Why white men love the black woman
Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?
It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.
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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.
However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.
So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?
Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.
Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.
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Shotgun007 says:Posted: 29 Jul 09I appreciate your post Mr.Queens, Let me clarify, I was agreeing with Ichibod's statement. I actually posted a 2nd "amended" post indicating that but it appears the site administrator removed my 2nd post thinking it was a duplicate. It appears that Tatted and I posted at the same time. Shotgun007
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 28 Jul 09
To Chessnut Thank you for being nice enough to offer to help. Also, I want to say thank you to the other member who offered her help;she knows who she is(smile)One thing I have learned is that peaceful people recognize peace.You guys have confirmed it for me once again. Thank You Peace
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Smooches says:Posted: 28 Jul 09
Look at me; what do you see? Beautiful eyes? A great smile which tells no lies? Or, maybe its curve of my hips? Maybe the sweet cinnamon taste of my lips? While these are all great attributes What do they really constitute? See me for the beautiful, caring, always God fearing woman that I am. Not for the physical attributes that only entice the man. Let me just say that I love my people and all people! Let me shed some light on black women...... We are out spoken because we need to be heard; over all the negative overtones that are projected about us! We may come off as bossy because most don't understand our assertiveness. We are often viewed as combative or argumentive because most can't comprehend our strength We are the back bone of our families and most times our communities. Look at black women throughout history they have the qualities I mentioned and ones I didn't. The black women that I speak of don't perpetuate stereo types. So, don't try to judge us all by those few. Shout outs to my favs. Tatted you go girl; Godiva sorry I didn't say thank you earlier. Much love!!!! HUGS AND SMOOCHES ALL!!!!!XOXOX
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Member says:Posted: 28 Jul 09
Well I disagree with the statement above shotgun. There is nothing wrong working to have nice things. It seems to me the people that would like a "Marxist"lifestyle end up being the same people that they disdain. If you have a nice car, fancy clothes and a nice woman. Who says you have to carry yourself with respect? How do you know that person is not carrying themselves with respect? It is all subjective. Just like the same people that ramble on about "negative energy" and "woes me" I am trying to rise above it. They contribute to it with all the whining and complaining. You are not obligated to "fix" humankind's mistakes. You don't care about people because you won't finance their addictions that has held them back in life. I disagree with that. Some women have the inability to see the big picture. Everybody has their "own opinions" about a topic whether it is dating or interracial dating. Instead they rather duck and hide from the truth. If you date outside of race because you dislike your race of men. That is fine. Who says there must be a "good" reason to date outside of your race. Lastly, learn to handle yourself with class when you are rejected. Don't say " I highly doubt I would get involved with any men here". Yea right loose booty tell it to the judge!
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Shotgun007 says:Posted: 28 Jul 09
To the above post. That is a very fair and accurate remark. My thoughts are.... that selecting mates these days doesn't appear to be taken at full face value. I mean, people say they are looking for a certain type or inner values etc, but a lot of people appear to choose crappy mates, then bitch about it later. What a total mess. Overral, everyone should just be plain honest with each other. Shotgun007
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tatted2death says:Posted: 28 Jul 09Thank you so much, Eternally Seeking.....I think you hit the one of the core issues right there. It is about respect. Without respect you have nothing....All your degrees, fancy cars, designer clothes, etc.....they mean nothing if you don't carry yourself with some respect and treat others to it as well. Even though it is cliche it is true; if you can't love/respect yourself, you can't truly love/respect anyone else. People nowadays seem to care less and less about others, in general......It's all about "getting theirs" or whatever. It will be a lovely day indeed when people wake up and enlighten themselves to the undeniable "connectedness" of human (AND animal) kind.....ok let me stop with the hippie talk....lol .....I do feel the need to address certain people putting this blog aside for bogus reasons. It was stated that "black women are bashing black men and vice versa". Of the REGULAR responders here who do you REALLY see bashing who?????BE HONEST. Basically what it amounts to is someone came in here with some preconceived notions and decided that one VERY LOUD black man was going to speak for all of them and that his word was gospel......WRONG, WRONG.....a thousand times WRONG. Nevermind the intelligent, strong women that frequent this place......piss on that, right??? This blog has been "tainted" for some time now and many of the "vets" have gone on hiatus (for various reasons, I am sure). But you must understand that any "passion" that is flowing in here is what you will encounter ANYWHERE where such a sensitive subject is being discussed.......If you can't handle that, then indeed you may need to go seek out the "grown ups"....and maybe they can "hold your hand" through you "making up your mind" about the issue......just friendly words of advice (NON-SARCASM)....And also know there are NO hard feelings because for every one that is "unsure" there are plenty more that know what they/we desire (kudos, tdj2d!!!!) and find happiness regardless. Ich, you are so right.......trash (just like anything else) usually seeks it's own level....even on a subconcious level. Sad but true (excellent Metallica song, btw....lol) As always....Peace and Blessings tatted2death
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Ichibod says:Posted: 28 Jul 09Blah, Black women aren't the only ones horrible things are being said about, but you are absolutely right with your assessment. It's the fault of the person who keeps going for trashy mates.
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blah says:Posted: 27 Jul 09
you know, when i hear people say horrible things about black women, i cant help but wonder, is it truly the other race's fault? the one issue with interracial dating is that, people think if they meet two bad people, the same race, then all people of that race are undateable. thats the risky part of interracial dating...some people just attribute race to bad behavior. and sometimes i cant help but ask, if one gets so many trashy women, is it really the woman's fault, or just the guy who keeps going for trashy women?
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Bowman45 says:Posted: 26 Jul 09Well, I for one am glad the subject was brought up, even if it was a while ago. I was married to a wonderful Black woman for 27-years. We dealt with this question a number of times while I was in service and afterward. Kathy's usual answer was a simple one: "None of your ______ business!" My own was nearly as concise: "We saw each other, I asked her out, we got married!" Now, after three years of being a widower, I'm out and about again, which is why I came to this site. For some reason, I'm just not attracted to any other type of woman, and it's all due to a mishmash of motives and traits that I no more understand than why people fall in love in the first place. Frankly, I can't see any more than that it's not a problem to date and/or marry outside your DNA-makeup now. If people have the freedom to choose, they will exercise it, and they should do so because it should never have been a problem in the first place. Not deep, I know, but that's what you get from an old Jarhead!
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Ichibod says:Posted: 26 Jul 09
wanaBme, What you said is what I think everytime I read those kinds of pointless pride messages that show up on these blogs. Good retort. Take care!
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wanaBme says:Posted: 26 Jul 09
James, I read what you had to say and your absolutely right. Anyone with a modicum of higher education knows that life began in Africa, that Jesus was black, etc etc. As you pointed out "Lucy" the mitochondrial Eve who every man, woman, and child can trace their DNA back to was black. Therefore I pose the question aren't we ALL black? All of us have the heritage and the history. When we were sent out to all the nations from the tower of babble weren't we all black? (for those of you who don't know this is Christianity's explanation for why we went to different lands and speak different languages.) Isn't it possible that through evolution skin tones changed according to climate? Therefore I would just be a seriously melatonin challenged sister? I mean that is how I see it we are all the same, come from the SAME blood line. Love who you want, let others love who they want, and be happy for those who find love where ever they can with whatever melatonin rich or challenged brother and or sister you or they choose. Also I would like to say Well said Eternally Seeking! Peace =0)~
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Member says:Posted: 25 Jul 09
First I would like to say that the article is well written and thought out. In my personal opinion would it not be better for us as human beings to find love and harmony with whomever we happen to be involved with without making an issue out of race, religion or any other type of seperation the human mind can come up with. Human nature is one of attraction on so many levels and can be a complex emotional rollercoaster ride for many people. I for one am a white male and find the female form to be one of natures best works of art, expressed in how she moves, breathes, speaks in any aspect of her life, woman is our mother as is this earth and we men would go a long way to remember that without a Real Woman none of us would be here
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Shotgun007 says:Posted: 25 Jul 09
Interesting topic to discuss, even after 2 years since the article was first posted to this blog. To those caucasian men that are looking to meet women of color, I'm sure you will find what your looking for. My only hope is that Black Women will continue to embrace interracial dating. We need to encourage black women to date white/latino/asian, all other races to increase the chance of finding happiness. Good Luck everyone... Shotgun007
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tdj2d says:Posted: 25 Jul 09
Slice it up, dice it up, call it what you may, it doesn't really matter on the outside but what is in the inside. I love the look of black women, their smile, attitude, hair, and their looks. It is so much of a turn on! I fell in love in grade school with a lady of color and she was my best friend but the conceited males friends thought I was a n..**$$ lover. This was back in '68. But since I have joined and retired from the military, and grown up, and what I have learned is in this big melting pot we are are us! Fun loving, caring, mindful, yes there the crack heads that reform and want to change, but this is us! Itn't it great!! I love this board because I wish now that I had kept in contact with Miki, I think I would have married her not because she is a black women but because of what she meant to me but a caring, loving gal who I would have had lots of fun with for the future. I don't have a problem saying hello, but I choose wisely along this beautiful path we have to go along in life. Beautiful sisters out there, know that there is a lot of white men who love and respect you much. Though I may get getting on in the years, that doesn't mean I don't look and awe over the pretty ladies but look at my opposite site sisters regardless of color and love the charisma, caring, smiling attitude that all bring to the table. I believe in opening a door for a lady, saying good morning, and starting and ending the day as positively. We only live on one big blue planet and I enjoy everyday... Take care my friends...
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James says:Posted: 25 Jul 09
I would like to respond. I am a Black American Male from the USA and I am aware of the abuse of being Black and in the USA. I can understand other countries being interracial but with the USA history, NO!! There are several of us DECENT BLACK MEN in the USA who care not to date White Women and care not to date BLACK Women that are not in our league as well as some of my GAY BLACK FRIENDS who prefer not to date GAY WHITES. Let me comment, I have found that a vast majority of BLACKS that date outside or our race hate their BLACKNESS. I have found that the vast majority of the BLACKS that date WHITES in the USA do not date RICH/WEALTHY WHITES. In reality, this country was founded on division. The Blacks that I found to date WHITES in the USA from the expelled Whites that came from Europe to the USA have never had positive home environments, never had two married parents' and come from dysfunctional environments. The other case is possibly the Black families hated their Blackness and thought and still think that living around White People is better (something that the media protrays). My Black history didn't begin for only a month but dates back to the Great Kings of Africa (something that Hollywood protrays as White). All of the Beautiful Woman in history were BLACK and recorded in the Bible for example: Queen Sheba, Queen Cleopatra, Queen Neferrti and the Great MEN were King Soloman, Black RamsesI, RamsesII (and others) and All of Europe came to study at the first Universities in Ancient Egypt (the cradle and birth of all civilization before the invasion of other countries and Arabia). I will like to also address that the TRUE JEWS are from the Hills of Ethiopia, Africa and the White Jews of today (and even some of them have Wholly hair) are not the true Jews. Our BLACK history was stolen from the Romans, Greeks and all of Europe and for this reason, I am proud to be Black and stay with my Blackness. I understand the old saying, if you mess up one generation or community you will destroy future ones. With the oppression and no true equality for Black People in America and just because some crumbs from the table were given to some Blacks, it still doesn't repair the damage. I am proud to be Black, my skin doesn't age, I am 41 and I look 27 years old as well as my relatives look young, too. I come from Royal Blood and yes, Eve and Adam were Black (her remains are in the Field Musuem in Chicago, Illinois and they call her Lucy!!. Queen Cleopatra had a boy for Marc Anthony but they killed him because he would have ruled Roman and Egypt (a Black Man) and yes, on the Island of Crete and Malta you will see AFRICA in the peoples skin. Our history of BLACKNESS in the USA was built on FREE SLAVE LABOR and yes, our foremothers nursed a many of White Babies that drank our Foremothers BLACK MILK from her breast. The cities that I found in the USA where this hatred of Blackness occurs are the Surrounding Suburbs of Detroit, MI, Phoenix, Arizona, Minneapolis/St. Paul, MN, Seattle, Washington and the entire West Coast. My mother is Black and my father (and our genes were tainted through the years) and I prefer my own race, Black!!! I have found my friends who have married and dated Whites in the end, always return back to the mother Land (We Blacks). I have found that a vast majority of the Whites that date/marry Blacks only do because of their White sexual fantasy of Black People and when the fantasy is over or the N-Word slips, the Blacks are looking stupid. I am professional, law abiding Black Man that was raised in a Upper-Middle Class environment in Chicago, Illinois. In America, the playing field will never be even for we Blacks and Whites and I feel that if you are with someone of a different race, love them for them and not color nor a sexually fantasy. I have always said, "If I am going to go White, I am going to go Right....In other words you better be a Rockerfeller, Duke, Vanderbuilt, etc. Besides, I love a Black Women and salute Black Men who are secure with themselves, know their heritage, know their parents', a stable mentally and healthy mentally, have refinement and are ladies and gentlemen of the BLACK RACE!!!
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 22 Jul 09
Or in other words (chessnut), thanks but no thanks.
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 22 Jul 09
Chessnut: Thanks for your input. I have decided not to post in here anymore (although I will to you because you are speaking to me directly). Too much immaturity in here, black women bashing black men and vice versa. This blog is an infectious disease. I try and be reasonable, but somebody lets the kids out and fucks everything up again. Therefore, it is a complete garbage dump. I apologize for the harsh words to the people who are reasonable and can hold an intelligent conversation. Until somebody can infuse some brain cells in here, I will stray away from this disease. Regards
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chessnut says:Posted: 22 Jul 09
To: bigeyes31 and Azrazyel - both of you need to create a facebook page with your first names and use your user name for your last names - become facebook friends and e-mail all you want in private. Good Luck.
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 22 Jul 09
oops sorry godiva. I didn't mean to post twice.
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 22 Jul 09
godiva61 YES, I 'm doing well! Thanks so much for asking. I hope you are too,(big smile).
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 22 Jul 09
godiva61 YES, I 'm doing well! Thanks so much for asking. I hope you are too,(big smile)
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godiva61 says:Posted: 22 Jul 09
To: Smooches, I admire and respect your reply to tatted, very, very respectful and classy!! Who say's you can't disagree without being tacky and vulgar? You lead by example. Give yourself a hug and a high five!!! Hello bigeyes31, hope you are well!!! Hope everyone has a great Wednesday!!! Hello Ichibod, World Citizen, and Ashley... love godiva
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godiva61 says:Posted: 22 Jul 09
To: Tatted, You're quite the celebrity, can I have your autograph? (HUGE SMILE)... Trying to catch up on the conversation here and noticed your presence and your fame(lol) Wow!!!! Yes it is that easy, just scroll down and keep on moving... You know I LOVE YOU but I admire you just as much.. You're a CLASS ACT!!! love godiva
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Member says:Posted: 22 Jul 09
LOL Brother I am going to write a book about black women. Look for that as well as my new blog entry. "How the house of cards for sellout black women fell apart". Something like that. I won't stoop to your level about the women I have been with. They wanted me to settle down and I got more life to live. Well let me change that I am in a current relationship. Basically, I am a star and some black women want you to give them all your attention. I am glad they went on with their lives. I am not a hater.
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otherbrother says:Posted: 22 Jul 09
Mr. Queer oops I mean Queens, (slowly sipping my drink, LMAO) grow up. You obviously know absoulutley nothing about women let alone black women. It is kind of obvious from your own post that all of your ex girlfriends have gone on to better relationships, I wonder why? Could it be that they figured out not to be with a knuckle head, after dealing with you. Now, do not respond yet, see you must figure things out, I mean not in your head but really figure things out. That is a couple years away yet, like the usual adolesence you need to listen to the grown ups! YOU ABSOLUTLY KNOW NOTHING ABOUT A BLACK WOMAN. That doesn't mean the little girls you play with I am talking about WOMAN. Now lets see if that college education did you any good, remember before you respond you need to become educated about this topic and you are definitly a long way off. So we shouldn't hear from you for a couple of years.
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Member says:Posted: 21 Jul 09
(Drinking some coffee) Azrazyel I don't appreciate you playing these two women against each other. Tatt actually took the high road, which I am not surprised. Another black girl would have seriously got in your ass. Hopefully, you will take a class called "Understanding the black woman". I might start a class myself. Topics How to notice a "booty call". What not to say to a black woman. How to avoid the "Peanut" black women.
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 21 Jul 09
Oh and tatted2death, you're NOT weird. You are just truly peaceful and after what the blog is all about. You're not here to be entertained but enlightened( not that you already aren't). Peace
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 21 Jul 09
tatted2death Hey, I just want you know I HAVE been wanting to acknowledge you. It just seemed like everytime I got ready to open my mouth(post), I would be rudely interrupted. I also didn't want to add ammunition so I kept quiet. I see though, it's never going stop whether I'm silent or not.I have been reading your post for awhile and you have been NOTHING but positive in everything you post.I just wanted you to know that.
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Smooches says:Posted: 21 Jul 09
Hey Tatted, Nice to hear from you! I can respect your disagreeing with me without attacking me for my opinions. Yes, this is a public forum, so I'm entitled to post my feelings. Whether people agree or like you disagree. You know from my previous post that I'm one of the least confrontational posters. I was just tired of the same lame. You are a true woman and I respect that about you. I have seen you take on best and the worst; yet, you still emerge victoriously! You add whimsy and class to this blog girl. Thank you much! As always much love to all the Vets and Favs. Hugs and Smooches XOXOXO
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tatted2death says:Posted: 21 Jul 09
WOW.....you are right on one thing L.Queens (I see you still like my name on your fingertips/keystrokes....LOL)....I have been watching. But sorry I have to let you down (once again....LOL) in the anger department. If anything I have just been slightly disheartened at the amount of ill-will passing around so freely in here (amongst the ladies... So sad that you have to be negative to get noticed sometimes......not all that surprising though) Smooches, I have to respectfully disagree with you here (first time for everything, I guess....LOL). So you would much rather watch L. Queen name call and twist everything than to watch two people having a peaceful, rewarding exchange??? I mean, isn't the topic about "loving the black woman"??? And here you have guy (that happens to be white) "loving" (obviously) the exchange he is having with a woman (that happens to be black). While this is not the BEST place for their convo (I think they know that already....lol) I think it is a wonderful thing. Hail, just watching bigeyes having her ears opened to some good music was enough for me to be happy....LOL. I don't know I guess I am weird like that. This forum is a weird place, but even I know if something is not directed toward me or the subject at hand that all I have to do is SCROLL.....it is just that easy. Smooches....you slay me woman....you stay away for so long ( I missed ya...lol) and then you come back in like WHOA!!!....LMAO. But you know all in all I admire your spirit...as always Peace and Blessings tatted2death P.S. Queens.....I don't get WINE because I am not an alcoholic and no dinner because I would rather be doing something "active" (biking, rollerskating, hiking,etc.)....(sorry not fitting ANY of your stereotypes today.....boo hoo....LOL).....yeah, you can be endearing too.....in a comical sort of way.....Peace.
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 21 Jul 09
Taffy000 Hey I know what you mean. You sound like you are describing MY state,lol. I'm laughing but that sounds like the white men around here. It's fabulous that you know what you want. Keep working it girl.I'm trying to be like you.LOL Have a good one
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 21 Jul 09
Thanks Ichibod! You don't know how much that means to me ! I think I have a "too nice" sticker on my forehead,LOL. So I get "tried" sometimes. I hope you are talking to me?If you are thanks so much.
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 20 Jul 09
You're welcomed. Thanks. I wasn't trying to be a "b" or anything, but doing just that... defend myself. Nice to meet you too,lol. I have been following your post. You do make it interesting ,lol. Ok enough of me blowing smoke up your b..tt(lol). Have a good one
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Member says:Posted: 20 Jul 09
Thanks Bigeyes It is nice to meet you. Yea this forum has changed. I like the fact you defended yourself. Yea it gets off topic a lot here. I still find this blog amusing. I figured it was just a matter of time before something "sparked up" here. Nothing wrong with "mixing it up" with people.
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 20 Jul 09
Mr. Laurelton! What's up grown Man! LOL I know this forum is not for what it seemed to turn into. You know I did not come in here for any of that. I don't know if you remember, I joined this blog by commenting on the point you made about "us" as in black women being picked last. I post on topic in other blogs and was trying to get back to the purpose of being here by trying to take it off the blog. Either way, I enjoy your very funny and often true rebuttles.
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Member says:Posted: 20 Jul 09
To me this whole thing is funny. (Eating popcorn) See, I wasn't even gonna do it. You all made me do it. Like I said before, I can picture Tatt nose pressed against the window watching all this go down with Azrazyel. Does she have a right to be angry? HELL YEA. My theory has always been this. When your single and alone no woman wants your ass. In this case, as SOON as a you talk to him (coughing at tatt). They all "SWOOP" down on him. Hopefully, Tatt learned her lesson. Well she tried to tried to do a booty call and it blew up in her face. Seriously how much can you take when you seeing people having candlelight dinner in your face. Tatt is only human.
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 20 Jul 09
Mr. Laurelton LOL you a straight trip. stop it.
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Smooches says:Posted: 20 Jul 09
Hey Queens thank you at least you can understand what I was trying to relate. Don't get me wrong we don't exactly see eye to eye; however, your thoughts and opinions are just that. I can appreciate them and they kinda relate to the topic at hand. You bring an objective view which can be good. It gives bloggers a challenge so to speak. Bloggers blog because we are passionate writers. We aren’t angry or unhappy. Sometimes we do it to ruffle some people’s feathers. Hey, isn’t that why we are all here to satisfy that passion??? Good Day Queens Smooches OUT!
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Smooches says:Posted: 20 Jul 09
LMAO! I never called you any names. You need to re-read yet again! Too , funny..... sorry you couldn't comprehend the message. Hugs and Smooches!xoxo
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Member says:Posted: 20 Jul 09
Hey Smooches thank you. You are a nice woman. Jealousy comes out in different ways. I am glad you mentioned your husband. You should be proud and don't let people ruin your day. LOL Smooches, be outspoken. It is what it is. How you gonna steal Tatt "man" and then don't even acknowledge her. I don't particular agree with Tatt but it is real foul how some black women do "other" black women. Azrazyel you wrong "homey". I feel like your rubbing it in. You acting like you innocent but your not. I can't knock Tatt for really interest in you. It is hard for woman to even "put herself out" there. This does feel like high school. Damn shame Smooches is doing what Godiva SHOULD HAVE DONE. I am out.
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 20 Jul 09
Smooches that was an unecessary and extremely long post just to say nothing. If you are married why do you care about how others are communicating? If you need a blog to "liven up" something for you , then your marriage or your life must not be all that great. Resorting to name calling proves you are angry.So yes I DO think you ar. That often happens when some part of one's life is unfulfilling This is my last exchange with you. So go on and keep ranting, but when you are finished, you'll still be mad about something,LOL As said by KIM Fields..."smooches" LOL
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Smooches says:Posted: 20 Jul 09
I'm not angry; nor am I trying to hide anything. It’s just a shame that instead of joining the site and communicating like normal individuals you’re stuck posting here day in and day out. If that isn't what Ichibod meant good for him; that's how it was taken. I have a HUSBAND I'm not reduced to trying for a cyber guy....hoping something will evolve from lame banter. (me being hateful) You should re-read you came off very rude and showed a lack of netiquette. I may have been straight forward, but I wasn’t by any means angry. (now I’m being nasty and sarcastic) The difference is: I’m not angry because at the end of the day I’m blessed. I have a wonderful husband of almost 7yrs. and a great little boy. For me this blog allows others to share their hopes, desires, sometimes disapproval, and successes that they’ve had or want to have with interracial dating and marriages. However, with lame nauseating banter day to day that you are posting I haven’t seen any of that. Find another way dude!(me being spiteful) I even enjoy Queens’ antics because he livens the place up. I’m not sure he always does it in a good way. This ends it for me I’m done now…..you go ahead type all angry black woman comments since you are so good at it. (now I’m being mean) I wanted to let you know the intent behind my remarks since you think I’m angry. Smooch on that!
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Azrazyel says:Posted: 20 Jul 09
I knew there was a specific reason why I didn't post here before. I see the tempers flaring around here and this is not for me! Some people need to stop acting like fuck!ng kids!!! Peace Out!
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bigeyes31 says:Posted: 20 Jul 09
OMG!!!!LOL you got it right!PUBLIC BLOG.OMG!!! LOL you got it wrong. That was an weak attempt to throw salt and hide your hand.First of all don't try to pull Ichibod into your game.He just told you he wasn't having it.LOL YOU sound more like the angry black woman than I do. You saw a peaceful exchange involving another black woman and you HAD to throw salt...Angry black woman...you or me? And you didn't just comment on my antics you're trying to control something that doesn't belong to you. That's one of the chacaracteristics of an angry black woman....good day. BTW what you are talking about is off topic. I thought you were so concerned with what the forum is for...."smooches"
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Ok. Now it is my turn. First and foremost. We were all uniquely created and divided into different races. Spread throughout the world and from a family unit into a larger social unit(clans to tribes, to nations) we have stemmed. This indisputable fact should give us all a sense of pride. Don't misunderstand me, I do not believe that it is wrong to date outside of your race. However I noticed through reading these comments a lack of honor toward thy fellow human being in the form of picking out who is more or less beautiful or how ones beauty comes to nought with age sooner than another. Futhermore some of you have gone as far as to point out that you find your own race unattractive. If you find your own race, in its entirety, unattractive...how can you exclude yourself being of that race? Therefore do you believe that you are unattractive also? I think a loggical explanation is that your own lust has caused you to develop an inclination toward a specific race( a fetish) and not with a good heart do you say these things. Because no race of people is unattractive, all were created by God. Now I don't know if I evolved from a long armed creature found in Africa so many years ago and I am not afraid to dispute "scientific fact". But I do know that we are all diverse and beautiful. Thank you and good day.