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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Ichibod said: In your opinion, Bamababe, how should posts like these be perceived by black men then? Menelik replies: negatively, which is why she and friendly13 post stuff like what we quoted! they care more about pissing off Black men than they do about their alleged preference for white...which is a myth for a start! Menelik Charles London England

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  2.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Bama, This is why we can't seem to get anywhere. You keep adding too much nonsense into this situation. "I think some of the black dudes here think for the most part those of us who date white men are somehow “white washed” and need to be reprogram to date black men. It’s like you,Queens and Menelik have that Capatin Save a Ho symdrome that we need to be save from the evils of the white man and white America." No one is trying to "reprogram" any black woman to date black men. Where are you getting this? Why are you reading words that aren't on the screen in front of you? Date your white man, or two, which ever is your fancy. By the way, how are they doing? Who said anything about the evils of the white man? I didn't, so you're not telling me anything. PetiteChick said it best, white men are not the "end all". She has her reasons for saying that, but I'm saying so many women who have posted here and on "Why Black women Only Date White Men" always have to say either something negative or lesser about a black man or mention attributes that any man of any race can have. Sometimes the admins or moderators post comments out of order, but look at this: "Comment by Shani on 18 April 2010: White men who love black women???? Where are they? Black men who cherish and appreciate black women are so scarce these days….it seems crazy to just limit ourselves to them." Not too awful, but I'll repost my comment regarding Friendly: "Comment by Ichibod on 19 April 2010: “But I will admit, I like white brothers. I like their strong minded ways and courage. I am not saying that the black men don’t have courage. I am just saying what I like about white men, but I can’t and won’t put down black men. I wish they would do the same when they choose white women over us. But they don’t. They say that white women are better than us rather than simply attributing their behavior to preference and attraction.” I don’t understand a statement like that. ‘Not saying black men don’t have courage, but strong minded ways and courage belongs to white men’ is what I’M getting from this. “I wish they would do the same when they choose white women over us. But they don’t. They say that white women are better than us rather than simply attributing their behavior to preference and attraction.” Where has any black man done this on this blog? My attraction does not and will never rule out black women." You see, Bama. The first part of what she said (not twisted, copied as is), she contradicts herself: "I like white brothers. I like their strong minded ways and courage. I am not saying that the black men don’t have courage. I am just saying what I like about white men..." How does that make sense to you, girl? The second part (and part of the first quote) is make believe. She says that she can't and won't put black men down, but says that: "I wish they would do the same when they choose white women over us. But they don’t. They say that white women are better than us rather than simply attributing their behavior to preference and attraction.” And prior to both: "I think that education sometimes makes people think outside the box little bit and often times connects them with people of other races and they beggin to socialize with them and discover that they really like them in a more romantic way." Why didn't she just simply attribute her behavior to preference and attraction? Bama, with all your whining and complaining about me not listening to sistas and not defending sistas... this is what I AM listening to and refuse to defend. The latter statement I agree with, but for a person to make such a statement and say they have a definitive preference, doesn't sound much like a discovery, but a prime directive. Like I said, this topic is for white men to speak on why they love the black woman. Black women decided to start posting about their attraction to white men and their openess to date them after James said: "Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is why some white guys are opening themselves to black women? Let’s concentrate on that." No problem. When the rest of the topic article puts white men on Front Street, basically requesting non-superficial, non-stereotypical answers from them, it doesn't say anything about black men, yet black women can't seem to NOT mention black men... PROBLEM! Then this chick has the nerve to say: "The reason that there are not a lot of white men wasting their time on this site is the same reason that I like them. They want to date black women and so they are spending their time finding black women who want to date them on here instead of wasting their time on this blog reading and rebutting contrary comments from people about why people don’t really believe white men could ever possibly love black women." Did she really say, "don’t really believe white men could ever possibly love black women."? No one has ever said that. I can think of one person in particular who might say something remotely similar to that. I remember reading the first comment posted on this blog when it came out. And the person that comes to my mind wasn't the first poster, nor did they post anytime in '07 or '08. Also, I believe the first debate on this topic was between two women. See, she doesn't like the copy and paste thingy because it actually shows her exact words back to her, and NOT some twisted interpretation of them. There may be some misunderstanding, but there is never any clarification given. Just reaching for anything to make someone feel guilty about saying something to her. In your opinion, how should posts like these be perceived by black men then?

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  3.   e-dub says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Taking up the Mr Queens Pepsi Challenge: My black wife: 1) First name is not a “Black” name but is German in origin 2) No, she not fat; she’s a babe medium complexion 3) We met at the University of Washington – sorry no kids but our own 4) No going down to the hood-we’re both military brats I’m interested to hear what the deeper meaning of this is—personally I think I just lucked out.S

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  4.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @ Bamababe, had to have the last word you lying fraud! Go to bed like you said! You stand by the words of a liar...yourself! At least you've provided evidence for that! Good night, sweet love, tis a long time to be you lol Menelik Charles London England

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  5.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Queens it's the same tone with you every night "white men are picking us last" Sell-out women, blah,blah, blah. Do you ever get tired of repeating yourself? I mean dude seriously a lot this shit is you are hurt that some sista have chosen to be with white men and not you, yet you to arrogrant to realize it or to change. So, you'll sit here everyday like Menlik with your blowhard words thinking you are "saving" us from something when in truth you are like a tree that falls in the forrest, no one can hear you and really no one listens. You are right about one thing though, you are entertainment for the masses. Maybe you should be a comedy writer.

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  6.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Menelik unlike you I actually have a life so no why should I spend the next three hours with you copying and pasting word for word of every detail of our conversation. You supposedly have a woman but you sure's hell spend LOTS of time here. It's funny to me that you call me a liar and fraud and yet when someone calls you out for you disdain for bw/wm relationships YOU DEMAND like a child that you be heard. At least I stand by my words. Can you say the same? And you call ME a coward. LOL Surely you jest sir. At least I know one way to shut you up and piss you off, ignore you. Normally, when a child is ignored they cry louder. You can go back to your whining now.

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  7.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Comment by Bamabelle2k9 on 20 April 2010: I feel friendly on that love thang that’s what we all want. That’s what I was saying to Ich that listen to some of these ladies. They aren’t stupid, crazy or anything like that, they are just hurt and want to be loved too and if a white man comes along and gives them that, so be it. Love is Love shit. lol But I feel you on the lie thing. I don’t like being lied on either and DETEST liars. HUGE pet peeve of mine. I have no sympathy for Kate because she comes off as a bitch. lol And she can’t dance lol --------------------------------- Yes, and the type of lies being spewed is not right. Why people insist on using one another without regard for others is still something I can't wrap my brain around. I wasn't brought up that way. It bothers me a great deal. I'm a fairness freak (Libra)..... I didn't know kate was such a diva. I don't care for none of that mess, girl. I'm watching Discovery ID, Discovery Health, Tru TV, Nat Geo whatever.

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  8.   Member says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    (Mocking you) Trying to "save" you from what exactly? White men are already picking you last. At what point does your desperation set in and you realize nobody wants desperate women. Even, the white men on here have said "some of you are desperate". I am not in the business of saving sellout black women. They have to orchestrate blogs, interviews, movies, and books to convince themselves white men want them for more than sex. The interviews that sellout black women do is always referencing "maybe" I should date a white guy. I never see interviews of white men saying they want "black women". It seems like you are yelling in the forest and nobody is responding back! Again, I ask the question, why don't white men encourage "other white men' to marry black women? They got to respond to your sellout blogs anonymously. They have to flirt and "get with you" anonymously. They won't take out in "public". Man, stop playing games on here. You are an embarrassment. Nobody is stopping white men for marrying you. Perhaps, you need to confront them about it. Good day

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  9.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @ BamaBabe, just as I thought; a bully and a coward! As soon as someone stands up and faces you down you cry of time bed and you demand I provide evidence against myself! This should be tough given as I'm claiming there's no evidence at all to support your blatant, black-male baiting lie! Imagine standing by words you can't support with evidence? Liar and fraud! I'm done with you! Menelik Charles London England

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  10.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Menelik I really don't have time for you tonight and I stand by my words. If you don't believe me go back and copy and paste your own stuff. I'm done with you.

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  11.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @ Bamababe, I ask for evidence from YOU and you provide none. Explain yourself! Explain why you make statements without providing evidence. At least when I take issue with someone I quote them word-for-word...which they typically hate! You accuse me of playing captain save a ho and yet no evidence of such is offered. You explain yourself, madam!!! Menelik Charles London England

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  12.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @Menelik you act like we need to be saved. Now if I'm wrong, explain yourself. I'll wait.

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  13.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Bamababe said: It’s like you,Queens and Menelik have that Capatin Save a Ho symdrome that we need to be save from the evils of the white man and white America. Like this is the church and we need to be converted back to our blackness. Menelik asks: how on earth have I attempted to "save" you or any other Black woman on here? Please provide evidence for your claim. You have got evidence, haven't you? You're not going to start abusing me INSTEAD of providing evidence, are you? I await... Menelik Charles London England

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  14.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @ Other Brother, repeating her words "SIX TIMES" as you claim is NOT twisting her words!!!!!!! Find me one single example of me twisting this woman's words, "Brother"! One example, now!! Menelik Charles London England Bro Ich, you see what I meant about an unholy alliance between white supremacists and Black male bashers?

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  15.   Member says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Malarki5 said Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! six times. Undrlying Message: Twisting her words Oh no, I forgot the only ones who twist words are white men and black women who date white men. That is pretty funny You stick with it friendly, do not let the lies get you down. If your open minded then go find that love girl, of course you will be hated for finding love if it is with a white man by many people on this blog, however the majority will be happy for you.

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  16.   Member says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    ICH, As I stated and evident from your post your just bitter and racist, see as I stated not only me but plenty other white men have given more than valid reasons why we love black women, because your racist A** doesn't want to accept doesn't make oi not so. The only problem here is with people like you who ask a question then get offended when the truth is spoken. Then get off the board, if you can not handle the truth then get off the board. The truth hurts sometimes, so if your sensitive along with being a little slow get off the board. Then your feelings will not get hurt. I simply stated since I have dated women of many nationalities and knowing women as well as i do that some things seem evident to me. It is of my opinion and many others as well that black women appreciate love on a different level than white women do. That is just the facts in my case, and many black men and white men and hispanic men that i know opinion. Now onto the next fact, because your tired a** can not handle the fact that I probablly work with more black people than you deal with in a whole day, is your problem, do not hate the player hate the game. See the problem was not with your room mate idiot, it was with you. Your lack of communication failed to enlighten him that you prefer to be talked to different, see I have had friends that that stuff was alright with, and friends that that is not all right with, you have to be able to comunicate, obviously you couldn't do that. Also aside from my 4-5 months i just laid back and read lie after lie i have been participating on this blog about a year, I have not really heard any body state white men are better, what I have heard is black women say they prefer white men and give their reasons and you jump on the sellout bandwagon. Quit lieing, queens twist words of many people on this blog for his own entertainment, Grow up be a man and admit the evident. You stated a year or so ago that you have some distant aunt or cousin married to a white man and that gave you insight, that doesn't give you anything. You can not even be honest with yourself let alon evryone else on this blog. @Queens: Although I do agree that black history in schools is inaccurate, however The majority of white have never had a problem with blacks, It just seems the white's with the power base and input seem to have a problem, However if american history was taught truthfully, you wouldn't like that either, it would show that the majority by a big margin didn't agree with slavery and didn't condone slavery, the problem we face now is everyone talks about the morals of this country today and say were are the good ol days, The sleeping around multiple partners and marriage back then were no stronger or better than today. There were no good old days, what our founding fathers did was unexcusable and pretty pathetic. You might be alright after all once you get ride of those racist views about white men.

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  17.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    I feel friendly on that love thang that's what we all want. That's what I was saying to Ich that listen to some of these ladies. They aren't stupid, crazy or anything like that, they are just hurt and want to be loved too and if a white man comes along and gives them that, so be it. Love is Love shit. lol But I feel you on the lie thing. I don't like being lied on either and DETEST liars. HUGE pet peeve of mine. I have no sympathy for Kate because she comes off as a bitch. lol And she can't dance lol

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  18.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Bama, them white girls from the Jersey Shore are from my neck of the woods, and not actually from the Shore. Just a bunch of em live on the shore mostly in the summer months. Got so bad at one point the mayor out there banned them and told them weren't welcome. Big mess! These reality shows are not all that "reality." Most are scripted. Yepper. I worked for A&E for 7 years and I know how they work. They are cheap to produce and a portion of it is scripted. Sorry to burst your bubble, LOL.

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  19.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @Bama, yes I know I am. I don't like liars. I detest them immensely. I was taught to stand on my principles. I should know it was fake coming on here pretending to be someone else. I know friendly13 wants love. You can tell it by the way she writes. I can. I know what that feels like and for someone to deliberately lie in Black and White like she stooopid or something and then try an twist it - made me see red. That's what I came here to do doggone it, LOL. ---------------------------------- On Kate G. Well as far as I'm concerned, she deserves just as much $$$ as the rest of them stars. She got 8 kids. And I'm guessing John don't give her much. Isn't he trying to get custody? If so, that's the reason she needs to get that cash. But she's gotta juggle career with kids or the judge will give HIM the custody. I feel for her, but I can't reach her..... What about that other show that comes on with all them kids? What does that man do for a living or does he have time to work in between knocking that woman up? Can you imagine?

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  20.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    They do mainly ballroom stuff but I guess I like to see the stars dance lol But NOOOOOO I don't do the Jersey Shore. I do Millionaire Matchmaker and The Real Housewives series. My two favorites: Orange County and of course THE ATL. LOL The white women from NYC bore me to death. I need to see more threats of ass whuppins and fighting. They too polite for my blood.

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  21.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @Bamba, LOL don't like Kate G. I actually don't watch that show. The only dance competition I watch is "So You Think You Can Dance." Go figure... Do they perform different styles of dance on SWS? All I ever see is Pasa Doble (sp?), or Tango or something...I like that but I like all the rest too. Next thing you'll be telling me is that you watch that show about the Jersey Shore. Say it ain't so, Bamba, say it ain't so.... LOL

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  22.   Member says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    There you go all white men think they are superior to us you mean all white's think they are superior to blacks? That is so bogus another lie. It is just one lie after another. I will not call you out of your name, I do not need to do that. Your pathetic anyway. Can not handle the truth, the truth is you make no sense, you claimed you started your profile williing to date white men then you turned all them down they question your sincerity then you cross them off the list. That is a bunch of crap. Grow up only the bitter racist people on this blog believe that.

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  23.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @PetiteChick Child I was ready to write Kate a damn CHECK to get her off the show. LOL I heard she got paid $250k for being on there, so she aiiright. LOL And you are welcome :)

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  24.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Bamba, thanks......

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  25.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Comment by Bamabelle2k9 on 20 April 2010: @PetiteChick I’m celebrating finally getting rid of Kate’s ass on Dancing with the Stars. I don’t have to watch her slow, can’t dance worth a shit ass NO MO! YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA ----------------------------------------- Bamba, whatsa matter, you don't like Kate? She gotta earn a living too. They're coming down hard on her too. What do they expect her to do with 8 kids?

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  26.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    And now I wont communicate to you anylonger, you are toooooo frustrated, seems to me that you were rejected… ----------------------------------------- No, you are the "reject." What happened to the supposed Austrian accent? You wrote a lot better today than you did as a supposed Austrian yesterday, Sal. Poker face bastid....

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  27.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @PetiteChick my point is you are better then that. Like I said, Queens called me a slut and I wanted to rip his heart out, but at some point I realize what he thinks or what anyone thinks of me is not what I am and WILL not answer to.

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  28.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    I will not calm down when someone calls me out of my name. I already explained to you how I feel they think they are superior to us. I won't back down. Ain't no white man gonna talk to me like that and I try to talk my sistah and give her advice. Neva. Neva, neva. Telling lies to the sisters on here. I ain't having it. What he gonna do?

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  29.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @PetiteChick I'm celebrating finally getting rid of Kate's ass on Dancing with the Stars. I don't have to watch her slow, can't dance worth a shit ass NO MO! YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

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  30.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    I don't back off or down Hannes I will stay in your shyt. Yes, me the fat unpetite chick. Will stay right in your ass.

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  31.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @PetiteChick Calm down woman. Be the queen that you are don't lower yourself

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  32.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Really, I slowly loose my passion for black woman. ------------------------------------------------- THE DOOR IS THATAWAY----------------------->

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  33.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @ Hannes Comment by PetiteChick on 20 April 2010: @friendly13 Where does Hannes say he likes Black women? Read carefully sister…. ———————————————— I realize that the racism comes from the blacks, I never had a problem with them before I have got know them in person. The more comming the bigger the problems. I think about to relocate to a place where black woman are literate but when I see the discussions between black and white here on the message board I loose the lust somehow. Why does people make that topic so problematic. I was into a discussion of africans where one of them said: Every black woman wants a black man in reallity” I never would have the intention to debate something like that, but what the hell is wrong with that people saying such idiocy??? Really, I slowly loose my passion for black woman.

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  34.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Comment by PetiteChick on 20 April 2010: @friendly13 Where does Hannes say he likes Black women? Read carefully sister…. ———————————————— I realize that the racism comes from the blacks, I never had a problem with them before I have got know them in person. The more comming the bigger the problems. I think about to relocate to a place where black woman are literate but when I see the discussions between black and white here on the message board I loose the lust somehow. Why does people make that topic so problematic. I was into a discussion of africans where one of them said: Every black woman wants a black man in reallity” I never would have the intention to debate something like that, but what the hell is wrong with that people saying such idiocy??? Really, I slowly loose my passion for black woman.

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  35.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @ Hannes who the phuck ever.... Look you White trash, if you lost your taste for Black, get the phuck off this forum!

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  36.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Comment by Malarki5 on 20 April 2010: @ PetiteChick, you touched a nerve there, sweetie! Lol Menelik Charles London England --------------------------------------------- The truth phuckin hurts don't it? It's there in Black and White but he wanna say he didn't say it? WTF? He didn't mean it? Da hell he didn't. I don't give a 2shits........

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  37.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    Sals/AKA as Hannes post your profile so Friendly13 can be in her glory that you bask in her loveliness....... Stupid Biyatch. Yeah you probably say that like any other man trying to get so poooosay. You in Austria (supposedly) but on this board looking for Black women? Ain't no Black women coming to Austia for your ass. You coming to the States, mofo? If so, we don't want you. Stay where the hell you at. Oh, never mind I know...you probably one of them webcam sex freaks you stanking bastid.

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  38.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    If you're gonna perpetrate someone else be smart enough to assume a brand new personna Sal!

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  39.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @ Hannes You low life wanna be, arse whole phuck off. You sound like somebody else than ran the same bullshyt line. Where's Salsassisout? You him? You're a liar, liar. Your shyt is right there in Black and White. You ole poker nosed faced bastid. What you gonna do about me talking about your lying ass? I don't give a phuck what you think about my looks. I LIKE IT. so do many other of your no good ass White men.... But the problem is I don't want them, Salsassisout........AKA hANNES

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  40.   Bamabelle2k9 says:
    Posted: 21 Apr 10

    @Ich see this is what I'm talking about. I think some of the black dudes here think for the most part those of us who date white men are somehow "white washed" and need to be reprogram to date black men. It's like you,Queens and Menelik have that Capatin Save a Ho symdrome that we need to be save from the evils of the white man and white America. Like this is the church and we need to be converted back to our blackness. I've stood on my on plenty of times on topics not popular with you and a few others and never back downed because that's my belief system. I love white men and I make no apologies for it but that doesn't men I hate black men. I love being black and the last time I checked, I still was black. I understand the trials and tributions of being black in America but I don't use it as a reason why I shouldn't befriend or date white men. The point I try to make several times which a lot of you don't want to hear is that there are REASONS black women are turning more now to white men for love and no one seems to want to address those issues, in my opinion it's a blame game or it's dog out the sistas for whatever reason. What bothers me about you, is that you have the inability to want to truly discuss what's ailing us as women and listen to what a lot of us are saying. You just assume it is the bashing of yet another brotha which like we said previously I understand where you coming from with that, but have you truly listened to what some of your sistas are saying?

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  41.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 10

    @ PetiteChick, you touched a nerve there, sweetie! Lol Menelik Charles London England

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  42.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 10

    @PetiteChick (still wonder what is petite on you???) You make me sick, YES - I forgot the word "black", it was late and I was tired but people with average savvy will realize the mistake I made. The sentence would not make any sense without the black or white, or at least any reference to a ethnic group. It is just perfect to you to make a bad mood against me. "White men do pretend that they like black woman" WHAT THE HECK IS YOUR PROBLEM, OLD WITCH??? Get a hobby or (sorry for lowering my standarts) fat C..K Altough I said it clearly, I want to repeat just for the protocol: I love black woman, I fancy them since I fancy woman at all and I do not talk about halfcast or that bleached ones. THE REAL ONES, ATHLETIC WITH DEEP TAN AND BIG LIPS. And now I wont communicate to you anylonger, you are toooooo frustrated, seems to me that you were rejected....

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  43.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 10

    PetiteChick said: Frankly speaking Blacks in Amerikkka don’t have a culture. Menelik replies: dead right! we don't have the cultural 'glue' that keeps other people sticking together. what we have in place of a culture is a CONDITION born of our slave past. Thanks Menelik Charles London England

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  44.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 10

    Friendly13 said: I have to ask why I’m reserving myself for only black men when they are not reserving themselves for me? 1) Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! It’s likely that I will be asked to get married by a white man than a black man because many black men do not appreciate black women anymore. 2) Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! I am not going to down white women any more because black men tend to prefer them. 3) Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! I have learned a hard lesson. I have learned that I should open my choices up instead of closing them. 4) Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! We have been left by black men for white women in past relationships. 5) Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! Instead of us crying and feeling bad about ourselves we should consider white men who like us… 6) Underlying Message: Black men don’t want me! Menelik Charles London England

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  45.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 10

    here's what I wrote above. Please note my suggestion that certain aging, single, and/or child-burdened Black women on here get off their arses and go seek their 'white Knights' in the real world Menelik said on 19th April: My view is that if there are so many compatible, attractive, white men out there willing treat Black women with such delicacy and grace, then why the hell are they on an anonymous dating site searching for said men? It makes no sense! ‘Good’ Black men are apparently scarce while ‘good’ white men are in the abundant millions. For heaven’s sake, girls, get out there, flutter your eyelids, fix that smile and make yourself available! Surely, you don’t need to be on this site warring with daddy substitutes at your ages, do you? Friendly13 said 20th April: The reason that there are not a lot of white men wasting their time on this site is the same reason that I like them. They want to date black women and so they are spending their time finding black women who want to date them on here instead of wasting their time on this blog. Menelik replies: do you see how this individual has translated what SOME may interpret as white male passivity to intervene, like 'white knights', to defend their choice of women into men with swagger prowling the streets and downtown offices searching for their ebony queens? My original question to the likes of this rampaging fruit bat, was why wasn't she out their making herself available to this endless stream of suitable white hunks rather than being on this blog beating up on Black daddy substitutes? But as usual my question wasn't answered; and it will NEVER be answered as the answered require is SIMPLE.. but therein lies the problems! Menelik Charles London England

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  46.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 10

    @ Laurelton I agree that not all kids can be lawyers and doctors. Yes, I did interject something as common as a janitor. However, for whatever reason our society (parents) have left the minds of our children to the idiot boxes. Have you ever read the book called the Quality School? Interesting framework, but I don't agree with its premises. I am a person who also believes that we should not tell that lie to children that "they can be anything they want to be." THAT'S A FLAT OUT LIE. What we should tell them is to work hard at what the love, make it honest and do no harm.....

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  47.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 10

    @ Laurelton Thanks for replying cause you confused me there a bit. And that ain't hard to do sometimes, LOL. I agree with you fully about our culture or the lack thereof. Frankly speaking Blacks in Amerikkka don't have a culture. What we have is what we CREATED upon arrival to this country. Things like (religion from Southern Whites); our food (scraps from the White man's table), etc., Yes there are some black/eurocentric correlations. Had we not been brought here we would have had what current Africans have which is their own culture and religion. Much of it Islamic in nature. I blame parents, the conglomerates for the way our children are turning out. I don't blame the teachers unless they are poor at their jobs. Many are in NYC. I just heard however, that they are doing away with the "rubber stamp" room which is a GOOD THING. I also do blame the mysognistic so-called art that's being thrown at our children, but then again it goes back to the parents to not allow their children to be swept up in this nonsense. Rap wasn't always the "debil." LOL. I remember Curtis Blow, Force M.D.'s, Whoudini and stuff like that. Rappers today are nothing compared to its original form and in my opinion promotes these unwanted views of the Black community. Yes, the biggest group of young folx who enjoy it are White boyz from suburbia. Yepper. But we know that if it wasn't degrading it wouldn't sell. THAT'S WHERE PARENTS COME IN. Britches hangin off the arse, doo rags and shyt...Back in my time (remember my age now, LOL) no self-respecting Black person would come out in the streets looking any old kind of way. I did indicate that it is up to the parents to teach our children what our lineage is. We can't wait for Whites to do it cause they won't. You will get American history and slavery, Emancipation Proclamation, the Constitution, The Bill of Rights, etc., but that's it. And yes, oh yes, White kids are phucked up. Pill pop'n...speed driving wrecks where I live which is mostly I-talian. Yepper.

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  48.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 10

    I hit sumbit to fast. They wanted to like black woman, but had issues with it being only because yadda, yadda, something bad about black men, blah, blah, blah... then they lost their attraction. Black men have nothing to do with that.

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  49.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 10

    @friendly 13 You really are reaching and trying to see things that are NOT there. I beg of you...don't do this. You will hurt in the end. Not every man (whether Black or White, Green or Purple means you good will because he throws out a few nice lines or words your way. Words say a LOT. Notice some key words in Hannes72 post. PUHHLEEASE, for crying out loud: LUST, PROBLEMATIC, ILLITERATE, LUST does not equal love. I REPEAT lust does not equate to love. Now if what you seek is just the physical aspect of a get together with a White man then say that - ain't nothing wrong with that, but to equate what he said and misconstrue his comments into "appreciating our beauty" is absurd!

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  50.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 10

    Friendly, No one is twisting your words. You are twisting everyone else's. No one has said that black women couldn't or should date white men. I did not come to this topic to give input, I came to see white men had to say about black women, and I ended hearing about how much better life would be with a white man as opposed to a black man, hence my input. You act as though detractors just showed up as soon as the topic was posted. I remember 1 or 2 white men posted. The same ones I noticed from other topics who have the intelligence enough not to apply attributes to one group that can easily applied to others. And if that's your best explaination for why they aren't here, then why are you here instead looking for your white man? You wanting a white man is no one's business, what you have to say about black men is the issue. You can countinue to ignore the fact that James asks the question to white men and said that this is not about black women opening their options to date white men (read the topic article again sometime). You can continue to act as though someone told you not to date white men. I will say to you in closing, that if you can't date white men without the mention of black men, your motives are suspect and offensive to the black community. It also masks a deeper issue that may hinder your perception in other areas of life. Bama, Your deal is that you have a hard time tinking for yourself so you project that inability on to others. For one, you insinuate that I'm following someone just because we may share similar points of view. I'm trying to figure out why I'm the one being considered the follower. Also, this idea that if a black man dates outside of his race, the woman has to be white? We don't think like this, which is why I feel women like you need guidance. If not from me, from someone else. This is why I say that white supremacy is greater in a non-white person. Whites allegedly have the bread, and all other races get the crumbs, it seems like some of you act that way some times. It's called being white washed. You can't respond to any black man here without lumping them together in some fashion, either. There are times when I don't agree with some of their comments. There are times when I agree with some of the women's comments even though I had felt insulted by some. When somethings right, or at least accurate, it is. Hannes, much like Azrazyel a couple months ago, got tired of hearing what black woman had to say. They wanted to like black woman, but Ad issues with it being only because yadda, yadda, something bad about black men, blah, blah, blah.

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