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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    (Open the door after a long day of work) "Lawdy mercy" the peanut gallery is still here. Queen Latifah now wants to "rephrase what she said" earlier. "Okay, on to the suject at hand. Well if I said experts let me rephrase that. What I meant was from my experience that religion is usually a deal breaker for me when it comes to men because they aren’t open to it. But some experts think you shouldn’t even bring it up for awhile but I think that’s crazy. You get all interested in the man, then he drops the bomb on you that he either doesn’t believe in God or he refuses to keep an open mind about it. It’s a difficult thing." You know what they should throw you out of "church". Once again, do these men know about each other Queen Latifah????????????????? Stop backtracking on your statements. You are talking about deal breakers. I think a deal breaker is finding out the woman you courting is with two men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You got the nerve to lecture other black women on this board and you got sexy lingerie for two white men! I heard you are adding "Sal" to your list. You can never have enough white men huh, and a couple of "semi" tough guy Latino men. This so-called Lawyer Sal embezzles drug proceeds for the Mexican cartel allegedly. You crooked lawyer, no wonder you hide your identity all over the place. Sal, stop ducking and hiding are you married or not? You are the moral compass of this room. Answer the question because sellout black women are looking for "good men". Big eyes you are a good woman to put up with these condescending black women on the board. It almost like they are snobs. She makes it a point to "say she got two Christian men. Last time I checked, Christian men don't want a "loose" woman. To bad they don't know 'what is going on". I wonder if she invited "both men" to her church. Sit them right down next to each other and let them sing "Negro spirituals". Who wants a woman "eying" other men because she is too insecure to make that "1 date" work for her. Her phone ringing in the middle of "dinner". She excusing herself to the bathroom to answer her cell phone. Your country ass is not fooling me "Queen Latifah". (Man slamming my hand on the table). I didn't even want to come back. I am sick and tired of these sellout black women using white men. Do you have any shame at this point? You still bringing up "Christianity". To be continued. (Let me take my white dress shirt and tie off).

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  2.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    @triccinicci it's so interesting to meet so many people from Alabama or have friends and family here. lol We are like Africa everyone seems to come from here lol

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  3.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    @Bigeyes31 I'm sorry that you felt you were in the middle but I think it's too funny that your lack of response to this guy makes him think that some how you agree with him and his street pedding but like I said at least he recognizes a decent person. Ok on to the suject at hand, well if I said experts let me rephrase that. What I meant was from my experience that religion is usually a deal breaker for me when it comes to men because they aren't open to it. But some experts think you shouldn't even bring it up for awhile but I think that's crazy. You get all interested in the man, then he drops the bomb on you that he either doesn't believe in God or he refuses to keep an open mind about it. It's a difficult thing. @triccinicci I don't mind sharing my experiences with other people if I think it'll help that person. People can think what they want, they do anyway but do I feel obligated to justify myself? No, not especially to someone who doesn't know me.

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  4.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Tricci Thanks so much,you are a living doll! Girl, your life sounds like the stories I have read...condos,exotic men,lol. Look, I'm going to Tagged.com,shortly!I'm glad you haven't forgotten about my European Tour. I was planning maybe August to go to Greece. I have had an obsession with Greek mythology ever since I was about seven. What better way to connect than to see it with my own eyes? I picked August because my research says the crowds will be smaller and the weather still warm,also hopefully I will be settled in by then. I moved from good ole Alabama to Houston,Tx.Again, I'm so thrilled about you making a new friend and about to meet him face to face!You are a sweet lady and I know things will go fine. I hope also that one day we as women can talk to each other about our interracial experiences as common ground. I know I could stand to learn a few things,lol. Well,I know you are going to be busy and living life but if you get a chance come back and share with me,with us all how things go. Take Care,Ms Lady Peace

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  5.   triccinicci says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Hey Big Eyes, Good to see your always beautiful self. When are we doing our European tour? I haven't forgotten, lol! Actually I have a good pen pal I met on Tagged.com. We correspond whenever we have free time. He is Italian, but is working in Sweden right now. I thought to visit him this month, but got stuck with repairs to my condo. He'll be here in a few months so I will have a chance to meet him face to face. He is the sweetest person and we have identical names, lol! He is my European connection, lol! Always so much fun meeting so many different folks. Believe it or not these dating boards seems to give me the least amount of results for meeting "real", diverse folks. The social networking sites are where I find genuine people not trying to "hook up" with you when presenting oneself as seeking companion/friendship, BUT from the basis of friends first. I don't put too much thought into it, but hope one day to be able to have girl talk from the perspective of girls and interracial dating talk from the perspective of those actually doing just that. Just not based on race, but interest in the differences that make us whole.

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  6.   triccinicci says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    So do just that and never look back. What is your true value in exposing yourself publicly? My mother always told me that you never argue with a drunk...when they come out of their stupor or excessive gain, they won't remember a thing! You will be the only one left with mustard on your nose because that individual will just move on to the next experience. Now I am through preaching. Here is something in common, both my father and step father are from your Alabama. I visited when I was a girl on a few occassions. When my stepfather was laid to rest in his family's cemetery in Mobile, my mother and I traveled there via Louisiana. I remember the blood red of the Magnolia fruit and their heavenly scented white blossoms. I brought a small branch home that I kept hydrated, plucking it into water to watch it open upon my windowsill. I have not been back since, but have a step sister who lives there. I'd love to get a chance to visit now as an adult. Maybe someday.

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  7.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Good Bama,LOL. Queens has a fiance. I'm skittish about people saying that someone has a crush on me due to an unforntunate incident that occurred with a similar situation on this board...me being placed in the middle, I don't want that again. So forgive me if I seemed to jump defensive on that. Well, addressing your earlier post,mentioning the name of Jesus to these men sends them running according to the experts?? I find that true but I didn't know there was an article or book written about it.Wow, tell me more. I hope maybe some insight will come of it. I mean as I said before I have a double whammy of a situation. How do you even attempt to get to know someone without asking them questions about their beliefs?Not only do I have to break the news about my celibacy (celibate,grossly misspelled that earlier,lol) then I have to break the news about my faith. I think you are blessed to have two christian men as suitors. I wish I did. At least they still care about you and don't run. I'm not complaining. I accept the consequences of my choice of religion and lifestyle. So, to relate this back, some what back to the topic of the board,the ethnicity of a man AIN'T even on my mind,LOL. @Hey Tricci LOL, good to see you in the place Ms Lady.

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  8.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    @triccinicci I appreciate that comment and I thank you for sharing your experience with this siutation as well. I had a feeling other women were harrassed by this "character" as well. I miss the days of the yahoo chatroom where you can have a room exclusively for groups like this where people can have fun discussions and maybe meet someone new. And if someone were to come into the room and try to start something, you can banish them. Ahhhhh the good old days. There are so many good conversations to be had on here and we are all wasting our breath on this one indivdual because of his own insecurities. I'm ready to move on.

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  9.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Tricci, I actually got bored with the debates for a while. People like Andy, will not go away as trolls. His 'cause' has become his reason for being. He has been on these threads for years. He just keeps on doing the same over and over again. But every once in a while it is good to remind the readers who aren't recurring readers, who he really is. So you challenge him, and he exposes himself. If you look at his posts for a few months, they have been benign, as he tries setting people up. I do agree ethnocentric jealousy exists in many groups, but online I tend to encounter it from Black males the most, so those are the ones I comment on the most. When any other group kicks in I shoot them down as well. Andy is frustrated now because he has nothing, so he tries to claim I'm here because of some woman. So which woman would that be Andy? Who am I trying to pick up? LOL. I'm not a paying member so I can't PM any woman here. So you should be able to see me trying to mack on someone. You are entertaining Andy. Yes I have many female friends around the world. And many male friends as well. But then someone like you would never understand that. Hey Bama, Tricci and BigEyes. I guess I'm trying to hit on you according to Andy, so can you PM me your digits so we can have friendships and ANdy can call us all sluts and what not. LMAO!!

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  10.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Big I'm not upset with you at all, and I enjoy our conversations. I think it's just interesting to see low life is trying to drag you into this because you actually have been nice to him. To his credit he does recognize you are a good person, therefore I think he has crush on you. He is like the preacher trying to convert sinners by saying if you don't believe in him, we are all going to hell, yet he is the worse sinner of all. I'd love to change the subject so if there is anything else you want to discuss PLEASE bring it up. LOL I'm bored with this rollercoaster.

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  11.   triccinicci says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    It would be wonderful if folks become encouraged to be accepting of themselves so a greater tolerance of others is derived. This happens very little in these contrite closets of vertical bantering...many are thrown off by the so called "Blog Stars" who keep issues on the uproar instead of sticking to topic. Many of you have made really valid points about your experiences. That's worth my reading, but it becomes thwarted and convoluted when notice after notice concerns continuing threads from these unpolished lead topics. So my question is one I had to face of my own when an active contributor: "What was your purpose for sharing and have you been distracted from what YOU want from this blog as being a place for you to share your experiences?" I ask this because as a reader I would like to learn more about the experiences of others. It helps me to grow. When that experience is reduced to rubble due to poorly written lead topics (mostly written from a negative point of view by one of the authors of this blog, James) and targeted assaults by folks who need psychological treatment (can't really blame them/him), the entire element of potential to learn from one another's experiences is lost. Bamababe2k9 you seem like a wonderfully happy individual so capable of sharing your wealth of experience generously with others walking a similar path; wanting to expand exponentially in degrees of happiness on all levels. As for Salsassin, I am in no way a "newbie" to this blog or new to double standards of prejudiced race roles. Neither am I a freshman to the rancorous jealousy certain men in cultural pools try to unleash on unsuspecting women. Such resent women who break the mold of control and domination these men feel entitled to. It's not even a black or white issue. That is simply used as cover for the truly subverted and covert activity of the desire of such men to feel superior and dominating. Each strike you throw increases the disillusion this person has of being in control. That's why you IGNORE them! Two things will happen, they will go away and secondly, such a one will secretly admire you. As no person really wants to be Hitler, but in their world, "someone's got to do the job, may as well be me". The only benefit this type of miserable person can even call gratifying is for the world to suffer as he has. Certainly no Jesus and certainly not happy when you have not felt the pain such a person is beset with in feeling uncared for (on the spiritual level, not physical surface), unloved and - the greatest of their groanings - unheard. To be heard is be acknowledged into existence. You know Salsassin exists because you can be in agreement in your conversation -or- you can be entitled to the acceptance of the Laws of the Universe and agree with those. Either way, some people cannot muster the courage to do this due to deeply beset psychological issues. I hope I have not offended you in conveying this to you. It is not my intent to infer or not infer anything more than what I wrote and that being written to give you consolation you are doing nothing wrong - still. I had to learn through experience and the encouragement of others on this board to give a generous path to the village idiot because he might hurt himself or others unwittingly. We're all the same as humans. Having to learn from our mistakes, sometimes soft, sometimes hard. Most times we can laugh at them. That's the fun part. Other times, we just have to move on. I've done both and don't mind sharing the path I took from the wisdom I learned through others. Enjoy!

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  12.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    (Loosening my tie) "LOL. Andy is still frustrated and spewing diarrhea trying to make something stick. Sorry bub, I have plenty of Latina friends with Black friends in great relationships. Nice try at projecting." This the primary reason why I hate "alleged lawyers". I bet you do have plenty of black female and Latin female "friends". I am going to start calling you "Latino John Edwards". You are quite adept at manipulating the female population for personal gain. In particular, black women. I am still trying to figure out your angle. (Raising my eyebrow) (picking up my drink). I certainly do not gain anything from talking about sellout black women. Sal you seem to pop up when you see a woman you like on this board. You did it last time. I guess you got tired of using her and you are back here "again" "pimping" this board. Of course, I am just speculating. Have a nice day sir.

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  13.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Did you mean sleight of hand, o nitpicker you? LOL. I am on a ton of boards. Feel free to post as many as you want. They can easily see when I last visited those boards, and surf the forums. Then they will usually see my post in some old debate. And nice try pendejo. I have nothing to fear as I don't have several women. But like your ambulance chasing comment, and a multitude of others, all you can do is make lame accusations, because you never have any evidence to back them up. So let me laugh a little bit more at you. So am I married? AM I single? You tell me.

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  14.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Big eyes you are a good woman. Sal, using a "slight of hand". You are on this board for the "debates". You seem have left out the "other" dating boards you are on. I like playing chess with you. I noticed you never said "you didn't have several women" you are dating ambulance chaser. Are you married or single? I am pretty sure the black women here would like to know the "gracious" man that has come to their defense. "Your move".

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  15.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    LOL. Andy is still frustrated and spewing diarrhea trying to make something stick. Sorry bub, I have plenty of Latina friends with Black friends in great relationships. Nice try at projecting. Sorry bub, I, already exposed you once. No need to visit Blackplanet again. Sorry, don't live in Florida, and wrong again, my license is quite nice thank you.

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  16.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    This damn Latin Men like "Sal" They are always hating and jealous. God forbid their black girlfriend is next to a black man. Their face "turn red". You are the biggest haters on the planet. The funny thing is, you come after me. You don't even like black men dating "Latina women". Yea, talk about that Latino 'Mail". Yea, keep watching what I do on black planet punk. I already know first-hand living in Florida. Go chase ambulances you unlicensed lawyer.

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  17.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Edit: conversation.

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  18.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    @Mr. L. Queens I will admit it get's hard out here sometimes but I gotta keep on truck'in. I'm not a finatic but it will be a hard day's night being with someone who doesn't have enough in common. You won't even be able to stand having a convesation with them and them you after awhile,LOL.

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  19.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    LOL Nice try again, Andy. I didn't join this board to hook up, I joined because of one of the debates. Not like you on Blackplanet. Nice try on your claims. I bet you can't back those either. But that is your usual modus operandi. Throw shit to see if it sticks. Sorry bub, not an ambulance chaser. But good try. Let me know when you find the "several Black females" I am sleeping with. LOL

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  20.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Now you saw me on Blackplanet. LOL You act like I tried to talk to your sister. Don't blame me because you got caught on this board being a "player". Now, I know why the vendetta. It is not that serious for me. Just admit you are a womanizer Latino "Mail". Don't try to project your flaws onto me. You call me a misogynist but you are sleeping with several black women. This is the type of hypocrisy this punk is doing. You want Bama ask for her phone number. She right in front of you. You have a nice day. LOL

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  21.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    LOL Sal ( I remember you) You ambulance chaser. I thought you left this board for good with the two black women you currently support and live with. You have th audacity to tell me I am misogynist and low life. (Raising eyebrows) Sorry "Rico Suave". Tell the women on the board why you left here. They were on to your "game". This is the shit I can't stand. Trying to use more to make himself "look good" for internet dates. My identity is on my blog. Sal I thought you were smarter than that. I am tired of battling you for last couple months. A matter of fact, Bama likes lawyers. Maybe, she can add you to her list. You have a nice day.

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  22.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    @Bama Don't do this.I so enjoyed out conversations before about our similarities(Capriorns,lol). This all just went wrong some how and it's so hard to stop. I'm guilty of this also and just don't want to see it happen again but then again I'm not perfect and will defend myself if need be. The comment I made about picking a battle that was then lost was referring to someone else who picked a debate on this blog with me and lost and is still now lashing out and "attacking" me. I won't name names. You have defended yourself. Myself and others have defended you too.It's okay. I say let the men fight,LOL. @Salsassin I second Bama, Nice picture,wow.

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  23.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    I exposed his ass a while ago on this same board, where he had a blackplanet page trying to pick up women. Probably closed it or edited it by now.

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  24.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    I wouldn't either because he is probably on a few most wanted posters.lol

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  25.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Thanks. Of course you notice Andrew, the cable guy never posts his picture.

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  26.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Hey Sal, nice pic. :)

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  27.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    LOL. This guy is still trying to fish because Bama has given him no credence to his claims. As he struggles in his two jobs, if they are even real. You wish I worked in the mail.

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  28.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Dear Queenie, You still have no clue what's going on and I'm not going to tell you. LOL Chew on that the rest of the day Street Pedder as you come up with your next lame response. Love Bama

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  29.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    (Laughing) "That is usually the argument of a loser who has lost on their debate of choice, so they seek to attack the debater that has bested them instead." I am sure you wouldn't attack the debater Latino Mailboy LOL. Judging from all the questions not answered lol. Nice one "Latino Mail". I am not in "Alabama" and I haven't heard any denial of NOT having sex with the two white men that don't know about each other. Jesus, she even brags about having two white men wanting her like she is a " KFC biscuit" of some kind. Must be a misguided ego or arrogance. It is safe to assume, you are full of it. LOL "Keep exploring you're relationships". Just admit it, these two white men do not know about each other! ( Pushing Latino Mail out the way). I am tired of the conversation being misdirected. I will admit you are intelligent but "slick". I see the game you are doing Queen Latifah's baby sister! LOL Have a nice day.

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  30.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    "Actually it’s Books a Million (that’s what we have down here) and it’s not one man, it’s actually two. One is a lawyer from New Orleans the other one is a manager in retail store but thanks for asking." For the Newbie, The Troll was accusing her of not having a social life or a man interested in her. She made a one sentence claim. Notice that there is no mention of sex, committed relationships or even if they know about each other or not. What we have here is a a person that has no life so he tries to create one on the internet desperately trying to create mountains out of molehills. That is usually the argument of a loser who has lost on their debate of choice, so they seek to attack the debater that has bested them instead.

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  31.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    What I find interesting is a low life street pedder calling himself a christian yet he has called me a slut and another grown man a pussy and then try to drag others into his mess although she clearly stated in her last response that he lost the fight. Yet he ignores that probably because he has the hots for her and that she is too decent to call him out for the low life that he is. Oh did I mention said person is liar and wouldn't know the truth if it slap him in the face and the only reason he is actually saying any thing is because I embrassed him when he thought he could crack on me and his best line of defense is lower his intelligence and start name calling because he really had nothing to say. Oh and he still doesn't KNOW what's going on and it's eating him up. :)

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  32.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    (Looking past Bama) Big eyes I agree with you. I just find it funny that people defend a hypocrite faster than they will defend a "woman" that actually sticks to her "Christian beliefs". I have more respect for that woman, than a "woman" who brags about how many men she is manipulating. None of which, seem to know that she is dating them both. Sounds "sluttish" to me. Since the Christian belief system is partly "honesty", it is amazing to me what women will do to defend their "desperation". These false accusations about men "dating" different women. Is is a pathetic excuse at best? It is this type of vindictive nature that gets black women nowhere. Two wrongs don't make a right. It is not acceptable for men to date two women and "not tell them". You want white men to take you serious. But you already prejudged them by seeking "other men". The "indirect prostitution" doctrine failed a long time ago. Put those sperm "EGGS" in your basket like you are doing now. Have a blessed day.

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  33.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    I do think this is a great topic for discussion though. Why is it that when women decide to explore their options they are considered sluts, men do it, they are playas. A dude who can balance several women at the same time and they don't know about it, oh a lot of dudes admire that. But let a woman say well I'm really interested in these two guys and Oh she a slut, she a ho, she must be sleeping with them. I think at times that's the problem with women, we put our eggs in one basket too early and then get burned and then we get desperate. I think the reason that men don't get deseperate for women is because most of them keep their options open. I'm not saying you date mulitiple people if you are exclusive, but why not just date if you aren't in a serious relationship. That's what men do.

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  34.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    @Queens,LOL I have found that all I have to do is be a lady and a man will defend my honor,LOL. Peace(which, I can TRULY say because I didn't pick a battle that I then lost,LOL)

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  35.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Wow I read some interesting stuff this morning, so Ole Boy has done this before huh? Why am I not surprised? I didn't realize I had to justify my dating habits to a low life,trying to peddle some garbage on the internet about a subject he knows nothing about. The interesting part of all of this is he still has no idea what's going on and it's KILLING him LOL See he tried to take a shot at me by saying I have no social life, but when he found out I had not just one suitor but two, it pissed him off. His theories about white men not being interested in black women and us having to run after them, got shot to hell. I blew away a couple of his theories. Plus, they are successful, attractive, SINGLE white men at that. So, he uses the word Slut to say I'm sleeping with both men because that's where his mind is. If a woman is interested and or dating two men, well hell according to him she must be sleeping with them, not exploring her options like most men do, but you got to be screwing them both and if you are GOD FORBID!!!!!!!! LOL The fun part in all of this is, he'll never know. He won't get the satisfaction he so deserves and wants SOOOOOOOOOOOOO bad. LOL

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  36.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Man it is to "early" for this. QQ at my dictionary because Tricc is back. I guess she will give Bama the resources to call the blog police on me. The mental illness in sellout black women is rampant. Tricc and Bama is similar. EXCEPT Tricc went out with a married white man twice and decided it was "morally wrong" to late. She made some alleged story that the white guy wanted to pay her bills and give her a home. You can't even make this stuff up!!! I am proud of her being able to realize she is a hypocrite. I don't make up ANYTHING. She needs to tell the truth about the married white man that she "considered" being his concubine. You ain't learn your lesson last time Tricc! Now, on the other hand, Bama with her "two men" that do not know about each other is a different story. Look, just be honest with the men. You attack my personal character. That does not bother me. You say I have "ADD", clearly that does not bother me. You say I am unemployed. I have two jobs. They would like " to do anything" but answer the question. The next thing they are going to say is " I abuse my dog". Stop ducking my questions about you being a personal concubine for two men in Alabama. I wonder if a "third man" can get involved with you. I am trying to figure out what is the criteria for that. Do they have to be a retail store owner or Lawyer too? Latino "Mailboy" would be excluded. Let's cut out the "word" games about sex. That goes for Tricc and Queens Latifah Bama sister, you ain't DENY having sex. You can go on and on about it. Let me respond to the Something New comment. The movie was strange and stupid. Jews hardly marry black women and black people. LOL You ain't google Jews "Latino Mail". You know history pretty well. QQ Tatt, I am not even going to respond to you. When Big eyes got "in your ass". You hardly had anything to say. You still running your mouth about her. I did you a favor not kicking you while you were down. You need to stay in the background like AZ did to you. You will attack Big Eeyes but AZ "checked you" and you didn't say anything. I like this discussion. We got 4 people here against me. Looks like " I have the upper hand". LOL If a man is dating two women and they don't know about each other, you would say he is womanizer. A woman does it and she is "exploring" dating. I am going to use that at work. LOL She got two men feeling up on her and she dodging her "cell phone calls" when they call for her. Why are you manipulating white men???????????????? Yo make me sick! What's next you are going to call the Blog "FBI" on me? I have to leave now (QQ outside) I see a Halle Berry Type from Monster's ball outside. She looks like "tired , worn out, and the verge of getting evicted". Have a good day.

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  37.   triccinicci says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    (Entering the door after substantantial absence, lol!) Bama, et al, Hello everyone, just breezing through on my way to Tagged. I saw a litany of responses and enjoyed reading the last several days worth (wow, that was some volleying) of comments. Bama, sitting in the seat of the audience and having no intention of bantering back and forth (been there done that), I could not help but to step up and encourage you to not be pulled into the socio-psychological upheaval known as L. Queens. Mecca is absolutely on point in comprehending the child has an emotional depression rooted in childhood. He and I have had long threads of interchange discussing this. It's never going to end because he will not face his demons. He, like any abuser, will take them out on the weak and unaware. Many of us have found ourselves in the later position being used as cerebral ping pong for regulation of forceful cravings he surrenders to when coming down from the clouds. You are right to call the blog police as I and many others threatened to do. I, for one, am serious about my American liberties and did notify them. He backed down for quite a while and this is the first in my few visits since I exited the site last year, that I've seen him attack in this regard. Now if he were Imus we would all be up in arms he is calling a black woman a "slut"/"slut bucket" because you said you had two suitors. This is absolutely appalling and should be stopped! Like you, I was one he accussed of "sleeping" with and being "used" by white men due to a story I innocently relayed in portraying a point exampled from my own life. The point actually being one that specifically denounced sleeping with white men because some find it "trophey-ish" to keep a woman as a full throttled mistress on the side. It was forbidden and therefor showed power if one could do accomplish this so as not to interfere with their social image of White/Judeo-Christian/Socially perfected life and lifestyle. NOTHING in what I said even REMOTELY suggested I slept with anyone! Yet he hounded me, like a rabbid dog for details. Claiming I had made an infedel relationship (which never happened, lol) public by mentioning it on a public blog. With all his supposed intellect, you'd think the child would know what slander means. Rest assured, I and everyone who uses this public blog, reads and writes English very well. It is an OBVIOUS FACT you never said you were sleeping with anyone. You inferred you had two suitors. I don't think any woman would consider that a sad state of affairs:-) How you chose to handle your suitors is a matter of personal taste. When I dated my ex, many of my male friends (suitors) were not privy to our heightening exclusivity. When we became exclusive (engaged), I politely let each one know I was no longer available out of respect for him and for them. Two of my then suitors, were hurt by the announcement, but what could I do? I did what was best for all involved. Does that mean I had sex with every man who was interested in me back then (and some not for exclusive relationships either I might add)? Absolutely not! Some of the telling tickled my fancy because some men think women can't see through their transparencies. I was honored to be with the love of my life because I felt adored, significant and protected. There is nothing wrong with you threading your way through at your loom of life, making the fabric of that life the vibrantcy, color and orchestrated design that YOU want. Don't worry about the charlatan running by trying to sell the emperor trickery and calling it finery...you just let the blog police take care of such ones. Enjoy your marketplace and the wonderful and beautiful treasures you may take your time selecting. Only you know what their true value will become once you enhance them with your touch. Sweet, do no take your fine wares and your spiritual secrets to the gyspy and ask for the value there. Stop pouring your crystalline honey to stinging wasps! Good Night All! (Closing the blog door to go speak to the moon;-)

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  38.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    LOL. I forgot about the wedding. Yeah, wasn't the Jewish lady who introduced them? By the way, the Hottentot woman isn't new to me. I am quite familiar with the Kgeika Kwena like the Khoi. The tragic case of Saartjie Baartman, where she went to europe in 1810 and died in 1815, is not the cause of the crenoline to evolve into the bustle, over 50 years later. The rest of what you were speaking about went over my head.

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  39.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    And ya know.....before the "shadow" even responds....(which she will....lol....without a DOUBT)....let it be known... I am NOT the one mentioning vibrators and transexual innuendos.....(the FOGHORN LEGHORN reference was strictly for fun....hail, in this looney tunes blog I fancy myself the "Bugs Bunny";....but whatever..LOL)....yet, I have this individual trying to (along with fellow "UNIVERSITY OF MAKING SHYT UP" classmate, Queens) make me appear "low-class". All of this is EXTREMELY laughable but I hope all those with eyes can see. Those that TRY and place themselves on pedestals are doomed to get knocked down. And those that are certain that their (high) road is the only road on which to travel are bound to trip over their own feet. Peace

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  40.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    All Queens does is exploit people's obvious need for sensationalism....which I am sure will sell many books (an agenda he has denied before.....HA!). I see him for the cartoon character that he is on here. I have seen him through on this blog from the beginning and NOTHING has changed......whether you "feed him" or not he will stick around until is "mission" is complete.....or he simply finds something else to do. But I must tell you, "Daffy", if you are going to dissect a movie as far as to pay attention to the head gear of a particular character you really need to get ya shyt straight. The dude in question wore a yarmulke at SOMEONE ELSE'S wedding (not at his own, AT THE END), which is customary. I know that it's not really important.....but when you start playing "movie reviewer" in here you step on my toes a bit...LOL. Speaking of movies, I wish to thank Salassin for the list of those containing IR....much obliged there, dear man. I also must express my gratitude for your return here.....not allowing some to continue on certain rants unchecked. Yet at the same time, I must implore you to look beyond Wikipedia for your info on the crinoline. Type this one in.....(or better yet look up some J.A Rogers books) "HOTTENTOT WOMAN". It is true that the crinoline served one purpose but who amongst us can say we knew exactly what was the muse for the designer when the device "evolved". Whatever the case may be, I just find it amusing that these trends come about.....everyone SOOOO concern with how they appear to others and the "glam" of it all. Which also brings to mind the fact that ONE here, STILL finds the need to make WEAK references to me....laughable at best. Me thinks it's time to check THE MIRROR.....your makeup/mask is melting....LMAO. Just because you like "johnsons" doesn't mean you have to swing from one 24/7 in here....LOL. AND furthermore (lol), it speaks volumes when someone that LOOOOVES black men so much would go on and on about the beauty of "mixed" folks....LOL....*cough("COLOR-STRUCK")cough* Peace and Blessings tatted2death

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  41.   mecca77 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    personally i think he is a unemployed brother who . has mommy issues. and suffer no doubt from clinical depression or a jailbird who been indoctrinated by the prison system therefore he does not know any better and bitter toward women ., he is a hater and abusive, when so call men act like this they do not respect women at all,

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  42.   mecca77 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    if you do not feed into laurelton queens he would not get the attention stop feeding into his madness you see has A.D.D.

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  43.   Tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Bama, you are right. Can't help the delusional. I'm ignoring the simpleton.

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  44.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    True Bam, I'll ignore the drag queen.

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  45.   Tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Mr Laurelton Queens, She never said anyone was feeling on her or that she was sleeping with anyone NOR was she bragging. You are pathetic. Black women don't fail, I assure you that I am quite successful...are you? Before you lie, your lack of making a point without lying and your inability to have an intelligent rebuttal without fallacious accusations, makes it clear that you are a pot smoking ignoramus. The part that kills me is....unlike other morons, you challenge people of are of higher intelligence and try to trick them into believe what you are saying and not what they see. It's like a child trying to out smart a 30 year old. Is it possible that you are so ignorant that you are not embarrassed that your feeble attempt to discredit someone has backfired revealing you as the one with credibility?

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  46.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Ya'll don't waste your breath on him when you do, he thinks he is special which he is but not in a good way. He is just a punk looking for attention and excitement Like I said, if he was getting some, he wouldn't be here. His pee pee and his hand are very lonely LOL

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  47.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    So now we know why you are a Queen. Sorry bub, No dress wearing for me. You can dress up your White boyfriends however you want. Just don't get mad when they go straight.

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  48.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Dear Tam I love black women. I just don't them going down the wrong path. I am not bashing her. She said she "had two men". She was bragging about it. I would have disagree. It is dating when "you tell the men" you are seeing other people. Stop playing word games. She has no dignity or respect letting two strange men "feel" up on her. That is why black women fail. I won't apologize for shit. You can call me a misogynist and a charlatan. I heard it all before

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  49.   Tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Mr Laurelton Queens, You are a misogynist and a charlatan! You hate Black women...you don't love them. You are bashing a woman for not taking the first man to ask her out to be her boyfriend. She isn't allowed to see if he's the best man for her. If she dates, she's a slut. No one believes that! You are wasting your time! STFU and GTFO. Why do you continue to embarass yourself? Have you no dignity or self respect?

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  50.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    LOL Sal Go put on a dress pussy. Go google that. LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

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