5.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @Petite Amen to all you said. If you man is laying up in your house not doing shit, the fault lays within that woman.

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  6.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @Susan Comment by susan on 24 April 2010: I really get so sick and tired of people asking, “why are there so many single black women and why black men won’t marry them.” The question should be, “why won’t black women marry black men. ---------------------------------------------------- Well, like any other race methinks it's the company you keep. This goes for Black men, White men and any other race of men. If you allow yourself to be suckered into getting with a Black man that's trifling and then say, decide to check out a White or a Latino or any other ethnic group, don't think for one minute you can't run into some within those groups to be trifling too. It's not about the skin color when it comes to trifling men. Nope, nada, sorry. See, unless you were of the other race you wouldn't know this. But it is simple deductive reasoning, along with a lot of common sense. Trifling men are a result of women who let them get away with some of the very things you mentioned. BLACK AND WHITE. So...yeah, while there are men who run from their responsibilities are lazy and don't want to work: note that no one particular race of men corners the market in these matters. IT'S THE COMPANY YOU KEEP. See, I think what has happened also for many Black women is that because there is such a shortage of Black men (because of the natural disproportions amongst the sexes and other many well known factors) that we grow tired. Biological clock ticks away, we want companionship. Good women want good men and everybody knows it's hard to land a good man of any race. Note that "good" is relative. What's good for this goose might not be good for that gander. All I say is that we look at who we are getting ourselves involved with whether they be Black or White. Many a package comes neatly wrapped. When you tear of the wrapper often you don't like what's inside.

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  7.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    (Leaning back in my chair) I believe you are sincere. However, you made the comment that you wouldn't be with a fat black woman. I have dated full figured black women a majority of my life. The skinny black women I have been with, all gained weight as the relationship went on. I currently work out. In my past relationship, I encouraged her to work out with me. She chose not to do it. But the way you 'said" your comment. It seemed like you were repulsed by the idea of being with a full figured black woman. You made a cryptic statement that you made vows "for better or for worse". Basically, I just think you have some personal views about black women that may come off a little racist. Judging from your angry statements and arguments. Personally, I don't think you are racist. You said something about being a former teacher. HMM I think you would have a problem if your black wife gained excessive weight. You just need to keep it real. You think I care if people think I am racist. I have been called "worse".

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  8.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @ Queens No No I haven't ran no where, you still ahven't answered the question, why are you Racist. You know nothing about relationships, that is why you can not keep one, obviously you know nothing about marriage either. Unlike you who is a coward I am a man, i took vows for better or for worse, I would not divorce her for that idiotI said I wouldn't date once in love, of course that is a foreign word for you many things change. idiot

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  9.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Other, I will say this. To each its own. Like I said I'm full figured and not every white guy has been into me, but quite a few have been and they haven't been disappointed. :) But I have noticed that more black men are into to big girls and quite frankly a lot of us are full figured and I think we have it going on more then the full figured white girls who seem to be ashamed of themselves if they have big butts, big boobs or big thighs. Lots of men love curves and God Bless them for it. Not everyone can be a size 8

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  10.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @ bama Oh yeah i forgot I can not dialoge with you, if I do I am Hollering at you trying to pick you up. LOL

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  11.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @ Bama My premise is there are things abpout a women that attract me, eyes, but, smile, whatever. women of all races are beautiful, but certain things attract us to a person, then as I stated on my very first post on this blog you get to know the person and either fall in love or you do not. We love the person not the race or color.

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  12.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    (Leaning my leather chair) What happened to all this tough talk "other brother" was saying? I always knew he was "soft". Everything you said is on the board. It doesn't feel good when the shoe is on the "other" foot. You said that you would never date a full figured black woman. So, if your black wife gained weight you would divorce her? I figure you are watching your statements because your wife must read this. Ultimately, most white men are emasculated like "Other brother". How many times I have to "knock you out" for you to get the message. You already ran from the "money" talk. You ran from bragging about your wife being an "author". What is the book's name? Before, you were talking reckless about Petite. Now, you are sounding soft. You make all the money in your household right? Why are you so careful on what you are writing about now? You said this statement..... "in the end woman are just woman, I think all races of women are beautiful, and any man just as any women limits there pool of potential candidates for that list they have of what they are looking for in a mate." But you said this before.... "Fact 6. Me Myself, I would date no woman that was fat of any color, that is just my preference, that is nor racism idiot, I do not know do they have something caleed Fatism that is what I would be in regards to dating idiot." I thought all races of women are beautiful though. What is "fatism". I don't know if that is a word. I do know, if your black wife gets "fat" you will be out the door. Oh yea, since you like passing on messages. You just said this to petite. "Now at Petite I told my self I wouldn’t go there but your but ugly, lying, ghetto A** got questioned on your sencerity about white men, your a** got caught up in the usual lie that you continue to tell and got mad. Do not get mad you got caught, your pathetic and that is all there is to it" I can't recall any of her statements being ghetto. See, your problem is educated black people intimidate you. The black people that you feel " is less educated" you think are just so great. You are a selective racist. Most white folks are this way. They will go, on and on, about how many black people he knows. Like he did with Ich, to make it seem like he authentically knows the black struggle. As if to say, yea I meet black people everyday. " I must know how they are". It kind of reminds me of the white guy that thought " I worked in a department store". He struck up a conversation with me about how he is "struggling" and etc. I said, "that must be rough". He asked me, where do I work? I said, I work at the school as a counselor and for Time Warner Cable. The white guy abruptly ended the conversation and left. Go figure. LOL

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  13.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @ Bama funny many people I talk to when they find out am married to a black woman they assume she is big, most people espescially many black women ( I used to teach a military program before the job i have now) many of my students but mostly the black females tell me most white men with black women are with big black woman. It is funny how people percieve things different. I think however if a man is attarcted to someone who is big that nowadays most not all but most white men due not really care about their race, if they do, then in my opinion they are racist.

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  14.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    @Bamba I’m thinking about the what you saying though…lol Think in terms of the "DIALOGUE." I'm glad you're ok. I don't know what to expect for us next week. ALL WEEK. EVERY DAY. The only good thing that comes out if is I get to put off yard work, LOL.

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  15.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 25 Apr 10

    Hey Chile, we are fine here but a HUGE tornado hit Yazoo City, MS. It's bad there. We just got a lot of rain so far so we were fortunate and blessed cause it could been worse and from what they say, it's not over yet but I'm hoping it's about to be. Anyway as I said the other day why would date below yourself? If you a man, why would you want a woman who didn't pick up a newspaper or book every once and awhile? If they didn't attend college is one thing, stupid is another thing. lol why would anyone want a stupid person in their life? I'm thinking about the what you saying though...lol

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  16.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    You just go head with your bad self, with your thickness! Do you. It runs in my family (mother). However, I was always the smallest. I have never gone over a size 12 though. I am a size 8/10 now (depending on the time of the month). I bloat like a balloon set to sail at least two weeks out of every month. Aaaaah the joys of being a woman! And once women reach a certain age, they plateau and maintain a certain weight unless they take extraordinary measures (most of which are not healthy) to go pass that plateau. I don't be worrying about nothing nobody say about my looks. Nada, nope, heck no! I LOVE ME SO MUCH!!!!

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  17.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Bamba: "Otherism" is a problem in our country for sure. I am in full agreement with you about that. Another example is L'Oreal who is said to have made Beyonce appear much lighter in her commercials. That was a big mess and Beyonce never came out and said one way or another about it. Racism over in France girl. I won't buy their products. They don't need my greenbacks. This includes Fructis, L'Oreal Tresseme (though that stuff ain't suitable for Black hair, I did like their mouse. No more will I give my money to a conglomerate who thinks we're not good enough. I'm a little disappointed today. I had to call off a friendship with someone who I thought the world of who has gotten himself caught up with a lot hatred of Blacks and he's Black himself. He follows a pastor by the name of Charles Manning (I think) who has a following on facebook. My so called friend aligns himself with this and his teachings of looking down on those who are not as fortunate as he (Blacks) and co-signing off on other Blacks proclaiming that God hates us. Now see, Bamba, I can't associate with someone who believes this way. He tried to indoctrinate me into the madness (tea partying) and I told him once before I wasn't interested in that. Today was the final straw. He kept sending me info on where they were going next, trying to get me to sign on for it, all sorts of conspiracy foolishness. I sent him an email again telling him thanks but no thanks. Today, I let him have it. Sooo done. No can do with the craziness and I asked him to stop. He just wouldn't. Whew.....so much for that. Anyways, any rain there yet? I was out earlier today and it was nice and sunny here. The calm before the storm.

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  18.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    @ Bamba....Hi mama! How you doin? Girl, let me tell you something (whispering in your ear).......Did you hear that? I think you heard me. I have to tell you the rest another time. ------------------------------------------------- YES, I agree with you about that education stuff. I'm on it. Doing my thing in the midst of my graduate studies. Any man that can't appreciate that can hit the do' Because while I grew up in the GHETTO, I didn't stay in the GHETTO and was able to marry myself a educated Black man whom I was with for 20 years. I had less education than him, at the time but that was not the reason we married. We married because we loved one another. He didn't marry me because I had less credentials than he did. Though I could go toe to toe with him on any subject. What I didn't know I looked for answers to. We didn't fight about it, we just debated it! This is not the reason for our divorce either. STOPPING RIGHT THERE, cause I'm not putting all that on front street. LOL. But I must tell you, that not everything is as it appears. I'll just let you think about that and let me know what you think!

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  19.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Perfect example ABC and Fox not wanting to air the Lane Bryant commercial with the full figure ladies in their undies but they have no problem running the Victoria Secret's ads.

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  20.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    @Petitechick and Other Brother I'm going to interject here for a second. My feeling is any man that doesn't want an educated woman, is insecure in his own manhood. That goes for the man who can't date the sista who makes more then him. As far as big women go, I'm a big, full figured gal and I will say this: black men do seem to be more into us then white men I think mainly because a lot of white dudes have been brainwashed by their own media to believe the only type of pretty women out there have to be thin and athletic. I can only speak for myself,but I may not be everyone's cup of tea but I get my share of sips. :)

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  21.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    @ brother I don't recall you ever saying that. Nor do I recall telling you that. Did I post that to you? Or was it part of a post that I am excerpting? (cut and paste)?

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  22.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Comment by Other Brother on 24 April 2010: I say i need to see what he was responding to to comment on the first part of the post I would ask him where is he now that there are supposedly no literate? He is right on in his third statement of course black women who marry white men really secretly want a strong black man in reality Right? Yeah lets get real. --------------------------------- I can dig it. The post is neverland at this point, but we had a back and forth.....he discussed his dislike for Black women and turned right around and tried to make friendly believe he didn't say it. I tried to warn her about THIS particular dude. Not all White men - just him. I don't like it when people take advantage of others (especially my sisters). This is why I am driven right here in this space. So, now based on what you said, this is Queens' opinion in general about educated Black women? Wow.....*shaking my head*

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  23.   Member says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Petite and your point is what with the previous questions It doesn't change the lies. Nobody here is claiming bto be a white knight saving black women, I have never said that.

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  24.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Comment by Other Brother on 24 April 2010: @ petite in the end woman are just woman, I think all races of women are beautiful, and any man just as any women limits there pool of potential candidates for that list they have of what they are looking for in a mate. Once you attach a race to it or eliminate a specific race you greatly reduce your pool of qualified men or women. ---------------------------------------------- Which post are your referring to? The one I sent to you to peruse that Paula99 said? Cause see she pretty much thinks the way I do, yet you didn't cuss her and call her names and belittle her. I know she doesn't get over this way that much as she probably frequents other forum topics. But she did interject that? Maybe you missed it. The reason I say that is because based on where I'm sitting she should have been called the same thing I was by you. WHY DID YOU NOT GIVE HER A TONGUE LASHING? She pretty much agrees with me. So, why have you singled me out to cuss me? I'm just wondering because if you are standing on your principle belief it shouldn't matter who said it, but rather the fact that it was said. PRINCIPLES. Here it is again: ---------------------------------------------------- Comment by paula99 on 21 April 2010: because momma taught them and their daddy racist rants you can fool with them but we do not want a half cast running around. you be surprised how people still think of course that is not everyone. but most people 50 and older are racist as hell. that is why the country is so fucked up. and passed on to their so called legacies. i lived in europe i did not have that problem came back to america you have these i like black pussy but i can only see you in the dark. see i stay away from jerks like that. superiority complexes. i find.

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  25.   Member says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    No he didn't mention you specifically, he just mentioned all educated black women, I presume you fall in that catagory.

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  26.   Member says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    I say i need to see what he was responding to to comment on the first part of the post I would ask him where is he now that there are supposedly no literate? He is right on in his third statement of course black women who marry white men really secretly want a strong black man in reality Right? Yeah lets get real. i do not even undertsnd what his next statement says, is he talking about this topic? or about the previous topic? His last statement I would question his so called passion for black women in the first place.

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  27.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Brother: Comment by Other Brother on 24 April 2010: @ petite do not get mad at me, i am passing on what is said black educated women are over bearing and to demanding, of course educated white women aren’t at least that wasn’t stated in queens post, since he only dates big black women. ------------------------------------------------- Is that what he said about me? Dammit! Cause yeah, I am from the G-H-E-T-T-O! I was born and raised there poor as original dirt. But you see to make it in this world a Black woman has to assert herself, stand on her principles and be a Queen at the same time. There is so much burden placed on us. I can go there or there....so to speak. I can get downright ugly, but behind the ugliness is the fact that I'm a highly educated ghetto chick. No one fools me. Did he say I was too educated for him? Did he? Dammit....

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  28.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Brother, you've piqued my interest so much, I must ask for your input on the following as well: What do you think of this White man's statements against Black women? (Below). Now also, this requires a little bit of reading. But you can do it. I have faith in you. This should insult you considering you are married to a Black woman. And you defend us so well here. Just wondering.... Please do hurry with all of the details in the aforementioned post about Mr. Laurelton Queens. Thanks. ------------------------------------------------------ I realize that the racism comes from the blacks, I never had a problem with them before I have got know them in person. The more comming the bigger the problems. I think about to relocate to a place where black woman are literate but when I see the discussions between black and white here on the message board I loose the lust somehow. Why does people make that topic so problematic. I was into a discussion of africans where one of them said: Every black woman wants a black man in reallity” I never would have the intention to debate something like that, but what the hell is wrong with that people saying such idiocy??? Really, I slowly loose my passion for black woman.

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  29.   Member says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    @ petite do not get mad at me, i am passing on what is said black educated women are over bearing and to demanding, of course educated white women aren't at least that wasn't stated in queens post, since he only dates big black women.

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  30.   Member says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    @ petite in the end woman are just woman, I think all races of women are beautiful, and any man just as any women limits there pool of potential candidates for that list they have of what they are looking for in a mate. Once you attach a race to it or eliminate a specific race you greatly reduce your pool of qualified men or women.

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  31.   Member says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    @Petite It sounds like I have been saying, a black woman doesn't only date educated rich white men, she dates white men that she feels is attractive, see what is attractive to you or me is unattractive to others, example I find Pam Anderson ugly many of my friends find her fine as hell, so I would make a comment about her as an unattractive women, others would disagree. If she is dating him most of the time she finds him attarctive in some way, he can not be the white knight if he is fitting those discriptions, that sort of blows your whole theory right?

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  32.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Mr. Brother: What about dis one right chere? *This means you have to read it though, so take your time, k? -------------------------------------------------- Comment by paula99 on 21 April 2010: because momma taught them and their daddy racist rants you can fool with them but we do not want a half cast running around. you be surprised how people still think of course that is not everyone. but most people 50 and older are racist as hell. that is why the country is so fucked up. and passed on to their so called legacies. i lived in europe i did not have that problem came back to america you have these i like black pussy but i can only see you in the dark. see i stay away from jerks like that. superiority complexes. i find. --------------------------------------------

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  33.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Hey other: Comment by Happy_Girl on 22 April 2010: Or James do you think that white men think black women will settle for much less than white women???? He can be old, unattractive uneducated and fat and she will accept it all cause well of course she is black. Or is it just me??? ------------------------------------- What are your thoughts on these comments above here? Your input and insight are greatly appreciated.

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  34.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Other: Don't leave nothing out either. Don't sugarcoat nothing. Tell the truth and shame the devil is my motto. I know I said I wasn't gonna take YOUR bait, but this is entirely different now. I hope you stick around for the showdown! LOL I'm so giddy with excitement. I get have another fight y'all!

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  35.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Now on to the chick from the Ghetto, I am nothing that is funny, your worthless and confused, your even to demanding for queens a**, he talk about you but your racist lying a** to dumb to even realize it. He doesn’t want you because you demanding, white men do not want your racist ghetto a** and now I am nobody, that is really funny. No NO i am not mad, I am in pain from laughing so hard about you and queens pathetic A**. You so smart you know everything about white men, You bold though think everybody stupid enough to by that crap. You can not tell anybody about anything. Your pathetic A** is embarrassing ----------------------------------------------- OMG OtherBRother I didn't know this. You have just told me (ghetto-fied) Black woman who speaks about her own life experiences and those of other Black women she knows) that Queens Talks about me? Oh my.... That hurts sooo bad. Lord hab mercy. Me didn't think him would stoop so low. I'm mortified is what I am! I tell you....there's no accounting for folks is there? What else does he do (say about lil ole me) somebody he doesn't even know, nor you for that matter. Hmmmm, what else would you like to say to me? I'm listening, I'm right here. Let it out. I can take it. But before you do - you MUST clue me in on what Mr. Laurelton Queens says about me. I must know. Man talk about gossip! That will sure make a good throwdown on here won't it? I think so. So, here's what you do: 1. Tell me exactly everything that..that..that Laurleton Queens man said about me. 2. Then you finish up with what you have to say (insults and all) and we can take it from there, K? Do this as soon as you most possibly can too, please!

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  36.   Member says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Dear Otherbrother It is not according to me. You can Google the percentage of black women "considered overweight". Yea, sorry to break the news. Not all black women are thin, dark like your black wife. You keep saying I am lying. Go research it yourself. White men pick black women last. You can research it. All you are going to do is saying I am lying. LOL You said this... "Fact 6. Me Myself, I would date no woman that was fat of any color, that is just my preference, that is nor racism idiot, I do not know do they have something caleed Fatism that is what I would be in regards to dating idiot." I just think you are losing the argument. Just say you don't like big fat black women. I would have more respect for you. You are trying to slide "by" with that one. What if your black wife got fat? Are you going to divorce her? You prick! You said this "Fact 14. When you are loosing real bad in an arguement you have to come back with insults about my wife because you have nothing else to debate with, your pathetic" I didn't insult your wife. You said, she does not work. You also said, she writes a book. If you take that as an insult, I am sorry you feel that way. Basically, you dragged your wife into this. By saying, she makes more money and etc. The majority of "her" money comes from you. Therefore, you are the meal ticket. This is the life you chose. Don't take your anger out on people here. Let's even do the math here. (Pointing at the camera and you). Let's say you even making about hmm 80gs. The tax man take at least a 1/3 of that. You are paying for your wife's kids that ain't yours. You said you got 1 kid right and another 1 with her. She ain't working from my understanding. You paying all the bills and car notes. The internet, she get to "type" on. Basically, you are getting raped with no "KY Jelly". How you doing better than me? We won't even talk about if you get a divorce and child support. You would be paying for "all those kids". You better ask Sal for some legal advice. (Turning hat backwards) (Pointing at you) Talk to me later about that buddy! I only got to find a black woman that at "least" makes 30gs. To be very comfortable. You left one more thing out. I got "talent" and you don't. You keep saying "racist racist". What do you want me to say? LOL Personally, maybe you're unemployed black wife is typing this post. Tell me when her book comes out. I want to read it. Good day Oh yea, I finally released my new blog album POINT OF "KNOW" RETURN, The Angel Adams story and Dateline segment. Maybe Angel Adams and her 12 kids could live with Other brother. She looks "thin" and she is a bit "dark". Aw man LOL. http://mrlaureltonqueens.blogspot.com/

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  37.   Member says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    You haven't answered the question why are you racist, yeah that is funny, you took a black women from two white men, now there you go with your lies again 1. According to you 80% of black women are fat and the other 20% are out of your league so White men date them, now how do you take two momen out of your league? That is real funny. your facts are off again, the list was given to you but you choose to ignore the facts. WM/BW are by far the fastest growing IR Couples, white men do not choose black women last that is another lie you have made up in your little pea brain mind. I do not get angry, why should I get angry. There are plenty of people who lie your a dime a dozen, that is no sweat off my back. Fact 1. Your Racist Fact 2. White men do not choose black women last Fact 3. Your Racist Fact 4. WM/BW are the largest growing IR Couples Fact 5. Your Racist Fact 6. Me Myself, I would date no woman that was fat of any color, that is just my preference, that is nor racism idiot, I do not know do they have something caleed Fatism that is what I would be in regards to dating idiot. Fact 7. Your Rcaist Fact 8. You didn't take no women from nobody, your too pathetic. Fact 9. Your racist Fact 10. You have a problem with educated black women Fact 11. Your Racist Fact 12. You haven't been able to refutt any facts given by white men on this blog, use just use your emotions. Fact 13. Your Racist Fact 14. When you are loosing real bad in an arguement you have to come back with insults about my wife because you have nothing else to debate with, your pathetic fact 15 Your Racist and pathetic Now on to the chick from the Ghetto, I am nothing that is funny, your worthless and confused, your even to demanding for queens a**, he talk about you but your racist lying a** to dumb to even realize it. He doesn't want you because you demanding, white men do not want your racist ghetto a** and now I am nobody, that is really funny. No NO i am not mad, I am in pain from laughing so hard about you and queens pathetic A**. You so smart you know everything about white men, You bold though think everybody stupid enough to by that crap. You can not tell anybody about anything. Your pathetic A** is embarrassing back to queens, I have been waiting for you answer on why your racist, I will also add why are you so pathetic two easy questions for someone who says they have two degrees.

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  38.   susan says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    I really get so sick and tired of people asking, "why are there so many single black women and why black men won't marry them." The question should be, "why won't black women marry black men." Black men run to other races of women because, for the most part, black women will not tolerate the list of negative traits that black men have. And that is a long list! Black men know that this is a fact and in turn, they bashed the black women and claim they have bad attitude. Most black women have a higher standard and will not accept anything from a man. Black men know this so inturn, because they need to be with someone, they turn to women of other races. Black men want it easy, they don't want to work; they want to drive your car; they want to lay up in your house without contributing a dime; they want to cheat on you and expect you to tolerate it; they want to be THE HEAD of your household without contributing JACK! Most black men are losers. They then talk about black women like a dog to their white women and in turn, white women think that they are the authorities on black women based on the lies their black men have told them.

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  39.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Good to hear, you're set. You obviously have experience with this. The most we get is fallen trees and power outages, now swept away houses. I can't even imagine that. To bed I go...... C.ya! BTW, I'm still fuming at the fact I didn't see Maxwell. dang, dang.

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  40.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    LOL I feel you chick. Get some rest You'll probably be hearing from me before the weekend is out.

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  41.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    @Bamba I'm so going upstairs to rest. I have been on this computer all day. I mean ALL DAY. Gonna shower and turn on Discovery ID. And ultimately tv shall watch me (as always). I hope everything goes ok with your preparations. Having said that, If I don't see you around, I'll know you busy getting it together for the upcoming downpour. P E A C E...

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  42.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Well at this point, it's sit and wait. Have your tornado safty plan in place. During hurricanes when I lived on the coast, you have to tape and board windows up, but shoot if the winds are high enough, it wouldn't matter cause your house could be blown away. The yard is cut so there is NOTHING thank God to do lol.

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  43.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    We had a lot of rain in NYC about two weeks ago. Flooding, trees fallen down on top of houses and such. This kind of weather is stay in doors weather with a movie channel or some rented movies. Shoot, order in (I do that every weekend). I won't tonite though cause my son is "out." They won't deliver just for me. What are you doing to prepare? Boarding up windows and taping? Look at it this way, the rains bring the blooms. (I'm try'n - to see the good in mother nature here). I have yard work to do, but I won't be doing it this weekend. Oh well, that's too bad, huh? NOT!!!! LOL.

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  44.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    It can get like that, but they are mainly talking about tornados tomorrow. Apparently, Mississippi has already been hard tonight so we are expecting the worse. They had a special weather announcement Thursday. I was like I know it's bad when they are giving 48 hours notice to prepare. They don't do that shit unless snow is coming lol LOTS of snow. So preparing for the worse hoping for the best. I lived through a hurricane as a kid, that thing was no joke.

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  45.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Do you get bad rains like that where you are? I know you in the South, but is it like Florida rain? All of next week is forecast for New York. I'm sooo glad I don't really have much more to out of doors than I need. I'm so giddy....I don't know what to do with myself now that my paper is finished. That must mean I got it bad, huh?

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  46.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Hey Chica Good for you! Girl I'm trying to avoid all this bad weather we expecting tonight and tomorrow. ya'll see me on top of a roof with a sign, come get me lol

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  47.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    @bamba I'M FREE!!! Thank the Lord I'm free. I submitted that bad boy and I'm free (for now). Holla at your girl!

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  48.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    @ MLQ I see some folx don't let it go, huh? You must have put a hurt'n on that fool Queens. He so mad I bet him face is red (poker nosed bastid). Now, Queen cut him slack why doncha. He's mentally challenged. He must want me to respond to him. BUT I WON'T CAUSE I TOLD HIM I WOULDN'T. HE'S A NOTHING. I DON'T TALK TO NOTHINGS, CAUSE THAT'S LIKE TALKING INTO THIN AIR. I don't rise for him. The only thing that ever comes out of his mouth is "you're a liar." Only little bit of vocab he got. Hahahahahhahahhahaha YOU LIE...ain't that what someone said to the Prez? FTFOF.

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  49.   Member says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    Dear Otherbrother Let me answer your questions. Na. no white guy ever took a woman I was with. Did I take a black woman from them? Yea, twice this happened. No sweat of my back, they was buying her everything not me. I don't date white woman. Sorry, I doubt it would be hard to get a white woman. Perhaps, white women rejected you that is why you are running to desperate black women with kids. You finance the whole operation. I just want to make it clear I am answering your questions. You said out of your anger "Becaue you pathetic and can not win a debate with me you coward A** wants to talk about my wife. That is the sign of a true coward speaking. However my wife would run circles around your pathetic lying a**. Yeah she dark skinned, thin, fine, and presses more than your weak a*" Now she is "thin" , dark, and fine. Opposed to your aversion to fat, dark, light skin women. Would you be with your wife if she was obese? You said this... "Now that that is done back to queenie, your sellout ass only date big blessed black women, let me say it again so you get it right, you only date big blessed black women, because you can not handle the 20 percent that are not big, your a sellout the whacked thing is your a sellout to yourself and you do not even know it." I can't handle the 20 percent that are not big! LOL I mean, how am I to respond that statement? LOL You said this................. "Get out of your mama’s basement get a place of your own you pathetic fool, no one want a grown man still living at home. You open your ignorant mouth and insert your foot and wonder why you sound stupid" I got my own house. Sorry, I don't got kids that don't belong to me living with me. Oh yea, look for those kids to be with your black wife for a long time. LOL You got a permanent payment plan for everybody. LOL Recession don't bother me. LOL You also said this............. "Let me interject a little more, The facts still yet have to be refutted, WM/BW are the largest growing inter-racial couples today, when they marry the divorce rate is that of all other couples except the BM/WM they have the kargest Divorce rate by threefold, why is that? That question has been asked and not answered. I know but your pathetic a** is to slow to figure it out." Um , not true white men with Asian women is the largest growing couple. The black men statement is true. They nearly triple black women when it comes to dating "white". The sample population is to small for black women. White men rarely marry them and pick them last to date. You said this......... "No one on this site has ever said anything about whitemen being the black womens white knight exccept a few racist black men and a pathetic black woman." Yea they racist. I bet you just love the big light black girls. Yea the 80 percent you would never be with. But somehow, I am racist. LOL I hope you got the answers you were looking for. Feel free, to ask me more questions. I am tired of beating on you. Is this the best you can do? What was your wife's book again? Answer that. I am still waiting.

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  50.   Member says:
    Posted: 24 Apr 10

    queenie, your asking questions but still haven't answered your question. That is the most important question here. Why are you so racist? Just spill it out, did some white guy take your woman? Did your woman leave you for a white guy? did you get rejected by a white woman? did you date a white women thinking you could control her and found out you couldn't control her either? Just answer the question, you call someone a coward and your afraid to answer the question.

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