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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    I have many more..... Now I know most men (Black, White or whatever, don't read them profiles too good) their visual thingy is to blame for this, but when I do have the courtesy to respond back and I do most of the time, cause I don't like being ignored....this is the attitude I get. My profile clearly states my preferences as: Black of African Descent; Black of Non African Descent; Islander, Multi-ethnic and Latino. Caucasian is not checked. I expect the flirts anyway and that doesn't bother me. What I will do from here on out is delete and ignore. I GET THIS FEELING LIKE WE SHOULD BE HONORED THEY EVEN LOOK AT US. I started out here months ago looking to date "men" period. All ethnicities except Indian (no offense to Indian brethren). Then when I will relate my non interest this is the type of shyt I got. They think they are doing us a favor. They're not doing me a favor. So, two months ago, I scratched them off my list. I've been here since November. Same thing over and over and over from the ones I rejected. If you flirt and you ain't got no photo, WTF? If you flirt and I see no possible way of being attracted to you, and give you the courtesy of telling you I don't think we'd be a suitable match based on his profile, lifetysle or whatever, why get mad at me? There are plenty of other women here who will give him free coochie. I won't.... I've got nothing but this for MONTHS! So, to hell with that. How dare you not be interested in the almighty White man? The hell outta here.....

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  2.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    From 66 year old Whit Man: Apr 18 (3 hours ago) Subject You might be smart and warm and but you should be a READER From PetiteChick I don't do flirts or "interested." I delete them. And more importantly, my profile indicates the ethnicities I'm seeking. Thank you for the I'm Interested. Unfortunately, I am not considering dating or getting to know Caucasian men at this time. Best wishes you in your search!!!! His Reply: But you amortized yourself in a club with devoted to mixed white and black dating service! My response back: No I didn't, sir. I armortized myself into a club of inter racial dating. There are other ethnicities that strike my fancy. For instance, Latino gentleman. Every time I tell a gentleman of your ethnicity about this and they come back with a similar remark I must point this out. White men are not the only ethnicity here. INTER RACIAL....not Black and White. Good day!

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  3.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Oh Petite did I mention Menelik doesn't like me either? LOL Wow Menelik you have walked off the deep end having you? I guess King shook you to your core. Well since you have walked off the deep end,do you mind taking a few others with you? LMAO

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  4.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    @ Bamababe, and I've no doubt that hell is where you will end up for "God don't like ugly" as Roberta Flack sang! Goodbye! Menelik Charles London England

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  5.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    And as far as that man saying what he said about sistas, he is a fucking idiot. Guess what? WHite men can be idiots just like brothas can. Equal opportunity.

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  6.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    PetiteChick asked? @ Queens Floyd Mayweather…. Where he at anyways? I actually like boxing but there doesn’t appear to be anything good coming out of it lately. Whatsup with it? Menelik replies: what a shame you aren't over here in London on the 13th May. Why? Because if you were you could come and watch me fight in a white collar contest! I'm serious, sista! I've been boxing for a number of years...17 bouts in total and NO losses; honest! Menelik Charles London England

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  7.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Petite I will say this: I don't care for Queens and he don't care for me which is fine. I don't like him because he called me slut because I mention I was talking about two men which he "assumed" meant I was sleeping with both of them. I don't like the fact that he calls the women on here sell-outs because we choose and some of us prefer white men yet he doesn't call NONE of the brothas who date white women sell-outs. So, no I don't like him and I make no apologies for it not after he disrespected me and other women on here. I think he puts on a mask for those who like him and pretends to be some kind of enlighten brotha trying to help sistas when in truth he can't stand black women. @Menlik Yes I said that AND....as if I'm suppose to be afraid of what I said or take it back. LOL has hell frozen over yet?

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  8.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Here's something one White Man thinks About Blacks, who are also by the way African: DID ANY OF Y'ALL PAY ANY ATTENTION TO THIS PARTICULAR POSTER? Scroll above before it's gone. THE NEXT THING I SHALL DO IS EMPTY MY EMAILS HERE FOR ALL TO SEE THAT THEY THINK THEY ARE END ALL TO BE ALL. Yepper... Check it out: Today we got some blacks, mostly from Nigeria or Gambia. I had my experiences with them and I know, NEVER IN MY LIVE WOMAN FROM AFRICA!!!. Also the males from there are very illiterat und unplaned.The are very obtrusive to woman and take everything they get. They also are very racist. What ever goes wrong in the world, the white man is guilty for. Africans got a crazy flavor for fat, white girls, but if you like black woman you are an asshole who just want to abuse there sisters and so the tell the girls from behind that they should avoid to have contact to me. I realize that the racism comes from the blacks, I never had a problem with them before I have got know them in person. The more comming the bigger the problems. I think about to relocate to a place where black woman are literate but when I see the discussions between black and white here on the message board I loose the lust somehow. Why does people make that topic so problematic. I was into a discussion of africans where one of them said: Every black woman wants a black man in reallity” I never would have the intention to debate something like that, but what the hell is wrong with that people saying such idiocy??? Really, I slowly loose my passion for black woman.

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  9.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Race is big deal to those who want to make it a deal. Here’s a thought: Maybe they are actually with this person because they love them... Hey just a thought. Menelik replies: stop making stuff up! stop lying! Stop contradicting yourself! You have already stated here that you love white more than other races of men! Do you want me to repost your previous comments on the matter, Bamababe? Like what you like but DON'T be lying now!!! Menelik Charles London England

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  10.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Petite if I was talking to you, I'd say you. But there are several people I was talking about.

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  11.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Bama: When Queenie said that about himself, I had to chuckle. The blind leading the blind. Or in his case, the blind, slow, and crazy leading the blind. LOL I told Menelik Queens thinks of himself as part of the media. ______________________________________________ Who's leading who? Is Queens the leader or the follower? I hope you're not referring to me. If you are, let's do this.....

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  12.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    I don't see any books from ANY men that tell men in general how to get a woman and that's black or white. I don't see a book from Seal declaring "I love my White Wife" So it ain't just the white men either. And you know why? Probably because it isn't a big deal. Race is big deal to those who want to make it a deal. Here's a thought: Maybe they are actually with this person because they love them and don't feel the need to justify themselves to others about whom they choose to love. Hey just a thought.

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  13.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    Ichibod said: I’m not here to speak on the topic. I’m here to read what people might be saying about black women and wound up hearing negatives about black men. No lie! Menelik replies: this is sooo true, bro! Some of the stuff we Black men have to read have been covertly racist. Consider these comments, for example: Msheartflwr said on 1 March 2010: The White men I have been around. Actually wanted me to tell them what I was feeling. It felt a lot better having the subject be about what I felt. I communicate much better with someone who actually cares about me, not just deflecting the issue with steretypes. So far I’ve found that in White Men. They seem to want to protect, and understand the women in their lives more instead of putting her down. Thats just what I’ve experienced. /fyooz/why-some-black-women-only-date-white-woman.htm#comments Menelik replies: the writer talks about deflecting but she, along with others of her type, do a pretty damned good job of deflecting themselves since the underlying issue is NOT how gentlemanly white men are but how feminine she perceives white women to be in relation to her!! Why was it necessary to assigned these traits to white men and not to men of other races? Because it relieves the internal stress of forever walking in the shadows of women she perceives are better than herself, that's why! Part of the stress relief is to subtly attribute the stereotypically Black female characteristics of self-centredness, and a lack of empathy to unnamed Black men. To conclude, we must wonder that since the quality of white men is so high in her alleged experiences how on earth she found herself looking for a white man on a dating site? Something just doesn't add up here! Menelik Charles London England

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  14.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 19 Apr 10

    @ Queens Floyd Mayweather.... Where he at anyways? I actually like boxing but there doesn't appear to be anything good coming out of it lately. Whatsup with it?

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  15.   Member says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Dear Kingpin I appreciate your comments. LOL It is called being a "showman". But I will be a serious in this post. I thought your comments made me reevaluate some opinions on white guys, on how they relate to black women. Men are competitive in everything. I don't take what people say personally. I like "sparring" with Sal and Other brother. I do admire you Kingpin for a dating a black women who had previous kids and even marrying her. It take a lot to put up with that. Obviously, some "friendly" black women are so delusional to think they are doing "white men" a favor by dating them with her 4 kids! If you notice the conversation, white men really don't encourage "other white men" to date black women. It is almost like the pressure of interracial dating is bad enough. So, why even "preach it" to someone else. Obviously, you have the exceptions to the rule with Otherbrother and Kingpin. But they really don't "encourage" other white men to date black women. I won't speculate as "to why". I read your comments; and you did say, you put up with "racist comments" towards your relationships. Otherbrother stated what he "puts" up with. That is your fellow "whites" doing that to you. I can't recall seeing black women with white men in a "black neighborhood". Obviously, you won't confront the white people for their sly comments. Some of you got "family members" disrespecting your black wife. You don't say shit about it. If interracial relationships are so great, why won't white men put in the effort to "yell it to the heavens" like black women are doing? I don't see the blogs, books, and movies from white men wanting black women. I actually read about some teeny bopper singer named "Justin Beiber". Whatever the "soft white boy" name is. He put a black girl in his video. The teeny bopper white girls went crazy saying the black girl "ain't good enough for him". Sellout black women are literally putting their hearts and reputation on the line. I don't see the reciprocity back. People on this board can talk about "how great" their partner is and etc. I ask you this Kingpin. How many white men would take on a black woman with two black kids from a black man? You are the rare exception to the rule. You will "defend your point". Before you even attempt to. How many of you're "white male friends" are dating black women with kids from a black man? How many of your white male friends are even dating black women?????????? I beg the question to "Other brother" too. Sellout black women look like a damn fool trying to defend you. You act like black men don't hear the comments concerning your jokes for black women. You wouldn't date a fat, dark, black woman like "Precious". Oh yea some, wig wearing black girl said I wouldn't either. I have dated full figured black women most of my life. Now go ask your white man if he has! Let me also mention sellout black women emailing "certain" white men on "dating sites' and getting ignored or rejected. Then, they lash out like "Tatt". At least Tatt said something to these "white guys". These other sellout black women remain quiet like a "scared dog".You got the "heart" to be angry at black men. But a white man turn you down. You still praise him like an "abused dog" running back to its owner! I am tired of the smoke and mirrors here How many white men here will date: 1. An obese black woman 2. An obese black woman with kids from a black man. 3. A black woman without a college education. 4. A black woman living in "the hood". 5. A black woman that is dark skin. (sellout black women seem to think white men just love them a dark skin girl) By the way, I bring up obese because they say 80 percent of black women are "overweight". Basically, what you white guys are doing is giving them "false hope". That is the worst form of using women. I rather you just fuck a black woman and leave them. You giving them "false hope". Instead, you give them 'false hope" and make them jump "through" hoops to be with you. They leave their community and go to "white places" where you are comfortable at. Your snobbish white family members "look down on her". She has to nod her head like "not saying nothing back". Don't worry I got something for you though. It is that VIGILANTE SEASON PART 2 I am tired of you lying to black women about your intentions to be with them. Black men will be on "YOUR ASS". You better get used to it, if you come to the black community. Sellout black women still got brothers, fathers, and male family members. They are just delusional and angry right now. They do shit that is not in their "best interest". You have a nice night. (Turning hat backwards) and leaving.

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  16.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Queens: I see you! What I don't understand is why is telling the truth considered a bad thing? Since when is truth bad? I haven't told a lie on anybody or about anything. Further, I don't recall ever telling any Black WOMAN or MAN on here they can't date who they want to date. Neva. Yet certain people (men and women) will come on here and make it appear as though I'm part of the problem. I'm not having that shyt. This is what angers me. I don't live on this blog and I get around on plenty of sites on the web. I live in the real world as well. I actually live in a culturally diverse part of NYC so.... I won't be used by others to get to "you" or anyone who agrees with your premises. Their beef is with you, they should keep it there. I didn't bash a black woman, nor have I bashed a Black man. That's obviously some speak that has been going on long before I got here. I came here to interject a valid point (not just an opinion). And people talk all around me like I haven't come here and make undercuff comments. I ain't that kind of BLACK WOMAN!

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  17.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Mr. Pin: There is no anger in me. What you would find, however, if you were ever given the opportunity to greet me face to face is a person who is happy, who has had to take the rose colored glasses off to look life square in the face and call it as it is. I did ask earlier on if anyone knew that it was Confederate History month? No response. I don't like being lied on. Do you? I doubt it. Other Brother is under some kick that I have come here to bash my own kind. And he can't seem to find where I've done that. If any anger has come across it is because I will not allow someone to lie on me. Nuff said......(peace)

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  18.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Kingpin, nice to see you again and thanks for the compliments and the apology. You do realize that the men are going to be ALL over you. :)But I know you got thick skin. When Queenie said that about himself, I had to chuckle. The blind leading the blind. Or in his case, the blind, slow, and crazy leading the blind. LOL I told Menelik Queens thinks of himself as part of the media.

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  19.   kingpin78 says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Queens... "I should be on that list. I am the most underrated black male blogger in the game. I get the “audience” but never the respect I deserve. I am the “Floyd Mayweather” of this “blog game”. I beat Sal aka Marquez. I beat up on “other brother” aka Ricky Hatton. I haven’t lost a debate yet. There are other commentators that are “smarter” than me. Ich, Tyrant, and London. I am arguably the “whole package” though. I can entertain, talk about serious topics, and get in “the gutter” when necessary. I will be back the Mormon white boys are at my house."------------------------ CONCEITED?????......NAH....lol And I have yet to see where you have "won" a debate. No one "wins" in a debate. Its one opinion vs another. ..You are treatin this like a competition. That seems pretty silly to me dude.

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  20.   kingpin78 says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    hi everyone...hi Friendly. hi Bama I read every single post..(for like the last year and a half)..but rarely contribute to the discussion, or should i say the mud slinging contest. I rarely contribute because I cant handle all the hatred and racism in here, by a few certain individuals. I just get too pissed off and frustrated. Bama, Friendly, MzBrOwNSuGaR, Petitechick....I am gonna apologize collectively for the men on this blog and everywhere in the world for that matter. (not every guy on here needs apologizing for)...Sorry you women have to put up with such mean, rude, nasty people. My mother taught me to respect women. I just dont get how a man can bring themselves to be so rude and disrespectful to a woman...Bama, Friendly, and MzBrOwNSuGaR, I especially love reading anything you have to say. Mr Laurelton Queens...you know I had to address you specifically. As hated as you are, you are what keeps this blog so interesting, whether its positive or negative contributions...just a couple questions for you. I have asked you this before, with no reasonable answer. In your complex mind, under any circumstance, is it possible for a black woman to be with and love a white man without being considered a "sellout"? Cant a woman just love a man without skin color being a deciding factor?..Please answer this question....and one other thing: It really bothers me how you are constantly referring to the fact that "white men pick black women last" blah blah blah. Please stop lumping all white men together. Ok, so its not that common. I think everyone understands that. Its still a fairly new thing for it to be "socially accepted" But that doesnt mean that there arent white guys out there that would love to be with a black woman. Plenty of them actually. This white boy picked black women FIRST. Thats right, FIRST. I know there will some idiot out there that'll say I am "hating" my own race, but that is just ridiculous. It is a preference. Ever since I can remember I have always been extremely attracted to black women. I always knew I wanted to end up with a black woman, and that I sure did, and a wonderful one at that. I got a shocker for you Queens. Not only do I love my wife to no end, but I love her 2 beautiful black children, from a previous relationship, from yes, a black man. And get this, one of my best friends on this earth is her babies daddy. I know that just might be too much "interracial unity" for you to handle. Believe it or not Queens,Some people have actually gotten past the whole race thing and learned to appreciate someone for who they are and not for what race they are...Relax man, life is too short to spend it being angry and unaccepting of things you cant change...have a nice day. Tyrant...You are just an angry angry hateful person, that just can not and will not get past the whole black and white thing. Menelik.(Dr Phil)..Good day to you sir. You must have alot of free time on your hands to sit there and literally pick apart every friggin thing Friendly or Bama says. Give it a rest man. Stop trying to "figure out" why she is doing what she is doing. Other Brother...I know how much a few people on here piss you off, as the same ones piss me off. Sometimes to the point where I have to walk away. But its not even worth devoting any more of your time trying to "debate" with them. You just have to realize, sadly, there are still people out there that continue to remind us that racism is still alive and kicking. And there will still be ignorant racist people, white or black, or whatever, for generations to come, because they just pass on their twisted way of thinking to their offspring..have a good day...and you write some very entertaining posts, I must say.. Salsassin...I thoroughly enjoy reading all of your posts. Very well written and informative. We all enjoy a good debate, but this "feud" with you and a certain couple others, is never gonna end. You might as well be the better man and walk away and just accept the fact that you just get through to some people...have a nice day Ichibod...I also thoroughly enjoy reading your contributions as well. You are a very good writer and seem well educated. It does seem though, that you are a lil quick to "jump all over" someone whenever someone says something you disagree with. (especially the women) I think you should just respect people's opinions more...have a nice day, and keep up the good posts... Tatted2death...hola chica....what can I say. You are just awesome...You like me though, hardly ever post anymore. I know, its get old. Same people, same old "hating" going on..lol Friendly...you are one cool chick..Sorry you have to put up with men on here disrespecting you...I always look forward to your posts.. Whats up BamaBabe...you smooth as silk. Dont let the haters get to you too much...have a nice day... Who did I forget...Petitechick...Whats happenin?..You are the kind of strong, classy, beautiful, educated woman that should be a role model for young girls all over the world...Rock on with your bad self...(I do sense a slight bit of anger sometimes though)...have a wonderful day Petite. Goodbye to all my friends on here. Have a nice day y'all.....SORRY FOR THE LONG POST. ..I just had to get some stuff off my chest

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  21.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Queen is always entertaining in his self delusion that he "beats" people in his debates. Like Floyd Mayweather, he is all talk and runs around the ring, seeking "points". Like Floyd Mayweather, he would get knocked out quickly in the reality of life, conceptualized in a street fight. Where points mean nothing, and there are no rounds or judges.

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  22.   Member says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Dear Petite I should be on that list. I am the most underrated black male blogger in the game. I get the "audience" but never the respect I deserve. I am the "Floyd Mayweather" of this "blog game". I beat Sal aka Marquez. I beat up on "other brother" aka Ricky Hatton. I haven't lost a debate yet. There are other commentators that are "smarter" than me. Ich, Tyrant, and London. I am arguably the "whole package" though. I can entertain, talk about serious topics, and get in "the gutter" when necessary. I will be back the Mormon white boys are at my house. Take it easy.

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  23.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Here are just a some individuals of various ethnicities that are examples of well educated. I am extremely attracted to smart men. There is nothing finer than a smart assed man, in my opinion. I LOVE THAT SHIT! President Barack H. Obama (politics aside) Ryan Leslie (Arist Entrepreneur,) Hill Harper (Actor, Activist) Michelle Obama (politics aside) Dr. William Cosby Warren Buffet Bill Gates Collin Powell (politics aside) Condoleeza Rice (politics aside) Chris Gardner (Pursuit of Happyness) Supreme Court Justice Sonia Sotomayor (politics aside) Some of the greatest mathematicians and astronomers in the world came from Egypt. Much of their work stolen by the Greeks. Let's talk about Pyramids why don't we? Don't even get me started about some of our Asian brethren. They can outwit many Americans Black and White. They outpace us (White men) in technology three-fold (math and sciences). This is the reason President Obama set aside billions for the Centers for Disease and Control not too long ago (I think that's the agency) to do further exploration about stem cell research and other such stuff. He also just announced more $$$ for NASA to even more than what we've been doing in space exploration. I'm not trying to turn this into a political discussion. Don't want to go there, ain't going there. My point is, that if you are well read in current events and various cultures and things going on outside your own door you would know that every race, ethnicity has played major roles in building this country and they continue to make contributions.

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  24.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Friendly13, yeah maybe you're right...maybe you aren't. I've had stimulating conversations with gentleman from a variety of races. Especially a haitian gentleman I dated some time ago. Deep shyt. You know like politics, and and natural and philosophical principles, civil society and a host of other things. I've even had Hispanics teach me a thing or two as well. So, it just depends on the education, and the lifestyle of the individual (not the color their skin). Some white men are well versed in a number of areas as well. Not all of em though. Some of them lack the educational credentials needed to hold a decent conversation about anything and some don't. Again education, stimulating conversation is not based on person's ethnicity, but rather their lifestyle, well roundedness and overall objectivity to the world around them. Peace sistah..

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  25.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Thanks, Queens! I don't like childish bullshyt! I have always stood my ground on my principles. When I can be proven wrong, I am woman enough to say so. That is how I live MY life! I'm a grown woman with no delusions....... I'm not pessimistic, but rather a realist. I observe things and situations and put them in the context for which they belong! LOL. Can't help that...I'm cerebral!!!

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  26.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Well, I like dating white men and hope to marry one someday. They treat me very nice and show appreciation for me. I like to do simple things like go out to the park and have a pick nic. They like nature and outdoorsy type activities as opposed to the club and hood scene. Hey, I know that everyone is different though. Their conversation is very stimulating. Whitemen make you think. They have a conquering spirit that sometimes shows through. But when they love you, they like a little conquering. They do like to be in charge and see themselves as the primary bread winners. But I like that they can appreciate my ambitions, and will be supportive of me working or going to school to complete a degree. They understand that this just compliments them and are not intimidated by my success. I think their intellectual conquering spirit makes them very attractive. You know that, I can do it and so therefore I am going to do it so they do. They believe in themselves and their own selfworth. Of course I am generalizing about the type of white man that I like and am looking for.

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  27.   Member says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Dear Petite I am glad you stand up for yourself here. The true side of white man is "coming out". God forbid, black women "don't worship" them. They start lashing out. I saw some of the "subtle" racial statements said by Sal and "other brother" towards you. These type of men are "sensitive" to rejection by black women. I was observing the comments. It is amazing to me that black women are unaware that "rejected" men are the "worse" ones to be with. But black women are stuck between a "rock" and "hard place" when it comes to dating. So they decide to suffer "in silence" with these temperamental "non black men". Black women generally dislike "insecure" men. That is why so many "interracial relationships" do not work out for them. I released Vigilante Season Part 2 "What about our Daughters" (Update on Kat Stacks and the NJ rape case) http://mrlaureltonqueens.blogspot.com/

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  28.   Shani says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    White men who love black women???? Where are they? Black men who cherish and appreciate black women are so scarce these days....it seems crazy to just limit ourselves to them.

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  29.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Thank you Queens! Referring to your question to the "Other Person" about "What lies?" I have no clue half the time of what he's talking about. He seems to be slightly miffed and under some illusion that I came here to bash black women. I've done no such thing. For me to do such a thing, would mean I am a self-hating Black. Nothing I've said should give anyone the impression that I am one. Unless of course, they don't take the time to read what I've said objectively and for the context it is presented. I will not address this arse any further. Nor will I address anyone else on here who calls me out of my name. Salsassiout started that and I went there with him. But that will cease and desist as well. READ WHAT I WRITE - if you have a valid point to make, - do so with objectivity and the factual points therein. Otherwise, leave me alone. This goes for men and women.....

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  30.   Member says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Dear Other Brother What lies are you talking about? You are happy being picked as the last resort for black women? White men say negative things about black women all the time. I don't see you saying anything about it. You are picking and choosing what you get upset about. You won't confront a white man on why he is not interested in a black woman. But you want to get tough on "Ich". Come get tough on me! This issue about black women selling out. They sold out and that is the bottom line. They never say they date white men for LOVE. It always about what "black men" did wrong to them. Think about that, you coward! Man look for that new post on my blog. I am tired of these cowards ducking "real issues". Oh yea, the South Africa article. You got to be kidding me right? Certain parts of Africa does not have a "rule of law". The article even confirms SOME of the African girls that have been gang raped did not "survive". In the case of the 7 year old girl, it has not been confirmed she was gang raped. From my understanding, medical technology is way more advanced in the United States to "detect" if a child was raped. I am still following the case. So far, it does not look good at all for the plaintiff. What was the point of you pasting this article? It just backs up my opinions on this NJ alleged rape case. Just like the Hofstra Case and Duke case. Try to convict these young boys without all the evidence present. The media is really something else. Sal must have lost all his cases as a lawyer.

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  31.   Member says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Ich, It is your silence when black women are being called sellouts for dating white men, you jump on every other lie told on this board so you say, but you do not jump on that lie. You are silent many negative things said about black women when it comes to their involvement with white men. You do not always need to say something to show your true colors.

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  32.   Member says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Petite, Good one less lye I have to squash, like white men do not date black women seriously. I gave you the info to squash that lie, but your hung up. I do not need to say anymore.

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  33.   Member says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    Are there any black girls for this lonely 48 year old man?

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  34.   Firemansgirl says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    I want to thank BigPapa911 for standing up to his interracial relationship. I'm that BW who he is dating and it's sad that some BM speaks so down on BW. Maybe it's because they don't respect themselves. In the end...I'm still going to date WM because that is my preference. Sometimes when people live in certain places they develop these things in their head, for me I didn't grow up in poverty and both my parents were college graduates. Yes I'm a BM and yes I'm beautiful. If a person has a problem with WM dating BM then I suggest you join a blog about hate and stop harrassing the innocent people on this blog.Oh yea I hate writing...

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  35.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    @ Menelik: No it was not the same thing, and you know it. As for your remark about my grammar, yep I know I may be rusty in some areas. I have no problems admitting that. I may have to spell check, sometimes I may choose to use a slang, sometimes I may use my own shorthand, and MANY times I'm gonna have a typo. I REPEAT, I have no problem admitting that. And in response to whatever the heck that was you said about editing, I didn't ask you to edit, just asked you to quote it like I said it... bad grammar and all. And ... I'm not ya "dear" .. I'm not ya "mate" so since you giving advice lemme give you some. Save that condescending crap for some one else.

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  36.   Tanya says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 10

    To friendly13: I have just stumbled upon this conversation, which I find rather interesting. But I must make a comment on a post that you've made. You said this: "The last time I looked my 4th amendment rights are still in force". The Fouth Amendment refers to unreasonable searches and seizures...what does this have to do with the topic at hand? Let me pass on the information so that you will now be more enlightened. "The Fourth Amendment to the United States Constitution is the part of the Bill of Rights which guards against unreasonable searches and seizures. The amendment specifically also requires search and arrest warrants be judicially sanctioned and supported by probable cause. It was adopted as a response to the abuse of the writ of assistance, which is a type of general search warrant, in the American Revolution. Search and arrest should be limited in scope according to specific information supplied to the issuing court, usually by a law enforcement officer, who has sworn by it" (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fourth_Amendment_to_the_United_States_Constitution)Retrieved from the Web April 17, 2010. Another source states the following: "In order to be valid under the Fourth Amendment, a search warrant must, inter alia, "particularly describe the place to be searched, and the persons or things to be seized." U.S. Const. Amend. IV. The purpose of this particularity requirement is to avoid "a general, exploratory rummaging in a person's belongings." Andresen v. Maryland, 427 U.S. 463, 480, 49 L. Ed. 2d 627, 96 S. Ct. 2737 (1976) (internal quotation marks omitted); Coolidge v. New Hampshire, 403 U.S. 443, 467, 91 S.Ct. 2022, 2038, 29 L.Ed.2d 564 (1971); see generally Stanford v. Texas, 379 U.S. 476, 481-85, 13 L. Ed. 2d 431, 85 S. Ct. 506 (1965) (describing history and purpose of particularity requirement). A sufficiently particular warrant describes the items to be seized in such a manner that it leaves nothing to the discretion of the officer executing the warrant. See Marron v. United States, 275 U.S. 192, 196, 72 L. Ed. 231, 48 S. Ct. 74 (1927). Although the Court ordinarily would begin its review of the decision of the district court by determining whether it erred in concluding the warrant failed to adequately particularize the items to be seized, the Court need not address that question even if the warrant was invalid where the evidence obtained during the search nevertheless was admissible pursuant to the good faith exception to the exclusionary rule. See United States v. Leon, 468 U.S. 897, 913, 82 L. Ed. 2d 677, 104 S. Ct. 3405 (1984)" (http://www.robertslaw.org/4thamend.htm)Retrived from the Web April 17, 2010. Being the highly educated sistah that you are, I thought that as a well educated sistah, I would kindly point out your mistake or blunder. With regard to the United States Constitution, I believe that the amendment that you were referring to was the First Amendment. Am I correct? "The First Amendment to the United States Constitution is part of the Bill of Rights. The amendment prohibits the making of any law "respecting an establishment of religion", impeding the free exercise of religion, infringing on the freedom of speech, infringing on the freedom of the press, interfering with the right to peaceably assemble or prohibiting the petitioning for a governmental redress of grievances. Originally, the First Amendment only applied to the Congress. However, in the 20th century, the Supreme Court held that the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment applies the First Amendment to each state, including any local government" (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Amendment_to_the_United_States_Constitution)Retrieved from the Web April 17, 2010.

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  37.   Hannes72 says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 10

    I dont understand the entire discussion. Nobody ask why one man is after black haired - the other after blond haired woman! I am interested in exotic woman since I am interested in woman at all, lets say since I was 12-or 13 years old. Black is the most exotic compared to white. Back it the 80´s when I was young, there were no blacks in Vienna/Austria at all, but I noticed them in the TV. One day I found a porn-magazine of elderly brother and it featured an pictured article of Ebony Ayes. OMG, she was soooooooooooo dark, her lips was that big and her eyes was slotted like asians have it. Her nipples was deeeeeeeeeep black and she had that sluty finger nails. I just tought: "WOW - that is a real woman" I never wasted a minute to question why I am so attracted to these women, but I always was. Today we got some blacks, mostly from Nigeria or Gambia. I had my experiences with them and I know, NEVER IN MY LIVE WOMAN FROM AFRICA!!!. Also the males from there are very illiterat und unplaned. The are very obtrusive to woman and take everything they get. They also are very racist. What ever goes wrong in the world, the white man is guilty for. Africans got a crazy flavor for fat, white girls, but if you like black woman you are an asshole who just want to abuse there sisters and so the tell the girls from behind that they should avoid to have contact to me. I realize that the racism comes from the blacks, I never had a problem with them before I have got know them in person. The more comming the bigger the problems. I think about to relocate to a place where black woman are literate but when I see the discussions between black and white here on the message board I loose the lust somehow. Why does people make that topic so problematic. I was into a discussion of africans where one of them said: Every black woman wants a black man in reallity" I never would have the intention to debate something like that, but what the hell is wrong with that people saying such idiocy??? Really, I slowly loose my passion for black woman.

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  38.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 10

    "No one put me on the spot, two people made their opinion known; they do not think your racist. OK, that doesn’t make you not racist..." Then in your opinion, what makes me racist? "I am not sure you apologized but the bottom line is you were so anxious to jump on the band wagon you responded without really reading the post." You can NOT be sure all you want, but I did apologize 3 times. I was indeed anxious...to respond to a comment that a missing comma change the meaning of the sentence. If you study grammar, communication, and structure of the english language, you would know that it is possible. No lie! "You make false statements and get mad when someone tells the truth that is pretty pathetic. Your statements are the proof, I need no other proof than the lies you put out. You’re not special either, you need to grow up, you have no clue as too the topic of the question on this board, what are you doing here besides spreading lies." For the last time, what lies? You getting me confused with someone else. "...no clue as to the topic..."? Nowhere have I tried to comment on the topic, moron. "Your statements are that proof", yea, that's cute. I have yet to see you speak anything on this topic. You have bragged on yourself for being married to a black women and taking care of her kids, and experiencing some occasional racism. How does that answer what made you like a black women? The problem is, people are commenting on the topic heading, but not the topic article. The article by itself shows why many of the comments lack perspective. Especially this part: James: "Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys." I've never tried to give reason for white men. I don't know why or how you could even accuse me of such. "You have disputed that a black women is a sellout for dating white men period according to queens, you have never disputed that, of course when you follow it is hard to dispute who is leading you." I have never called a black woman a sellout. My issues with a person are my own. Bama, MzBrownSuga, and I just discussed this within the last 2 days. Pay attention. My issues with a person are my own. So what if someone else may share animosity toward that person. Doesn't mean I'm leading or following them, nor does it mean anyone is band-waggoning. No lie! You saying stuff like, "In fact I deal with more racism on a daily basis than you (a black person) do and probably more than you ever will." and “…probably work with more black people then you (any black person on the planet) even know…” is beyond lying. First off, I live in the deep south and always have. And second, I would love for you to say something like that to one of the black people that you know or work with. Just cut it out. I'm not arguing with you anymore. You're just making noise. No one that I've debated with on any topic of this website can say that I've ever lied, only that they don't agree with me. Just because you happened to stumble upon this website somehow, see people going back and forth, and figured, "I can say some rude stuff, too" doesn't mean that this is the purpose of this blog, and that what you've witnessed between black men and black women is anything that involves you if you: 1) Don't have anything to add that would ease relations between black men and black women. 2) Are a white man married to a black women, but have intention on saying anything about why you are with her or how you met her. That's the topic afterall. I'm not here to speak on the topic. I'm here to read what people might be saying about black women and wound up hearing negatives about black men. No lie!

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  39.   malarki5 says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 10

    Comment by MzBrOwNSuGaR on 17 April 2010: @ Menelik For the record : This is NOT what I said: Anybody with a sudden case of amnesia is the type of person that can be so nasty. I said : ” Anybody with a sudden case of amnesia or is the type of person that can be so nasty, and not see it as nasty, Oh Well” quote it right “Dear” Menelik replies: either wayb it means much the same thing! Oh, and for heaven's sake clean up your grammer, and then what you say what require editing, will it, mate? Menelik Charles London England

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  40.   Member says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 10

    (Leaning back) Other brother coming out swinging. What am I lying about? I don't even know what you are talking about concerning white women. I only mess with black women. You said this to me "Now because your broke two job working a** cannot afford groceries do not be bitter that I can. You’re pathetic, but sometimes you are amazingly correct, the few times you get something right you show a glimmer of hope." It sounds like a compliment in a strange way. You also said this "I raise three black children and two bi-racial children, my wife is black and we experience racism on a daily basis, that crap about someone being white can not understand what a black person goes through is just that crap. In fact I deal with more racism on a daily basis than you do and probably more than you ever will. My Bi-racial children get it from both ends. They are Black to the black community and they are not white to the white community, you have no clue what I understand because your pathetic A** is too busy being bitter about your ex leaving you for a white man. If you had had your A game she wouldn’t have left your bitter A**. You have no clue as to what I understand and deal with, I on the other hand know quite well what is going on, see when your racist you cannot see the complete picture." See, this is where you took the wrong turn on your bicycle. You are upset about "people" doing this to you and you're kids. I have never done that in public. Obviously, you have to vent here because it does bother you. I respect the fact you take care of those kids. I would say you are one of the few white guys I like on this board. However, you are letting that outside stuff get to you. You even said it yourself, the white community does not accept biracial children. I tend to disagree because I actually live in a small, white, working-class town. There is prejudice here but racism is a different thing. You can call me prejudice but racist is sort of overboard. A racist wouldn't even want you to succeed at all. A racist does not associate with other races. A racist thinks he is superior to other races. As for me not keeping a woman, I am not taking on a woman with multiple kids. But you take it as an insult to you. It ain't hard to get a woman. It is finding the "right woman". You gave me some insight into your background. Wife passed away and all that. I am being sincere about this. You might have jumped into a situation I would have thought "twice about". I would say the same thing to my best friend. Now if the woman makes you happy, that is a good thing. I can tell you are an emotional writer. I am a passionate writer too. But calling me and Ich racist is not going to make you feel better about your situation. You are puffing your chest out trying to hide something. Ich does not even go hard on you like he could. You taking are of x amount of people. I only take care of myself. How can I be broke? You can spin it like you make a "decent amount" of money. However, how much more can you make, if it was you, and your children or child? This argument about money does not even make sense to me. Even if you made more money than me, people depend on you. That can be stressful. The only thing I worry about is myself. I use to do be in your position a long time ago. It was a source of frustration for me. You think people appreciate what you do for them. You can tell people on here whatever you want. Take it easy. You know this is out of "character" for you. You have a nice day.

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  41.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 10

    OT Did y'all know April is Confederate History Month?

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  42.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 10

    Other: You're the one who said I might like Queens. I didn't....you're trying to insult him through me. I'll let him address that. Because I agree with what he say's then all of a sudden I must like him. I don't "need" a man, I want a man. Who doesn't want companionship? Don't you? You have a wife, I understand. Good. I don't want to marry up, did that before, but companionship WOULD be nice. I'm not dead and I still have much to offer in the way of a mature relationship. No one on this board, told (ME) to myself that they wouldn't WANT ME, (Black Men) NOT ONE yet. The only one who DID appears to be a White man. Hmmmm, need I say more? That was Salsassisout, him and only him. NOR DID I SAY I WANTED ANYONE PARTICIPATING IN THIS THREAD. If you want to get at whoever is complaining about the education of Black women and their desire to not be with them - got jump on their sticks. I don't have a stick and I wish you would stop thinking I do. Additionally, you CAN write all you want, BUT THIS WILL BE THE LAST TIME I HAVE A DISCOURSE WITH YOU. All other comments from you to me, will be ignored. I don't like to do that because it is rude. It truly is, but that's the way I'll clean up this job. Peace

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  43.   Member says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 10

    Now on to Itcha Boy No one put me on the spot, two people made their opinion known; they do not think your racist. OK, that doesn’t make you not racist, I am not sure you apologized but the bottom line is you were so anxious to jump on the band wagon you responded without really reading the post. I mean what you tried to state I stated didn’t even make sense. You say a few kind words, then accuse black women of being sellouts and I am supposed to jump for joy, you are truly pathetic. You calling someone pathetic on this board is like the pot calling the kettle black. You make false statements and get mad when someone tells the truth that is pretty pathetic. Your statements are the proof, I need no other proof than the lies you put out. You’re not special either, you need to grow up, you have no clue as too the topic of the question on this board, what are you doing here besides spreading lies. You know nothing about inter-racial dating or marriages, you have no clue as to why white men love black women, so your statements are baseless and a pathetic excuse to spread lies about black women and white men. You have disputed that a black women is a sellout for dating white men period according to queens, you have never disputed that, of course when you follow it is hard to dispute who is leading you. Me on the other hand I have disputed with Black men, Black women and White men on this blog. There just doesn’t seem to be too many white women on this blog. I wonder why that is, because the question is why do white men love black women, white women do not know the answer to that, and either do black men. So talk about a subject you know about and quit spreading lies.

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  44.   Member says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 10

    . Queens, I know you’re a little slow but your lies are really getting worse. I came on this board and answered the very question this blog asks, you made false statements about white men, I proved you wrong numerous times, you came back whimpering with some other excuses, you put your bio out there like you were special I put mine out there and you whined, because it was as good if not better than yours. You continued to make false statements and I kept thumping you in our debates. You got fed up and accused me of hollering, I stated I can holler and holler pretty darn well. Of course the facts are I have hit on no one on this board, I have however responded to questions or gave statements on lies posted on this blog. Because a person on this blog expressed their nonsense about their standard for how they deal with their mate is how everybody should be, which I of course addressed doesn’t make her a sellout, that is your racist A** showing again. That is why I have had two very successful marriages, my late wife and my current wife. Now because your broke two job working a** cannot afford groceries do not be bitter that I can. You’re pathetic, but sometimes you are amazingly correct, the few times you get something right you show a glimmer of hope. That is why I really think you date white women and then talk trash about inter- racial dating and marriages. I raise three black children and two bi-racial children, my wife is black and we experience racism on a daily basis, that crap about someone being white can not understand what a black person goes through is just that crap. In fact I deal with more racism on a daily basis than you do and probably more than you ever will. My Bi-racial children get it from both ends. They are Black to the black community and they are not white to the white community, you have no clue what I understand because your pathetic A** is too busy being bitter about your ex leaving you for a white man. If you had had your A game she wouldn’t have left your bitter A**. You have no clue as to what I understand and deal with, I on the other hand know quite well what is going on, see when your racist you cannot see the complete picture. You cannot keep a women and you talk about black women (a Few phone calls and I can get some Booty) like they are no more than booty call. Your pathetic and need to grow up. Get a clue, quit lying and just answers the question. Why are you so racist?

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  45.   Member says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 10

    First I'll address Ms. Petechick, I’ll address anybody I want, this is an open blog, you stated you needed a man, Queens is available, I just know from his posts that if your educated he has problems with that because your too demanding and want to much. Do not get mad at me that is what he said I am just repeating it. You made lies about black women and white men and expect nobody to respond? How special do you think you are? You do not agree with dating white men, queens says he doesn’t agree with dating white women, Personally I think he really has one on the side and she runs him so he is a little bitter. So the two of you are available I just suggested you two hook up. I mean you two are delusional about white men and black women so you can be delusional together. The only person with a comprehension problem is you. You made a false statement; I gave you facts disputing those statements, and you came right back with the same false statements

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  46.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 10

    @ Menelik For the record : This is NOT what I said: Anybody with a sudden case of amnesia is the type of person that can be so nasty. I said : " Anybody with a sudden case of amnesia or is the type of person that can be so nasty, and not see it as nasty, Oh Well" quote it right "Dear"

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  47.   moreena says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 10

    There are black men who are still good.We black women need to give them a chance.I would prefer to date my own first and then look at other races last.

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  48.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 16 Apr 10

    Bama: Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 16 April 2010: She’s Notre Dame’s first black valedictorian (WBBM) — History is being made at the University of Notre Dame this spring. --------------------------------------------------- It's all over Black media. It's the stop story at Blackvoices.com!

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  49.   Member says:
    Posted: 16 Apr 10

    (Eating popcorn and listening to Friendly) "Mr. Laurelton Queens and reveals this truth about himself because he knows that no black woman would have him and would rather have a white man who appreciates her instead. That is the reason that you put all of your time into “…two jobs…” and the gym because you aren’t getting any play. I was wrong you really don’t have a life. You will wind up falling in love with a white woman eventually (they probably don’t want you either), since you think so negatively about black women and don’t appreciate them. Unless of course you are going to start dating men. You are probably one of those men who only works on his upper body all the time and has bird legs. I guess you read my profile and found out that I look pretty good for my age and after having four kids. Don’t hate just appreciate." LOL bird legs. I won't go to much into my personal life. There are always women around. IN particular, black women with multiple children. Somehow, it is our loss to have you with your multiple kids. LOL Man, are you serious? I don't care if you was Tyra Banks. I wouldn't take on a woman with four kids! Sorry, you are not Tyra Banks. You are attractive for having 4 kids. But run that game to those white boys. (Holding hands out hands, black woman with four kids) or (Black woman with no kids and average looking). HMMMM that is a tough one. LOL Now, I have no life because I choose to devote my time to other things. There are plenty of desperate women to have sex with. If the black vagina was the stock market, it would have crashed by now. I am gentleman now. I look for a woman on my level. One that I don't have to wait for a babysitter to come over, so we can go out. You got me confused with "Other Brother". I am not putting up with that shit. He is willing to take care of several black women with several children. Provided they are receptive to him "hollering" at them. Your vagina and mouth would have to be made out of gold for me to do all that shit. Sorry for being "crass" but I couldn't say it differently. (Shrug) Have a nice weekend.

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  50.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 16 Apr 10

    Queens lack of comprehension is very entertaining. He acts like he is showing me up because of this case, when I specifically said the jury is out. But Queen specifically stated that a child that age raped by multiple people would be dead. That is a general statement. Or are you claiming South African girls are a different species with different chances of survival?

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