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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 09

    scoff LOL, thanks(huge smile) Peace

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  2.   scoff says:
    Posted: 21 Aug 09

    I really want to thank all the folks that have taken the time to comment, a big thank you to Big eyes, if I was younger Hmmmm just kidding. Just remember love is not a planned event it just happens, God only knows what makes it happen, so bless all of you, Sarah says bless all of you and let your hearts not be troubled. For just general information, she wants to write a book about us,I'm not too keen on this but I feel like it would help some of the younger people deal with or understand how mixed relationships in the south did happen. Again a big thanks to all of you. Weatherman it will work out take care

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  3.   Weatherman says:
    Posted: 20 Aug 09

    Ever since I was a young man, I was attracted to African-American women. To me, and obviously it is my opinion, ladies of color are more personable and more honest than Caucasian ladies. Granted this does not hold true for all blacks and whites, but it is something that I have perceived. Unfortunately, I have been unable to meet ladies of color who are interested in a white man. I live in New England, Rhode Island to be exact and I have the feeling that black ladies here would rather stay with men of their own race. I am a successful man, tall, average build, in my 40s, yet I cannot seem to find a lady who would be my soul mate. I have tried several interracial dating sites, but unfortunately few black ladies from my area are there. But for those of you who read this, I want you to know that black ladies are some of the most wonderful, genuine, caring people in the world. Any caucasian man who has met and is in a successful relationship with a black lady should consider himself one of the lucky ones. He will know unbounded love. I only wish, I were one of those fortunate men.

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  4.   scoff says:
    Posted: 20 Aug 09

    Very often complex times call for simple answers, we did what we thought was best for families. I know you respect this, and there is not way I can explain, or articulate the torment that our emontion endured. at 16 to 18 ( with a full load of hormones running rampant through our youthful bodies) and knowing that we can never really be togeather. I'm sure you have been in love at that age so you can understand. Oh we laugh about it now I just thank God that we have our time togeather now, Sarah use the phase Divene intervention; she has made a believer in this. Your a good person, I admire you for your honesty, keep uo the

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  5.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 20 Aug 09

    Yes, I will admit that I have some prejudice but if people are are honest, everyone does. I am trying to work through it by dating interracially, albeit this is just one way.It's very difficult to be surrounded by prejudice and not be effected in some way.I'm sure you had your reasons.I'm not trying to judge but through life experience, I have learned that for the most part,when people really want something they go after it. I realize that there were more than just yourself to consider in the situation so you did what was best. Peace

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  6.   scoff says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 09

    I understand perfectly what your talking about, and its hard on both parts of the relaionship. Being honest enough to admit yourself as well as other people is the first step in over coming these prejudices. At that time as our reltionship grew my concern was for the woman I loved not myself. Even today it is one our biggest concern, not so much from society as her family. Just remember we both are in our 60's now' so we look at life or our lifes how can we keep things simple, yes we have come to peace with what has happened in the past. We can't change the decisions that we made; nor do we defend them. I know your not reflecting on by character, or Sarah's. One major lesson I have learned through the years is not to judge some one unless you have been in their shoes. Having made that point I do agree with you a 100% it takes two very strong people to make a mixed marriage work. Excellent point Thanks As I pointed out earlier in one of my post Black southern woman are one of our nations greatest treasures. Your the kinda of woman that I would love to take out to dinner and really have a deep conversation with.

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  7.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 09

    Hmmph 1950's and '60's!Rural areas??? I live in the capital CITY of Alabama and not much has changed. Whites probably won't physically harm harm you but they ostracize and treat you badly(you will be treated a LITTLE better than a black person but not quite white) in their circles that you wouldn't be able to take it. And by You I mean a white man. If you weren't STRONG enough then what will make you strong enough now?I believe that's why I have second thoughts about dating caucasian men, seem too concerned about fitting in. The LAST thing I need or want is a weak man. I don't want to always be worried he is going to buckle like particle board. Sorry I mean no offense, but I live here and I know what it's like. Peace

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  8.   scoff says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 09

    Rural Alabama, 1950's 1960's out on the farms and rural areas strange relationship between the whites and blacks. I guess a true love hate type relationship. I do know this; definately wasn't ready for a white boy to be dating a black girl. Both sides would of run us out of town, or done us serious bodly harm. Sarah's Dad told her one time that his cousin married a white boy up in New York, the family told her never to show her face around them again. That was pretty mild compared to what some of the other white and black folks had to say about mixed marriages. Gets to be rather scary when your 16 years old and in love down to your toes with a black girl. I can't count the times Sarah would shed tears about not being able let her family know she was in love with a white boy.

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  9.   85kguy says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 09

    Oh, well, .... 'Bama is 'Bama!

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  10.   scoff says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 09

    Oh I have had a good life, married a wonderful woman (she passed away two years ago) I guess my bitterness is with myself for not being my own person, now for the action part even at my age I still like a little action now then lolol having said that age has a way of making you look at and sometimes back in a different light. The lady I referred to earlier, we have talked about getting togeather no problems on my part,but I know it would cause her alot personal misery from childern and family. I truely still love her and feel like the feeling is mutual, I would not put her through that kind of hell, yes we have our time and we make the most of it alot laughter of course some very intimute contact, we both are old fashion which we laugh about, only one of her daughters is aware of us and is okay with our relationship as she wants her mother to be happy. I could go on and on about this relationship from how it started to where it is now. Most folks whould get some laughs out it some would shed some tears during the sad times. I just want some of the younger ones on here not to make the same mistakes, that we made. Do I regret my life no nor does she, we lived with the times. We have our favorite stories slipping out to meet on horse back at night, now that is desperate, this one gets real funny at the end.

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  11.   85kguy says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 09

    Hey Scoff, Such a thing is part of life. For some guys the grass looks greener on the other side. Black guys like J-Lo (hispanic) in any poll way better than Jessica Simpson. Lots of black guys would pick her over Whitney Houston (lol). A lot of white guys would pick an Tyra Banks over any of the desparate housewives stars. Black ladies: Black men would pick Eva Longorio over any of those white housewives in any poll 2-1. But..... All I see are stories of looking for love and no action stories. Scoff: Go take some action!

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  12.   scoff says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 09

    So often in the past a lot of empahsis is always about the white woman black man relationships, there is another side that is just now coming out. The love between black women and white men, I mean a true love and respect as in any normal relationship. I hear alot about black women to open up their options. Well my friends white men are looking at black woman, for their character and true beauty. I missed ( as is said today my life soul mate) bc I let our familes and society dictate my emontions.

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  13.   landslave says:
    Posted: 19 Aug 09

    scoff: Damn, guy! That's a story for a screenplay. That story could be fleshed out and made into a winner of a movie. Only for Hollywood you have to end up together.

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  14.   scoff says:
    Posted: 14 Aug 09

    This is hard to believe, my first love was a black girl that worked on the farm with me in south Alabama, now remember this is 1966. Did we hide you bet we did, we were in love but not crazy. Our relationship lasted for two years, some of the best times of my life and yes some of the worst times. To this day I occasionally see her for lunch or coffee. We laugh at oursleves now, she says that she still loves me,and thanks God that I got drafted, she calls it divine intervention. Love that woman, smart self assured, I think southern black women are one of America's greatest treasures.

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  15.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 12 Aug 09

    tatted2death, It is good to hear from you!! I missed seeing you! I hope all is well with you and your's, and hoping that you are enjoying these last days of summer... I'm ready for the crisp Autmn air and beautiful color's that Autumn brings.. Love you, Godiva

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  16.   sugarhill155 says:
    Posted: 12 Aug 09

    I'm a WM and generally attracted to black, Asian or Latina women. But it annoys me when I read anyone trying to boost their self image by putting down white women with comments about flat this and stringy that. It just comes over as jealous and insecure. All races of women have their own take on beauty.

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  17.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 12 Aug 09

    Hi tatted: Where you been miss???? Hmmmmm........... You ARE the peacemaker you know? LOL Glad to see you again. Take care

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  18.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 12 Aug 09

    ..and thanks so much to newcomer Phaedrus for speaking his mind on HIS experiences...and for being a little bit "deeper" than your average response here. PEACE

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  19.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 12 Aug 09

    Just wanted to send a quick "How-do" to all the Good People here.....Azra, Ich, L. Queens (luv ya like a step-bro.....keep that room empty for me....LMAO), bigeyes, otherbrother (of course you have NOT offended me, dear man.....lol), godiva, etc...... Glad you are keeping the blog alive and kicking.... Peace and Blessings tatted2death

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  20.   SanAntonioBeauty says:
    Posted: 11 Aug 09

    May I have a little word with some of the men on this blog, not boys but men. Inchibod, it is so nice to read your level head sanguine posts, especially since they are littered with sage advice, moral convictions, and a little humor to spice things up. Phaedrus, I had the same thought as you about seeing black men with white men being encouraging to white men enough to seek out black woman, wondering what is the attraction is all about or even satisfying a long held desire. I unknowing added to the mix when I met my white girlfriends two year old. That little boy developed a crush on me that has lasted to this day. In fact, I a "date" with him when he was seven. He had a strong desire to take me out so he worked in his neighborhood to earn enough money to take me out on a real date. I and his mother thought it was cute at the time, not realizing the implications of this innocent date will have on such of an impressionable child. His father was a little concerned about it(I'm sure he had some idea of the implications), but his mother told me Wayne(her seven year old) talked to his dad about the date. I never knew what his dad's concerns really were, but I can imagine. BTW, Wayne took me out for dinner and a movie, taking charge at every turn. He even called me prior to the date to ask me to drive, as it would be some years before he would be allowed to drive, and even a laying in concerns I may have about the date. I told his mother that if he were my age I would date him.(lol). Needless to say, Wayne has had a life long desire to date black woman. I saw him go from dating very light skin black girls in high school to dating darker black women as a young man. Simple put he imprinted on me, now his desire is set, much to his dad's consternation. Wayne is a strong self assured man, he doesn't seek his dad's approval for anything, only his advice. Imprinting is something you are not aware it is happening, and you are unable to resist it. Transplant, the military can be a great learning experience and a great equalizer if you let it. The common color is never black nor white but the color of your uniform, with the greatest risk being life or death. I saw a great deal of interracial dating in the Army when I was in back in the 1980s. Both BM/WW and WM/BW, with the prevailing group being WM/BW. Yet, even black then black woman were upset seeing black men with white woman. The angst black women felt was not due to interracial dating specifically, but due to the lack of available black men to date. Conversations amongst black women wasn't solely about BM/WW relationships, but also about black men in jail,black men being gay, dating men and women (we didn't call it being on the "down low" back then), black men and drugs (a big issue then and now, only the drug of choice have changed), and the angry black man. In the military we assumed most black men were not on drugs, not gay, straight heterosexual and manly men, most prefer black women and some prefer white women. White men who weren't shy, took intitative to seek out women who they were attracted to, some just happened to be black. In those days, I heard little about preference and more about attraction. Then again, people didn't get into other peoples business as the do today. Back then you would get your ass kicked or told to mind your own business, by men and women in and out of the military.

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  21.   Phaedrus says:
    Posted: 10 Aug 09

    I'm a white guy interested in black women. I have a couple of reasons for my interest that I'm not seeing a lot of people talking about. For one thing, I think you learn to be attracted to the girls you see around you in your younger years. In my Kindergarten there was one black girl. They were all over the place, sitting in desks next to me in junior high and high school. Circumstances have not favored me getting together with one since then though. I've lived in homogenous parts of the country, and then met a woman online. The chat rooms I visited in the mid 90's did not seem to have a lot of black people in them. The internet has changed. For another thing, my experiences talking to and flirting with black women have not always been good, but when they have been good I've found much more frank expressions of interest from black women than anything I would think is realistic to expect out of white women. I'm going to go where I think there is a real desire. As a third thing, I think people are getting very used to seeing the image of a black man with a white woman. And that's so common that it has to make you think about expanding your own options.

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  22.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 09

    Also, Landslave, I thought the "house full of halfbreeds" thing was pretty funny. You're a realist, I'll give you that.

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  23.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 09

    Very sad story, Landslave. Deep down, I believe your mom was just trying to look out for her son and her prospective grandchildren. If only her outlook weren't so pessimistic. I'm glad you shared that story. I like the screenname, by the way.

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  24.   renee24 says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 09

    Landslave, your story is an example of how so many people have let race stand in the way of happiness, I have a lot of respect for those who do not let family/friends or who ever else influence their lives. "mixed breeds" Only animals can be called mixed breeds never a human

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  25.   Eddie says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 09

    Slaveland/Slavechild??? So that's been thirty years ago. Have you been with a Black Woman? Have you married a Black Woman and given her the financial trappings of a White Woman in Georgetown/D.C., Annapolis, MD or Northern Virginia? Have you taken a Black Woman home to meet all you family, friends and co-workers? Have your friends, family and coworkers embraced her and invited the Black Woman to local Bridge Clubs, Rotary Clubs and Exclusive Member of the Country Club? You said, "your mother warned you about the children/mixture." Has you bother become more accepting now? THE USA hasn't changed, it has become more tolerant!! The Blacks who are on the website and other websites like Facebook, Myspace, etc and plaster their pictures on these sites are not aware that potential employers look up your name and face and can discriminate without ever meeting or seeing you when you have provided them all of your vital information such as SSN, etc and give your Facebook and Myspace information. Don't ya'll know that your SSN tells the region you were born in, your race, sex, etc. It's bad enough we inherited last names that were never ours to begin with. Landslave, to thou own self be true!!!

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  26.   landslave says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 09

    There is racism everywhere in America, no doubt about it. We have come a long long way, though, and I celebrate that improvement. What I was writing is that the kids who grew up in that social expirement called Columbia, by and large, escaped it. The proof is the IR romances that flourished. The proof is in our high school yearbooks, where kids of all stripes were caugt in candid photos eating together, playing together, learning together, and I dare say loving together. My mother did me a disservice. Donna was right for me and she blew it. America now is much more like Columbia was 30 years ago. And I'm so glad to see it. I wish my Mom could have seen the vision then. Peace -- Landslave

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  27.   transplant says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 09

    I grew up in Orange County, my area/school were racially mixed, though there were few AAs. I've always been attracted to black women, but it wasn't until I got into the Army that I realized some black women like white guys. Before that I thought if I hit on them they'd laugh at me lol. That was one of the upsides of living in military towns, IR relationships are common and normal, which served to consider all the options. I see it among my own friends, as more white guys realize that some women outside their own race like them, IR dating will increase. Everyone on this site is here because they are looking outside their own group, I don't see why it has to disintegrate into name calling and hate posts. Anyone in an IR relationship is going to catch flak from close minded people. We shouldn't be flaming each other on this site too. My own experience has been that the most disapproval/flak doesn't come from whites. When I was dating another officer who was mulatta, all the bad looks, nasty comments and disrespectful behavior came from black males. It's going to be awhile before IR dating is 100% accepted, but in the meantime, try to support each other people, and leave the hate speech to the ignorant fools outside this group.

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  28.   Eddie says:
    Posted: 09 Aug 09

    Slave Child PLEASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSE; I had a home in D.C. and Baltimore, MD and sold them. That D.C. area is so racist and the Black in that area of Northern Virginia, D.C. and Maryland are passive aggressive. Remember, the nations capitol was originally was in New York (Wall Street the business area was a actual wall that separate the Whites from the Blacks, then Philly then D.C. There are several Blacks from D.C./Waldorf, Maryland by the last name "Proctor" who are descendants from Slave Masters and continue to interbreed in their family. And remember, the founding "Fathers" plantations are in the D.C. area such as Jefferson and Washington. Columbia, MD is racist and it is still the South (Mason/Dixon line). Besides, my attorney's office is by the mall off of Sterret Street in Columbia, MD. Please, I have lived and owned, sold homes all through America; coast to coast and North to South and yes, boy did I experience discrimination before my closings and I saw the redness in their faces when I was handed checks in the amounts of$ 50,000.00 to $200.000.00 after a closing or refinancing. I earned it, nobody gave me nothing and I wasn't military; I got it the hard way by taking shit and being talked to any kind of way in the D.C/Maryland/Northern Virginia area.

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  29.   landslave says:
    Posted: 07 Aug 09

    I'm a white male in my late 40s. My screen name refers to the fact that I'd like to escape to sea and go sailing on my boat. I found this blog today and had to write. My story is a sad one of tragic circumstance from highschool and I missed love opportunity that still haunts me today. My story is from Columbia, Maryland when Carter was president. Columbia I was in 11th grade, checking out the new crop of freshman girls coming to my highschool. Unlkie most of America, children of Columbia didn't notice race. We were raised in a municipal culture that truly transcended race. It was a purposefully integrated city which was way ahead of its time. My attraction to the newly arriving, developing freshman girls stemmed from the most base of instincts in me. But after watching busload on busload of new students arrive, one stood out. DONNA!! DONNA was GORGEOUS. She was my height, had short hair, a glow of vitality about her, and her eyes sparkled with imagination and animation. Her teeth flashed white. She filled out her preppy school clothes just right. I was seriously taken. She happened to be African American, but I honestly didn't even notice that. Donna and I had some classes together. Mostly that was because she was WAY SMART and needed advanced classes to keep her engaged in school. I got to konw her. We exchanged notes in class. We laughed and spied on other students in school. Neither one of us was much into sports but we both loved watching rugby (?!) even though there was no Internet or satellite TV to watch it on then. We attended some of the same parties. Even though we didn't share too many friends, we each joined the same foreign language club. We ate lunch together about 3 days a week. By the time school ended, we were good friends. I liked her a lot. Small wonder why. Her dad was an actuary for the Army. My dad was a mathematician for the government. Her mother was a research librarian for the government. My mom was a media specialist for the school system. We were the same religion, but went to different churches. We were both interested in biology and health sciences. She inherited her Dad's math brain, and I did not. The the school year ended. I was a senior. But something was missing in my summer. Without really thinking what I was doing I drove to her house and knocked on her door. She answered and her bright eyes were startled in wonder over what I would be doing at her door. I didn't know what to say, except that I missed her and that summer was too long and boring without her to talk to. We were inseperable for the rest of the summer. And into the next school year. Kids would accuse us of being a couple and we would just laugh. I could tell her anything and she could tell me. Then one day she wanted to tell me about a guy she had met and I couldn't stand to listen. I was flooded with emotions. I finally told her that if she got a boyfriend it would ruin "us." She looked me in the eyes with those shining eyes of hers and asked, "Are you my boyfriend?" I scoffed at the idea and said, "NO!" She just smiled and we both laughed. That night I called her very late and her Dad answered. He was pissed because I woke him up. I asked for her, and for some reason he woke her to talk to me. I told her, "I want to change my mind." She said, "OK, I'll let you." That was October and it lasted until Christmas before my parents found out that we were not just friends. Sometime in the depths of winter, on a bleak day, my mother told me, "if you keep dating her, you'll fall in love with her, and then you'll want to marry her, and you'll have babies together and you know what? Those mixed race babies will only be able to live in Columbia Maryalnd. They won't be accepted anywhere else" (this was 1980). I was basically a good kid. I listened to my mom. We dated the rest of the school year, but I held back emotionally. When I graduated and she had two years left in school, I went my way and she was left behind. Now, 30 year on, I still can't get her off my mind. So sad that I met my soul mate at such a tender age. So sad that a silly thing like melanin in skin kept us from being married today. I know from the apex of my heart that she and I would be married right now with a house full of halfbreeds if it wasn't for the admonishment of my Mom. How sad the whole ordeal was for Donna and me. I hope she made a good life and found a good man to marry. I'm sad it wasn't me. I'd sure like to have had her on my sailboat to discover the world with. --landslave

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  30.   wukinpanub1 says:
    Posted: 07 Aug 09

    I sat here and read a bunch of the comments on here, and I honestly have to say I'm not surprised at how ignorant people can be. I'm white, and I've always been attractd to black women, maybe it's because I came up in mostly black schools and neighborhoods, or maybe its just part of who I am. I've never been ashamed of the women I've dated. Matter of fact, my ex-wife's family was more affluent than mine and they had more of an issue with me than anybody in my family did with her. Sadly, it's become more and more difficult to date because of the stipulations society has placed on us. There's a double standard out there folks and we need to cut it out. I'm not gonna stop being attracted to black women because a portion of the population has a racist attitude about who should date who and buys into stupid myths about the 'pink meat'. There are white people out here who are just as genuine about being with a black person, as two black folks or vice versa. Until we stop worrying about offending someone who doesn't matter, we will never be happy. Bottom line, date who you want and if you don't like the fact that a sista is with a gray boy, then look inside yourself, cuz thats where the problem lies.

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  31.   wanaBme says:
    Posted: 06 Aug 09

    Wow does anyone else see anywhere that I said I hate him? I do not hate you Mr. Eddie. I have no reason whatsoever to hate you. I pity you and others like you. Sad, angry, hateful, people. Because that is what you are to me a person. Your not a black person your just a sad, angry, hateful person period. Like I said before I hope your life reflects what you give both good and bad. Wanabme ((((Hugs Mr. Eddie))) and whispers in his ear let it go man. Give up all that hate and she turns and walks away. I hope you find your way to the light of love but I am done with you and your insanity. Go ahead you can make your next hateful comment as you pointed out I am big enough to let you have the last word (ha ha ha =0)~

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  32.   Eddie says:
    Posted: 06 Aug 09

    WannBme; Retire like Doris Day. If the hate is there it's due to your forefathers, Blonde. So you hate me, then, as you state; you hate Black People. In memory of Emmitt Till. How to lose weight? Stay away from food and push away from the table. The tide is high and keep holding on, I don't wont you to be my number one, number one, number oneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!! Thank ya, Master Wife!! Has your husband been sneaking in the Wood shed, again????

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  33.   wanaBme says:
    Posted: 05 Aug 09

    Hmmm you see my black roots? Do you also see and hear other things that are not there? Might be time for you to see a psychiatrist. I feel sorry for you Mr. Eddie your so full of hate and anger that you can't possibly be happy. I would like to ask you when you accuse me of being a racist do you mean a racist like you or is there different classifications of racism that I am not aware of? If you weren't so pitiful I think I would be laughing a lot more than I am right now.

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  34.   Eddie says:
    Posted: 05 Aug 09

    DEAR BLACK SISTER AND BROTHERS; SEE IF YOU TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT THEM HOW THEY ACT TOWARDS US (WE BLACKS). Speaking of welfare, you and this country owe every BLACK AMERICAN because we built and continue to build this country on FREE SLAVE LABOR for you to reap the benefits. See How they are, ya'll. Also, trying to make us feel bad about our earned benefits when everyone else comes to this country, including them and receive OUR FOREFATHERS current and past, entitlement. The only thing you have paid for is that Miss Clariol Hair Color and buy yourself some more "EXTENDS." Tell your brother Emmenim I said, "hello." Oh, I forgot it was Black artist who discovered him and he turned his back on them, too. See after they have us sexually or whatever in the USA we are still nothing to them. And just because White people have our children or have sex with us, doesn't mean they are not racist. Go get some Sunburn. I don't have to sunburn and wrinkle. Remember all the aging products on T.V., you don't see BLACK PEOPLE. WannaB, I see your Black Roots in your head, girl. Who you try' in to fool, Child?

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  35.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 05 Aug 09

    Eddie: "I have an idea, the local trailer park." ---------------------------------------------------- So I'm trailer park trash, heh? How's about: "Me having to continually work my fucking ass off to support your bitch-ass on Welfare!!!" If you don't know me personally, don't make asinine and retarded comments. "And to tell the truth, Every Black Person DO NOT WANT BLACK PEOPLE TO LAY WITH." My ending remark was meant to say: "Every Black Person doesn’t want to sleep with ya’ll White folks." ---------------------------------------------------- Me personally, I wouldn't want to sleep with every black 'folk' either. By the way, if you can't spit out what your trying to say the first time, there's really no point in a degrading argument with you, you are making me feel worthless. haha

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  36.   wanaBme says:
    Posted: 05 Aug 09

    Dear Mr Laurelton Queens ROFL thanks

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  37.   Member says:
    Posted: 05 Aug 09

    Dear wanaBme You look nice. You remind me of my favorite character on the show the Golden Girls. I think her name was "Blanche". At least you don't eat jello and use a bed pan like World citizen. Have a nice day.

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  38.   wanaBme says:
    Posted: 05 Aug 09

    To Eddie, I have no idea what prompted you to attack me. You know nothing about me and my post has nothing to do with pictures or sleeping with black men. It was a general post asking why just anyone can post comments on a members only website. I didn't sign up to get all this garbage in my e-mail but I get it all the same so when I see something I feel needs to be responded to I, like you, have the right to respond. I TRY to do it with respect and consideration for everyone that will read it. Obviously you either didn't read what I said, or you just didn't get it. Since I have to conclude it is one of the two I can only assume your asinine remark is based only on the fact that I am white. Your an idiot if you think just because I am white I am trash but you are once again just one more glowing example of the hateful people black, white, and brown on this site. Oh and for your information My hair is NATURAL but then you also wouldn't know anything about that would you because from this teensy weensy little get to know you that you have shared, with not just the two of us but everyone on this site, I get it you are about nothing but the hate. Hate on fool and may your life reflect exactly what you give to everyone around you good and bad.

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  39.   Eddie says:
    Posted: 05 Aug 09

    My ending remark was meant to say: Every Black Person doesn't want to sleep with ya'll White folks.

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  40.   Eddie says:
    Posted: 05 Aug 09

    WannaBe and Azrazyel; Ya'll need to sit ya'll Bleach Blonde selves down somewhere: I have an idea, the local trailer park. Besides; everyone don't want to post their pictures because ya'll think you are beautiful. Even a mother Ape thinks her baby is pretty. And to tell the truth, Every Black Person DO NOT WANT BLACK PEOPLE TO LAY WITH.

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  41.   wanaBme says:
    Posted: 05 Aug 09

    renee24 said "It makes me wonder why a person like you or them would even be a member of a interracial dating site?" On another post on this site latinonly1 said: "As we all enter our very own views and perceptions or opinions on Chats or Romance Websites, it’s important to remember the Terms & Conditions & respecting each others opinions." I absolutely agree with what she said. What is important about this? Well to me it is important because you don't have to be a member to post a comment on the blogs here so unless I hunt down each person on the site I have no idea who is a member and who is not. Anyone can use any name and make a post. I know because my first post I made on this site was at /fyooz/interracial-couple-kissing-churns-stomachs.htm and I had no membership of any kind. I created one AFTER I made the post. So why is it that the Terms and Conditions are not being enforced and why is it that you don't have to log in and use your actual user name to post? Seems to me that it would cut down on a lot of the crap..?.. I to don't understand why anyone who is already in a happy committed relationship needs to come onto a singles site and put down and discourage anyone else. They aren't here for the reasons the rest of us are here so why? Unless they are on the prowl for extra curricular activity but if that is the case then why brag about how happy the relationship is that they are already in? I think if I am going to pay for a site, any site, then terms and conditions should be enforced, posts that are "waiting approval" should actually be read and SOME of them should NOT be allowed and if you want to share your opinion ABOUT THE SUBJECT on the site you should have to be a member with a profile and you should have to use THAT log in to make your posts.

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  42.   Reggie says:
    Posted: 04 Aug 09

    A Great Book to read is: The Mis-Education of the Negro By: Dr. Carter G. Woodson (1875-1950) ISBN: 1-55523-338-4 You know what they say (THEY) if you want to hide something from "We Blacks", put it in a book. Awake Thou that sleepeth!!! LoL

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  43.   Member says:
    Posted: 04 Aug 09

    Dear Renee That is interesting considering this a public blog. The topic always seem to involve black men one way or another. Perhaps if you don't like what I say you should cancel your membership. It bothered you that a black woman praised black men. So much so that you had to comment about it. Put down who, I speak on facts. If you can dispute comments I have said before than do so. Show me where white men don't pick black women last to date and vice versa. I have statistics to back up everything. I never go on about who I am engaged to or married to. You never saw me make that statement it was a black woman that said that. Listen since it bothers you so much join E Harmony. That way you can date all the white men you can find. You are still a pathetic individual. They have a seminar for desperate black women to date inter racially. They have hucksters giving black women advice and telling them how to find a white man to pay their bills and rent. It is on my blog. I don't want people to say I stopped black women from dating out. Good day http://mrlaureltonqueens.blogspot.com/

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  44.   renee24 says:
    Posted: 04 Aug 09

    Queens just to let you know I'm not into putting down anyone and I am very far from pathetic or any name you want to throw out there I have dated black and white and I treat everyone the same. What I think is pathetic is when people get on here and comment how they have a beautiful and strong black man or women at home ( and there's nothing wrong with that) and would not date outside there race, but It makes me wonder why a person like you or them would even be a member of a interracial dating site? And also in your early comments you have put down women on this site for dating white men how does it feel to be a victim of your own words. you have no evidence to support any of your arguments P.s. people are tired of your useless comments do us all a favor and cancel your membership

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  45.   Member says:
    Posted: 04 Aug 09

    Sister Kendell I really admire you as a strong woman. Loyalty is the key to all men not just black men. Since kind words towards black men always warms my heart. I am glad you spoke your mind. Quite often, black women who date white men feel they have to "put down" black men just to stay with a white man. They are seriously pathetic like Renee. Nothing wrong showing love for your race. It is almost like black people are so cynical about their own culture they let it define them. I am glad you are a well traveled woman.

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  46.   renee24 says:
    Posted: 04 Aug 09

    kendall i have never hated my myself or where i came from or where i been I am just open to love who ever god has out there for me no matter what color. the definition of blackness –noun 1. the quality or state of being black. 2. the quality or state of being a black person. 3. Negritude. that has nothing to do with a person preference racism is a disease of the mind I think we all could detox ourselves

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  47.   Kendall says:
    Posted: 04 Aug 09

    Thank you Ichidod!!! With your FINE SELF!!! I am married to a wonderful Black Man and I will never date a White Man. My husband is Strong, we support each other, we have had our ups and downs and he has never disrespected me nor I have him. You are what you attract!! And many of these sisters have issues. Both of our parents' were married and we knew our grandparents' (on both sides). USA standards of "things" don't impress us put we will travel out of this limited thinking country twice a year. I would rather eat beans from a can with My strong BLACK MAN and I don't compare his income to his manhood. You see the playing field has never been even for we USA BLACKS. And I don't need no GREAT BLACK HOPE/Puppet on a D.C. string to tell me about my BLACK AMERICAN FOREFATHERS...I am trying to keep that clean. First and foremost these sisters should respect themselves, clean and detox their minds and bodies and communities and they will see a difference in their lives and will know the "TRUTH." We have found that through our travels (not military) that BLACK USA AMERICANS are idolized Globally from Music, Fashion, Politics and Sports (those of WE Blacks that have been in this country more than 5 generations). It's only USA America that lies to us to make us think less of ourselves. Actually, we are planning to take a six month cruise around the world starting in Nov 2009. USA America has lied to long. We never have a problem leaving/travelling in other countries, the trouble comes when we return to the USA Customs. They take us through the 3rd to 100th degree on why we left (as to say we aren't entitled) No! they don't want us to know the truth about the degrading of Black Americans. No interracial dating in other countries I understand, but not the USA. You seem like a informed and together brother!! With this in mind, Divine Understanding, Divine Love, Divine Peace and Prosperity, Divine Wealth and Health to you and yours and accept nothing but the Best in your life!!! I am a Strong Black Woman and the only thing I want white are my teeth, my 1000 thread linen sheets, driveway, roses, carnations, and clean undergarments. Much Success to you and all you Black Men. In my conclusion, Black Sisters there are a lot of good Black Men out there and the challenges of them not being given an opportunity, fair pay/wages and being BWLIA (BLACK WHILE LIVING IN AMERICA) and BWD (Black While Driving) is over bearing. The Blacks that are Straight and Gay who date whites have usually always hated their BLACKNESS, anyways. Sister Kendall

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  48.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 03 Aug 09

    I really like that Kendall chick. "have a fantasy about Black Women but they will never introduce you to all of their family, co-workers of friends. They usually give the Black Women a little money a little gifts and expect her to be happy." Where have I heard that before? " “why do you date Black sisters?” He responded, “they don’t ask for much or require much like a White Woman.” Right there I lost respect for him." I lose respect for anyone who would give a character based answer to that type of question regarding anybody. Is it just me, or is her comment the only one to have something relevant to do with the topic in a long time. Not to say I don't like going on tangents myself, but some stuff she brought up were points that have been heavily debated in the past. I'm glad to hear it come from her or a woman this time.

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  49.   Member says:
    Posted: 03 Aug 09

    I think Azrazyel is correct. When will white men stop picking black women last? At the end of the day that is what it boils down too. Also, there is certain segment of black women who will never date outside of their race. They are not comfortable doing that. Many white guys who do date black women have friends in the black community or were "raised" near black people. For them it is natural to date outside of their race. I remember some of the hardest homeys in the hood were cool with some white boys in our all black neighborhood. It was two of them, one worked for Disney and was married to a black woman. The other white guy was a star college basketball player. They were accepted because they didn't try to be something they are not. Quite often white guys make the mistake they can "act" like black men. As far as bragging about how many black women they have slept with. I remember I was with some of my friends on the block. I guess one of my friends had a white homeboy. I guess he felt like he had "to fit in" by bragging about how many black women he had sex with. Apparently, big homey didn't take kindly to that. Big homey is like 6ft 4 300 pounds. Anyway, he told the white guy like look "if I hear you say that shit again I will beat your ass". We all laughed like "white homey" don't listen to that. ( I was saving his ass actually). I told him rule number 1 you can't talk back to a "real nigga". That's just how it is. You suck it up and accept it. The white guys that actually were raised with black men don't have to be told this. But some white guys sometimes don't understand the protocols of dating a black woman. Just because we talk shit about them don't mean "you can get away with it".

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  50.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 03 Aug 09

    Eddie: "For the most part, Black Men don’t have to say they are buying “EXTENDS” to grow their penis. Lol" Biggest fucking myth under the sun. Let me ask you: If Black men have such 'huge' penises, doesn't that mean that black women have to have a large vagina to accommodate them? So basically their hole is about the size of a doorknob! Get real.

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