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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Response to the Tyrant: Well, I am not suprised to see you living up to your image of TYRANT. The last time I looked my 4th amendment rights are still in force. Like others twisted my points to discredit my initial comments, I simply responded to what I gathered. Sorry that you got your toes stepped on somewhere along the line. I said what I wanted to say and since you seem to be one of my biggest fans I expect to get more resentful and insulting outbursts from you in the future. What I said in the initial message was very clear. I do not have room to pull out the statistics specificaly as Ms. Petite so eloquently does. If I feel that opening up my eyes to men other than just black men then I am entitled to and will do so. Of course, people like you will get angry and lash out at me through whatever means they can. It appears that my inellectual presence and independent spirit is getting your soup in a stir. Of course, you will find something to say about that also won't you. Truth is, everyone on this site, evidentally, is not for IR. Apparently there are some spies in the midst attempting to discourage IR dating anyway they can. I date white men for whatever reason I choose, I like it.

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  2.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    friendly13 said: Menelik, regarding the line by line rebuttal: You are from London England. What do you know about black women anyway? Menelik replies: what sort of a question is that? My mother and five sisters are Black women for starters! friendly13 said: You have to look over here to try to get a woman. And since this is an inter-racial site, I would assume you are looking for a woman of color other than your own. Menelik replies: you would assume wrong. Assume instead that I have a woman...and a Black one at that! friendly13 said: Just because I no longer reserve myself for black men doesn’t make me a reject. The choices that black men make doesn’t make me a reject either. Menelik replied: is that so Ms friendly? Then how do you explain the following quotes below? friendly13 said: 1) I will admit, I have to... ask why am I reserving myself for only black men when they are not reserving themselves for me? 2) It is likely that I will be asked to get married by a white man than a black man because many black men do not appreciate black women anymore. 3) I am not going to down white women any more because black men tend to prefer them. 4) I have learned a hard lesson. I have learned that I should open my choices up instead of closing them. 5)Instead of us crying and feeling bad about ourselves we should consider white men who like us... Menelik replies: anyone who didn't feel rejected would NOT have made the statements above, Ms friendly, for they wreak of bad faith; especially envy! friendly13 said: I am a strong woman and can handle criticism. Menelik replies: we shall see! Menelik Charles London England

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  3.   Member says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    (Listening to this) friendly13 said: If a whiteman who initially takes, Tameka from the ghetto with 4 kids by other men, to bed realizes that he just can’t live without her, he’s not only going to marry her but also fight for her, and cry over her as well. I have seen it happen. Where did you see this at a crack house???????????? I know how you saw this. You was smoking the crack pipe with Tameka and her white man. It was your imagination. Sorry, never seen a white man take on a black woman with 4 kids. If you are seeing that, you are hallucinating. Good day

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  4.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    friendly Are you even remotely paying ATTENTION to what you type, and while we're on that subject, are you even paying ATTENTION to the response that Menelik gave to what you typed? Apparently NOT, because you went off on one hell of a TANGENT. Let's try this one more time. Comment by Malarki5 on 13 April 2010: friendly13 said: Well, I have been reading a lot of crazy comments on this forum and I am amazed. Menelik asks: what do you call “crazy”? friendly13 said: If a whiteman who initially takes, Tameka from the ghetto with 4 kids by other men, to bed realizes that he just can’t live without her, he’s not only going to marry her but also fight for her, and cry over her as well. I have seen it happen. Menelik replies: what you claim to have seen is hardly a common occurrence, and is NEVER likely to be, and you’d be “crazy” to think otherwise! friendly13 said: I will admit, I have had to look at myself and ask why am I reserving myself for only black men when they are not reserving themselves for me? Menelik asks: no Black man is “reserving” himself for a Black woman? That sounds “crazy”! friendly13 said: It is more likely that I will be asked to get married by a white man than a black man because many black men simply do not appreciate black women anymore. Menelik says: so therefore you’ll have to SETTLE for a marital invitation from a white man, yes? OK. friendly13 said: I am not going to down white women any more because black men tend to prefer them. Menelik asks: are those the 92% of married Black men married to Black women or 85% of Black men dating Black women? Which group are you referring to, babes? friendly13 said: I have learned a hard lesson. I have learned that I should open my choices up instead of closing them. Menelik replies: it would appear from what you’re saying that you have no choice but to date/marry and settle for a white man! friendly13 said: there are white men who want to experience sexual relationships with black women… so why should people get angrier at them than they should with black men who get with white women for the same reason? Menelik asks: who on here is getting “angry”, darling? friendly13 said: One thing about a black woman is that if she loves you she will always have her man’s back financially and emotionally. Menelik replies: and don’t those wonderful alpha males - commonly known as thugs, appreciate your frequent financial bail-outs and emotional neediness? friendly13 said: black women have been taking care of business since slavery. Menelik replies: and given that white slave masters destroyed all notions of the male-headed Black family, I figure that “business” is NOT being taken care of at all under Black matriarchy, don’t you? friendly13 said: We have been left by black men for white women in past relationships. Menelik asks: clearly you are speaking from personal experience here otherwise, why the “WE”? friendly13 said: Instead of us crying and feeling bad about ourselves we should consider whitemen who like us and not worry about the white men who don’t like us. Menelik replies: and all because 1) black men allegedly “prefer” white women 2) a Black man left you for a white woman and 3) you can’t compete with white women for Black men’s affections. friendly13 said: If society could trap black women by making them feel inferior to white women it will. It is not the white woman or man’s fault. Menelik replies: so no blame is apportioned to either white men or women for the condition of Black men or women? I see which direction your loyalties are heading, sweetie, but before you go, I have a question: which race of men run’s/controls American “society” and which race of women benefits most from the men who control, say, the mass media which is instrumental in making Black women feel inferior to white women? Menelik Charles London England @friendly Why don't you READ what you said and Menelik's response to what you said instead of having a conversation with yourself. @Menelik This was an EXCELLENT deconstruction of friendly's post, but like Bamababe, she's only going to selective read (That's provided she's even reading at all, what you wrote.) Then again, she's not even reading what she typed, so I don't expect her to look at anything you've written.

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  5.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Responses to criticisms from the Lady PetiteChick(you definitely go style), Menelike Charles of London England, and of course the infamous Mr. Laurelton Queens. I will organize this as concisely as I can: First of all PetiteChick I agree with your added thoughts that keeping a man guessing and not just laying it all out on the table is wise. Well, it is wise considering that is what the men you like desire. There are some men who like it hot though and (sorry Mr. Queens) there are some men who obviously don't. But, this is not the fashion advice column. If I wanted advice about how people think I should dress to get a man then I wouldn't come here. I am 43 years old and I a going to dress however I want to regardless of the slinging insults by Mr. Queens. One day Mr. Queens you are going to insult someone’s wife and her husband is going to put you in your place. Taste varies from person to person, likewise what a man wants and is looking for varies also. All men are not like Mr. Queens (Thankfully). I am not a whore because I have a big butt. There is no since in people getting mad at me because I have one and feeling like if I had on a different pair of jeans they would like me better. Our new First Lady has been criticized for showing her arms for goodness sake. I like what she said in an interview (and I will paraphrase) I will wear what I want to wear. I am simply using myself as an example regarding the butt issue because it has always been something that has caused me a lot of ridicule since high school. But I learned to accept it and love it. Now for Mr. Manelike regarding the line by line rebuttal: You are from London England. What do you know about black women anyway? You have to look all the way over here to try to get one. And since this is an interracial site, I would assume you are looking for a woman of color other than your own. Just because I no longer reserve myself for black men doesn't make me a reject. The choices that black men make doesn't make me a reject either. Your comment sounds cute but it is not reality. Mr. Menelik perhaps you are a reject since you can’t get a black woman from London to have you. Black men are sparse and white women are going after them. I have come to learn that that is okay. They have he right to do it and I also have the right to make myself available to the larger pool of white men. As far as the comment regarding Tameka....again we are talking about reality...we are in good ol America....we live in a worldly ungodly place that is not driven by the morals of the bible anymore. Men, black or white generally are after one thing. Now, Ms. Petite you are right: The likelihood of who a white man goes out with is going to be in his own race. The same is true for black men and black women. IR seekers are still in the vast minority. Let's face it in this country a black man could get shot in a drive by or be the victim of black on black crime before he ever has the chance to consider married. I have been there. Many of them aren't going to marry anyone. The chances of a black woman getting married are slimmer than the chances of our white sisters in the US. Now that is based on the stats of if we are waiting on a black man. White men simply see the benefits of getting married more often. Now, I am not generalizing here. I am just speaking of the likelihood knowing that there are always exceptions. My relative was in two long-term marriages to white men and never a black man. So, based on what I have seen personally my thoughts are confirmed. As far as the sex and love hang-up....yes, there are times the good old doggish man black, white, or otherwise thought he would just lay down with a woman only to leave and never return keeps returning. All races of men are capable of this behavior and mentality. There is no sense in being mad about that. There is no sense in being mad a the fictitious character Tameka either. Love comes all sort of ways. Sometimes Tameka may take a chance if the chemistry is there and she like the damn guy. I believe that when we reserve ourselves to one sort of way we may limit ourselves. I am speaking based on an experience I am not going to share. I know a person (I will not say who) who met a man, had no kids, they didn't wait to have sex (did it on the first date), they lived together for 1 year, then they got married and stayed married and are still married. They are not in church or anything. And this woman was spilling out of her clothes and still does because that is what her husband likes (and she is not Hispanic). Now, I know I am going to now be labeled as an advocate for this behavior wrongly. But that is okay, I am a strong woman and can handle criticism. So, I rest on this matter. Thanks for the chance to reiterate and clarify.

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  6.   Member says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    That youtube is 'racist". LOL Yea okay. Maybe these white guys need to fight back in Denver. They looked like "easy targets". Lastly, there is way more black on black crime in American than a youtube news article. LOL I got a good laugh though.

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  7.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Oh brother, the "I don't have the power to be racist" claim. LMAO!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_uNnf1mojE /watch?v=ZsM3jUZdpLo /watch?v=fubn713BdQ4 /watch?v=FWYgdXO7HjE /watch?v=Ftcbk10L87k /watch?v=DVd1eD__yPU /watch?v=99cw-wdHUwA

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  8.   Member says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    (Eating popcorn) Otherbrother was doing well. He asks me some absurd question about being racist. You got no right to ask me if I am "racist". For me to be racist, I would need the "power" to stop a white person from getting a job, housing, and etc. I will tell you this much. I didn't decide to date black women "all of a sudden"! I was raised in the black community. The question is why do you hate your "own race"? You also said this................. "To all of you black women afraid to open your mind that is fine, it is your loss, do not though question the black woman who presents herself with choices, because you limited your choices. Do not black men call black women sell outs because you feel threatened you cannot have your vanilla ice cream and chocolate cake, it just doesn’t work that way anymore." So, it is the black woman's LOSS not to have you. Oh how "high and mighty" of you. Another white guy with an out of control ego that cheats on his black wife with multiple kids. You have a severe control problem. Now black women "intentionally" limited their choices for dating. I don't even know what you mean by they can't have their vanilla and chocolate cake anymore. Judging from your lifestyle, your woman is doing that to you now. You do "everything" right? You break your back at work and she "sitting" back making you egg sandwiches and orange juice. The rest of the day you at work she watching "The View". You seem to think that is hard work for a woman. I have to leave now. You better take it easy before you end up like "Marquez aka Sal". I will call you Ricky Hatton (Otherbrother). Everybody know your wife tells you what to do. Man look for my new post Vigilante Season 2 The "Garcelle Story and the Stacey Dash Story". http://mrlaureltonqueens.blogspot.com/2010/02/money-power-and-respect-david-w-johnson.html

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  9.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Other Brother said: The fact is black women have the right to date who they want... Menelik replied: and an additional fact is that they tend NOT to want to date or marry people like you (i.e. white) but people like myself (i.e. Black)...unless, as friendly13 makes apparent, they have little option but to settle on their (by some distance) second choice i.e. white men! I mean, according to friendly13's logic, you're getting Black men's rejects when you propose to the likes of her! Don't take offence, Chuck, just go read her words for yourself! Menelik Charles London England

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  10.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    PetiteChick, I am so glad you graced us with your presence.

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  11.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    friendly13 said: Well, I have been reading a lot of crazy comments on this forum and I am amazed. Menelik asks: what do you call "crazy"? friendly13 said: If a whiteman who initially takes, Tameka from the ghetto with 4 kids by other men, to bed realizes that he just can’t live without her, he's not only going to marry her but also fight for her, and cry over her as well. I have seen it happen. Menelik replies: what you claim to have seen is hardly a common occurrence, and is NEVER likely to be, and you'd be "crazy" to think otherwise! friendly13 said: I will admit, I have had to look at myself and ask why am I reserving myself for only black men when they are not reserving themselves for me? Menelik asks: no Black man is "reserving" himself for a Black woman? That sounds "crazy"! friendly13 said: It is more likely that I will be asked to get married by a white man than a black man because many black men simply do not appreciate black women anymore. Menelik says: so therefore you'll have to SETTLE for a marital invitation from a white man, yes? OK. friendly13 said: I am not going to down white women any more because black men tend to prefer them. Menelik asks: are those the 92% of married Black men married to Black women or 85% of Black men dating Black women? Which group are you referring to, babes? friendly13 said: I have learned a hard lesson. I have learned that I should open my choices up instead of closing them. Menelik replies: it would appear from what you're saying that you have no choice but to date/marry and settle for a white man! friendly13 said: there are white men who want to experience sexual relationships with black women... so why should people get angrier at them than they should with black men who get with white women for the same reason? Menelik asks: who on here is getting "angry", darling? friendly13 said: One thing about a black woman is that if she loves you she will always have her man's back financially and emotionally. Menelik replies: and don't those wonderful alpha males - commonly known as thugs, appreciate your frequent financial bail-outs and emotional neediness? friendly13 said: black women have been taking care of business since slavery. Menelik replies: and given that white slave masters destroyed all notions of the male-headed Black family, I figure that "business" is NOT being taken care of at all under Black matriarchy, don't you? friendly13 said: We have been left by black men for white women in past relationships. Menelik asks: clearly you are speaking from personal experience here otherwise, why the "WE"? friendly13 said: Instead of us crying and feeling bad about ourselves we should consider whitemen who like us and not worry about the white men who don’t like us. Menelik replies: and all because 1) black men allegedly "prefer" white women 2) a Black man left you for a white woman and 3) you can't compete with white women for Black men's affections. friendly13 said: If society could trap black women by making them feel inferior to white women it will. It is not the white woman or man's fault. Menelik replies: so no blame is apportioned to either white men or women for the condition of Black men or women? I see which direction your loyalties are heading, sweetie, but before you go, I have a question: which race of men run's/controls American "society" and which race of women benefits most from the men who control, say, the mass media which is instrumental in making Black women feel inferior to white women? Menelik Charles London England

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  12.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Brother said: Petite chick I do not know what white man broke your heart, maybe just maybe he wasn’t at fault. The bottom line is you are way off. 1. Why is the BM/WM Ratio three times th WM/BW Divorec rate. In Fact all races and inter racial divorces are pretty close to the same except one, that is the BM/WM. Now tell me who is with who for sex. Sex doesn’t hold a marriage together alone. It takes much more than that. You are right about one thing, not all black women want white men, well not all white men want black women, not all white women want black men, not all black men want white women. What does that have to do with the facts. Which are black women and white men are marrying at a pace of twice of black men and white women. The fact is black women have the right to date who they want, and because they choose not to date and marry queens does not make them a sell out. Fact is you double talk and triple talk then you try to pat yourself on the back. Lets live in reality, you are quickly becoming the minority, see it is all good as long as you agree with queens but if a white man came by that swept you off your feet you would be a sellout, just for falling in love. That is the choice you have be with a black man or be a sell out. Hurray for that choice. PetiteChick says: It wasn't me who said sex holds a relationship together. You either need glasses or you just need to slow down and read more carefully. Twas the other chick (friendly13) on here who thinks sex = love. I had to correct that erroneous statement. And I did. Scroll up instead of down while reading posts - then come and join the conversations. You began your comments smack dab in the middle w/o reading a good portion of the dialogue. How smart is that?

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  13.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Well look here brother, no White man broke my heart, but a Black man did. See, here's MY thing, (many of you simply FAIL to capture the essence of what I'm getting at) BLACK MEN ARE PRONE TO DATING WHITE WOMEN MUCH MORE SO THAN WHITE MEN DATING BLACK WOMEN ON A SERIOUS LEVEL. Now if that truth bothers you, you'll just need to get over it. Really, accept it for what it is. FOR THE LAST TIME, I did not, NEVER DID say that White men can't and don't get with Black women. THEY DO. It's not on a grand scale, however! If it were then the ratios would not be so disproportionate. Please learn to read what is being written before you misconstrue what you're reading and respond in haste.

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  14.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Other Brother said: Petite chick I do not know what white man broke your heart, maybe just maybe he wasn’t at fault. Menelik asks: 1) is this a question or a statement? Menelik Charles London England

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  15.   Member says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    People, do not hate the player, hate the game, if you cannot get a man or a woman do not hate on someone who does. There are so many more important issues we face today than hating on someone because you have relationship issues. We are at war, our economy is still in the dump, we have massive homeless children in our country, and yes unfortunately we have major racism issues still in 2010. We have students graduating college that cannot read and why do we get mad when African Americans excel at sports, see it is hard to change a rule in a football game right in the middle of the game African Americans excel in sports because usually there is an even playing field once allowed on the field. It is no difference in dating once black women started opening up their options it leveled the playing field and now some are crying foul. I have always and always will encourage people to be open to dating and getting to know someone of another race or nationality. We do not get together out of fear out of perceived lies that have been told to us. We believe every word we read, every newscast we hear ( We usually only watch one and get that one side). Every piece of advice our lonely and miserable friends give us and in the end what do we get. We get to be miserable right next to them. To all of you black women afraid to open your mind that is fine, it is your loss, do not though question the black woman who presents herself with choices, because you limited your choices. Do not black men call black women sell outs because you feel threatened you cannot have your vanilla ice cream and chocolate cake, it just doesn’t work that way anymore.

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  16.   Member says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Queens said WOW Sal a liar. Location: United States, Iowa, Davenport Age: 50 I am a: Man Looking for a: Woman, aged 35 - 60 Relationship seeking: Long Term Relationship, Short Term Relationship, Friends, Pen Pal Eye color: Blue Hair color: White or Gray Height: 6′0″ (183cm) or above Body Type: Average My ethnicity is: White / European descent Religion: Christian - Catholic Education: Some college Smoking behavior: Do not smoke, but ok if you do Drinking behavior: Drink regularly Relationship Status: Divorced Have children: Yes, not living at home Want children: No Languages: English Occupation: Tradesman When it comes to relocation: I would relocate within my country Starsign: Capricorn “Some college”, “Tradesman”, Alcoholic. This guy is a fraud. I figure some of the sellout black women here “knew” he was fraud. I am really disappointed with the sellout black women on the board. Y’all knew he was a fraud and didn’t say anything. Looks like the Latino Mail boy got exposed. No wonder he lashed out at Petite. Why are black women subjected to lying ass white men? I mean just keep it real. Why go into a story about getting a degree in international studies and a JD from an unknown Law School. Divorced from his Latina wife. Now is washed up looking for a black woman to take on that baggage. I doubt there will be a round 2. Marquez is already knocked out. Who would have thought a black woman would have ended “Sal” like this. You should have just left it alone. Sal Said Men, I’ll respond to you later. I’m just laughing at Queens idiotic misunderstanding of ‘Petite’s post. SHe was speaking of one of the guys supposedly hitting on her. Those are not my stats. Dumb Ass. Dumb, da dumb dumb. Here is mine: Undercover Latino. Nickname: Salsassin Location: United States, Georgia, Atlanta Age: 40 I am a: Man Looking for a: Woman, aged 21 - 42 Relationship seeking: Friends Eye color: Blue Hair color: Dark Blonde Height: 5′7″-5′11″ (170cm-180cm) Body Type: A few extra pounds My ethnicity is: Black / African descent, White / European descent, Latino / Hispanic, Mixed / Multi, Native American, Other Religion: Spiritual, but not religious Education: Graduate degree Smoking behavior: Do not smoke, but ok if you do Drinking behavior: Drink Socially Relationship Status: Single Have children: No Want children: Yes Languages: Spanish, English, Portuguese Occupation: Legal When it comes to relocation: I would relocate anywhere in the world Starsign: Libra Queens said QQ reading it Oh a misunderstanding then Sal. It was a sincere mistake. I question the “undercover” Latino label. Plus, you are in Georgia. I would take “undercover” out because you are in Georgia. Some gay black dudes in Georgia might make you their prison bitch. Good day. Other brother says bull shit it wasn't an honest mistake just anothor one of your many lies that you have been caught in. I think Sal just knocked you the F**K out. You need help you need to call some of your mis informed friends and ask them for help because your really getting plummitted out there.

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  17.   Member says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Petite chick I do not know what white man broke your heart, maybe just maybe he wasn't at fault. The bottom line is you are way off. 1. Why is the BM/WM Ratio three times th WM/BW Divorec rate. In Fact all races and inter racial divorces are pretty close to the same except one, that is the BM/WM. Now tell me who is with who for sex. Sex doesn't hold a marriage together alone. It takes much more than that. You are right about one thing, not all black women want white men, well not all white men want black women, not all white women want black men, not all black men want white women. What does that have to do with the facts. Which are black women and white men are marrying at a pace of twice of black men and white women. The fact is black women have the right to date who they want, and because they choose not to date and marry queens does not make them a sell out. Fact is you double talk and triple talk then you try to pat yourself on the back. Lets live in reality, you are quickly becoming the minority, see it is all good as long as you agree with queens but if a white man came by that swept you off your feet you would be a sellout, just for falling in love. That is the choice you have be with a black man or be a sell out. Hurray for that choice.

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  18.   Member says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Queens, You have still failed to answer my question Why Are You So Racist. You got punked by Salsassin How many people do you have to get punked by before you relize how stupid you sound. Just Answer the question WHY ARE YOU SO RACIST? It is a simple question just answer it.

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  19.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    LOL @ girl what you got on? I have seen fotos of club goers on various forums and have witnessed for myself the way women go dressed up in clubs. One summer eve, while on my way home from somewhere's...I ran into one who had on a nice sparkly mesh like top. With absolutely no bra on under it. Totally see through. Riding public transportation. All I could think of was that I hope she got to her destination safely, cause she was alone.

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  20.   Member says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Let me respond to the spilling out of their clothes comment. When I was in New York, I would often see black and Latina girls "spilling out of their clothes". Just because I may look at it or "even like it". Does not mean that is acceptable. LOL I think some black women and Latin women confuse "whorish dressing" with "dressing sexy". In their defense, some of these women don't realize they are dressing "whorish". They are literally clueless. Especially, the Latin women. Lastly, some women are just born with big hips and ass. No matter what they 'wear" they will draw attention. I am aware of that. People act like I am only the one that sees "these women" spilling out of their clothes. I have seen women literally "stop in their tracks" and say "Girl what do you got on"! But if she want to dress that way. That is fine with me. I never said it was "wrong or right". It is just "whorish". Good day.

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  21.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Da hell, I said I wasn't coming back on here. But that comment by Friendly13 on the confusion of love and sex just threw me for a loop.................. I JUST HAD TO!

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  22.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    With regards to women spilling out of their clothes, WE ALL KNOW THE DOUBLE STANDARDS society places on men and women. Men get more pay, men get to make the important decisions (they think) at least anyway. I think what the poster was trying to say was that, if tastefully done, a woman can look good without showing everything she's got. In other words, keeping him guessing a lil while about what's to come. Now that's tastefully done! Coochie out, dresses up to the neck ain't cute it's whorish. If you look like a whore, then you will be approached like one. No doubt about the double standards of a patriarchal society. But you won't go any place on earth and find one that is not! Sistah's keep looking good, but to attract a decent man - if he wants YOU (the whole package) keep it looking fresh and neat - don't bare it all. I heard some women on here have fotos like they're dressed for some of those skeezy video shoots. Soft porn or something. Then you want a good man? OK....

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  23.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    Women of color don't need no boosting from nobody! We are fantabulous. What we NEED is not to be sold a bill of false goods. We have a right to choose like any other race of people. Black women have worked hard to get what we have. What we need to do is educate ourselves and stop living vicariously through the media and pop culture!

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  24.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 10

    OMG Friendly13 do you believe sex = love? Therein lays the problem. If White man takes Tameka with 3 kids from the ghetto to bed (and falls in love with her).....Baby, that ain't love that's just phucking and lust. What comes after that or should happen simultaneously is commitment and intimacy. Ooops, I forgot not many know what intimacy means. It's not just sex, girlfriend. It's sharing in every sense of the word. And um, hell yeah a White man can fall in love with a Black chick. That is not hard to fathom. What is hard to fathom is that there will be whole great gang of them doing it. The stages of love: Lust/passion/romantic aspect, you know that part where you just can't be apart and or keep your hands off one another? That's the easy part. It feels good as hell. Intimacy: That part where you share of yourself your emotional ups and downs, your hopes and dreams and believe that the person you are sharing said information with can take it and appreciate it for what it is. Commitment: After all the phucking and suck'n is done (cause that's gonna die down naturally). That slows (EVERYBODY KNOWS THAT) if there has been no intimacy there will be no commitment. I refer you to the following: Nijole V. Benokraitis, (2008) Marriages & Families: Changes, Choices and Constraints, Pearson, Prentice Hall There are several theories of love within this textbook. I suggest we all face reality and stop living in cinderella land.

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  25.   Renee says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 10

    There are white men who will love and who will marry a black women...There are black men who will love and marry a white woman...There are black women who will love and will accept the white man's proposal...There are white women who will love and accept the black man's proposal...We are ALL human...All different...God sees us all the same...There is no one race that is better than the other...No matter who you fall in love with, enjoy it and do not worry about what anyone thinks...

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  26.   fkoi says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 10

    I'm with Ms. Friendly13. Guys, at least wear a strapped T-shirt at least in the front yard. Man, nobody wants to look at that! I guess my watchword for all of us is taste. If you got it, worked hard to get and want to show a bit, bring it! Personally, I feel a little "spillage" from "foxy women...who know how to package themselves" a can be a good thing! LOL

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  27.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 10

    Message to Mr. Queens: I have noticed that you seem to get some reward whenever you refer to women "spilling out of their clothes..." however, that is a very sexist remark. The reason that it is sexist is because I have seen men out in the front yard mowing the lawn with no shirt, wearing only shorts, and flip flops. If I went out in the front yard with a push-up bra and a sexy fitting tanktop with shorts and flip flops you would say absoloutely nothing about the fat out of shape guy with boobs who has on no shirt (because he is a man and can do that because it is acceptale in society because he is a man even though he could wear a C cup). No instead you would be mad about the hot looking black chick (me) who is fully dressed but turning heads. The only head turning the guy across the street would be getting is turning away in disgust by passers by. I think you are secretly attracted to foxy women who spill out of their clothes. Especially us beautiful black women with crevacious butts (like mine) and who know how to package themselves so we don't feel like dried up old maids. I'm sorry but I like looking good. I guess that is why the push-up bra industry is booming. I think I will go out and buy some stock. If you think your comments discourage us foxy sexy sisters into the shadows, you have undermined your purpose. It just makes us (me) want to continue to be sexy and noticable. I like it. Know what else I am educated too.

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  28.   MzBrOwNSuGaR says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 10

    Bravo Friendly13. Well said. I say to all ladies, whether you are black, white,or purple.. Love who you want to love. It's your business. Who gives a flip what anybody else says, ESPECIALLY another man for crying out loud.

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  29.   Lala says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 10

    I pretty much look black, but I'm completely biracial btw, like every one is biracial in my family back to like, my great great great great great grandparents. I'm 29 years old, and this is what I have found. Black men tend to like white women as friends, and black girls as gfs. White guys tend to like black girl as friends, and white girls as gfs. BUT EVERY ONE IS DIFFERENT! HOWEVER though, I have met extremely few if any black guys that like white girls, and LOTS of white guys that like black girls. And this is why I think white men are drawn to the opposite race: Black people tend to have bigger sexual things. That means black girls tend to have bigger butts, boobs, curves, and lips then white girls. You almost NEVER see a black girl using lip liner and fillings, or getting plastic boob enhancing surgery. And black girls do not need or WANT to stuff there butts, that was pretty much invented for white girls. So when a white guys see's a black girl, he gets overwhelmed and that's all he see's. They look so exotic and out there and sexually perfect, that it seems like he HAS to have her NOW, or the world ends. Confidence is also key. And everyone is different, but I have found black girls to be more confident then white girls, and they have plenty reasons to be (no offense) So many girls want to be like them with lip fillings, tans, butt and bra stuffing, and black girls have the real thing, so when he see's them he's all like FINALLY! REAL BOOBS! Now everyone is different, but that has seemed to be the case that white guys like black girls but black guys don't like white girls, and that is why I think that case is so :D

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  30.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 11 Apr 10

    LOL@Daffy, talking about this blog will someday be his....maybe some pigs (with lipstick....LOL) will be flying right after that.....WOOOOOOO! Actually, the hateful mess that this place is lately, you can rightfully have it. ....OH and you thought what I said was "vicious"....Like you have said before sometimes the "truth" is just painful. (apparently so after "it's" over-emotional and poorly put together response....tee hee). You didn't see me crying when my actual gender was questioned....had a big laugh and provide my "comeback"; I admittedly have a "weird" sense of humor though. Yet, my knowledge of SELF is never blurry....so the insecure ones can "BLAH BLAH BLAH" until they are blue (or whatever shade of "green") in the face....MATTERS NONE. For the record, I don't live in the past.....but I most definitely learn from it....you can't treat everyone as an equal all the time. Although, the "puppets" seem to continue to latch on to the stuff that NEVER happened/what the "master" said "happened"....AMAZING....LMAO. Peace and Blessings tatted2death

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  31.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 11 Apr 10

    friendly13, Thank you much for that positive post (boosting up the women of color....which rarely happens here nowadays...even by other women....sad)....so get ready for the barrage of negativity...LOL. It only (human) natural. Peace and Blessings tatted2death

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  32.   friendly13 says:
    Posted: 10 Apr 10

    Well, I have been reading a lot of crazy comments on this forum and I am amazed. I will admit, I have had to look at myself and ask the question...why am I reserving myself for only blackmen when they are not reserving themselves for me. I have an Aunt who has been in two long term marriages to whitemen (the last one she is still married to and they have been together for over 14 years). Both of her husbands took her home to their mothers (who love(d) her dearly). My uncle worships the ground my aunt walks on. Whitemen are like anyother man. They like to play around like blackmen do. It is more likely that I will be asked to get married by a whiteman than a blackman in todays society because many blackmen simply do not appreciate blackwomen anymore. I am not going to down whitewomen anymore because blackmen tend to prefer them. I have learned a hard lesson. I have learned that I should open my choices up instead of closing them. Yes, there are whitemen who want to experience sexual relationships with blackwomen. Some of them primarily have relationships with only women from another race...it turns them on. Okay, so why should people get any angrier at them than they should with blackmen who get with whitewomen for the same reason. Whitemen do and can fall in love with a blackwoman. Whitemen can fall in love with Tameka with the four kids who lives in the ghetto. It all boils down to chemestry. If a whiteman who initially takes, tameka from the ghetto with kids by other men, to bed realizes that he just can't live without tameka he is going to not only marry her but also fight for her and cry over her as well. I am sorry because I have seen it happen. One thing about a black woman is that if she loves you she will always have her mans back financially and emotionally. When he is going through something she is not just going to leave but she will have the strength and resourceful nature to help him because blackwomen have been taking care of business since slavery. We have been left by blackmen for whitewomen in past relationships. Instead of us crying over that and feeling bad about ourselves we should consider whitemen who like us and not worry about the whitemen who don't like us. Believe me there are too many whitemen who prefer us to be worrying about the ones who won't. If society could trap blackwomen by making them feel inferior to whitewomen it will. The sad thing is that is not the whitewoman or mans fault. Blackwomen have to make their own choices and ignore what other people think because it just does not matter.

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  33.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 10 Apr 10

    Damn he's a LIBRA...don't mesh well with Capricorns....LOL just kidding. Im just trying to add a little comic relief in this war zone....LOL.Have a GREAT WEEKEND EVERYONE!

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  34.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    (Eating popcorn) So, that is what "undercover" means to you. I can't recall calling myself calling myself undercover anything. You are really sensitive you know that. By the way, I don't live in Georgia. If I did, I do not think, I would be using the term Undercover. It just wouldn't be a good idea. Say what you want about Jamaicans. We have been associated with being homophobic. Listen, if you want to call yourself undercover be my guest. LOL

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  35.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    I think your downlow mentality is coming to the surface. Undercover Latino comes from the assumption by most Americans that Latino is a race and that there is a "look" for Latinos. People assume I am European and not Latino based on my looks. SO I say I am undercover. I am a Latino disguised as a White Gringo. But of course, if your focus is downlow, and we know Jamaicans have to keep it real downlow., yeah I could understand where your mind would go there.

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  36.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    QQ reading it Oh a misunderstanding then Sal. It was a sincere mistake. I question the "undercover" Latino label. Plus, you are in Georgia. I would take "undercover" out because you are in Georgia. Some gay black dudes in Georgia might make you their prison bitch. Good day.

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  37.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    Men, I'll respond to you later. I'm just laughing at Queens idiotic misunderstanding of 'Petite's post. SHe was speaking of one of the guys supposedly hitting on her. Those are not my stats. Dumb Ass. Dumb, da dumb dumb. Here is mine: Undercover Latino. Nickname: Salsassin Location: United States, Georgia, Atlanta Age: 40 I am a: Man Looking for a: Woman, aged 21 - 42 Relationship seeking: Friends Eye color: Blue Hair color: Dark Blonde Height: 5'7"-5'11" (170cm-180cm) Body Type: A few extra pounds My ethnicity is: Black / African descent, White / European descent, Latino / Hispanic, Mixed / Multi, Native American, Other Religion: Spiritual, but not religious Education: Graduate degree Smoking behavior: Do not smoke, but ok if you do Drinking behavior: Drink Socially Relationship Status: Single Have children: No Want children: Yes Languages: Spanish, English, Portuguese Occupation: Legal When it comes to relocation: I would relocate anywhere in the world Starsign: Libra

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  38.   Member says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    WOW Sal a liar. Location: United States, Iowa, Davenport Age: 50 I am a: Man Looking for a: Woman, aged 35 - 60 Relationship seeking: Long Term Relationship, Short Term Relationship, Friends, Pen Pal Eye color: Blue Hair color: White or Gray Height: 6′0″ (183cm) or above Body Type: Average My ethnicity is: White / European descent Religion: Christian - Catholic Education: Some college Smoking behavior: Do not smoke, but ok if you do Drinking behavior: Drink regularly Relationship Status: Divorced Have children: Yes, not living at home Want children: No Languages: English Occupation: Tradesman When it comes to relocation: I would relocate within my country Starsign: Capricorn "Some college", "Tradesman", Alcoholic. This guy is a fraud. I figure some of the sellout black women here "knew" he was fraud. I am really disappointed with the sellout black women on the board. Y'all knew he was a fraud and didn't say anything. Looks like the Latino Mail boy got exposed. No wonder he lashed out at Petite. Why are black women subjected to lying ass white men? I mean just keep it real. Why go into a story about getting a degree in international studies and a JD from an unknown Law School. Divorced from his Latina wife. Now is washed up looking for a black woman to take on that baggage. I doubt there will be a round 2. Marquez is already knocked out. Who would have thought a black woman would have ended "Sal" like this. You should have just left it alone.

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  39.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    PetiteChick said: The vast majority of white men DO NOT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH BLACK WOMEN unless it’s because you want a good lay. Menelik replied: and given that the vast majority of white men date and marry their own kind (like most of us), this statement is hardly baseless. Consider, for example, how speedily whites vacate 'their' neighborhoods once a tiny trickle of "classy" (not ghetto) Black folks move in. What's that about? Salsassin asked: Why is it that Afro-Latina and Afro-Caribbean women, who have the same phenotypes but different cultures have a lot higher rate of dating and marrying White men? Why is it that Afro-Surinamese women have a huge rate of dating White women in Holland? Menelik asks: does Black women of said ethnicities dating or marrying white men really equate to the vast majority of white men wanting to date or marry Black women? I don't think so. Also, the primary reason Black women in Holland date or marry white men in such numbers is because masses of Black men date and marry white women thus leaving them little alternative but to settle for white men(I've been to the Netherlands many times and I know what the 411 is over there). As for Afro-Latina and Caribbean women dating and marrying white men in the US (more so than African-American women), well, there all manner of reasons why 3rd world females seek to hook up with white men from the richest, and most powerful nation on earth, don't you think? Menelik said: African-American females are under no illusion as to what white men are about, and nor should they be expected to view them as they would men of colour given how white men have historically treated Black women on US soil! he fact is that in educated Black women, and foreign Afrodiasporic women, the trends to date outside the group are higher. Disproving the asinine stereotype comments of not so Petite. Menelik replies: no it does not! Salsassin said: And no I am not going to show respect for her because she is 50. If a older White tramp came to this board and made similar comments about most Black men I would make fun of her as well. Menelik asks: what possible comments about Black men could a white man of any description make that are similar to those made by PetiteChick? Please, let men know because I'm seriously intrigued! Salsassin said: PetiteChick claims expertise on White men but has yet to show any of that expertise in actual experiential history. Just good ole hating. So I am returning the favor. Menelik asks: she never, ever claimed expertise on anything, let alone white men! Salsassin said: I am treating Not So Petite with no respect because she chooses to assume the worst in all White men. Menelik replies: most white men would sooner screw than date or marry a Black woman of any ethnicity. Why on earth do you have a problem with this general truth? Menelik Charles London England

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  40.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    "When White men realize that we're not all head twisting bonequishas from the projects that will give them some good head for a coupla bucks, or that we're not masculine, but just as feminine as their women and when society can get over the fact that White is not the end all to be all maybe we can get somewhere on a serious level. The beliefs that are intrinsic didn't just up and disappear cause Black women started dating and thinking outside their proverbial boxes." Don't disagree with this at all. But again, who has more of a chance of making stereotypes go away. The ones that fit the stereotype, or the ones with class and education? And that was your experience. I have met plenty of very well educated women who have their partners with plenty of intellectual stimulation. You attracted those men and gave them entrance without noticing they just wanted sexual partners? Maybe its a horny old elder thing.

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  41.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    Oooops, b4 I go, this is for Sals: This just in, check these stats against mine and put your theory to rest! Location: United States, Iowa, Davenport Age: 50 I am a: Man Looking for a: Woman, aged 35 - 60 Relationship seeking: Long Term Relationship, Short Term Relationship, Friends, Pen Pal Eye color: Blue Hair color: White or Gray Height: 6'0" (183cm) or above Body Type: Average My ethnicity is: White / European descent Religion: Christian - Catholic Education: Some college Smoking behavior: Do not smoke, but ok if you do Drinking behavior: Drink regularly Relationship Status: Divorced Have children: Yes, not living at home Want children: No Languages: English Occupation: Tradesman When it comes to relocation: I would relocate within my country Starsign: Capricorn

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  42.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    I'm so done with this conversation and will be off to find something more cheerful! (Deleting emails I suppose)....... Peace and Blessings to all and may you all get what you deserve!

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  43.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    Beauty: I am pleased for you and your impending engagement. Why are you here now at this time? Not gonna do it? I'm just say'n.... I've had two men propose to me. I married one, A BLACK MAN. Now, one of these good old days some of these stereotypes about Black women will be put to rest and more White men can see we're worth my than a lay. The pervasiveness of it all is that the beliefs are intrinsic. If someone told you everyday of your life you ain't shyt and won't be shyt....odds are you will grow up to believed that! Is that not correct? Well, ya see the same holds true for this inter-racial dating thingy. When White men realize that we're not all head twisting bonequishas from the projects that will give them some good head for a coupla bucks, or that we're not masculine, but just as feminine as their women and when society can get over the fact that White is not the end all to be all maybe we can get somewhere on a serious level. The beliefs that are intrinsic didn't just up and disappear cause Black women started dating and thinking outside their proverbial boxes. C'mon... Peace sis

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  44.   BEAUTYBEYONDWORDS says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    But...once again. My hang-up is not color... Hell... I like men!!!!! Short and Chinese...I am open-minded. That lil man (might mess around) and blow my mind!!!! lol.... I don't know... I can relate to the different angles of views... but life is filled with so many more important issues, than my pretty skin and who I choose to to rub it on...lol...lol... However way you bless me LORD... I am satisfied!

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  45.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    Beauty: It's all good. I don't make my statements based on my own personal experiences and observations for you to agree. I state the facts. These are NOT suppositions. They are facts. Like I said I'm not talking all - just most. For a number of reasons. Some that make sense, some that don't. But hey it is what it is. You do you - I do me! LOL. Not once did I say you shouldn't go after what you want. I'm simply telling you don't fly so high on the cloud just yet. Take it for what it is...this integration thing takes time. This country is still reeling from the Election of a Black President. Who might they be? Well let's just say the majority of them aren't Black. That in and of itself should tell you we got along ways to go in the race department - let alone marriage and dating of Whites. Peace.

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  46.   BEAUTYBEYONDWORDS says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    White men have proposed to me, though... and I believe they were serious. I talking to one, now... And he is ready... Me? I get a little scurrrred...But, I think, I have dated some open-minded men and they didn't care about the stares or the negative feed back that we were given.... But, that is my experience and I know.. not every person or situation is the same....

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  47.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    I don't care where you go with the marriages in 2000! Did you TELL ME YOU WERE FROM MIXED ANCESTRY? Did ya? Did ya? Hmmmmmm. Yes, the man I loved for 20 years was highly educated and he was BLACK. The Two Puerto Rican men I dated: 1 had his own bizness, the other at least had an Associate's Degree but worked for Sanitation. I'm not shallow and looking for a man with just $$$. That's not why I'm here. Some sistah's are though, I hear, so beware. I got my own Sals. See...Own home, vehicle, etc. Cause you know the Division of property laws.....well One of the White men I dated was an Accountant, not sure what degree he had can't recall. But he had to have some kind of degree to be doing that. He was too clingy and boring so that didn't work. Wanted sex all the friggin time. Uugggggh, whatsa matter with intellectual stimulation? The other White guy I dated was a tradesman. Electrician. Fine as hell. But he too, wanted to treat me like a booty call. Now, the Haitian guy was the only one who's educational background met that of my ex's. Them Africans and Haitians come here and get their learn on. He had an MBA. The fine brother I dated (Maxwell type) had a Bachelor's Degree in Marketing. Eat the gum boo....

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  48.   BEAUTYBEYONDWORDS says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    Petite... Well said... I agree to disagree... You are absolutely correct, but (not feeling like getting too deep) I think that our society's view have changed a lot about racial dating... By far, we still have a way too go, but even back in my school days.. I seen the budding of a "new wave" of acceptance. I've dated Korean... White... Black... Hispanic.... Hell, I was curious, too! lol...lol.... But all in all... I love people. When I look at the character and the heart (minus) the color.... All I see is a person that might be looking for the same thang, I am... A real person! But... I like you and I loved your spin.

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  49.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    Oh yeah, and apart from my jabbing at you, I don't aprove of all the fetishists and sexually depraved males that come to this site just for sex. BOTH BLACK, WHITE, or any other ethnicity. But in an interracial site, yes guess who will be hollering more. Same thing for the White women. Etc. I feel bad for the guys who are really looking for life partners here, because women have to go through a lot of crud, to see the diamonds. They might miss them completely. In fact, more than likely. That is why I recommended activity sites, and common interest sites, over dating sites any day.

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  50.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 10

    LOL. Posting from one from to another. Now that is so much more valid. I'll go with the Marriages in 2000, 95,831 married couples. Dear not so bright. If you had paid attention you would know I am of mixed ancestry. So any dating I do will already have a mixed component. I don't care if you worry about me laughing at you. I still find you entertaining. Again, the vast majority of males and females of ALL groups date within their group. But maybe you were just making a commentary and I misread racial bias in it. Naw, you clearly told the women here that they would somehow learn that dating White men wasn't that good. But again, it is an individual experience, and your experiences do not equate to ecveryone else's, nor that most White men talking to Black women only want to have sex. You just don't know that. We do know that most White men just don't talk to Black women period. But that White men are talking to Black women for sex (any more than they are talking to women in general for sex) is just your opinion. No the subject was Black women. I don't recall nationality being thrown in. I could care less what your husband or child studied. What did you study? I studied International Relations and Law. That would be a BA and a JD. Yes, many of us Latino men treat women well. But again that can be a stereotype as many of our populations can be mysogynistic. Again, there is no nationwide tren on Blacks, Whites, or Latinos. Your local experience is just that, local. LOL Again. You are on an interracial forum. Where many men DO come looking for sex and fetishes. So getting a lot of attention here means very little. As for their claims of education. LOL. Internet. Now if you claimed you had dated such high level of education in White males in real life. Then you might have a point. Again, you find what you hang around. Again. you are less than the mud below my heel.

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