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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   packer083 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 08

    hey dyme angel26 i am a white guy im i just turned 18 i dont know if im to youinbg or something i know this has nothing to do with this topic but i am looking for a good black women. brandon

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  2.   packer083 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 08

    hey dyme angel26 i am a white guy im i just turned 18 i dont know if im to youinbg or something i know this has nothing to do with this topic but i am looking for a good black women.

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  3.   Dymeangel26 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 08

    ANY WHITE MEN LOOKING FOR A GOOD BLACK WOMAN

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  4.   Dymeangel26 says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 08

    I ALWAYZ HAD DAted white men and sum of the brothers can't stand it THEY Just look @ me like i'm krazzy or sumthing But no matter what I'M going too do me

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  5.   Member says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 08

    I am a black 28 y/o and married to white man 34. He had to stand up to his mother and brother who were against the interracial relationships. They had chose to not be apart of his life anymore due to the marriage. We are currently in therapy to make our relationship strong enough to stand the test of time. He loves black woman for their traditional up bringing, morals, values, athletic bodies, assertiveness, strength and good freaky sex. We have cute daughter 10 ½ months. I love my husband. We have so much fun and he never has an attitude and shares so much with me. He meets my emotional needs.

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  6.   Member says:
    Posted: 20 Apr 08

    Hello, everyone!

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  7.   packer083 says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 08

    i believe that white men and black women should be allowed to do whatever we wnat this is america i love my county im a white man i love black women and have dated both white and black women but i just am more attaracted to balck women and im 18 sso hey that is just one person opinon everyone can have their own saying on this topic. brandon

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  8.   jenny says:
    Posted: 18 Apr 08

    How/where can I meet a white man? I would love to date/marry one. I don't like black men at all.

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  9.   yardysmile says:
    Posted: 17 Apr 08

    I think that, colour shouldnt matter once you find someone who makes you happy and respects you too the fullest then go for it. I prefer a white man because they make me feel more respected and love and in addition they are more romantic and sensitive towards thire womans feelings so. i prefer having a white guy but if i find me a man of my race who brings the right flavour then hell yeh i am going to be iwth him.

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  10.   CaribPrinces says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 08

    Hi BUBLEE!! BRAVO!!! There is a French proverb that says "Les gouts et les couleurs, ca ne se discute pas." "One doesn't discuss taste nor color...it is an individual thing..." Therefore, I agree with you that it is a matter of preference and if someone challenges my personal preferences then they are challenging the very notion of diversity. PEACE & LOVE, CaribPrinces

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  11.   CaribPrinces says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 08

    Hi STASCA! It seems like you have been in some international relationships! Good for you. I feel it does broaden our horizons and can make us learn more. You are right...there should be no constant need to define the laws of attraction. I guess it's just mankind's way of trying to explain everything and why it happens and why there may be challenges. I believe you have a fresh perspective and you should just keep going with the flow just as you are and you will be very successful! Love and peace, CaribPrinces (Germany)

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  12.   CaribPrinces says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 08

    Hi again NINJAGIRL! In my earlier message I meant to say that I fell in love with a 24 year old when I was 30!!Not 40!! By the way I "wasted" 7 YEARS with this young guy and now I am really pressed biologically for time if I want to have a child. REMEMBER women have a TIME LIMIT on baby making EVEN WITH MODERN TECHNOLOGY ASSISTANCE... so please make the right desision on a man and also how many years you are willing to invest. Men think logically and calculating so why shouldn't we women....Don't think with your EMOTIONS only. You are 31 so still ok....but think carefully about what you want and how to achieve it with the least investment and the most reward...RISK TAKING can be tricky (whether it's moving to another country, changing a career, choosing a partner, or making a financial investment) and that is what you are considering so think clearly and don't let your emotions rule you like most of US WOMEN. CaribPrinces

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  13.   ninjagirl says:
    Posted: 12 Apr 08

    I am a divorced, 31 year old black woman who has been dating a white man for two months. He is the first white man I have ever dated. The problem is that he is only 24. We talk all of the time and see each other least once a week because we live an hour 1/2 apart. I've been a very happy woman lately. However, I decided to look up some websites in regards to interracial dating and came across this one. I was hoping to get some direction as to how to "BE" in this relationship. I know that it will get more serious in the next few weeks or months if I let it, so I have to be sure of any and all actions that I take at this time so that there is no hurt or regrets consume us both. This may not make alot of sense, but all comments are welcome.

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  14.   saleemah01 says:
    Posted: 11 Apr 08

    I have to be honest and say this (seriously) dating outside of my race thing is still new for me. Although I have dated outside my race in the past, it's always been with caution. I was always concerned their intentions were purely based on novelty; I have a hard enough time discerning black men's sincerity when dating. However, my travels have taught me to be more open minded and embrace the idea. You can't put attraction or love for that matter, in a box.

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  15.   STASCA says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 08

    I loved white men from the minute I got out my mother's womb .I particularly love russian italian german swedish and irsh ..My first love was german and my current husbandis russian .Iwill never be able to sexplain in words "why ." Do I need to ?If there is absolutely nothing wrong with meor him,then there is nothingto explain.It's not like I have amissing armorhe hasa missing leg .What is hte sonstant need to give anexplanation about the common and understood laws of attraction .

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  16.   BubLee says:
    Posted: 09 Apr 08

    "Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?" Posted by James To be honest...NO. (or visa versa) I hate these types of questions, there loaded. They tend to cause more dissension than unity. Because no matter how someone replies someone out there is gonna have a problem with someones outlook or worse their delivery. Also...please explain to me how any 'one' person can appoint themselves a speaker for an entire race? or sex? At the end of the day attraction is a personal individual thing. And like it or not attraction at first is physical, noone sees someone at the end of the bar and goes... Damn! isnt that a nice personality. each and every person has their own idea what makes someone attractive. Who cares why someone else likes what they like, I mean isnt that ultimately questioning diversity itself? Heres a thought though for all of us to consider. If we as individuals, no matter what race we come from, have to ask someone else why their attracted to us. Arn't we in extension, really asking for some kind confirmation of exceptance of our own belief of how we view ourselves? I know what I love and I am not going to justify my reasons to someone who wants to find some sort of hidden agenda, as regards to my preferences. Nor do I need approval from the masses to continue loving what I love. Live and let live and celebrate diversity.

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  17.   métisse says:
    Posted: 08 Apr 08

    Give me a Chinese; give me a German; give me a Namibian; give me a Sri Lankan; give me a Quechua; give me a Tongan; give me a Yemenite… I don’t care where he comes from, just give me a man. Thank God for all the beautiful colors he created. So much to learn! So much to love and appreciate! Life is beautiful!!

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  18.   métisse says:
    Posted: 08 Apr 08

    Give me a Chinese; give me a German; give me a Namibian; give me a Sri Lankan; give me a Quechua; give me a Tongan; give me a Yemenite... I don't care where he comes from, just give me a man. Thank God for all the beautiful colors he created. So much to learn! So much to love and appreciate! Life is beautiful!!

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  19.   KEISHA says:
    Posted: 02 Apr 08

    WELL JUST BY READING THIS I'VE LEARNED ALOT... AND I'M TWENTY TWO YEARS OLD AND A WHITE MALEE WANTS TO TAKE ME ON A DATE AND AT FIRST I WAS WOUNDERING WHY? AND HE IS A POLICE OFFICER 2 YEARS OLDER THAN MYSELF...

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  20.   Revolver says:
    Posted: 31 Mar 08

    http://youtube.com/watch?v=1S8SyCwg5_E Here's a great video about interracial dating.

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  21.   Paja says:
    Posted: 28 Mar 08

    I enjoyed reading all the comments.

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  22.   Zeekster says:
    Posted: 25 Mar 08

    I think the main reason why alot of white guys like black women so much today is when you grow up where there is a small population of blacks, and you rarely see black people growing up, you tend to think of a black woman as exotic, sort of like a novelty item. The same reason alot of white kids try to act like the typical black kid, with the hip hop clothing and the lingo and all. Just like alot of things in life, the more rare something is the more it is desired. Besides all that, me personally I think black women overall are just sexier than white women. Black women seem to move a certain way, can dance alot better, have nicer bodies, facial features. Just something about the noses and the lucious lips. Yes, I am one of those kids who grew up in a predominantly white are, northern Vermont, and I fell in love with black women at an early age. And I have a black girlfriend, and I am in love with her and want to spend the rest of my life with her...ok, i'm done...have a nice day everybody!!!

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  23.   geneandthem says:
    Posted: 24 Mar 08

    Well thank you to all! But I'm really not trying to be funny or anything! Some of this crap just kills me! Cant really understand it? I try to be open about it I just see holes in it! I mean I do not think I am perfect no where near! But I know I do not second guess my dating preference! Nor do I question it! And I know why I love black woman! And I am sure that men like me love them for the same reasons I do! And not because "MY WHITE WOMAN ARE CHASING BLACK MEN" and not because of a SEX that I CAN OR CANT PROVIDED!!! That is some of the most Ridicules stuff I have heard in my life! I mean really am I crazy??? Or was that just Re-tarted??? Is it me? Please someone break me down? Help me to understand? If I am in the wrong I do not mind being schooled to a new view? And I can most defiantly swallow my pride when I am wrong! Is this the MATRIX? And all this time it has been me in the dark? This is a conspiracy against me and me only? And I am just now finding out about all of this? """white men can never measure up to what black women are used to,but their wealth can compensate for their lack of attractiveness or bedroom performance"""" hahahahah DAMMMM ever time I read that I feel like I am in the Twilight Zone? WHEEEEEEEEWWW! And is it me or was that like the longest run-on sentence you have ever seen in your life? I mean I know that my grammar is not that good! But hey I manage! That whole first post of his never had a period right??? Ashley,

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  24.   ChocolateGenius says:
    Posted: 19 Mar 08

    Ditto that- Colett!

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  25.   colett says:
    Posted: 17 Mar 08

    Geneandthem I kid you not, I nearly pee’d my pants reading your post. You’re f-ing hilarious. I’m definitely a fan of the way you express yourself. On another note, I guess should comment on the subject of this post. I don’t know why some white men prefer black women nor I do myself the disservice of placing too much importance on this question. I have dated men of different races and cultures, but I would be hypocritical to say that I don’t have a preference, we all do. I think what’s important is not settling and not excluding something that feels right because it doesn’t necessarily look right as per society or your surroundings. When thinking of someone I would like to share my time and possibly my life with, there are so many other determining factors that come to mind, such as education, values, goals, interest, etc,so why focus on race?

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  26.   ChocolateGenius says:
    Posted: 16 Mar 08

    geneandthem(Ashley)- I love your posts! (I might have to come visit Texas lol) I do believe however, that sometimes it is better to ignore ignorant posters rather than to entertain them. I think many people have made valid points on this blog and it is quite interesting to see the varied comments. I do not have a long dating history, as I am only 20 going on 21, but I do find myself gravitating toward WM for various reasons. And now that I think about it, why do people need "reasons" to date someone outside of their cultural bachground [in the U.S.]? I know the answer, but it is still a shame, seeing as it's 2008.

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  27.   Flirty1 says:
    Posted: 16 Mar 08

    Yeah, Grotty... I gotta agree with Ashley. You sounded depressed when you wrote that. Hopefully this isn't how you feel all the time. People run away from guys that seem depressed. Take a deep breath and open the windows. Get some fresh air and let the sunshine in. The world isn't such a bad place. Fake it till you make it. Look and feel your best. And don't let a few idiot women beat you down. They're not every woman. There's someone(s) for everyone. Good luck out there, man.

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  28.   geneandthem says:
    Posted: 16 Mar 08

    Grotty, Read what you said in your first post and tell me that wasn't Racist! You are saying A WHITE MAN cant provide a certain type of sex?? ANd a black man can? That's segregation! And that is Racism at its best! Were not talking about segregating smart people and dumb! That would have nothing to do with race! Your saying that Only black men are confident and far better looking than white men! That is Racist! Because that is Bu@$ S#$t! White women are lustful animals?? That is not a opinion! your stating it as a fact! None of what you said would be racist if you said some men, or some woman, now you see that is not segregating a race! Your also saying that Black woman are only out for money? Why not some woman, White and Black are out for only money! Now you talk s**t about americans? Look how that makes you look to all these other people? I'm small minded but you the one with the CLOSED minded post! WOW!! And you need to obey and follow your own "SAYING"!! "put your brain into gear before you open your mouth" and think about what you write before you post it! Well sorry I don't have anything bad to say about Britain's, or any other other international cultures! ! But I do have a problem with Idiots! And you just happen to be one! Can I be like you and say all Britain's are idiots? No I cant because I will not make a entire culture suffer for your Dumb A$$ remarks! You cant even see yourself can you? You see now your reading what I say and realizing how stupid you are! You are not even worth breaking down! Think about what you say before you say it, it might help you from getting schooled all the time which I'm sure you do! Stay up man! Hope you get all that Crap cleared out of your head! Ashley,

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  29.   Grotty says:
    Posted: 16 Mar 08

    Ashley, I can only guess you're a typical American twit who's very small minded and doesn't know what is racist and what isn't,but as this an American site I knew my comment would attract an idiot like you,You know about me so can't comment what I do or how I live my life,we have a saying in Britain put your brain into gear before you open your mouth,and clearly you don't do that,but I suspect you were drawing on your own life experiences and were infact talking about yourself.I don't know what you're talking about,but I think you have issues that need looking into,I was only saying why I think people of different colours and cultures are mixing,all you had to do was comment on what I wrote and not leave your small minded and hateful response.Get a life you sado.

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  30.   alpha96 says:
    Posted: 14 Mar 08

    I' in the unenviable posiion of simply loving women, every one of'em on his blessed planet period. Size, shape, color have skip to do with anything - I love feminine shape, smell, mannerisms, strengths,weakenesses. Uh-huh. Man-whore. LOL. Not really, but there are days I wish I wuz :) Wish the world was ruled by women so we could put a halt to all this fighting, which is effectively bunch a little boyz waving their d**s at each other and saying mines bigger'n yours, andhere's mytanks & bonmbs to prove it. Goofy. Chix rule - ANY color. Um...except chartreuse. No woman should be a sickly shade of green, Jack :)

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  31.   packer083 says:
    Posted: 12 Mar 08

    yes i agree i have had many white girlfriend but also amny more black girlfriend my current girl is balck adn have not had a wiht girl in 5 years. I dont really make a lot of money i dont know if it is cause i am good looking as some would say but i believe that you are who you are people have told me i am good in bed but i dont think that it should matter.also i am only 18 and i have found that black women are just more beautyful and great.

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  32.   trailrider5 says:
    Posted: 12 Mar 08

    LOL! @geneandthem, but you are right on so many levels. Your confidence will take you a long ways. And to Grotty, you should think more of yourself and not put yourself down so much. That will come across to anyone that you encounter and are interested in. Stop beating yourself up so much.

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  33.   geneandthem says:
    Posted: 12 Mar 08

    Grotty!!!!!! Your a Idiot!! That is just plain out BS!! Where do you live Man? Talk about the Sticks? Maybe in a 1 mile radius around you and several other 1 mile radius around the world! Come on!!!! You don't even believe what you just said do you? You were probably laughing when you wrote that crap! I could care less what my "WHITE WOMAN" Are doing! Not even interested! And if you were really interested in black woman first off you would never come here with that crazy Racist Comment! And yes it was and not only racist it was absolutely Ridiculous! Get off your PC, Get up from in front of the TV!! Shave your face up! Fix your hair! And get out in the streets! That's just some couch potato Game right there! Just because you cant talk to woman and you are shy or what ever is wrong with you! Don't play this stupid comment like it is the way it is! I only date black woman I would never say some crap like " I like black girls but my bedroom skills suck, and I don't have anything to offer them" WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT I WANT A BLACK WOMAN SO I GO AND GET ONE PERIOD!!!!! You act like there is a different Criteria for getting a black woman over a white woman! Just like Currency it all spends the same way!!! Its not like you can use your money at Taco bell but not at KFC! Catching a woman's eye is the same way! If the woman likes you and feels you then its on and if she does not Its not on! I mean this is not rocket science! You need some pills and some self confidence I am surprised you can get any woman at all with that BS pity! White, Black , Purple or green! And if your Bunk in the Bedroom! Work on it! if you suck physically with a white woman then you will suck with a black woman the same just as any other woman regardless of any color! DUDE you got problems!!!! I would never say anything like this in a blog and I am not Cocky!! Im White, and I have Major Skills in the Bedroom!!! And I know this!! And not becasue I am white or non black! Just because I strive to please my partner! ANd there are many other WHite men just the same! Some men suck in bed just like some woman do! Some woman are Great in bed just like some men are! It has nothing to do with COLOR!!! WOW!! Your a pop tart! Ashley,

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  34.   Grotty says:
    Posted: 11 Mar 08

    White men are dating black women because their own women are chasing black men,white women don't need their men anymore as they earn their own money,they want sex and the type that white men can't provide,let's face it,black men are more confident and far better looking than white men, and not to mention the obvious and white women are lustful animals and know black men can give them what they want,so white men have to go elsewhere,Because white men usually earn more than black men they can attract the attention of black women,it's not for their looks,because white men can never measure up to what black women are used to,but their wealth can compensate for their lack of attractiveness or bedroom performance,but a white man who doesn't have much money or prospects doesn't stand a chance and usually remain single for life,I am attracted to black women,but have little to offer them,if only I was black,then I'd be spoilt for choice.

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  35.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 11 Mar 08

    That being said (by Leo/Anonymous).... I am sure for every man (of any race) that would NOT date a Beyonce or Trina-type (speaking solely on the physical level) there are about 5 to 10 others standing right behind waiting to take his place ....AND as for turnkey.....I know nothing about you but I actually tend to agree that too much focus is placed on the racial misdeeds of white people. One of my sayings has always been "Get your own house in order". Within the so-called black race there is so much in-fighting over idiotic things like hair type and skin color that it's hard to know who is really in your corner. How can anyone dwell on what a white person might have done decades/centuries ago when someone "of your own kind" would do you in quicker than you can blink an eye?? All of the back-biting needs to stop. And I think any mother, regardless of race, telling their child to only date a certain race is only handicap that child for life.....period

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  36.   Leo says:
    Posted: 10 Mar 08

    Anonymous said... I am a African-American woman, with creole heritage, of 28. I find the above topic very interesting. I myself, am milk chocolate complexion. I am tall, almost 5"10 & slim figured.I modeled for a few years,( Privilege Model & Talent Agency on Sunset Blvd.) When growing up, I would have plenty of black men tell me, I was beautiful... but too thin. I was open to date all races when I was younger. In the majority of black communities, if a black woman wasn't built like Beyonce or Trina ,she was rejected. I had boyfriends tell me, I didn't have enough butt or hips. Well, for the majority of high school years I attended schools with different races. And guess what? I attracted, Persians,Asians,Germans,Italians, French, Dutch,Indians, plenty of Jewish men.. the list goes on and on. I would go out to a club & every guy that approached me was never Black. Also, I noticed I also attracted White women. They would approach me and say, " Your gorgeous, do you model", etc. I found myself having a lot more different raced girl friendships. I have meet other Black women, who are gorgeous, but since they fit the more Naomi Campbell bill... they attract white or other raced men. I am now married to a German Physician. My BF, is a tall beautiful Black woman, is married to a very successful Jewish man. My husband has dated other races before me. However, his preference is Black women. But, he's not attracted to the Beyonce or Trina's type.. because in his opinion... they look chunky or fat. He informed me most successful, corporate White men who date Black woman.. want a Black woman who is beautiful , but has a UNIVERSAL beauty like Naomi Campbell. Because, she is not a BLACK model... She is a gorgeous SUPERMODEL that men of ALL races given the chance would date. That is the type of beauty all women strive to have. Inside & out. With all that said, All our friends are in relationships or married to different races. I could care less if All the Black men in America date White women. Hey! More power to them. That just leaves, more successful, caring & responsible white or other race men out there for Black women :-) Bottom Line, Remember, who cares about color!! The person you choose should emotionally & physically stimulate YOU. Screw everyone else! I'm pregnant now.. and I can't wait to raise my bi-racial child into a responsible adult. I'm sure Dr. Martin Luther King would be proud. Black & White people hand in hand :-)

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  37.   turnkey says:
    Posted: 10 Mar 08

    funny enough I really like the personality of most black girls I've met but I don't find black skin aesthetically pleasing. i've made friends with them then felt bad when they wanted to go further because they just didn't turn me on. black girls seem so feminine and comfortable. they make good companions. maybe i can get over my disability. here's a way you can help me. i'm sick of hearing about the slavery shit. i've studied my family tree nobody in my family had slaves, they were soldiers for generations. i don't want to hear that the black slavery built my country so i owe you something either, black people are now in the same country. truth be told blacks took white slaves too, but whites were more advanced so more successful at doing so. you should stop acting like white people owe you something just because of the colour of our skin. my family never owned slaves and your attitudes offend me as they can only be described as... racist. i hear these stories about how black mothers tell their black daughters not to date white men and i have to laugh at how... racist it is. i'm sure nobody will agree with me, it would require too much individual thought. there's always hope.

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  38.   Lauren says:
    Posted: 01 Mar 08

    Good to hear that packer083...good to hear it.

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  39.   packer083 says:
    Posted: 29 Feb 08

    i love the black women i just love the darker women white women sre to needy for me and i just love the beauty of a blakc women my women is that but it is also cause she loves me for me not cause of money or anything like thaat i love that in a women so i would advice more white men to date balck women they are great and i love it. Brandon

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  40.   geneandthem says:
    Posted: 25 Feb 08

    WOW,,,, Serfie great post!!!!!! Ash,

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  41.   Serfie says:
    Posted: 24 Feb 08

    I never had a Black girlfriend, but I have always had a deep love and respect for Black Women in America. They are enchanting and regal. They come from the stock of the mothers of our civilization. They literally built America with their blood, sweat and tears. I acknowledge and appreciate them for sustaining humanity and American civilization. They are a spiritual and cultural anchor for all American people. I love Black Women. They move me; they touch me; they inspire me to be a better man and a better American.

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  42.   Serfie says:
    Posted: 24 Feb 08

    I never had a Black girlfriend, but I have always had a deep love and respect for Black women in America. They are enchanting and regal. They come from the stock of the mothers of our civilization. They literally built America with their blood, sweat and tears. I acknowledge and appreciate them for sustaining humanity and American civilization. They are a spiritual anchor for all American people. I love Black Women. They move me; they touch me; they inspire me to be a better man and a better American.

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  43.   Jenny says:
    Posted: 20 Feb 08

    I would like to take the time to thank ***blackcentury.com*** for the wonderful service they have provided. I met my husband through the site 1 year ago, we were two people of different cultures and countries. Yet, because of this great website we were brought together after finding love. Maybe you will love it.

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  44.   geneandthem says:
    Posted: 19 Feb 08

    foxfuzzy its all good! I didn't feel left out at all! I have had some Great V-days so they have more then made up for it! Besides its nice to have a break from time to time! deepblue that would be great but, I need to find a date first!! lol Ashley,

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  45.   ambrozia says:
    Posted: 19 Feb 08

    Thanks for the warm welcome virgo66. It is much appreciated.

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  46.   deepblue says:
    Posted: 18 Feb 08

    Hey Ashley, if you are from Texas (Dallas), maybe we can double date. You should get some chicks in here;p. I'm in Dallas and married 11 years to my white hubby and loving it everyday!!! We got kiddos so when we can we party like rock stars downtown or Addison. BTW...everyone love the positive comments and just keep them going!!! Have a great day!

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  47.   foxfuzzy says:
    Posted: 18 Feb 08

    I agree with the general opinion. Virgo66, that was an excellent post! It puts everything that was said on this topic into perspective. We needed that... Geneandthem, sorry your Valentine's day was bad. Its a day for lovers and if you don't have one at the moment, you do feel kinda left out. LoTSoFaMaZiNG-NeSS, congratulations! You sound very happy and I wish you and your new wife the very best in the future!

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  48.   Sunshine says:
    Posted: 18 Feb 08

    Thanks packero83 & geneandthem. I appreciate the comments. geneandthem, I'm sorry your Valentine's day sucked. There are enough females on this blog that are feelin you! That should make up for the sucky day! LoTSoFaMaZiNG-NeSS, how sweet are you! I am so glad you found the love of your life. You sound like you adore her. Remember, God prepared you for her as well. Put him first, and your marriage will be blessed! Sunshine

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  49.   LoTSoFaMaZiNG-NeSS says:
    Posted: 18 Feb 08

    I have been married to a darker-skinned African American female for 9 months now. But what made me fall in love w/ her wasn't curves, tall height, or anything else that was sexual. It was her drop-dead amazing smile adventurous, kind-hearted, & energetic persona, along w/ her smarts & unique wierd style. She was PERFECT for me. God TRUELY prepared her for me. All of the African American men REALLY screwed up when they passed her by, but I am glad they did. :) Thank God. :)

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  50.   virgo66 says:
    Posted: 18 Feb 08

    Thank you geneandthem. I just believe there's already too much bs in the world. You love who you love & you have chemistry with who you have chemistry & that's no ones damn business but you, that person & God! PERIOD! END OF STORY! Now...everyone to a neutral corner & come out lovin'!! :D

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