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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   Malarki5 says:
    Posted: 07 Apr 10

    PetiteChick looks real, damned cute! Had to say, sista! Menelik Charles London England

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  2.   Member says:
    Posted: 07 Apr 10

    Dear Nomad I would have to disagree. What influence do you mention? Who is influencing white men to be with black women? The reason I ask this question is because sellout black women are in the media complaining about not having a date. The conversation always seem to make a left turn concerning dating white men. As if they "assume" white men will be with them because they ran out of options. I would like to see a panel of white men talk about black women on television. I doubt that will happen. Simply for this reason, they afraid to tell people some the negative things that turn them off from black women. That is why this board is filled with 99 percent of " oh I love black women and etc". The few white men that had valid frustrations concerning dating black women were "run" off the board. I am pretty sure there are more white men that have "pet peeves" about black women. To bad they are emasculated to the point that they pee sitting down. My stance on it. It would be better if black women didn't just focus on white men. Even, if they want a white man. Men run away from desperate women. They may have sex with you but they run after awhile. Some black women are increasingly becoming "needy" and "desperate". One particular guy on the board takes care of his kid and his black wife's kids. He carries everything financially. He wants to argue the point that is what a man is "supposed to". Yea, that is my "father's" way of thinking. It is one thing to take care of your wife. It is another thing when your wife "is lazy and has no ambition". Good day.

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  3.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 07 Apr 10

    Heloo, Godiva! Great post. Your's also, PetiteChick. And Blackman82, "THE FACTS STILL REMAINS THIS, BLACK WOMEN ARE THEY CONTROLING WAYS WEAVES, ATTITUDES AND 70% OF THEM ARE FAT OR OBESE TURNS OFF NOT JUST BLACK MEN, BUT WHITE MEN." Ouch! I hope you don't mean ALL black women. Let's be a little more specific. Other than that, you're on point.

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  4.   Nomad says:
    Posted: 07 Apr 10

    I realize that I am a new to this conversation and probably crossing boundaries when i say this, but you guys are getting into a very psychological debate. I found this blog or post or whatever when i was curious to people's thoughts on black women dating white men; due to the fact that I myself have been in a relationship with my irish/german/white boyfriend for over a year and a half. Regardless, it is going to be hard to get one solid agreeable outcome to your "so called" questions. There is always going to be the sterotypes and there are always going to be those who don't wish to be defined in that manner....and as to the answer to your question about men encouraging other men, it is yes. It is called influence, but then that could go even further with saying do black men influence white men and vice versa. As far as the worshipping of white men goes I am probably confused about your statement. Either way, your stand in playing devil's advocate seems very unnerving to many, but what exactly is your stance in all this? I am very curious to know.

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  5.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    Comment by SexyEyes on 6 April 2010: Really what kind of blog is this? I’m a black woman and my preference is only white male. Stop hating and listen to what people say…This site should be called the IHID-I hate interratial dating. One thing I do know is black women are STRONG and BEAUTIFUL it is the angry black men who bring us down. Maybe because they are afraid of what? That is the question that should asked. I won’t name any names on this site. TYRANT: I read the above comment and I couldn't stop LAUGHING it was so FUNNY. but seriously...how are angry black men bringing black women down? The last I checked, there aren't any black men protesting black women dating out. In fact, a lot of black men can't get you out the door fast enough. Why? Because we're SICK and TIRED of being BLAMED for ALL of your PROBLEMS. We get TIRED of hearing how black men aren't SHIT. As a man who just happens to be BLACK (That makes me a black man for those of you who are way too slow to figure that out (Bamababe), let me be the first to say that if you want to date white men from here to Europe, you have my BLESSING. Really, there's more than enough room in the world for EVERYONE to pursue their preference without stepping on each other's toes. If you want to date white men, DON'T make a BIG PRODUCTION out of it, JUST GO. Being that there's 2 MILLION more black women I honestly don't think anyone is going to miss you, let alone, notice that you're gone. Queens...YOU ROCK!!!!!!

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  6.   Member says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    QQ in the room It is interesting how people dance around my comments but don't address the real issues. I asked you do white men encourage "other white men" to date black women? Let's even say they do. It is often anonymous. Proclaim your love for a black women in the public. It always easy to attack black men like me. Eventually, the black "male excuse" is not going to work anymore. Sellout black women is going to have to "get some heart" and confront white men on this dating issue. If they wasn't so cowardly, we wouldn't be having this argument. With all due respect, Sexy eyes is entitled to her opinion. She said this... "One thing I do know is black women are STRONG and BEAUTIFUL it is the angry black men who bring us down." Now we are bringing you down (throwing hands up). Nobody is disputing the fact that you are beautiful or strong. I question this worshiping of the white men that don't want you. This is all I am saying to you. I hear comments like "Oh it doesn't matter it is the individual". Those "statistics" are lying because two of my friends got a white man (except for her, she actually falls in the statistic). I am extremely disappointed in some of the current women here. They like to talk about living a positive life but ain't saying nothing when one of the sellout black women said "she is manipulating two white men". I can't cosign for this chocolate "bar". If you are going to be the neutral party act like it. I like Godiva chocolate; but last time I checked, she ain't saying nothing when "tattoo" that on my forehead" concerning her comments towards Big Eyes. That some high school shit. We know what side you are on chocolate "bar". You make me sick, go sit on the fence like you always do. Oh yea I had to address this comment. "Just because a woman allows herself to be “something to do”, I find no honor or nobility in a man, that is so easily and willing to oblige her. When a man can’t, or won’t say no, that tells me he lacks discipline, if he lacks discipline, that tells me he is a follower, if he is so easily to follow, he is not a leader. Most women desire leaders and not followers." Well, that is why your ass is mixed up in life. People follow people here on this board. I have been a Maverick from "day one". If you wasn't a follower you would have jumped in when Big eyes got disrespected for no apparent reason. But we won't tell people you got a "tattoo" on your ass. You should be the last to speak about "followers". At least Big eyes does not follow the crowd. Tatt does not follow the crowd too. People have mixed feelings about "what she does". Tattoo is definitely not a follower. Back to where I was. Sexy said this "I think everyone should not take Queens comments so personal, he might be looking for friends and doesn’t know how to say positive words. This person belittles women and some may get worked up about it." It is never personal at all. My blog is a "self help guide" for black women. I never get the credit that I deserve. The world often does not understand geniuses. They never understood Amadeus or Einstein. They appreciate their "work" decades later. I have plenty of black female friends. They are often amazed by the blog and how I am in person. I can have civil conversations with people about this topic. But they fail to realize many black women actually "agree with me". These sellout black women think they speak for "all black women". They absolutely do not. I wish they could smack y'all faces for disgracing the black female image with the worshiping of white men you do. If a man truly cares about you, he will say it in interviews, public, and movies. Why I never see ABC news special with white men saying " I am actively seeking a black woman to be with". Where are the interviews of white guys talking about black women? I want to see white men on a damn "panel" talking about their love for black women. Black women can go on television and "practically beg for a white man". It almost like sound like they are going to cry or something. I am going to address Sal later. He can't accept losing. First he will come to the "revelation" sellout black women are desperate and losers. He will turn around and "defend them". Classic Immigration Lawyer. His Latin wife must get tired of his ass lying about other women. Good day.

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  7.   Kalynada says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    Oh man. I'm seriously thinking of taking the highlights from this thread and posting them somewhere. I think I could actually sell some of it...

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  8.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    edit: It should read I think it's safe to say. One other thing, yes I do think women should ALWAYS value their bodies as temples, but I also think men should feel the exact same way. Just because a woman allows herself to be "something to do", I find no honor or nobility in a man, that is so easily and willing to oblige her. When a man can't, or won't say no, that tells me he lacks discipline, if he lacks discipline, that tells me he is a follower, if he is so easily to follow, he is not a leader. Most women desire leaders and not followers. love godiva

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  9.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    I think it's say to assume that there's not a human being who looks forward to rejection, however I firmly believe that not all rejection should be seen as devestating!!!!!!!!!!! There are some people that you should NOT want in your life, not even for a minute!! Personally there are many people who beliefs, their outlook on their life, and the lives of other's, who are in complete contrast to my morals, and beliefs, this includes, and is not limited to the narrow minded, the ignorant, and the bitter and unhappy people. People who insist on stereotyping, and trying to put ALL of one group or another in that box that they live in, is not condusive, or welcomed to be in my life! Don't need them, have no patience, or the desire to have them in my life!!! That being said, any man, that have the above mentioned qualities, who will not, have never, nor will they ever consider me, for a date or a cup of coffee, will NOT offend me if they should reject me, be it one reason or a hundred reasons! Now if we were to be honest, and the key word is honest, and ask the question, "are white men the only men who reject black women"? What is the honest answer??? If you go down the line and include every culture of men that has, will, reject black women, including black men, would that be true? Does it really matter if one group is larger than the other? If someone has already made up in their mind for whatever reasons, to not consider you, to reject you before even getting to know you as an individual, would that be the deal breaker to end your life??? Why would any woman of integrity and self worth be devestated if these such men would choose not to be a part of your life?? For me it's NOT the how many in any one group that would reject me, it would be the reasons behind the rejection, especially the reasons that don't apply to me as an individual but somehow you have inflicted upon me, solely because I'm a part of a specific group, thanks but no thanks and white men are NOT the only one's who behave, or think in this manner!! And as far as white men who reject and don't consider black women, I'm wondering out loud, how many of these same men, would rather die than to let their daughter's be with a black man or any other non-white man?? I'm willing to bet that most who reject black women, rejects blacks in general!!!Again, I would ask, "who gives a damn"??? If anything I would consider it a compliment, and when I got the chance, if I could, I would send them a "thank you" card. The card would read, "thank you so much for not contaminating my space, as you know I work hard at living a healthy life, so the toxic spirit that you posses is not condusive to my healthy life. God bless you and I wish you well"! For every rejection, there is acceptance! When something or someone is good for you, good to you, and is meant to be in your life, it will happen. We are descendants of people who were rejected and dejected, since it didn't kill us then why should it kill us now? To hell with any man, woman, of any color who does not want you, who devalues your life by their words and their actions, life goes on in spite of the circumsatnces!!!! If women would treat and see their bodies as the sacred temples that they are, then you would NEVER be "something to do" for any MAN black or white, catholic or jew! Saying "no" and being selective should ALWAYS be in the forefront, so the color of the man is not deciding factor if and when "you became something to do". All of the nasty, low down females, that couldn't say NO to Tiger Woods are now in that group of "something to do". Your color is what you were born with, your charcter has been developing, or not, over the years!!! Allow no man or woman to convince you that you are not worthy of love and acceptance! Only the downtrodden, and the miserable dwell in that camp on a day to day basis! Since we know what crazy looks and sounds like, stop answering the phone, use your caller ID!! One thing for certain the crazy will always answer, even when they are not called by name!!!!! Live your life to the fullest, and to hell with what people think of you or say about you!! Love godiva

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  10.   SexyEyes says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    I think everyone should not take Queens comments so personal, he might be looking for friends and doesn't know how to say positive words. This person belittles women and some may get worked up about it. There is a solution to every problem and that is be happy for the person and express how beautiful they are. Eventually the person will walk away

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  11.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    I've always said interracial dating is not for everybody but anyone who tells you, you can't or you shouldn't is stupid to me. If that person treats you right and makes you feel good, then to hell with what anyone thinks.

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  12.   SexyEyes says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    I'm a black woman who loves life...hiking,snowboarding,swimming,and ect. Not every woman can date outside her race...You have to first know a person first and not judge them by the color of their skin. I'm very famaliar with black men dating outside their race. My son girlfriend is mexican and my daughter husband is black/mexican. Their relationships are beautiful and I have always expressed to them not to judge the color of someone skin. I sense attitude from you. Don't worry I'm getting married in 2011. All his family adore me and his mom loves rubbing my hair.

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  13.   SexyEyes says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    Really what kind of blog is this? I'm a black woman and my preference is only white male. Stop hating and listen to what people say...This site should be called the IHID-I hate interratial dating. One thing I do know is black women are STRONG and BEAUTIFUL it is the angry black men who bring us down. Maybe because they are afraid of what? That is the question that should asked. I won't name any names on this site.

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  14.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    I think what he said is the truth and that bothers people that a black man is encouraging black woman to think and live outside the box and stop holding yourself back because of what other people might think or say about you dating outside your race. Another man's trash might be another man's treasure.

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  15.   Member says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    Michael Baisdan??? The guy that likes "swinging". I use to like the guy until I realized he has a "Tiger Woods" problem. I take what he says with a "grain of salt". I still think "Men Cry in the Dark" was the best book ever written concerning black men and relationships. It is a must read. That guy disappoints me. I think he never got OVER his divorce with his black wife. He still harbors that anger. The negro will just rail about his ex wife the last time I listened to him. I don't like that. I will say some stuff about my exs. However, I leave it in the past after awhile. There is some black men that don't give a shit if you are with a white man. I am so vocal it makes it seem like black men agree with me. Most of them email and say " Good riddance let them go". People are unaware of this. Most black men I talk too. There like "good riddance" let the white men deal with that shit. There is a misconception that black men agree with my way of thinking. I am like the last man on the "Titanic". That is why I tell black women your blogs ain't hurting me or black men. I dislike the bashing of us. That irks me to a certain degree. However, it don't take much to catch up to you. Eventually, you will run back to us if it don't work out with a white man. You will be on your back and knees again. I am not sugar coating anything more. I am not going to apologize for black men being "real men". At the end of the day, black men will get women. We are not whining or complaining about our relationships on television and movies. Lastly, I realize that I haven't talk about white women. Listen man, I got an upcoming album for them too. I am tired of these white women with mixed kids coming on to professional black men. We are not taking on your 2, 3 or even 4 KIDS. Simply because your last baby daddy was black. You are not immune to the "WRATH". Black men have let you 'slide" because you really don't "run your mouth" like black women do. However, white women is trifling too sometimes. By the way, don't think we don't know you whoring yourself to other black men. You don't even hide it. At least black women hide their whoring. You don't even do that! Your ass is lucky the focus is on sellout black women for NOW. Crab ass white women with some trifling black women=recipe for failure. Look for that Vigilante Season 2. I am tired of professional black men being "preyed upon" by desperate women with multiple children and a poor vocabulary. You deserve to be cum buckets. Man, don't ask us where the relationship is going if you got multiple kids. I am ou. I am getting really upset. You white trash girls are getting no more PASSES! (Closing the door)

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  16.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    I was listening to Michael Baisden show yesterday and he was saying to this black woman who wanted to date white men but couldn't find one. "White and Latino men LOVE black women." He continued to say if you want a white man, I'll hook you up with one. Now, this is coming from a BLACK man who is secure enough in himelf to say black women should do what brothas been doing for years and that's exploring their options. I thought about this Sunday, if a black woman isn't with a white man, nine times out of 10 it's because she doesn't want to be. It's not that we can't get a white man as you can tell the last few days, a lot of white men are coming out saying we love and want to be with and PREFER black women. A lot of times it's US. Sometimes we trip over our own feet in our journey for happiness.

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  17.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    To Mr. Laurelton Queens, I don't think we need to call Black women sellouts cause they believe White men want them. Why can't it be simply deemed as searching for options? They don't understand how White America still views them (especially White men) cause they have dyycks too). They're not sellouts. They just don't know no better!

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  18.   PetiteChick says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    THE FACTS STILL REMAINS THIS, BLACK WOMEN ARE THEY CONTROLING WAYS WEAVES, ATTITUDES AND 70% OF THEM ARE FAT OR OBESE TURNS OFF NOT JUST BLACK MEN, BUT WHITE MEN. 90% of white men date or marry white women, 5% marry asian women, and less than 4% marry black , indian, etc. yes white men sleep with black women, but its kind of a thing to do, coming of age many of my white male friends tell me, that black women are just something to do on the side. but they woudl never bring them home to mommie or daddy. 85% of black men marry black women the black men that are married. of all interracial marriages 70% of the males or Black. most white mena DONT INTERRACIAL MARRY OR DATE. now i am not saying a white man does want to marry a black female .i am just saying white guys aint exactly running out to find a black women to marry. their like 5-3 black women to black men, even if all black men married black women you sti lhave millions of single black women. Black women are just in a terrible spot, they have no real power. UNLESS YOUR SUPER SEX, AND RICH.OR BOTH.OR JUST LUCKY. ---------------------------- Thank you BlackMan82! The Sista's will find out soon enough. If I'm gonna be rejected as quality goods - I'd prefer that rejection from my own kind. I know from whence I speak in this regard. It is true, what I stated and what you have just reaffirmed. A WHITE MAN TOLD ME THIS. Yes, and who better to know than a WHITE MAN? Now, as far as the weaves? Let's don't go there. White women wear them too. More than we do, actually. So.....Black women are NOT the only women who have controlling characteristics either, so that's moot as well. However you are on point about Black women being "something to do" for the White man. IT'S TRUE, YEPPER, IT'S TRUE. THE FACTS SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES.

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  19.   Member says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    (Eating popcorn) So if you look who "likes you". Explain to me, why a majority of white men do not like you when it comes to dating? Good day

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  20.   BEAUTYBEYONDWORDS says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    WHITE WOMEN CAN HAVE BLACK MEN.... I SWEAR THEY CAN.....LOL...LOL.... AND LET THE CHIPS FALL WHERE THEY FALL.... THERE'S A WHITE GURL THAT JUST MOVED NEARBY AND SHE WAS WITH THIS BLACK BROTHA. AT FIRST, SHE WAS ACTING LIKE SOMEONE WANTED THE MAN. NOW, SHE JUST HAD ANOTHER BABY BY HIM AND I HAVEN'T SEEN HIM IN MONTHS! SOUNDS FAMILIAR TO ME.... AND SHE'S WHITE!!!! YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE.... NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE WITH. IF YOU ARE A NO GOOD MAN (WHICH COMES IN ALL COLORS)... YOU ARE NO GOOD ~ NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE WITH! I LIKE... WHO LIKE ME! BOTTOM LINE!

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  21.   BEAUTYBEYONDWORDS says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    Hey Everybody..... Just saying Hi to you guys!!! Is Laurelton behaving???? lol... Probably not!!! lol.... I glanced at one comments and he still yelling.."sell out black women!" lol... DUDE.... GET OVER IT!!!! WHAT ABOUT ALL THESE SELL-OUT BLACK MEN???? LOL... Just like the devil - start a little trouble and leave!

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  22.   Member says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    Dear Blackman You make some strong valid points. Only in the blog world that sellout black women can 'spin it" that white men desire them. That is a delusional. You can do endless blogs about your love for a white man. The white guy does not even bother writing back unless it is about sex or how you look. Most of the sellout black women are "spokespeople" for white men. For example, they will do delusional narrative about how a white man met them. As if, that is what he was "thinking" when he met you. Wake the hell up cocoa butter head. He never looked into your beautiful brown eyes. You said that. He never admired you from a distance. You said that. Let him say what he felt. Stop speaking for white men you pathetic sellout black women. Sellout black women have been bamboozled and they don't even know it. Again, show a white man ENCOURAGING other white men to be with black women. I have yet to see that. I personally haven't seen it. Even, the sellout black women say "well white guys are shy and secretly want us". You want a man that secretly "wants you"? No wonder they treat you like a mistress and a whore. All they are doing is being "nice to you" about it. Look for that Vigilante Season Part 2 on my blog.

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  23.   viking says:
    Posted: 06 Apr 10

    Hello, I am Michael from Sweden. I love black girls who date white men (or any other men of their choice), because they are strong and independent. In my country we have very little history of white masters/black slaves. So little actually - we don't seem to care a lot about it. I love proud girls who are politically and socially aware and choose their own way. That's why I love black girls who choose to be with white men like me. And who give that finger to anyone who tries to throw dirt on it. Am I educated? Yes. Am I rich? Globally speaking - yes. Bur fact is: love is centered in the heart (and sex in the brain, by all means). If I get your heart and the lot of your brain I will make you desire me anyway you can imagine, believe me. I have some friends who have a different color of skin than I have, but I do not care so much about it. If I have to try to figure out who is involved with whom, regarding skin/ethnicity, it would be like 50-50 same/mixed relationships. Maybe black girls are very attractive to white men because they are exotic. It seems like the human nature is to seek for genetic variation in a kind of sense that makes exotic looks more attractive. I have no problem with that. I believe a relationship that challenges the stereotype and conqueres it is the strongest ever. So – black girls – whatever they say about us: please please please stay with us white men when you feel like it, and give us the chance to make up for all the wrongs we did in the past history! Some of us are so into you, that our heads seem like twisted, and our hearts are like burning torches forever fired to light our love for you. God and the almighty powers bless you all.

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  24.   Blackman82 says:
    Posted: 05 Apr 10

    THE FACTS STILL REMAINS THIS, BLACK WOMEN ARE THEY CONTROLING WAYS WEAVES, ATTITUDES AND 70% OF THEM ARE FAT OR OBESE TURNS OFF NOT JUST BLACK MEN, BUT WHITE MEN. 90% of white men date or marry white women, 5% marry asian women, and less than 4% marry black , indian, etc. yes white men sleep with black women, but its kind of a thing to do, coming of age many of my white male friends tell me, that black women are just something to do on the side. but they woudl never bring them home to mommie or daddy. 85% of black men marry black women the black men that are married. of all interracial marriages 70% of the males or Black. most white mena DONT INTERRACIAL MARRY OR DATE. now i am not saying a white man does want to marry a black female .i am just saying white guys aint exactly running out to find a black women to marry. their like 5-3 black women to black men, even if all black men married black women you sti lhave millions of single black women. Black women are just in a terrible spot, they have no real power. UNLESS YOUR SUPER SEX, AND RICH.OR BOTH.OR JUST LUCKY. so black women bashing black men to me. is like a person on an island saying no thank you to a speed boat lol. what other choices to you black females have the average black female is not what a white guy wants. black men date all women. so what wil black women do if you bash and push away all black men? OTHER WOMEN GO LESBIAN? BISEXUAL, DATE INDIAN MEN. asian men that could be a plan.

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  25.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 05 Apr 10

    Again, nice try Queen. We are talking trends. We are coming from a time period of Jim Crow. It has only been 50 years. Even the education system was segregated. I did not say educated people were automatically less ethnocentrist. But education opens parameters and it is in that venue that you see the most progression. That, and the military. Again, as more women are joining the mainstream work force as equals to white peers, more dating is occurring. The more Black women become professionals the more inter-ethnic dating is occurring. The more Black women become more mainstream in their ideas the more they they find common ground with other ethnic groups. Inter "racial" mixing within in most of the world occurs because there is no true cultural difference. No different speech patterns, etc. When someone come from somewhere else, differences are expected. But when you just lived down the street and culture is markedly different, the clash is stronger. Similar experiences, create common bonds. In that, education and the military are the great equalizers by creating common ground. And again, it is a progressive trend, and each year, Black women are dating more White men. You may hate it, but it is happening. Black women who are not exposed to other cultures will be more auto isolating. White Americana because it is such a vast majority, even with education it is much easier for a person to remain isolated/insulated from other people and keep erroneous ideas. But that will come with time.

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  26.   Member says:
    Posted: 05 Apr 10

    Dear Sal You make an interesting argument. However, when I went to college. People self segregated into their own racial groups. About 70 to 80 percent were middle class kids. Now were some people open to date outside of their race, absolutely. It didn't happen at a fast rate. I saw about two black girls on campus with white guys. Both of them wasn't much to look at. One of them I spoke to and didn't seem all that concerned being faithful to her white boyfriend. The white boyfriends ain't step in when black men would "come onto her". This is really sad. This is just my experience. You mentioned educated black women. Guess what, it is not a ghetto girl going on television talking about they can't find a date or a man. I doubt they would let Tameka from the "hood" with three kids come on television asking for a white man. They would run her out the studio!! Apparently, to Sal and Other brother "those type" of black women don't count. The Television producer is like "Oh hell na" let's put the educated sellout black girl that bashes black men on television. Last time I checked, the educated sellout black women were on ABC news reading off their resume to a blonde female journalist while she "nodded" her head in agreement. She "nods" her head like "here go with the bullshit". "Shaniya" complaining again, why did I pull this story today? You need to tell the "complete story". The problem with Sal and Other brother. They will pull punches because they don't want to offend black women. They will say shit like "They are brainwashed to be loyal". They will say things like "well it is racism causing them not to get a date". I mean what else can they say at this point. They both openly admit being "womanizers" and "hollering at other women". You can say what you want about me. I don't do what they do. I just speak the truth and that is the end of that. The problem with some "non black men". They try to emulate some black men to be with black women. Those traits are not acceptable in our community. I don't condone womanizing and etc. But at the same time I understand it in some cases. There are some trifling black women that deserve what they get. The same white guys and Latino guys will be cool with black men that do these things. But knock me for telling the truth. You won't tell your black male friend like "son you are doing you're black woman wrong". Instead, they do the "same thing" trying to be "down". I am out.

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  27.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 05 Apr 10

    White men aren't usually living in Black neighborhoods for the same reason many Blacks don't live in many White neighborhoods. A culture of racism that shows in the faces of the neighbors. It only takes a few bad apples to spoil a neighborhood. I encourage men to date people of all backgrounds. Queenie forgets a few facts. Lower education and class leads to less interethnic dating. More ethnocentrism. Minority groups tend to be more protective of their women. In contrast, minorities dating the majority women are not a threat because the numbers are not as threatening. As education has slowly uplifted many women into new arenas, they are starting to explore new social groups. The majority has no need to explore social groups as being the majority, their group tends to permeate through a vast spectrum of cultural gamuts. In such context, it is more likely that a minority person will explore a majority venue than vice versa. Majority members have a much larger selection pool, and thus they usually will be less open to dating the lower class, less educated women of other ethnicities. They already have a ton of that in their own groups. But when education brings new women into mainstream venues of education, where ethnocentrism isn't as rampant, people will date more across ethnic lines. Environments where this is not the rule, are places like the military where people are forced to mix a lot more, thus overcoming ethnocentric preconceptions. People get to see the real. And it is one of the reasons a lot more interethnic dating is occurring there.

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  28.   Member says:
    Posted: 05 Apr 10

    Dear Otherbrother You are out of line calling me racist. Considering I rarely see white men in a black neighborhood. So who is the racist here? The rare white men that live in a black neighborhood are not happy living in a black neighborhood. We can just cut the bullshit right now. You said this comment................ "First lets answer the question that you ask that is not an anwerable question. WHY DO WHITE BOYS CHOOSE BLACK WOMEN LAST? See that question can not be answered because it is baseless question. The white man who is willing and intereted in dating women of other races including black women, there numbers really haven’t changed, black women have never been last in line in white men willing to date outside there race. The black woman however has opened her options, and weather people like it or not thefact remains that there and stilol are many black women who are attracted to white men, but refuse to date them due to the loyalty crap that has been placed in there head. " OH, so it is BLACK MEN putting loyalty "crap" in their head. Black women do not have a "mind" of their own. OH, it is out fault that they are using you as a LAST RESORT. You seem to have just answered your own question on why you pick them last. I really don't blame you. Let me answer your question. I was never threatened by white men with black women. I doubt that will ever happen. You continue to pick white, Asian, and Latina before a black woman. Why would I be threatened????????????????????????? Lastly, black men near triple black women when it comes to being with white women. Black men openly say "it is far easier to get a white woman". You got desperate black women doing blogs worshiping white guys and they are still WHINING and complaining in 2010. They blame black men for white men not wanting them. They blame "other" black women for wearing tight clothes, obesity, and being loose. Tell them sellout black woman "confront" white men about why they are not "flocking" to them. I have yet to hear you encourage "other white men" to be with black women Other brother. Explain that shit to me. I know you don't do it off the computer. When was the last time you encouraged another white guy to date black women? That goes for all the white men here. Give me a break. I am out.

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  29.   Member says:
    Posted: 05 Apr 10

    Wow one week or so away and the lies are really blown up. Queens it seems you have moere rejects in your corner it is amazing how many of you rejects and racist bitter black men find the same places spread your lies. I guess you believe the more people that say it the mnore truth there is. I know I haven't given a class in a while so why dont you and your fellowes rejects sit down with your pad and pencil and take notes. There might be a quiz at the end of the lesson. First lets answer the question that you ask that is not an anwerable question. WHY DO WHITE BOYS CHOOSE BLACK WOMEN LAST? See that question can not be answered because it is baseless question. See fact of the matter (I know i know you can not handle the facts, however since this is class and I am the teacher and you are the student I will educate you anyway.) the pure and simple reason why the number of BW/WM relationships and marriages are rising so fast and at amazing pace really has nothing to do with the white man and everything to do with the black woman. The white man who is willing and intereted in dating women of other races including black women, there numbers really haven't changed, black women have never been last in line in white men willing to date outside there race. The black woman however has opened her options, and weather people like it or not thefact remains that there and stilol are many black women who are attracted to white men, but refuse to date them due to the loyalty crap that has been placed in there head. If you date or marry a white man your a sell out. In fact it goes beyond that there is a huge disdain for dark skin black women dating lighter skin black men and vise versa. You in your posts tried to claim you are a relationship expert, you claim that you set up the foundation for your much smarter ex mates to their relationships. You claim black women who do not date black men are sell outs period. There has to be a reason why someone finds someone of a different color attractive and that must be a problem with the pool of dating applicants in their skin color. I say skin color because again alive abd well is racism amoungst light and dark skin black men and women. Have you one fact, (a fact is not several dilusional, lost souls like yours that happen to agree with you, it is numbers and stats like Sal presents in his arguements. You never answered the question i asked before, yes this is a valid question that can be answered. Why are you so threatened by the why man dating black women? Is it that you can not compete? is it that your A game is weak? or is it some if not many of your ex partners are now with white men and that just doesn't sit well with you? You obviously can not deal with or handle a black woman with education and class and you do not want to settle, so you say, are you secretly seeing a white woman and afraid of being called a sellout also? or maybe you secretly desire a white woman and do not know why i do not know but black women are not sell outs. They have options and that makes some black men angry, maybe thats what it is. It is obvious you want a woman you can control, a woman that you can joke about with your buddies about how your the man. I am just asking. You are racist! the question is why? You are bitter! the question is why? Just explain why the same old lie about your not bitter or racist is old and tired, answer those questions first, then lets talk about other misguided questions you have

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  30.   greg says:
    Posted: 05 Apr 10

    i like black girls because their cute and have a beauty about them that white girls dont have to me. I also love latina's for the same reason. not saying that i do not think white girls are cute it's just that black girls and latinas just attract me more with how they act. But the person inside counts the most so if she is beautiful inside and loves God and has other attractive attribute to her (inside) then that is what matters

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  31.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 05 Apr 10

    I see Queenie is still living in his deluded world where he thinks he knows something about anybody. LOL

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  32.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 10

    Thanks Queens,Ichibod and Bama and others for your well wishes. It means alot to me comming from you guys! Peace

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  33.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 10

    (Laughing at the rejected by a white man on this blog giving relationship advice) Man...wow living in Utopia and being "disconnected" from broadcast t.v.sure makes winning more debates against them,as I have done in the past,lol,all the more easier. 2 TONS of makeup won't disguise that chin,lol stuck with THAT ONE. LMAO it thinks it's "attractive",LOL. Lmao still mad about things I said in debate months ago...see someone about that,lol. I have a sexy,handsome man I need to attend to. I win. (Closing the door on the "branded one")

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  34.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 10

    @Queens Mr. Rule with an iron fist. Careful before you wake up with hot grits on your head and a new attitude. LOL Al Green found the Lord after his eye-opening exprience. Love and happiness indeed.

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  35.   Member says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 10

    QQ Tatt That last paragraph was "vicious" and uncalled for. Well, that is part of your personality. (Just shaking my head). Yea, I am a blog legend Tatt. After I saw Karyn's interviews and her pathetic book "Don't bring home a white boy". That was the straw that broke the camel's back for me. As for my personal life, I rarely talk about it. Nobody is perfect of course but there is a misconception about me being a relationship guru. My main argument is sellout black women think "white men" will rescue them from the misery and loneliness. If anything, my experience makes me quite credible concerning black women. Hopefully, when I finish the book. I will do seminars. Right now, I am working out. I don't want to "blimp up" like Karyn. Image is somewhat important as an author. I personally never left my wife on the side of the road like 'Steve Harvey" did. I never had mistresses like "Bill Cosby" did. I am not making threats to my Latina wife of deporting her, if she ends up with a black man like "Sal". Tatt none of what you say apply to me. I am always "fair" with women. Plus, I am not a good liar anyway. I am in the trenches giving struggling black women a chance. White men will never do what a majority of black men do. I also date middle class black women with careers too. Obviously, they want to "wear the pants" in the relationship. I am not a white man, I don't go for that bullshit. I "rule" with an absolute "iron fist". Now that I am officially single. Things have been pretty good. I can go back to being a full-time assassin on these sellout black women. That is why I released "Vigilante Season" Part 2 The Katt Stacks Story. (Rubbing hands together) The blog block will be mine soon. Stay with me. I am gone.

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  36.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 10

    Happy Easter Ya'll! Hope you had a good and interesting week like I did and enjoying your day. Nice to see that there are other females on here who "get" where I am coming from and for those of you who don't, you probably never will. :)

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  37.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 10

    (waves at Queens...since he is so intent upon "seeing me...LOL......wtfh does that even mean???...LOL....calling me out.....PFFT!!!!...looks like you are having enough "fun" out here). Man, it REALLY amazes me when people continue to label themselves "legends" and "warriors" on a blog and then proceed to call others "delusional". Some of the obviously DAMAGED people that have traipsed through this blog really need to work through their issues before they start giving out advice or even "trying" to be in a relationship (real or "imagined"....LOL). Everyone.....I REPEAT.....everyone has baggage.....at least those that are "real" with themselves. It's just all in how you carry that "baggage". If you go around slinging it at everyone that gets in your way or whatever chances are you are going to live a very sad existance. But to think that you have to have a "perfect" life in order to thrive is just backwards. No wonder some just never manage to develop in sort of real character....they just remain "cartoons" (in blogs....and more than likely in their real lives as well)...... SAD BUT (probably) TRUE. Peace and Blessings (unwaivering) tatted2death P.S. Also amazing is how my "man-chinned" self manages to always get a rise out of particular blogger here. I experience this sort of thing in my real life as well....women that are insecure about their own "womanhood" tend to be drawn to what they perceive as my "manly" qualities (the fact that I don't have to wear a TON of makeup to be attractive, etc.)....I guess they need to do this in order to justify their "attraction" to me(LMAO)....but hey I am no shrink (but some here may TRUELY need to visit one to work on THAT ONE....LOL)

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  38.   Blackman82 says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 10

    first off cant we all just get along on here lol and i think like this, i was on a date once with this beautiful dark skin sista. and she was telling me how she never saw any black men at her job and black men dont do this and that, and she had major baggage against black men. so i told her like this in the middle of our date, Listen go to your office and ask one of those white men out and leave us no good cant get a good job black men alone then and i got up and left. If black women want to date white men GREAT go for it. i date women of all races, Asian, Spanish,White, anything that catches my eye. and i feel BLACK WOMEN SHOULD DO THE SAME THING.

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  39.   petitechick says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 10

    I beg to differ with regards to the posts about why White men like Black women. The vast majority of them don't want to "date us." They are curious and just want a lay. Now I'm not saying all of them, but a good portion of them have preconceived notions about us. Face it Black women, it's a fact. They'll do you and laugh at you when they're done!

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  40.   Member says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 10

    (Listening to Edwards) They are more attentive to your wallet. Listen, they are failing in the black community so desperation will make them "hang onto anything at this point". You seem like a good guy. But make no illusions that desperation makes sellout black women "say" anything to keep a man around to help them pay bills. As for your white woman comment, that was very insightful. The standards are higher for you as a white man. The white women out here "get spanked" by black men and left out to pasture. I just keep it real. This is what I see in this small town. Women treat men of different "races" differently. You might think you giving her the world taking her to "Steak Outback". A black man might take her to Burger King and spank her at his home. It kind of bothers me so white men are so "naive". I am not going to say there is no good black women for you. There are some great black women from the church and etc. But don't be fooled. There are some black women with some 'serious baggage". I don't know what it is like to be in your shoes as a white man. But I know this, you are a meal ticket to all "races of women". Whatever that "black woman" did to you sexually. You need to snap out of it. It is always "all good" in the beginning. Give it some time to see if "her true" colors come out. Lastly, never feel bad putting a sellout black woman in "her place". Some of them only understand the "thuggery". They don't feel love unless you yell at them or whatever you do. Of course, I don't advocate violence. I do advocate being "assertive". Good day and be glad a blog legend gave you advice. I should do seminars. Look for my new blog album "The Katt Stacks Story" off Vigilante Season Part 2.

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  41.   Edward says:
    Posted: 04 Apr 10

    Ive not been with many caucasuan woman that wernt hyper, or didnt pay attention, seem's that black woman are so much more intentive they listen to you and not ignore you like caucasuan woman, I mean I dont know? maybe it's just me, but i see things in a caring black woman that I dont ever see in white one's, Im a white man and I never saw a cacasian woman act like she really cared about me or anything when I was out with her, scatterbrained,and dont care, I see thing's in black woman that are more genuine and down to earth, I see alot of so called white stuff on TV, but I know that it's mostly white and a little black but not that much, Im a white guy 49, and i was crazy about Laura in family matters yrs ago,

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  42.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 03 Apr 10

    Thanks for breaking the monotony, Ela. That was cute.

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  43.   Ela says:
    Posted: 02 Apr 10

    Hello there, Happy April Fool's Day!! Two fishermen are out on the lake in a boat they had rented at the dock. After an hour or so, they drift over a deep hole and start catching fish faster than they ever had before in their lives. This goes on for a while until one of them pulls a large piece of chalk out of his tackle box and draws a large "X" in the bottom of the boat. "What did you do that for?" asks the other one. "So we can find this spot again!" is the reply. "That's the dumbest thing I ever heard," says his buddy. "... How do you know we'll get the SAME boat next time?" Happy April Fool's Day!

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  44.   e-dub says:
    Posted: 02 Apr 10

    Dear Mr.Queens: I'm happily married to my "ethnic" wife and she is my greatest blessing.

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  45.   Member says:
    Posted: 01 Apr 10

    Dear Sal You said "prove my point". Go look at the various sellout black women blogs. Ask any race of woman why they date outside of their race. I ask the question and many do say "they have reservations about their race of men". White men straight up say "white women" are materialistic. Show me a bitter white man and I will show him with an "ethnic woman". No question about that! It is never " I bumped into a midget and we tried to save his life on the operating table and fell in love. I never heard a story like that. Apparently, you heard a story and believed the shit. I will tell you a "real story". I met my ex in Brooklyn and she had a sexy body. I decided to "talk to her" and got her number. I spanked her a couple weeks later and we was together ever since. It was the wrong decision at the end of the day. Good sex can only keep a relationship together so long. Black women have a tendency to "exaggerate" how their relationships started. It almost sounds like a novel or book they read. The way a man "sees" a woman is different from the way a woman sees a man. She will say he passionately kissed me and he laid me down on the bed. What really happened was " I throw her on the bed and was all over that ass". I won't go any further because I really shouldn't even talk about it. I went to a forum back in my college days. They had some black and Latin men on stage "rambling" about women being used or whatever the case. I said " they go the rap videos on their own". It is like hundreds of women trying out for that "rap video". I guess the Latin guy was like "Sal" felt some kind of way about my statement. He said "why shouldn't we respect and be romantic to our women"? I tried to get on stage but the security stopped me. The other guys in the audience kind of agreed with me. They was like "the women go to the auditions". The Latin guy got so angry (liberal guy. He went on about "Big Pun" with his video don't want to be a player and how it exploits black and Latin women. I said you SOB, that guy is a RAP LEGEND, first Latino rapper that arguably is the best Latino rapper ever. You don't know what the fuck you are talking about. It got heated back and forth. I am going to leave the rest for the book man. Anyway, I will give you an example of a delusional black woman story.... (No offense to Scoff and Sara) (Collecting my thoughts) Mike admired me from a distance. Society wouldn't let him touch me because of our different backgrounds and skin color. He admired my intelligence and GPA in college (grades he never saw). He looked into my eyes and saw my soul. I can't go any further because "I am getting sick to my stomach here". This is the bullshit that makes you think black women need therapy. They are so painfully delusional it is sad. Sal you are adding to this. You scumbag. This is not a joke!

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  46.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 01 Apr 10

    Wow, Sal. I've seen quite a few black women wearing burqas in the US. I was in Wal-Mart last year and saw a group of black women in burqas, veils and all. You could see their facial features through the veils and could tell that they were sisters or at least related. It's not that common. Most of the ones I see on a daily basis going for walks, shopping, or driving their cars do not have veils or just the head scarf. But I digress. I'm not in this debate. I understand what you're saying. Please continue, Sir.

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  47.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 01 Apr 10

    More stupidity. I have never seen a Black woman done a Burqa in the US. Do you even know what a Burqa is? I didn't have to be in the hospital I heard the story from then. Sorry, while rare, it is not miraculous. Of course you completely avoided the other other ethnic mixes going on. You can claim you are beating me all you want, the rest of the readers see through your bullshit all the time. Again. PROVE that all People date across ethnic lines because they have a problem with their own.

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  48.   Member says:
    Posted: 01 Apr 10

    Dear Sal I know some black women who wear Burkas. It seems like you have a problem with Muslim women. You made the "what if" arguments. I merely responded to them. You made this comment... “So if an Asian man has a passion for helping kids with cancer, and he bumps into a Black woman who has a similar passion, and they find out they have so much more in common, she is really dating him, because she thinks something is fed up in the Black male community. Wow, what great logic.” You said you witnessed this happen. I guess you was in the hospital while they were helping the cancer patient and saw them fall in love. You are speculating as to what made them "date each other". It could be she is fed up with black men. What was the point of this story anyway? Now Asian men are miraculously falling in love with black women? A majority of black women live in the black community. Black men don't stop "any race of men" of coming to see them. How about tell white men stop making excuses and come into "the hood" and date black women. Tameka, Shanay, and Laquisha would give them a chance. I don't complain. There is plenty of black women to date. You act like non black men date "all types" of black women. They are very selective when it comes to black women. You can fool some of these sellout black women with your nonsense but you don't fool me. Why do you think the marriage and dating percentages are low for black women. It is not even fair that I beat up on you. It is like beating up on the handicap.

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  49.   TYRANT says:
    Posted: 31 Mar 10

    Comment by lala123 on 31 March 2010: For some of the comments I have read (tyrant): It’s about not about self-validation. It’s about treatment: if you have never been intimidated, brutalized, terrorized, or belittled by a person or group with power because you are black than you can’t possibly know what its like. Racism is terrorism on every level: mental, psychological, and physical. You are NOT human if it does not affect you whether consciously or unconsciously. How would you feel, if just once, someone terrorized your loved one? To watch the terror helplessly and only helplessly because you are defenseless? The guilt from that helplessness is indescribably haunting and degrading- the guilt alone. It’s almost like a rape: a violation you cannot simply “get over” or “shake off”. Many times its not always what was down, but how it was done- how the racist act was carried out. Yes, you get on with your life; you live with it; tolerate it because you have to get on, but it will always be an open wound that wakes you up at night and makes you cry. No, you couldn’t possible know. TYRANT: We're not having the same conversation. Why? Because I have NO IDEA what you're talking about, and/or what this is in regards to. To my knowledge, I haven't RAPED, ROBBED, KILLED, TORTURED, INTIMIDATED, HARRASSED, and/or even SHOOK DOWN anyone. You know what, I'm just going to say that I think you meant to post to someone else and typed my name in by ACCIDENT. Have a nice evening.

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  50.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 31 Mar 10

    LOL. Again the Drag Q shows his idiocy. Note that I made no absolute claim. He did. Of course his attempts at projecting straw men are entertaining. Nowhere did I say that ALL people in interracial relationships date because of one reason or excluded all people for another reason. That is Q's mentality, not mine. Just like Q is stupid enough and misogynistic enough to assume Black women should only stay in the Black community. They must not interact with strangers outside the community. If men want to talk to them, they must not do it at places of leisure or work. They must wait until the women go home and then talk to them in their community. Do you want Black women to wear burqas as well when outside the Black community? LOL. Keep exposing your real mentality. Meanwhile I will keep laughing at the evidence of your conniptions at the fact that Black women are opening up to dating a lot more, and close minded fools like you can't do a damn thing about it except complain.

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