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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    Queen, now we really understand. It wasn't that a White male stole your woman, it was that he took your heart. You are fiending because she has two males and you want one.

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  2.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    (Eating popcorn) "Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 28 February 2010: Actually it’s Books a Million (that’s what we have down here) and it’s not one man, it’s actually two. One is a lawyer from New Orleans the other one is a manager in retail store but thanks for asking. So she is exploring relationships with two men. Has she said sex? No. Has she said anything other than that she has two relationship interests? No. SO basically Queen talked out of his ass, over two sentences." She is exploring alright. She ain't say "she did not have sex with them". She has TWO, OH is that all it is! Shit, (Hitting my head). Man, what was I thinking calling her a slut bucket. I sincerely apologize than. It is crab ass women like you that give good black women a bad name! A nice black woman could be with one of these "two guys". But instead you are "blocking". Street philosophy or not. You are the "worse" type of sellout black woman. You won't even hook your "home girl up" with one of these guys. These two men don't know "Bama slut" is exploring in her relationship. Stop making up shit Latino "Mailboy". Sounds like somebody is putting "perfume" on bullshit. Latino "Mail" you tired of peeing sitting down? LOL It is going to be a long night and couple days every time you respond back to me. Mrs " I got two men". (Smiling)

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  3.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    My last comment on the stupidity that is Queens Comment by Mr Laurelton Queens on 28 February 2010: LOL Bama Again, where is your “man” at? Since you seem to know men so well? I picture you at “Border’s book store” reading books and not having a social life. Comment by Bamababe2k9 on 28 February 2010: Actually it’s Books a Million (that’s what we have down here) and it’s not one man, it’s actually two. One is a lawyer from New Orleans the other one is a manager in retail store but thanks for asking. So she is exploring relationships with two men. Has she said sex? No. Has she said anything other than that she has two relationship interests? No. SO basically Queen talked out of his ass, over two sentences.

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  4.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    That's what trolls do stir the pot because they have nothing else to do. He is right@bigeyes you are a good person from what a know of you and too smart to fall for some bullshit street phisophy.

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  5.   Member says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    There is no misunderstanding. Big eyes, I got a lot respect for you. But the woman said she has two "men". One is a Lawyer I think, the other a retail store owner. That is her "two men" she has right. She says she is a "Christian" and wouldn't be with an agnostic person or a person that didn't believe in church and god. Stop playing "word games" here. Do these men "know about each other"? Answer that you Alabama fraud. Obviously, you can't be celibate that is why you are knocking the "next woman". Everything said just makes me laugh because they dodge all the questions. Bama don't even tell people live up to Christian principles. God Bless Big Eyes, she is a good person. Why can't some these clowns on the board be honest? LOL I don't mind the personal attacks. I already KNOW you want answer my questions. Trust me, I don't blame you at all. Big eyes don't got to explain nothing to your "Bama" fraud. Your eyes do not deceive you. Go bring those two men you with "Bama" on this board. I am tired of you sellout black women using white men for personal gain! I am the "TRUTH". People being making friends "ignoring" "ho behavior". I can't let "ho" stuff go. You was better off hiding your identity in Alabama. You must get a kick out of manipulating men. I hope you run into the "right man" that expose you for what you are. I will be back.

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  6.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 02 Mar 10

    People have the right to be celibate, and they have the right to be sexually active, if they so choose. The key point is honesty between the partners. If you play a person, you aren't being honest. I have gone through both phases in my life. But I never lied to my partner to get something. You are right, responding to a fool like Laurelton is a waste of time. He's a troll and we keep on feeding him.

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  7.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    OMG! LOL I went back and read that!! Wow! totally changes the meaning of things, one word,LOL. No, you didn't give that impression,LOL.Just typing too fast.

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  8.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    LOL i appreciate you explaining yourself cause I was confused. I was like did I give off that impression? LOL

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  9.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    EDIT: I meant there is one person on here that did give me that impression,but I digress. OMG, I see why ya have ta proofread. I can understand why misunderstandings occur too.

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  10.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    I think whom you sleep with or you whom you don't sleep with is no one's business but theirs. If being celibate works for you, then do it baby girl don't let anyone tell you different. One of the guys I was talking about, is celibate and I admire him for it. He is a very handsome man who could probably have any woman he wanted but at this point, he makes the choice not to sleep with anyone. Just like being sexual active, being celibate is your choice and no one has a right to judge you.

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  11.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    AWWW...Tamn8 Thank You so much!

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  12.   Tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    Off topic. Big eyes, you are beautiful.

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  13.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    @Bama I don't know you same as I don't know anyone else here on this blog. I usually make points based off what people post and that's all and I don't gather anything from what you posted that says you are a loose woman. There is one that did give me that impression,but I digress. I don't believe dating equals sex. I am a celebate Christian. I haven't been on a date since the superbowl party that was given by a married couple,lol. I MOST CERTAINLY DIDN'T sleep with him,lol. I have two REALLY BIG obstacles in my situation;one, being a Christian and two,being celebate. I don't think ANYONE here has anything to complain about,LOL. I don't care though because I'm not changing. Oh, Michelle Obama's a Capricorn, can't you tell,girl??? LMBO.

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  14.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    You know what they say Tam, if you lie long enough you start believing the lies yourself, that is what is going on here. And you are right,one of his dumb friends probably agreed with him once (probably when both of them were high)and he decides to write some bogus blogs to fill his ego. Sounds Narassic to me.

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  15.   Tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    LMAO! I love that movie...and you are so right. But here is my question. Does he think that people won't read the words...just blindly look at his lying responses? I don't get it. He isn't bullshitting anyone...just making an ass of himself? But Like I said, he has the ignorant friends who say, "Dayum man, dats deep" so he thinks he is profound. And....Did he claim to be an executive of some sort? HAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHA *dies*

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  16.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    Tam that's how Queens is. A BIG TALKER. My book will be out this summer about black women (wonder how many years he has been saying this), I'm just trying to help black woman is another line he uses,sellout black woman is another. He's just mad at me because I called him out for being a bull-shitter. Have you ever seen the Movie Mel Brooks History of the World Part I. In it, Mel Brooks's character is trying to get unemployment and the lady ask him what does he do and he says he is a phisopher and she says to him, Oh a Bull-shitter, that' pretty much sums up Queenie.

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  17.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    Queens you think by calling me a slut some how that makes you a big man? Really? The few people who might have actually had a little respect for you probably think nothing of you now. You having to result to name-calling in order to make a point, shows really your lack of intelligence not mine. I could lower myself to your level but why should I? Why give you what you want and that's some adolescent cat fight with a man who doesn't know me at all and whom I have zero respect for. This street philosophy that you are spewing, is the rantings of a low life who doesn't have a clue about women because if you did, you wouldn't spend so much time here talking shit because you'd be getting laid or dating. And if you were in Alabama, you'd be doing exactly what you are doing now;nothing. You just keep talking, your lack of intelligence is amusing at best and I'm going to do you and the rest of the board a favor and just ignore you. With no one to talk to, you'll have nothing or no one to talk about.

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  18.   Tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    LMAO He is slow! LMAO Too stupid to know that he has no valid points. ROLFMBAO!!! *dies*

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  19.   Member says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    Sal stop it. You want the girl or something? Do you pee sitting down? It is never personal between me and a dude. She said she with two men. It doesn't matter if she is sleeping with them. She goes on about how she is a "Christian" and manipulating two white men. Again. do these two men know about each other? As for the other comments, ( brushing them off my shoulders) . You made it a point to say you had several black women. You indirectly made reference to your conquests to me. You even went onto to say you live IN the black community. Was that suppose to impress me? What are you the "toughest Don Dadda" in your neighborhood???????????????LOL You are sucka for real. You believe anything that is said to you. I am starting to think black women leave you for being "soft". I don't even believe you are a womanizer. You sound "soft" man. Other women ain't even defending "Bama" (Looking around). I am going to the YMCA to lift weights. You are making excuses on why she a "slut". I ain't call no other black women on here a slut. I called Tatt a "loose booty". Loose booty different than a slut. Slut is when you just use men "and try" to make it seem like " you are a good woman". Than, got the nerve to go to church and sing on the choir! You can "pull the wool" over a white boy's face. You don't fool me slut. "Latino Mail" you are defending a slut and you claim to live in the black community. (Laughing) Tam I am not even going to respond to you. I don't lie about anything. I already made my response about this on my blog. You have a nice day.

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  20.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    Usual pathetic Queen Cunt. So having dated more than one Black woman means I just was sleeping around. Of course that would come from an immature cunt as yourself. See, each of my relationships has been exclusive. We experienced life together, we lived together, etc. Had nothing to do with sleeping around or bragging about conquests. But only an immature cunt like you would interpret it that way. So Bama is exploring her possibilities with more than one person. Good for her. She hasn't said she is in an exzclusive or committed relationship, or that she is having sex with both of them. No, that is immature cunt again reading wild sexuality into other people because he can't get it. Tam called it right. You only deal with lies. Try again. Cunt.

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  21.   Tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    Mr Laurelton Queens, no one has mentioned sex. You are a dolt. EVERYONE can see you and people with a low IQ like you probably gives you kudos for saying something that an imbecile would find profound. The End We have to ignore him...he has a lowered level of intelligence!

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  22.   Member says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    By the way I don't hide actually. My twitter is on my blog. I don't duck anybody. You are just mad you exposed yourself. I can't create something you said. I say it in real life too. Makes no difference to me. I have said at college forums and etc. I have said it at all those black forums. What are they going to do to me? These cowardly media outlets don't want the truth. I will say it to your face. What are you going to do? You made this about "me". I am talking about the topic at hand. I am always happy to have people read my blog. At the end of the day, I will comment on this public forum. Now you can go back to your "two men" that you are manipulating. You have no problem disrespecting them. People never like when I deliver that " Blog Street Medicine" back to them. They don't like truth. I never expect a reaction like this. Obviously, it must bother you. How can I respect a woman that "brags" about using men? I wish , I was in Alabama to tell you what I really think about you. Latino Mail throwing desperate punches because he got no answer to my questions. Go back to googling slavery history and being a womanizer. This is the reason my book is coming summer. I am tired of fake people trying to play tough on here. You have a nice day though.

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  23.   Member says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    I am back. Latino "Mail" saying I twisted his words. This is what you said? "I didn’t say I lived next to the Black community. I live IN the Black community. My roommates, my neighbors, my friends here are all Black. My last few girlfriends have been Black. No, unlike you, who talk out your ass, I actually have experience with the Black community." "Usual Stupidity. That is the only part relevant to this discussion. The movie created a character. Not my fault you din’t like her. But there are plenty of women out there like her. It gave a message. I could care a rat’s ass if you liked it. Plenty of other people did." This is your own words. So, you claim to "know" the black community because you slept with "numerous" black women. This is your experience with the black community. I don't need to twist anybody's words. The second paragraph you mentioned there are plenty of black women like the "Halle Berry character". I can't recall seeing a down and out waitress with an obese child and baby father on death row. That is just not "a lot of black women". I will give you a chance to clarify it. I don't want you to feel like I cut your nuts off. Here is Bama's comments after I asked her if she has a "man". Her precious ego said this.. "Actually it’s Books a Million (that’s what we have down here) and it’s not one man, it’s actually two. One is a lawyer from New Orleans the other one is a manager in retail store but thanks for asking." The implication is she "brags" about these two men. She does not say "they know about each other". I assume these "two men" are white. It almost like she gets a "kick out" of manipulating white men. She evens mentioned their occupation like she won a "trophy". Notice that she never says any of these men will "marry" her. Quite symptomatic of some sellout black women. Most are content about just getting dated with white men opposed to "marriage". Latino "Mail" can pull up all the posts I have said. That just shows what exactly? I like black women. I only deal with lies now. That is what Tam said. People can go research and look at what was said. They can formulate their own opinions. Man, I just finished "If Tomorrow comes for sellout black women" The Karyn Story continues. I am not playing games with the "slut bucket" and "Latino womanizer Mail". http://mrlaureltonqueens.blogspot.com/2010/03/off-new-album-if-tomorrow-comes-for.html Good day

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  24.   Tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    @Bamababe2k9 When he called you a slut I could ignore the stupidity ANYMORE!!! TOO MUCH!!

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  25.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    I don't think he realizes at times how crazy he sounds. Anybody who can read and comphend understood where I was coming from. Obviously, he can't or couldn't. I find it comical that he actually thinks he knows what he is talking about. He is a wannabe. A wannabe writer, wannabe philosopher, wannabe dr. of some sort when the truth is a coward and a bullshitter. That's what people like him do. They hide behind their computer screens talking shit because they don't have the guts to do in real life. He'd never do this in the open because he'd never get a date or laid EVER which I wouldn't shock if he isn't getting any now. He takes some kind of weird puff up pride in taking on the women and some of the men on this broad but no one really agrees with him on is on his side. Like I said earlier he won't disrespect anyone else because he is scared to death he'll be banished from this site forever and there is nothing he can do about it. If we all ignored him, what would he do? Probably go back to his little corner an pout all day.

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  26.   Tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    HAHAHAHA Respect for the Black woman? I don't think so. What a joke.

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  27.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    He is a pathetic dude who claims to be crazy about his fake woman but posts in another thread Comment by Mr Laurelton Queens on 19 February 2009: Hey Sher I ain’t pay attention to what you said. But damn girl your attractive! Damn Remind of that girl from the movie “Baby Boy” with Tyrese in it. What is her name?? Damn Like I said it had something to do with race. Stop letting white man taking advantage of you. Ya dig. Take it easy http://mrlaureltonqueens.blogspot.com/

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  28.   Tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    @ SAL Mr Laurelton Queens is making up things to make his points. He has no idea how stupid he sounds. He will not show you where these things were said becuase he only deals with lies.

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  29.   Tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    //I just want to make sure black women make the best choices in life. My blog is teaching tool for them.// Poor misguided man. You think you can make a blog that addresses the choices that ALL Black women must make? Everyone from a crackhead to a CFO? Delusional, to say the least! //I have nothing to be insecure about. // You have plenty to be insecure about. You feel that you need to do something to better the Black Woman. Last I checked she was doing better than the Black man. You want to help the Black woman? Better the Black man so that we don't have to choose between never marrying and marrying outside our race. Married people live longer, are healthy, and happy. Are so such a misogynistic that you think Black women don't deserve that? They should be strong enough to be alone? LIVE LONGER, HEALTHIER, HAPPIER!!! //The only insecure women I see is some of the sellout black women on the board. They have to sleep with several white men because they are afraid to be alone. They try to “sugar coat it” and rationalize what they do. I know the truth.// There you go right there!! More Black men are sleeping with White women than Black women sleeping with White men. Knowing this...a moron can deduct that your need to police the Black woman's vagina is your insecurities. Police the Black man! Look, this sister has found a White man who is better than YOU! Deal with it. Just because you have not had sex with more than one person doesn't mean that others have to be as lonely. And if you have had sex with more than one person, you a hypocrite who deserves no credibility. Why it that Black men, White men, Asian men, EVERYONE shouldn't have to be alone, but Black women are weak if they aren't alone? I want Black women to marry the BEST MAN FOR THE JOB. He may be White. Should she throw away the love of her life because you can't deal with the insecurity that a White man may have been BETTER FOR HER? I have a hard time respectfully disagreeing with a person who's beliefs are 100% wrong. If your beliefs are based on fallacies and delusions...I can't respect that.

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  30.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    Queen Cunt is up to his usual stupidity. “One is sleeping with several men and got the nerve to demand the "men" to go to church.” Please show one shred of evidence where she has stated she is sleeping with various men. “Latino "Mail" brags about how many black women "he use to sleep with".” Please show one shred of evidence where I have bragged of how many women I have slept with. “He is currently not with a black woman now because he thinks they are all "Halle Berry's character" from Monster's Ball.” Please show one shred of evidence that I am not with a Black woman, and show one shred of evidence that I believe all Black women are like the character in Monster’s Ball. Your typical modus operandi is to make claims you can’t substantiate, and that is why you are a joke on this board. All you do is fight straw men because your claims never hold water. You don’t express opinion. You are just a blatant liar who falsifies other people’s words to make ad hominems. That is why you are a typical cunt. You address women disrespectfully here because you know in real life they would have already slapped the shit out of you. You talk shit about other people because you are a pathetic excuse of a man who has issues with women dating outside your group. Which speaks volumes about your relationship, if anything. She obviously isn’t making you happy, because you are still complaining about your prior losses in life on the internet. You are still sore about the one that got away and married that Jewish boy.

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  31.   Member says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    Dear Tam I don't know who you are. But if that is how you feel, than that is how you feel. I just want to make sure black women make the best choices in life. My blog is teaching tool for them. I have nothing to be insecure about. My woman is a loving person and sometimes disagrees with me. I don't plan on stopping anytime soon. The only insecure women I see is some of the sellout black women on the board. They have to sleep with several white men because they are afraid to be alone. They try to "sugar coat it" and rationalize what they do. I know the truth. Everybody hates the "bad guy". If you get past all the theatrics by "people" here. Show me where I am wrong of some things. Thank you for your comment. We can respectfully disagree on things.

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  32.   tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    Mr Laurelton Queens, You have some major insecurity issues. You can't date sevral women because you have to get what you can. You will claim to not be insecure, but it is obvious to everyone. I feel for you.

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  33.   Member says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    I got time to kill. My client cancelled on me today at the school. I will respond to Latino "Mail" and Bama. I don't even know why I respond to you both. One is sleeping with several men and got the nerve to demand the "men" to go to church. Latino "Mail" brags about how many black women "he use to sleep with". He is currently not with a black woman now because he thinks they are all "Halle Berry's character" from Monster's Ball. I don't really talk about my personal life. I assure you I got nothing to prove at 31 years-old. See, I don't need to date several people because I am insecure like "what's her face". My blog explains everything about me. The book is still coming summer on Amazon. Somebody asked me what is wrong with dating. Dating is all fine and good. But when you start being a hypocrite that is where you crossed the line. You won't date an atheist and agnostic "person". But you have sex out of wedlock and etc. You are not setting the example but want people " to respect" what you say. You got people reading off scripture to you and "Latino Mailing" you information about how many black women he slept with. The poor girl Bama is so delusional she actually thinks that I should be banned for "stating an opinion". Sorry, another young black woman tried that. She had the suite number and all the information. I assume they ignored her due to her occasional "mental illness". Listen, I like Bama. I will repeat it again. I don't bite my tongue for nobody. She is a big ass Queen Latifah type that needs a dominant man in her life. My woman is a Queen Latifah type. She is the type of black woman that likes to bark at you. I had my share of southern black women. Not all of them are like that. Some are very sweet but they fly off the handle concerning "church". I plan to address these type of black women in my next blog album. There are different types of black women you have to understand. Some black women you need to be "hands on" with. They just seem to only understand that. Not to be confused with domestic violence or abuse. But you just have to establish your presence. If you notice the behavior of Bama. She is quick to call any authority when she feels intimidated. It is form of control she is use to getting away with. I plan to go deeper in how to handle these "crisis" situations with black women. In real life, she will call the police on you, if you was in a relationship with her. Just over an argument I can see her doing that. She got police on speed dial. I plan to go deeper into it on my next blog. Off my new blog album " IF TOMORROW COMES FOR SELLOUT BLACK WOMEN". http://mrlaureltonqueens.blogspot.com/2010/02/money-power-and-respect-david-w-johnson.html

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  34.   tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    @Queen, So women have sex with every man they got out with? So you are the only one in the world who isn't getting any, huh?

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  35.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    @bigeyes31 well thank you chicka! I need to sign into my account more. LOL I just start typing and never give it a second thought.

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  36.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    @Sal I'm not worried about this dude. He can think what he wants about me or anyone else. The bottom line is like I said before he is a angry, jealous hearted man. He can't help himself, eventually his anger will get the the best of him and he'll say something else stupid or degatory and he'll be gone. So, we just wait... But thanks for defending my honor. How cool are you dude? :)

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  37.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    HI Bama! I see your pic now,lol. Good to put a face with the name,yea!clap clap,lol.

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  38.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    black or white Congratulations. I would talk to him about it because HE might have been duped. The salses person could have lied to him to get a sale. If he apologizes and takes it back and gets another, it was not his fault. If he acts nonchalantly about it and doesn't try to correct it or makes some weak excuse, then you have your answer. Peace

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  39.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    @Queenie See you just proved my point that you are ALL talk. If you think I'm playing then be man enough to call my bluff but you won't because you know you went too far and your words are out there now for everyone to see. I bet money right now you won't open your mouth again to say one nasty word to another person on here because you don't have the BALLS to do it. You don't want to lose the little audience you do have for your rants and raves but like I said I'm glad you called me out because now one little slip up on your part, and it's bye,bye,bye. I'm sure the site techs are watching as you speak and you'll probably be getting a note from them asking you to tone it down or you no longer will be on the site.

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  40.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    There is nothing wrong with dating around. Do you go calling all your boys sluts because they take out girls on dates? She never mentioned having sex on her dates. That seems to be projectionism on your part. So either you were a ho, or just never went on dates.

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  41.   Member says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    (Shaking my head) Sal this is not a laughing matter. I ain't judging her. I am saying she just said " She is with different men". This is her own words. Than, she talks about demanding to know upfront if you are an atheist or agnostic. I am demanding to you know are you a slut? I have that right to ask you that. I never said I was the perfect "Christian" but I am not demanding a woman to go to church as the criteria for dating. I get off the path from time to time. But she basically said " Look no church, no sweet apple pie for you from this point on". Why you sleeping around in the first place if you are a "super Christian"??? Oh "Lawdy have mercy". My black wife wouldn't say some shit like that. I would disown her. I would laugh in her face actually. As for the petty threats on calling the "blog police". (Throwing hands up and leaving). Sal go be with Bama. You are laughing because you wouldn't be involved with her. The girl needs her medication. Her country ass. This is the primary reason some southern black women are a headache. They can be stubborn and vindictive. I am heading back to work. I am stressed out and I am not even with the girl!

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  42.   tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    //Go do it. You are the one that said you are sleeping around with different men. Bragging about it on here.// @Mr Laurelton Queens, where does she say she is sleeping around? And if she slept with both of them...How is proof that someone had sex with 2 people make them a slut?

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  43.   tamn8ercl says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    @Bama Why are you talking to this ignorant, lonley, bitter, misogynist fool?!?!?!?! I'm an Atheist and I have to say if you don't want to date and Atheist....FINE!! GREAT!!! GOOD FOR YOU!!! The Queen is an idiot! Just because he is a virgin, he wants everyone to be a virgin just so he can feel better about the fact that he can't score

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  44.   Salsassin says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    @ The Buffoon Laurelton. You try to critisize people on their Christian faith. You forgot one of the most basic Christian tenets: Judge Not Lest Ye Be Judged! and Let He Who is Without Sin Cast the First Stone But of course we know you are a hypocrite already. Feel free to tell us how your Jamaican ass was a saint and arrived a virgin to the altar to marry your virgin Black wife. LMAO!!!

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  45.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    I noticed in this little blog you posted you didn't call me slut again. So go ahead big boy I dare you to call out of my name again. Come on Mr. BIg man, Mr. Bad Ass, say something else so we can wave bye-bye to you once and for all. And you obviously can't read because where did I say I slept with anyone? WHERE? Point it out. And IF I did ever say that, what is it of your business? You that mad that no of the women on here would touch you with a 10-foot pole? Come on big man, say something else degatory see how quickly you'll be pushed off this site.

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  46.   Member says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    Dear Bama Go do it. You are the one that said you are sleeping around with different men. Bragging about it on here. I am trying you right now. (Loosening up my tie). I just go off what you write about. Than, you got the nerve to demand men go to church and you are not even living up to Christian principles! Go report it. What are you going to say? He said " I wasn't a Christian" because he made an accusation that I slept around with men. (Smiling) You are hilarious. I really mean it. You are such a control freak. That you refuse to realize you are a hypocrite. The other black women on here think you are an intense nut case. LOL All I do is point out the truth. Now that is considered "crazy". AW man lol

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  47.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    First of all Queenie let me tell you something, you disrespect me like that again, I will be turning your ass into the site and all your bullshit talk, will no longer be allowed on here YOU GOT THAT. I don't know who you THINK you are dealing with, but this Alabama girl doesn't play. Now, I've tried to be polite to your crazy behind and tried to listen to your nutty views but in away, I'm glad you called me and Sal names so the people on here who think you were half-way decent can see what kind of fool you really are. Like I said, Disrespect me or any other person on here and you'll be off the site quicker then you can say Jamacian Chicken. Try me.

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  48.   Member says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    Bama You have a dilemma being a slut with different men. (Mocking you) You can't be with an atheist or agnostic person but you can sleep around with different men. How "Christian" of you. This is the type of crap that makes black women continually fail. It seems like you are a damn hypocrite. You are a slut bucket. I bet you don't even tell these men you are "dating around". So don't come here with that self righteous crap you are trying to impose on men. One thing with me, I don't lie about shit. I tell women the truth. I will tell look " I am dating" people. I ain't trying to get you to go to church. I use go to church but I 'get off the path" from time to time. I will tell you what, go hook up with Latino "Mail" Sal and you both can live happily together. You have a nice day.

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  49.   Bamababe2k9 says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    I can't date anybody who is an atheist or agnostic either. If you aren't at least open to the idea of going to church, then we can't date. I have a dilema like that now with one of the guys I'm interested in. He is a sweet person but he is pulling away from the faith but he wants his daugther to attend church which I found interesting so there is a sliver of hope but his reasoning was religion was forced down his throat as a child. The other guy, very religious and we were talking last night about attending church together and how that is a very personal thing because you are opening up your faith to someone. As we discussed last night, and you probably know this bigeyes, that you say the word Jesus to some men, and they run scared. But my thing is even though some experts say you aren't suppose to do this, I need to know where a person stands on religion in case he and I get serious.

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  50.   Member says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 10

    question .I am a black woman who meet a white guy he wants to married me brought a ring said it was white gold and diamond but i found out it was sliver and not diamond I haven't told him anything yet I don't know how to tell him I must say one thing he really do take care of me i need help on how to handle this matter please thank you .

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