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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Anonymous I think your wonderful and you do things right. Don't let other peoples words get you down. Now let's get back to just chatting and we will forget about those other small things okay.Hey Ichibod, I understand where your coming from and I'm not mad at you,but I'm so proud that you spoke the words of peace. We are all here to understand something. That something is US. Give your brother a hug and tell him that you love him... okay

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  2.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Hey man relax. Nobody wants you to leave. You are welcome here and free to express your opinions just like everyone else. Just take a deep breath. lol

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  3.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    I didn't call you a racist. Your comment about her daughter sounded wierd to me, that's all. That otherbrother dude's comment to Azrazyel is what I found offensive if you couldn't tell that by the first line of my double post. I was typing my last comment while you all were typing your comments. I have a habit of proof reading 20-30 times before submitting. Sorry for the interruption.

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  4.   anonymous. says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Now am i getting bashed from this point of view as well? I'm attempting to voice my opinion in a polite way and it seems that everyone wants to continue to bash me for that. Look you know what? it's fine. everyone has their opinions and i can't change them. so if anyone else here has a problem with me please say so and i will leave the blog so it can attempt to go on smoother.

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  5.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    I work hard and it shows... for the ex, he left his daughter and hasn't seen her for over a year. I work my butt off to make sure she is okay. Kids aren't ask to be born, this young adult is my world and to take her mind off of things... I keep her extra busy.As for her dad... where was he for all those many nights she cried herself to sleep. I don't expect you to care about my daughter, she is doing just fine and will be successful one day. She already has made success and her dreams will come true.

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  6.   anonymous. says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Why do i have to say i'm being sarcastic? Your getting too defensive i think. And why does race have to be a factor in this? If any young girl was taking a college course or any young kid for that matter i would be amazed. I just resolved one quarrel, why does another have to start? Again this is why i don't come to chats like this. It seems apparent to me that i do something wrong no matter what i do. If i cared about race then why would i even be in this chat to begin with? My father is a racist and i get on his case everyday for being that way. I don't appreciate anyone being that way. So i really do take it offensive that you think i would be racist. I never said i ignored that her father has/had another side to this. I am saying that he is missing out on his daughter's life right now. Whoever's fault that is isn't the point of the topic i'm simply trying to be an optimist here. Please refrain from calling me a racist from now on i ask you politely since you don't even know me.

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  7.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Nice to meet you Donovan. I'm Michael by the way. It seems you have a positive outlook upon things. That's an excellent quality to have and it's a joy to see. Seems so many today are just bitter. It's good to see and meet people with positive outlooks. Now, if only I can apply that to myself. lol

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  8.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Let me make a few things clear: 1) Sorry for the double post. I'm typing in the dark and I hit TAB instead of CAPS LOCK. 2)Anonymus, please tell me you are being sarcastic by acting amazed that a young black girl is taking a college course. Her dad's fault? There are other sides to this story. 3) This chick is in a relationship bragging about it to single people. No one cares what her daughter is doing and it's obvious what this delutionist's motivations are seeing as though she had to mention that her daughter's father is missing out on some aspect of his ADULT daughter's life. 4)"Of course I married a black man..." Ofcourse she married a black man? "...and he divorced me after 20 years, because I was just always happy." Hold up, let's not confuse happiness with ignorance because ignorance is bliss. I'm sure the courts wouldn't allow that to be put on divorce papers. What's the real story? Some women come off sounding really stupid and a lot of guys are showing just how racists you really are by defending them.

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  9.   anonymous. says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    I live in Illinois. Oh. yes i failed to mention that lol. i'm male. If i would have used my actualy name on here it might have been obvious lol. My name is Donavon. I'm just picky sometimes on where i let that be apparent at.

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  10.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    It is 3:52. Where do you live? Curiosity tells me to ask if you are male or female?

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  11.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Renee: I am sorry to hear about your first marriage. It's saddening that things cannot always work out to perfection. My brother is going through a bitter divorce as of now. Came to be she slept with another guy. All one can do is carry forward and let God take command. I am glad to see the storm you went through now remains calm. Take care and best of luck to you and yours.

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  12.   anonymous. says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    lol i don't really have much to do at this hour. can't sleep so i tend to post pretty quick to things now. it's almost 3 A.M. here. What time is it where your at?

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  13.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Damn, And I thought I was a quick responder. lol

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  14.   anonymous. says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    I give you that took a lot to say and admit to. but i respect that. and i'm sorry for some of the things i said as well. i've just taken a lot of shit so i automatically get defensive a lot. anyway. again i'm sorry. hopefully we can both go back to the blog as it should be.

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  15.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Look: I come here to apologize for any offensive comment I have made. At least I'm not a pussy about it, and I speak my mind, maybe sometimes too much. We all have our freedom of expression. That's why were here. I don't appreciate me being considered somebody else, that I may 'really' be a black man or have my older brothers picture. That's your choice to believe it. I was offended, so I came back with offensive comments. I believe in a reasonable conversation here and there. I see childish acts, and I admit I follow through with it at times. If somebody wants to argue with me, that's not really what I want nor seek. Sometimes I let myself down to that standard. I should know better than that....

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  16.   anonymous. says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    It is true. Everyone should treat each day like its their last. I mean of course it may not be but if you can't take time to enjoy the many things in life that are worth enjoying, then what's the point? And it sounds like you both have a very good relationship. I hope that it stays strong for a very long time and i'm sure it will.

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  17.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    In my 20 years of marriage... my husband always belittled me. His constant yelling for small things just made me become quiet. I have never been the one to argue, but only say positive things. In my relationship now... there is no reason to argue, we just talk a lot and we get along very well. Like tonight we were dancing off a song on the computer and my daughter said," you guys act like high school kids." We started laughing and chased her with pillows.Of course it ended up into jumping on the bed pillow fighting. I laughed so hard that I couldn't breathe and my boyfriend was so red in the face. See our relationship is about today.He is a firefighter and he see's enough on his job, why fight? People die everyday.Fighting is not healthy in any relationship. I don't recommend it.

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  18.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    I'm am really offended by otherbrother's comment: "Are you really black and just posted a white persons photo?" What's that supposed to mean? ***ATTENTION MY BLACK BROTHERS AND SISTERS*** With the exception of Azrazyel, there are white men who are playing into this whole alledged beef between black men and women and are quick to use it against us to keep us at odds by "pick sides" and feeling like their special because they read some comments implicating them being picked first over some other race of men. DON'T LET THIS CONTINUE!

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  19.   anonymous. says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    very nice touch Renee. I don't think he takes time to think before he writes anything. He just cares about himself right now. And wow. Your daughter is taking a college course? that's really amazing. And its her dad's fault really. he's missing out on a lot right now. i might have come into this conversation very late so i do apologize if i seem offensive i'm really not trying to be. i think it's really great.

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  20.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Welfare is for those who might need it. Yes I file taxes and work hard. As far the ex...we had 20 years. My daughter is my pride and joy. Too bad her dad is missing out. Again I'm so proud of who I am and my daughter(12)who is a third time winner in National's 1st place,An honor role student and in the gate program. She also takes one class at the college. Tell me are you like from the ghetto or something? Welfare is all you can come up with? As a single mom...I'm proud and it shows.Matter of fact I thought this dude wasn't going to talk to me anymore???Mr.Azrazyel. Do I intimidate you, because I'm not weakened by your words. You might want to move on. It's okay... you'll be fine.

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  21.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    ***Warning: Some of these words maybe offensive to some viewers, if you take everything too seriously, this may not be suitable for you. Serious minded discretion is advised.*** I think I found my new motto, anyway: Ok moderator, I will try and tone it down next time. And yes Ich, I think she is paranoid. Maybe her doc needs to up her psycho medications.

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  22.   anonymous. says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    and you seem to be the most childish person here. you know i used to be just like that. not give a shit about what anyone said and just throw it back in their faces. if you want to be like that then fine. you can try to be the narcissistic asshole here if thats what you want. but thats really stupid. go ahead and make your pathetic excuse for come backs and try to make people laugh at them but what does it really get you? nothing. and this is one of the reasons i don't post on blogs at all is because there is always some smart ass in them that decides to be a dick. have fun with that.

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  23.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Ok mom.......

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  24.   anonymous. says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    i think this blog is getting a bit out of hand with everyone judging everyone. granted that this is a chance to get out everyone's opinions but its a blog... not a debate. and to debate over who has a better life with whom and who's the better catch for whom. that is not what this is about. to the people that this doesn't concern i'm sorry. to the ones that it does. please be consistent on your posts. no one needs to go against anyone here. this has went from a blog to what seems like something a child would do. i'm only 20 so i can't say that i've had the worst exeperiences out there and i can't say i've had the best experiences out there. but would everyone just attempt to stick with the topic?

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  25.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    One more thing: If this was a white woman I was talking to or any other race, I suppose I wouldn't be black or have my brother's pic, now would I?

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  26.   otherbrother says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Tatted Always good to read your post hope all is well with you and your family. Godiva Was not ignoring your story about your younger brother, I just do not know what to say, I find it absolutley crazy that someone would think just because your a black man you would have a bunch of kids. I was just talking to my 12 year old about sex and protection yesterday, but I also discussed the responsibility a man has in treating a lady right and with respect, he is a little young but I know a couple of my friends 12 and 13 year old boys and girls having sex. Mr Queens hope all is well with you and your family, haven't heard from you, always enjoy a decent debatable discussion, even if we disagree on the facts

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  27.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    olderbrother: I have no need in arguing with you. It does not justify one thing. Choose to believe what you want. I could be black, this could be my older brothers pic. Maybe I could choose to believe you are on welfare, taking money from the hard work I do. Or, a bum with no life and no job who smokes crack from the ghetto. I can have my perceptions also, true or not. My point being, I don't need acceptance from you or anyone else in here. Why would I need acceptance from the black community when I have acceptance elsewhere? Again, point being is people will either accept me or they won't. I will not loose any sleep over it. No need to have a conversation with you. Your comments to me are void and unjustified.

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  28.   otherbrother says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Renee 2nd, the statement of anyone taking a perspective on life weather to serious or not so serious, or having fun or not having fun, I do not believe is a color thing, it is in my opinion an expierence thing, my views on life drastically changed when my late wife died, it had nothing to do with the color of my skin. I am glad you have found hapiness in another relationship, but your reason for why your exhusband left you after 20 years baffles me, from my expierence their are always three sides to the story, Yours, His, and the truth, and the later is normally the real whole version of the story.

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  29.   otherbrother says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Renee, you make a couple of interesting statements the number 1 thing that caught my attention is we never Argue, I find this statement very fascinating, and have only heard it from a few couuples, It amazes me how two people can be in a relationship live together, worktogether, raise kids together and never never argue. It is my premise that if this is in fact the case, that sometime in the future the relationship would be in trouble because someone is just not expressing their true feelings, and the other person will continue to just assume everything is alright when it is not.

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  30.   otherbrother says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    WoW Azrazyel, Again, another disappointing statement, it is you that seems to be a troll, when you seem to not be able to argue facts you run straight to the phony or fake person statement, It is such a disappointment to read such ignorant statements from a white male who claims to be attracted to black woman. Are you really black and just posted a white persons photo? I know, maybe your 15 and posted your older brothers photo. Noone know, anyone of us could be making any of these things up, I believe though, that it is ones's own expierence that they use to weed out what they think are true expiereces or not. In my expierence you sound like a white guy desperatly seeking acceptence from the black community.

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  31.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Azrazyel, Like Bigeyes said before to another blogger, something must be lacking in the relationship that would lead her to a dating website. Either that or it's like I've said before, a person who feels insecure in their interracial relationship, they have to scour the internet for discussions about it. Kind of like a support group. We put our photos up because we are members of the site, not because we just want readers to know who's saying what. This chick is paranoid. It takes more than a photo to locate someone, especially when most of us are not even using our real names and the website forbids us putting personal info in public view. Ofcourse, this phantom boyfriend thinks our comments are funny. Afterall, he's the type who enjoys life and doesn't take it too seriously. lol Either that or he read her comments and realized he's dating, no, screwing an idiot. You shouldn't expect a response from with a foot stuck in their mouth.

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  32.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Okay he is gone. For all you people who put photos up allows people to search you on the internet. I play it safe, because I don't need someone who hates on me to come looking for me. My boyfriend hears the horror stories from his friends, who are cops. Be safe out there and I'm not going know where. Lots of love

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  33.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    I have no reason to think about someone who's boyfriend is made up just as much as their profile pertains to be..... Therefore I question why I respond to someone who is fake. Another useless troll on this website that is useless in every shape and form. I would hope someone with braincells could answer a simple question after spewing forth a false claim of complete and utter garbage. Therefore, I see no need to reply anymore to someone with a low level of importance while trying to escape their own stupidity without acknowledgment of retarded claims of hatred. Just another troll screwing with people here that are real..... Respond all you need because the smartness in me refuses to acknowledge a person on or even below the level of stupidity.

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  34.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    Being positive about who you are, is a wonderful and powerful thing. I don't get angry over life, because life is about enjoying each day. I help feed the homeless twice a month, I take my dog to the hospital to visit with the elderly once a week. Every year I help with toys for tots and in the end I'm not looking for anything other than to see someone smile. Maybe instead of focusing on my personal views, go donate your time for a good cause. This is for those who have made their negative comments about me. Be happy...

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  35.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    My boyfriend and I are sitting thinking how funny this is. For your demanding me to response is a joke. I spend my time laughing and being loved and right now is so funny... hello yesterday is gone... did you go bed angry? I'm not upset with you. I had a wonderful day touring downtown Santa Monica and doing some shopping for myself. Today was so nice. What did you do? Think about me?

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  36.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    "My boyfriend looked at these comments and he says,”why are they hating on you?” Yes I am different, because I’m not jealous like some people. A woman like me… has a wonderful, wonderful man that loves her and she needs nothing more. I will continue to share my very positive thoughts. Questions?" Nope. No questions. Still trying to decipher your blatant comments from before.... “Black men are to serious about life and white men want to enjoy. What would you take?” I suppose you refuse to answer this as I stated above. I just want reasoning as to why you say and think this.... To me, it's more of a sense of pride than anything.

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  37.   Renee says:
    Posted: 23 Aug 09

    My boyfriend looked at these comments and he says,"why are they hating on you?" Yes I am different, because I'm not jealous like some people. A woman like me... has a wonderful, wonderful man that loves her and she needs nothing more. I will continue to share my very positive thoughts. Questions?

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  38.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 22 Aug 09

    I am a black man who seriously enjoys life. What would I take? Not a woman like Renee. "I’m just a lot different from your normal black woman." Now what does that mean? If that isn't a classic example of subconcious self hatred, then it must be just plain ignorance. How you doing, Tats? Good to see you, ma'am!

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  39.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 22 Aug 09

    scoff, thanks for sharing....very interesting story; landslave hit the nail on it being excellent screenplay material...read: LET THE WOMAN WRITE THAT BOOK....lol....you WILL thank her later on!!! godiva, peace to you, sis. Yes summer has been fun but I am glad I live in a place where the seasons actually change now...lol. Azra, I am always lurking here, lol.....just enjoying my little peaceful corner at present. Thanks for inquiring, though....lol Bigeyes, glad to see you post a pic....(finally, lol). Image isn't everything but it is nice to put a face to the sentiments you share here. Take care, sis. AND I really appreciated sugarhill155's post "it annoys me when I read anyone trying to boost their self image by putting down white women with comments about flat this and stringy that. It just comes over as jealous and insecure. All races of women have their own take on beauty." People really need to wake up to this...... Anywho.....keep the good dialogue coming Peace and Blessings tatted2death

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  40.   scoff says:
    Posted: 22 Aug 09

    Listen and Learn(1950's &60's) Hair: Black women have a certain comfort level about their hair. Realize that they are seeking some sort level adpated to their looks from European standards. First time I heard Sarah comment about so & so thinks she special because she has good hair, being a dumb redneck farm boy, I added oh you mean that girl that lives across the field. Then I really put a little gas on the fire, I've seen her she's the colored girl with long reddish hair, she is good looking,that created a whole discussion on hair the dos and don't. I can't remmber the whole discussion. I did learn to listen and learn about black women and their hair. At our age I think we must of been around 17, so our questions were rather candid. My conclusion at the end was Black women are like all woman they just like to look nice, and feel good about their self. So my advice is listen and learn as in any relationship think before you open your mouth lololo Coming up Sarah gets in trouble for being in the sun, Grandma is upset another learning expierence PS remember colored was the correct and preferred referance to black people back then. I hope we are not boring you folks with this

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  41.   Renee says:
    Posted: 22 Aug 09

    I enjoy getting my toe nails painted and nice messages to help me sleep. My boyfriend really pampers me. Love is so good and I'm so happy.

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  42.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 22 Aug 09

    Renee: I truly appreciate your opinions/experiences. I only have one contempt of discrepancy with your previous post: "Black men are to serious about life and white men want to enjoy. What would you take?" Sound pretty stereotypical to me. As if no black man enjoys life? As if all white men do? As if all black men take life too seriously? As if all white men don't? I'm just trying to debunk or refute your claims here. I am kind of disappointed with those statements because I know some black men who DON'T take life to seriously and also ENJOY life. Not trying to argue or stir commotion with you, just painting a bigger picture of what deems reality and what does not. This is not in vain.... Take care

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  43.   Renee says:
    Posted: 22 Aug 09

    I love when a guy says something positive about a woman. Relationships are about communicating with a mutual agreement. My parents never raised their voices, when I was growing up and I'm a black woman. Of course I married a black man and he divorced me after 20 years, because I was just always happy. With my boyfriend of 1 year, whom is white... we never argue. Now we might wine to each other, but laughter and good jokes are much better. We only live once and when we're gone... Black men are to serious about life and white men want to enjoy. What would you take?

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  44.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 22 Aug 09

    Well hello, Sarah! We've heard a lot of great things about you. It's a pleasure to make your aquaintance.

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  45.   scoff says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 09

    Second thoughts, Scoff and I have discussed writing about our relationship, I have already started (at the time he wasn't aware of what I was doing) with a little womanly persuasion he has come around and his helping. I really don't know if anyone would be interested. During the time that we fell in love, we had alot to deal with. Again thanks Sarah/Scoff

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  46.   scoff says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 09

    Hello I'm Sarah, Scoff's friend, as I listen to the dialogue on this blog sometimes I find it amusing; at times maybe a little, should we say politely brutal. Reguardless as long as its honest I can live with it. Being a Black woman, in love with a white man I can tell you this the bottom line it's about the quaility of the man not the color. I know our expierence is strange to alot of you, that I can understand being how times have changed. My advice to Black women is go for quailty not color. This is my first time ever on any blog; now I can see that a blog is an excellent way of getting a broad perspective of views, feeling or opinions. I must say that all have their validity, so keep up the dialogue. Thanks for your time Sarah

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  47.   anonymous. says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 09

    well here goes. and granted most may laugh at me for this post but i really don't mind. i've been in and out of quite a few relationships and none of them have ended right (of course) i'm still looking for someone. but yes about this discussion. i myself am attracted more to black women. i tend to find them more attractive than white women. (not trying to be offensive) but i do agree with a lot of these posts. They do have street smarts and a lot of times i've seen that they can appreciate what a guy is worth more than white women. (although that could just be because of the relationships i've been in). if i were to get someone that really did care for me i would cook for them gladly. i'm still trying to find someone and hopefully i can as well as all of you can (if you haven't found that person already) i'm not sure exactly all of what to say to this. another thing that i've found though is that a lot of guys would be calling women sexy and hot and maybe some do like that but i consider that a little degrading honestly. anytime i have been with a woman i have always said that she is beautiful or gorgeous. again that is also personal preference. anyway now i'm rambling off the subject but again most white guys do prefer black women over white. it's not a bad thing like most of society thinks. i think if two people really love each other than race shouldn't even be an issue.

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  48.   Renee says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 09

    When a man can love you from head to toe, love the color of your breast and caress your feet. I love my man and he loves me, except I'm just a lot different from your normal black woman. He may be white and me black, but when I make love to him...it is so damn good... Also about size that is a lie too.

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  49.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 09

    annoymouslol I have always heard and read about the relaxed race relations in Europe. I'm sure the interactions between caucasian men and black women are much better due to not having such a terrible racial history as the U.S. I'm not saying that I'm not attracted to white men because I am but when you see behaviors supposedly left in the past still being exhibited now, it makes me skittish. I wish I could meet some sexy native European men as I believe that they are less likely to be concerned about my color being a hinderance or obstacle. Peace

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  50.   annoymouslol says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 09

    Us black british women, sure love white men :). No one cares who dates who over here, my last several boyfriends were all white. Its a preference, i find them easy going, non complicated, hard working, strive for success and more family orientated.They make great companionship too, as i want a man who can also be my friend as well as my lover xxx

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