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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 09

    world citizen, From the bottom of my heart I want to thank you for your words of encouragement, thank you. I know that I've told you before but I want to tell you again, I love you and I adore you and you are an AWESOSME WOMAN and I'm so blessed to have you in my life. Your spirit and kindness is much needed and appreciated in this world.. Thanks for being my friend and my SISTER!! To all my sisters, tatted, beautybeyondwords, bellaone, Natalie aka bigeyes31(smile) swtlgurl(i hope I didn't mispell to badly) Sarah (still waiting to hear the story). I love you all, thanks for inspiring me to be a better woman!!! love godiva

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  2.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 09

    otherbrother, Sorry for the interruption... I only want to add about the comment's that are posted here, the one's that seem to stir up the unecessary, BS, is usually because some people LACK of reading comphrehension skills.. By no means am I trying to belittle a person who may not comprehend a comment as well as another person, but unfortunately it happens and it doesn't help that some people are determined to hear ONLY what they want to hear... I have seen people make the most innocent of comment's, and someone will come along, intentionally or not, add some sarcasm, a touch of mean and a whole lot of name calling, and before you know it, the comments echo like a episode of a Jerry Springer show or a sqaubble at the elementary school.. Yet we want other's to take us seriously.. Why? I think Ich, like myself and many other's, have had more than there share of the black on black bashing from BOTH sides of the camp!!!! There is not JUST cause, or reason, and dare I say it "excuse", for this type of VERBAL GENOCIDE!!!! This type of mentality is IGNORANT, EMBARRASSING, AND IT MAKES BLACK PEOPLE LOOK AND SOUND STUPID!!! If the media was somehow on this site here secretly, monitoring, and taping these type of comment's, then CNN, FOX NEWS, RUSH LIMBAUGH, and other's would be either on the floor from laughing so hard or taking there racist agenda a notch up so they could show the world even more nonsense... I'm all for finding love, finding a healthy relationship with whoever, that's not the issue. When you are a good person, a loving person, and most of all, a GENUINE person, love will find you eventually!!! God didn't use one color to paint the world, there are many colors in the rainbow, so true love can come from within any color. However, I am curious as to why some people can be open and seeking love from one color ONLY, but in the same breath, you speak of malice and hatred of another group, and to make it worse, it's your own family... I personally think these type of people aren't capable, reliable, honest, and definitley not loyal enough to be in ANY relationship. The key word is RELATIONSHIP, which is work, love of oneself, and the ability not to be SELFISH, which seems to be the factor in these past, failed relationships, because most of what you hear is what HE didn't do and what SHE didn't do, rarely if ever do you hear, WE failed at this or that and the color of their mate or mates didn't have a damn thing to do with it so it was not a Brother issue nor was it a Sister issue, it was a YOU were jacked up from day one issue and that's what you brought to the table(relationship).. I hope that I have shed another light on this issue and know that my intentions here with you as well as everyone else is sincere and of no malice. Just as you do not want to be misjudged, labeled unfairly because you are my white brother, we want the same.. love godiva

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  3.   Austrian says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 09

    Dearest godiva61, thank you for the TRULY CONSTRUCTIVE comment. Hope you feel fine and have a calm weekend ahead of you. Tatted2death, your comments are also GREAT, every time! Very INTELLIGENT. It is obvious that you have A LIFE - have a fun weekend! Ichibod, also I have known you to be KIND and OPENMINDED in these blogs. I know what it's like when someone misinterprets - or tries to read between the lines. I can picture you in a warm, fulfilling relationship. Take care!

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  4.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 09

    otherbrother, Please allow me to intervene for a moment.. I'm not expecting a response, so please do not feel as though you are obligated to respond, however, if you do decide to respond, I will respect that decision as well.. It is in my opinion that referring to Ichibod as a racist and another bitter black man, is inappropiate and most of all, UNTRUE!!. I have found him to be one of the few men that is here, consistently, that is, who is open minded, fair and the least bitter. Have I seen him go off, so to speak on certain people? Yes I have, but so have I.. I have never known him to deliberately bash black women on this site. He has embraced men and women of different cultures, different mindsets and he has certainly given people the benefit of the doubt, in spite of the sometimes, immature and crazy rhetoric that takes place here.. These are not your typical characteristics of a man who is bitter or racist.... I think part of the problem may be that soemtimes we ALL can, and have, the tendency to miss a point or two that the other person was trying to convey. Maybe the cause could be in the way that we write, or not write. It could be our own perception's that leads us to believe that a person is being malicious or mean spirited, when they are not. Since we really don't know each other on a very intimate basis, we don't really know which subject(s) might be more sensitive than other's. There are many explaination's for why this happens, but I feel strongly that if WE ALL would stop assuming what a person is trying to say, and just ask when in doubt, this would help a great deal... I think the best alternative would be to ask yourself once in a while "could I have worded it differently before and after"?. Then there are times, when no matter what we say, someone will, without fail, will not "get it"!!! Sometimes we don't connect to all people. I don't understand how WE(society) have a tendency to expect "perfection" from "imperfection"!!!!!!! None of us are perfect and we all fall short from time to time, including how we speak, write, and how we listen and especially in how we react to other's.. Just because a conversation has taken a slight tun for the worse, that doesn't mean that we do not have the capablities or the means to turn it around, so that the conversation is now productive and respectful... Gotta run for a few minutes.. will return shortly godiva

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  5.   Member says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 09

    Otherbrother What's up homey. I got another job today. Now I got three jobs. Anyway, no recession for this black man. Tatt I got the guest room available at my house in PA. Otherbrother your facts are correct. Black men always get a bad "rep". The problem is the media only focuses on the criminal elements in the community. Why don't they do a story on me. I work with trouble negro children in the evening. I work for a cable company in the morning. I am going to work graveyard shift for another computer company. I still manage to drive my fiancee nuts too. I am not proud of that but my personality is unbearable at times. Currently she is seeing a shrink. A nappy headed black girl asked me "would you rather be broke and a nice guy or the other way around"? I said I rather have money and be an asshole! Tatt send me those pictures you sent the white boy of your booty. Renee stop referring to yourself as a food group. "Mocha chocolate" What is wrong with these black women? Man look for my new post on my blog. http://www.mrlaureltonqueens.blogspot.com/ Million Dollar Sellout Baby Part 3 The Trilogy

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  6.   otherbrother says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 09

    tatted are you fighting again, LOL how are you? hope all is well with you and your family. I am waiting word on a possible new job, might have to move from VA to ILL it is a shame in 2009 I have to worry about where I move, being in a interracial marriage we often catch flack from both sides.

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  7.   otherbrother says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 09

    Ichibod I do not care that you are offended, you sound like another bitter black man, and you are defenitly racist. See you stated that your have a problem with White Men, from your post you seem to support Black woman who chose to date interracially, however are offended when they say they started to date White men because of problems they are expierencing with black men and they lay it out in black and white. That is their expierence and if they started dating outside their race because of bad expierences with black men and they want to state what those expierences are so be it. The facts are staggering Blacks and Whites together keep racism going. Ask either race are there more black men in prison or college and both will say in Prison, in fact there are more black men enrolled in college than in prison, ask both races what percentage of black fathers are either behind on or do not pay child support most will say 50% or more, in fact the amount a black fathers who pay child support on time and current is at the national average around 80 Percent. you should be offended when some one says I would assume a black woman with 5 kids is welfare and a white woman with five kids is married. in fact he numbers show just the opposite a higher percentage of whites are on welfare. Oh yeah no I am not insecure about my marriage, I just find it necesarry to stop the lies that alot of people put out their about the WM/BF relationship and their mindsets.

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  8.   otherbrother says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 09

    Arazyel, What is the matter, can't hang with the big boys, you want to make accusations and then one is thrown your way and you want to cry, your pathetic. Grow up, if you can not handle the heat do not play with the fire. See it was you who first stated about not trusting anyone on here without a photo, they could be twelve I just responded back.

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  9.   John911 says:
    Posted: 27 Aug 09

    Hello to all you all, I'm John. I am a 40something white male in love with a 40somethinng black female. She's a wonderful gal and she is very bubbly and happy she is kind and considerate to everyone regardless of race, religion. She has endured much adversity in her life but only learns from her past and moves on in a positive direction with a positive outlook. She is the first black woman I have dated and when I look at her I don't see the color of her skin, I see an amazing woman who I am very much in love with who is full of life and love. Renee, Thank You for being YOU!!!Love ya Babe!!!

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  10.   Renee says:
    Posted: 26 Aug 09

    I joined another blog and we talk about, "CONFLICT." It's about empowering,unity,change, building connection, peace education, and resolution. Doesn't matter if we may have different opinions on life. Conflict is not my way of life, but it is a fact of life. Don't let anger stand in the way of your dreams and know that "you" are someone special. Now I'm going to move on to more motivating subjects. Good luck to you all. (:

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  11.   Renee says:
    Posted: 26 Aug 09

    I enjoy reading all the comments posted on this board and I sit back and smile. There are two types of personalities and that is A/B. A= worry and stress about everything. B= stress free and enjoys life, with no care about what people think of her. I am B and words don't offend me, nor does weak human beings. Really I enjoy the criticism and I don't want anyone to be me, just be you. I'm a cool person who enjoys my life and my daughter. For those who bash me... I'm not hating you... just enjoying the fact that your thinking about me. I tend to have this affect on people, thank you again for your comments. My skin is still mocha and my boyfriend is still white. Goodnight...(:

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  12.   Don says:
    Posted: 26 Aug 09

    i'm not sure if it will let me post but i'm going to try. last time i tried it kept saying my message had to be checked or something like that.

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  13.   scoff says:
    Posted: 25 Aug 09

    Sarah okay before I get into all this I feel like I need to set the background on why my mother and grandmother had this issue about being in the sun. My Grandmother came from a cajun line, her complexion was a light copper in color, my mother was slightly a shade darker, my father was obiviously of some sort of mixed hertage. During family discussion we hardly ever talked about our real background, never really got past our maternal grandparents. To let you know my mothers feelings about the importance of skin color,once when my sister stated that she thought this particular young man was good looking, my mother made the statement oh my goodness, I just think he is too dark, all of the babies will be too dark. My sister and I talked about this later, as we were confused from what she had to said. So one evening as we finished clealing up the kitchen, I asked my mother what she ment by that statement; Now thats when I got a lecture about how skin color,could make the difference in your life. During this whole time my Grandmother sat at the table adding that she was proud she spoke french, and my God she knew wasn't gong to marry no dark colored man. Sorry I have to go if I get a chance I'll try and finish this. Again thanks for your time Sarah Please if I'm boring you let me know as I will get off here, I really do thank you folks for listening to me this is the first time I've been able to truly express myself about what Scoff and have endured through the years, We both wish you our blessings Scoff/Sarah

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  14.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 25 Aug 09

    Oh wow, L. Queens!!!!....are you seriously trying to speak on how much time I spend online?????...the irony......lol. The fact is I am late commenting on some of what goes on here latelybecause I DO have a life offline...Don't worry so much about me "ending up" like anyone; I have my goals firmly in place...Thanks for the concern if it is sincere (doubtful) And what's up with the 20 questions game.....I only asked about the lawyer because you were quite "vocal" about her a while back yet seem to think I am an "expert" on failed relationships. Personally I really do not care if you answer the (somewhat rhetorical) question. I have tried "dialogue" with you in the past, L. Queens and somehow it just reverts to you trying to put labels on me.....so I gave up on that. I've said it a hundred times before and I will say it again. I RECOGNIZE YOUR ROLE HERE.....you amuse and shock and that is all (but you do it well...lol) and I have learned how to "handle" you so it's no big deal anymore. I continue to wish you all the..... Peace and Blessings (that you can handle....lol) tatted2death

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  15.   Member says:
    Posted: 25 Aug 09

    Tatt you need to listen to Sarah. Dialogue is the key to conflict resolution. LOL Tatt I rarely comment on my personal life. Oh boy the Lawyer girl lol. Tatt do you know how to cook? Oh yea, are you going to bear more children? These are very important questions. I don't want you to end up like Renee. Spending more time online than with her lily white boyfriend. Good day to everyone.

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  16.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    BTW, L. Queens (I see you still can't resist using my name on your posts when I have said NOTHING negative to you....not surprising).....the only thing I could off her in this instance is advice on "handling" you. YOU could tell her just as much if not more than I could about failed relationships I believe. (Didn't you have to deal with one since you started posting here???You know...the lawyer???). Come on.....I am waiting for it...."Loose Lips".....lol. Peace and Blessings tatted2death

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  17.   scoff says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    From Sarah Good morning everyone, I came by Scoff's this morning,during our morning coffee; the blog came up and he told me what he had last posted. I also asked him if there was anything interesting being posted, his only comment was you read them. From the comments being posted I have the feeling that there is some bitterness being expressed. Having worked in the Human Resource Field for the last 25 years, Dialogue is the key to conflict RESOLUTION, when the dialogue STOPS no problems are solved. For you that must know I have a Masters in Physiology, I only add that as to some people it has some signifcance, I still say common sense is the best tool that is available. There are alot of Physio Babble terms I could use so listen to the other person and communicate, yes and at times you will hear something you you would rather not hear, that's the learning part of the equation. I will aplogize for the condensing tone of this post, so please remember all humans adopt a defensive posture when we get out of our comfort zone. Again I apologize, just adding my 2 cents. I did promise Scoff that I would come by this evening and with his help post the episode concerning my Mother and Grand Mother, (getting too much sun, turning me too dark). I think you will enjoy this one, also I asked Scoff why all you white boys want to get a dark suntan. Funny dialogue between a dumb redneck and innocent colored girl (around 1963). Let me add that I'm a widow also as I lost my husband about 5 years ago. See you this evening, I want to talk to Scoff and have another cup of coffee. Again thanks for your time Love all of you Sarah

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  18.   Donavon says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    hello again everyone. i hope all of you are doing well tonight.

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  19.   azrazyel says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    Take care!!

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  20.   Renee says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    Hey Azrazyel my sons half brother plays football for Norte Dame. On my pictures on my myspace he is on there. Go football. I know I sound like a made up story, but it true. As of now I'm going to be leaving this site and it was nice meeting all of you. Sarah-your going to be fine. Good luck everybody.

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  21.   Renee says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    I'm a black woman and love my mocha skin color. Some people may say I'm simple, but I'm just who I am and people love my personality. Just because you get older doesn't mean life stops ticking. I just love life and nothing is going to change that.I love the word-SIMPLE.

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  22.   azrazyel says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    Yeah, I will check that out sometime. Good for your kids. Great to see!!! I like the east coast except for winter. This past year was pretty brutal, and the shitty summer (weather wise) didn't help to compliment it afterwards. I'm just glad my beloved Buckeyes are starting soon (college football in case you didn't know...lol.) Can't wait for it to start because all of my teams suck and I'm patiently awaiting the arrival of the college football season. Take care

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  23.   howcome says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    I wonder how every other black woman has found her white man and I keep getting stuck with either the ones with bad intentions or the bm posing as wm in spite. I dont get it .

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  24.   Renee says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    If you turn M&M's upside down you get W's. (:

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  25.   Member says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    Dear Renee I read your response. You lost your husband to a larger black woman. Jesus, white women losing their black husband to obese black women. What in the hell is going on in America? This confirms you really "gave up" on yourself. What did you in this damn marriage for him to say fuck it " I will date this big black girl with the jiggle belly"? I take back my comment of calling you slut but you still are "simple". Have a nice night.

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  26.   Renee says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    Damn Azrazyel your good... I sent this link to my friend Tracy so she could get a big laugh. How do you like the East Coast? You know my daughter's dance group won the semi finalist for America's Next Best Dance Crew. Did you watch the video's? If you go on Utube and look up Undeclared dance, Emanon, and Nonstop you will see that not only my daughter danced, but my son did too. Damn I have some talented kids. My middle baby did her time in Iraq for a year.

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  27.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    Renee: What do you mean by us? What was she laughing at? W's? M&M pack? lol....sorry for the questions. I just quickly glanced through your page. I didn't really look that much into it, just enough to compliment it.

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  28.   Renee says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    My husband left me for a larger black woman, and he called me fat at 139 pounds. She 250 pounds... weight is all good as long as you love one another. Oh... I forgot those are my kids that you see on myspace. The fuckin dorks...the two oldest ones anyway. I say Yager...

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  29.   Renee says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    That picture on myspace is me and my best friend who she does date black men. Right now we are talking on the phone and she was laughing when I told her I put the picture of us up on myspace. Yes Azrazyel I enjoy hearing some good jokes. Did you put W's in my M&M pack?

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  30.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    One more stupid sense of humor here: As olderbrother would say: 'Is that really you Renee or are you really a white woman giving a link to a black woman's website?' Or: 'That's not you, that's your older sisters profile.' ROTF...... Again just being silly, don't take it serious. Later

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  31.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 24 Aug 09

    Renee said: "yes my husband did leave me for a bigger woman." Was she white? LOL I'm being sarcastic. Nothing wrong with a little stupid sense of humor here and there.

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  32.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    I didn't actually join it. I just looked at it. Hope things are going well with you.

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  33.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Hey Azrazyel how are things holding up. Guess what I'm still being picked on, but it doesn't bother me. Thanks for joining my myspace- your awesome dude.

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  34.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Hey Scoff good work on all that you have said. Okay... I'm being knocked down by haters on this site but, you and Azrazyel are good people with good motives and I like that. Please don't comment on my writing, because I hate writing. I notice on these blogs, who is really just looking for a fight. I called my boyfriend and told him that the site is really worth it. We are who we are and no one should try and change that. Thanks again to all of you who make a good example. Also smile...

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  35.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    That comment was nice. Thank you... Yes I'm beautiful and yes my husband did leave me for a bigger woman. I just came in from a 3 mile walk and exercise is 1st. I have a very busy schedule and I'm not a slut, yes I do love dressing up and I'm not fat. Find someone else to pick on, because your words just make me smile. Mr. Laurelton Queens I'm the woman that sets her goals in life. If you want to pick a fight, then go to someone who will allow you too. Thank you so much for your most wonderful comment and I won't sleep with it, but I'll just enjoy your negative words and laugh. You are so funny... do you have any more jokes? I would love to hear them...

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  36.   Member says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Renee said this "In my 20 years of marriage… my husband always belittled me. His constant yelling for small things just made me become quiet. I have never been the one to argue, but only say positive things. In my relationship now… there is no reason to argue, we just talk a lot and we get along very well. Like tonight we were dancing off a song on the computer and my daughter said,” you guys act like high school kids.” We started laughing and chased her with pillows.Of course it ended up into jumping on the bed pillow fighting. I laughed so hard that I couldn’t breathe and my boyfriend was so red in the face. See our relationship is about today.He is a firefighter and he see’s enough on his job, why fight? People die everyday.Fighting is not healthy in any relationship. I don’t recommend it." Slut your about to be belittled again. Ever heard of being married for better or for worse? I don't think you remember those vows being as old as you are. Now the sun comes out after you leave a black man. I am sure he will find another woman. 20 years of hell married to you , I feel for him. Most women are washed up after 10 years and use the court system to PUNISH YOUR ASS. I hope you left with nothing but I doubt it you simple selfish slut. The real reason your marriage ended is real simple. You went to bed in sweat pants with soup stains on it. You stopped buying sexy lingerie. You stopped getting your hair done. You put on excessive weight. You haven't seen a gym since 1988. Yet, you blame HIM for you being miserable. Nobody made you give up on your appearance. It would be hard for me to believe that you left him. It was the other way around. Shit I got a fiancee and I want to leave the relationship. It crosses my mind every now and then. She is a great woman and all that but my ass feels like "seeing other women". I restrain myself. Plus my fiancee is not "ancient like you". That is relationships, it has it ups and downs. Join World citizen at the nursing home so you can travel together to have sex with strange black men from Texas. Even better get counseling from TATT she knows about failed relationships. Be glad Laurelton Queens even took time out of his day to address the nonsense you display on here. A black man beat you with a pillow and his ass would be on the news. Good day to everyone

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  37.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Scoff: I am interested in having a reasonable conversation. I am here to learn from others and their experiences. You being a white man is great because I need to know what I may face when and if I date a black woman. I just want your perspective about every aspect of what you face each and every day, as well as some things I need to know as well. Renee: I checked out your myspace page. I really enjoyed it and glad to see the positivity you have their with friends and whomever else. I am here to chat if you want. Talk to you all later and take care in the meantime.

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  38.   scoff says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    How is everyone doing today, I know I was going to post another incident, about Sarah's Mother and Grandmother having a fit about her getting too much sun. Sarah doesn't think anyone is really interested in hearing about us, so to convince her to relate some of the issues she had to deal with, please respond and let her know. I think you will find it enjoyable, and give some insight of how and why we all think the way we today. Besides it's got humorous, side to it, as she asked me why all you white boys try to get a tan. So let her know if your intrested

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  39.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    I left my myspace open so you can view who you have been talking tohttp://www.myspace.com/blopper36. Now today we start talking about lovin each other regardless of what color you are

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  40.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Good night till today. Hope to hear from you all. I'll be on after 12pm California time and Ichibod be nice with your words. I'm going to bed

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  41.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Anonymous I don't want you to leave. If you allow other peoples words to get to you, you give them the upper hand. I have weak points, but I don't show them.Why? People will take it and run with it. When I was 16 years old got pregnant and at 18 years old I had two kids.My parents were disappointed at me, but they made me work and go to school. Now that I'm 42 years old I see what I instilled in my kids. My son at 24 years old is one of the top managers for a huge electronics store,my daughter 23 years old has been in the US Army for 4 years. I just became a grandma 4 months ago and again in March 2010. Don't let words get to you, but come back with something positive. Life can be tough, but the answer is in your heart. Listen to heart and it will show you the way. Everything will be fine and I'm proud of you, for just being you.

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  42.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Hey Azrazyel don't stop posting, because I want to hear more from you okay.

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  43.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    http://www.myspace.com/blopper36. I'm a female

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  44.   Donavon says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    I wish my parents were like that. Though i kind of screwed that up. The first time i went to college i was just glad to be away from the house so i ended up letting the rush get to me. I started drinking a lot and relationships i had went bad and my attitude was that it was pretty much one big party. So they think now that i won't be serious about my education. I really wanted to get into game design. Something i've been very passionate about for a long time. I actually wrote a storyline for my first game at about 10 years old but ended up having it stolen from me since i didn't know what a patent was at that age lol. I do plan on going back to college hopefully soon. And it is great that you'd be willing to give everything to see her dreams come true. You live in California? How is it there? I've always wanted to go shopping in Cali or move there one day. Sorry if this post is late by the way lol

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  45.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Yeah, I'm taking your advice Ich. It's 4:30 on the east coast. Time for bed. Take care all.

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  46.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    I'm in California and it is about 1:20 am. This is so amazing to me that we can just talk. My daughter just got back from a big performance in Long Beach and I'm sitting here thinking about how beautiful she is.By the way my young adult does take 1 class and it's an online class. It's only 2 units and she wants to go Harvard. As a single mom... I want the best for her and I'll go broke just to see her dreams come true.

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  47.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    It's late, or early depending on the time zone. Let's just all go to bed.

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  48.   Donavon says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Thank you. I'm sorry. Now i'm the one jumping to conclusions. I just get a little defensive at times. I apologize to everyone once again. And i think i'm going to use my actual name. i don't really like anonymous lol. and Ichibod, please forgive me i didn't mean to accuse you. i agree we should get back to the chat. anyway to also clear things up. i'm 20 i'm from illinois and i'm not really old enough yet to experience the joys of marriage but i hope one day to. i will however still try to help anyone here i can in just talking.

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  49.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Unfortunately for me Ich: I don't proofread my comments before posting. Maybe that's why I get myself into trouble. LOL

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  50.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Dude, it's cool. I don't she's talking to you.

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