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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 09

    No, ma'am. I did not mean it that way. I figured that would happen after I read her comment.

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  2.   Smooches says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 09

    OMG!!!!! LOL, that was funny since this is a public blog.... I post whatever I feel. Anyway, I was just echoing what Ichibod stated. Please don't confirm the angry black woman cliché; you’re showing it to be self proving. Either join the site or find a tangible man. I'm sick of the lame rhetoric! Better yet, hey Queens I’ll take some of ranting right about now. (LMAO) Seriously, if you can’t handle someone in cyber space commenting on your antics…. then you should find another sounding stage to get your point across, or to aid in your attempts to meet a man. I’m not trying to step on any toes, the commentary between you two has gotten old sorry. Smooch that!

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  3.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 09

    Hey Michael, I hope the appointment went okay today. I'm still checking out the bands you suggested. I'll get back with you on those. Hear from you soon Just decided I would do that on this PUBLIC BLOG.

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  4.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 09

    Sorry Smooches but unless you are the moderator of this site you don't dictate to me how I use anything.If you don't like what's going on then post something on topic.

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  5.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 09

    Ichibod Did you mean that way smooches meant it?

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  6.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 09

    Ichibod Thanks but we have considered that . This site distinctly mentions banning you from the site if you put personal information such as those you mentioned.LOL Thank you for caring (smile). I have noticed a person who placed an actual link to their email address a couple of times and nothing happened(lol).

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  7.   Smooches says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 09

    Thank you, Ichibod. I'm a married woman and can appreciate romance like the next person, but this isn't forum where people should be doing day to day communicating to hopefully strike up something more. Before I forget: Hey Tatted, I did get the shout out last week! Thank you and much love to you as well.As to all the Vets, and Fan Favorites,and you too Laurelton Q Hugs and Smooches everyone! XOXOXOX

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  8.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 09

    Why not trade e-mail addresses or phone numbers? Just a hint.

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  9.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 20 Jul 09

    Hello Michael I have been tyring to avoid mentioning this but we both know having membership on this site is the only way to communicate differently. I hope the day is going well for you. Natalie

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  10.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 19 Jul 09

    how did make it write upside down?lol but okay tomorrow then. have a good day

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  11.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 19 Jul 09

    .ʎɐp poob ɐ ǝʌɐɥ .ǝı1ɐʇɐu ʍoɹɹoɯoʇ uo ʞɔɐq ǝq 11ıʍ ı 'ʎǝɥ

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  12.   Taffy000 says:
    Posted: 19 Jul 09

    My family of origin is multi racial although I am Black. I won't go into that story here. So when people would ask "what would your mom/dad think"? It was never an issue. I used to say I was more attracted to White men but as time has gone on I'm really not attracted to the "average" White guy I see on a daily basis where I live. Pardon me if these sound like stereotypes hey are not. I don't like football, NASCAR, chewing tobbacco, hunting, fishing etc. I find myself more attracted to "foreign" men. Men who actually enjoy going to night clubs. Men who know how to approach a woman they like. None of this "I'm too shy to approach a woman." I think I've settled in the wrong darn state. As I spend time online, I tend to find men in other countries-the browner ones are attracted to me also and I like them too. I don't like the whole immigration situation you may have to go through if you get serious about a man overseas. If it's love you can work through it.

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  13.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 19 Jul 09

    Hi Natalie. I promise you it is nothing bad. I promise on my soul, I mean what else can I say? lol I had a specific reason why I did that, again nothing bad in any way, shape or form. I'm glad you are doing well. That is good to hear. I hope you did good on your exam, I'm sure you did though. (: I wish I could find a different way to communicate with you. One of these days maybe...... And yes, I do enjoy talking to you. You are lovely and very sweet and kind hearted. Oh btw, I just found a new band called 'My Lament'. Melodic Death/Doom Metal. Very somber with beautiful melodies. It's much much slower than the stuff I wanted you to check out, but this music makes you think about all the sadness and suffering you and I see everyday. It's a reality check of sorts and very calm with a heavy/melodic atmospheric blend of perfection. Good music. Well I hope to hear from you soon, until then be careful out there and good luck with your exams (fingers crossed you passed it). I will talk to you later.

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  14.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 19 Jul 09

    Hello Michael, I'm doing fine today. I'm a little tired from an exam I had to take yesterday concerning a job that I applied for.Thank you for asking. I'm glad you responded to at least tell me what's going on. I think I may know,but I'm not sure. You're saying that it is nothing bad but it has to be if it's causing you not to speak to me (type, blog whatever). I don't think I should suffer for something someone else is doing? I didn't say that I didn't like them(or couldn't handle them,lol). I liked them all. I just had some favorites that's all( looking sheepishly)lol. Thank you for suggestions,especially the "War of Ages".Nice of you to recommend something nice and soft in the middle, just like me huh?LOL. I can handle whatever you throw at me(lol) I'll check them out. Oooh the dentist.Well, at it's a cleaning and not a root canal. I had my second one in March. Okay well, Have a good day today and tomorrow. Natalie

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  15.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 19 Jul 09

    Hi Natalie. How are you? I'm doing well. I have my specific reason why I distanced myself, which I intend to keep silent. Unless you may be able to figure it out. Nothing bad, I promise you. I'm glad you checked those bands out. Yea, I figured Cannibal Corpse and Cattle Decapitation was probably out of your range....lol. It can be hard for some to get into that kind of style. I don't blame you. Check out that song I listed above. 'War of Ages' by Universum. Cool song with a sweet melodic breakdown in the middle of it. I have a dentist appointment in the morning. (blah)....I can hear the drills now in my head...lol I'm just getting my teeth cleaned, no cavities...whew. Yeah Psycroptic is a Technical Death Metal Band from (West Hobart, Tasmania) Australia. You definitely need to check out Gorod from (Bordeaux, Aquitaine) France. Great band with constant changing and excellent guitar work. I hope to hear from you soon. Have a great day!

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  16.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 19 Jul 09

    I'm sorry I meant I hope you're okay.

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  17.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 19 Jul 09

    Michael I hope your okay today. I was just wondering is there something I said? You seem a bit distant. I apologize if I have. I hope you will respond. Good Day

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  18.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 09

    Ichibod Hey, I did just what you said. They are bad! I can only sample one song and it was "Gunslinger". Now why did they go and do that!(lol). Thanks Ichibod! Nice to hear from ya!LOL

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  19.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 09

    Those are some great words there, whatever. I think the younger generation is much more accepting of IR dating. I think once our parents generation dies off, you may possibly see more and more IR couples. I agree about if the tinge is any darker, a lot of people think black instantly. There are a lot of people that may look black, but in reality they are islander, latino, cuban, rican etc. It's just a shame that people see skin tone in that way. And yes, you are exactly right. I don't categorize people by ethnic race, I see as everyone as the human race. I don't see appearance, I see inner beauty. Great words you have there and thanks for the input. In Regards

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  20.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 09

    Check out 'War of Ages' by Universum. Great melodic death song.

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  21.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 09

    You need to listen to Avenged Sevenfold. They're the bomb!

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  22.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 09

    That is what I'm looking for is how was supposed to read. Sorry I have chinese food on the brain right now.

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  23.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 09

    Hey Michael, I don't know when or if you'll be back on here again, but I just wanted to give you my updates on the bands.My choices I like the most were The Black Dahlia Murders and Misery Index. Misery Index IS tight! I found this band called Psycroptic! THAT is I'm looking for, LOL. Well I found them by accident while listening to the other ones. I'm not going to act like I knew what I was doin or nothing(lol).They are the best ones to me(next to Psycroptic) Well, I hope you're having a great weekend! Thank you for the roses! Hear from you sometime. Nat

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  24.   Member says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 09

    (Drinking orange juice) See you got anger issues. Then you wonder why your not getting WINE and dinner like Big eyes. LOL I am a troll because I want to see your ass pics. ( I guess you do have ass pics). I am not Azrazyel. I can admire the nice booty. Tatt you can be an endearing individual when you want to be. I do sense the anger at Big eyes. Girl you know what, I would handle you if you was in my state of PA. It is not a fantasy at all. I would mold you into the woman you need to be. Cooking me breakfast, doing laundry, and washing dishes. I can do the rest. You want to "slide by" with a white man.

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  25.   whatever says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 09

    I am a seventeen year old girl and i'm mixed with black indian and cuban I personally love white men and find them more attractive than anyone else and like the first responder i was born in Jamaica and raised in the states.. What i've realized is that my generation is very open minded but more importantly fewer of us see ppl by their skin colour. In America if u r a tinge of black then it doesn't matter what else u r mixed with ur automatically black but anywhere else in the world they pay less attention to that and more attention to the inside in jamaica ppl don't see u by ur race but by ur beuty so it shouldn't matter the colour of ur skin i don't think there is any race but hte human race and i hate when ppl are jusdge based from their complexion and if u didn't know scientists have proven that EVERYONE derived from black ancestry!

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  26.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 09

    OMG!!!!I am still LMAO at Queens last post...... someone seriously needs to shoot "Daffy Duck"s beak off....LOL (of course that is figurative....not a violent person) I'll be yer "Bugs Bunny".......LMAO.

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  27.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 09

    you know what....JUST SHUT THE PHUCK UP, Queens..... "stealing" a man.....ONLINE...yeah that is going to make me go cut my wrists right now....(PFFT). I have already dismissed you and your "make-believe" fantasy world where you take me to dinner and "handle" me....LMAO.(you WISH I were "loose"....LOL) Want to see pics of my ass???......OF COURSE YOU DO.....you troll.....LOL. Have fun talking to yourself about this nonsense from now on....(you seriously need to get off the pipe or whatever.) Peace and Blessings tatted2death

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  28.   Member says:
    Posted: 17 Jul 09

    (Looking in) Bigeyes just took your man from you Tatt. Jesus, talk about adding insult to injury. Tatt that is what you get for throwing yourself at men sexually. Good Day

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  29.   jess says:
    Posted: 17 Jul 09

    well as what i have notice white men love tan girls...i dont no why

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  30.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 17 Jul 09

    Awwwww.....you are so sweet. (Dozen roses to you)

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  31.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 17 Jul 09

    Oh and sharing that glass of wine would be fabulous. I'm sorry that you had such a rough day at work. I agree, that is difficult and depleting work! You deserve a hug and a glass of wine. Natalie(smile)

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  32.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 17 Jul 09

    OHHH Thank God. Whew. I thought I upset you. (Sigh of relief). I am gentle to everyone except for the post above you. (Some woman, and who knows if it's really a woman, I don't take people without pictures behind their words too seriously)....if you read my original post you will see it. I wasn't trying to be a d!ck to her?, I was just pointing out something. Maybe I could have worded it differently? Who knows. I'm giving everyone a Xanax in here....lol And yes, I try to be extra cautious and take more care with you. Don't ask me why..lol. I just don't want to upset you in anyway, so I was trying to make sure by posting again to you. And yes, I try and be as gentle with you as much as I can. Why? Again, don't ask....lol. I just feel I need to for some reason. Then again, I am always gentle. So you want something heavier? Oh boy, your in for a rude awakening....lol. Did you like that band though? I like that type of metal at times to break away from the heavier stuff......my metal ears can only take so much, ya know? Hmmmmmm......check out Cannibal Corpse, Suffocation, Cattle Decapitation, Misery Index, The Black Dahlia Murder. Start with that and let me know, and don't tell me I didn't forewarn you.....LOL And the communication thing? Hmmmmmmmm.......I have to think about that one for a bit. I don't want to post personal info here i.e. e-mail or yahoo and msn messenger stuff in public. Plus, I'm sure the website oversees what is posted in here, and I don't want to get banned either....lol (sad) If you think of anything, let me know. And get back to me too ASAP!! On the double....lol Just Kidding. (SARCASM.....lol) See you soon. Bye beautiful.

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  33.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 17 Jul 09

    Hey Michael Upset?No need to apologize.I was just tyring not to break my own rule of keeping my post short. Incidentally, so short I forgot to mention that I went to lastfm and checked out the band you told me about. You are so sweet, trying to be so gentle with me(smile). Thank you. I won't break though(lol). You can give me something harder than that to rock to(LOL). I want more guitars,yeah!After all I DO like Ozzie and Alice Cooper. Although old school, still quite valid(smile). What do you suggest that we do about communicating? If you are still up, please respond. Natalie

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  34.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 17 Jul 09

    I've lived through many great disappointments. Set aside from this blog and the topic here, we all face disappointments. I was only pointing out that (while it is good to dream) the unrealistic view of a non-racist world is well....unrealistic. That's all. You didn't need to waste a whole paragraph telling me what you've been through. I didn't really care anyway......good day.

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  35.   justcommenting says:
    Posted: 17 Jul 09

    to Azrazyel Thanks for your comment. The thing is I am 52 years old and have seen much worse things than you growing up when schools were first integrated in the early 60s; when they let out tear gas and dogs on fellow students, burned crosses in my mother's yard, and set fire to black neighborhoods; many of the dreams of MLK and MalcomnX have actually come true today. If you had lived in both the south and the tough areas of NYC as I did as a child you would consider the problems of today almost fluff compared to what people went through back then. There is still a lot of racism [and cruelty in the world in general might never be eradicated] but things have become a lot better because of dreamers like me who are always "setting them selves up for disapointment." [Yes I do believe "it is better to trust in God than in men," obviously. But if we hadn't had dreamers like Medgar Evers, and many other leaders over 40 years ago you wouldn't be bapping your heart out on this blog telling older women like me that I am facing the great peril of being disapointed. I think I've lived through far greater "disapointments" than the ones you imagine, my young sweetie, but thanks for your kind and sagely sentiments.

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  36.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 17 Jul 09

    Hello Natalie. You sound upset? Something I said? (gawd I hope not) I guess all my words are coming out the wrong way today. It was a rough day at work though. Working with handicapped kids can get stressful sometimes. I might get myself a glass of wine here shortly....lol Well I hope I didn't chase you away. I apologize if so. Just wish there was another way to communicate without posting personal info here. And I'm sure that wouldn't bode well with the staff on this website. If you get a chance please respond. Have a nice day.

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  37.   Member says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Listening to this (rolling eyes) Must of heard from "bitter black boyfriend". It is nice to know you "rise above the negativity". LOL Azrazyel do you have tatt booty pic because I want to see it. Oh yea peace and blessings

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  38.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    I wish to applaud justcommentin for her well expressed sentiments......so few white women even venture to come into the blog....much less have anything truly positive or uplifting to say. A lot of white women deem it necessary repeat some B.S. they heard from their bitter black boyfriend (Which he MUST be bitter if he can't happily move on with his new woman.....geeesh) about black women or some other stereotypical non-sense. Thanks so much for steering clear of all the hate. Peace and Blessings tatted2death

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  39.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Thanks for the clarification, Azra.....I can appreciate anyone's sense of humor. But I hope you realize certain ones here are going to take everything you say against me as gospel.....so the "LOL" (or even better "j/k") and "Sarcasm" helps. Like I have said before the internet is a petri dish for all sorts of misunderstandings. I guess that is why I responded the way I did...because I, too, am "not like that" and have had to weather certain characters in here just wailing away at my reputation... OVER AND OVER again. Now while I can take the proverbial heat (hence, me still being in the kitchen)and I know this is the internet....everyone has their limits. So I let off a little steam from time to time (everyone does and it does NOT make me catagorically a "hot-head"....lol) in here. Believe me, I am as chill as they come.....but just try and read that/your comment (if you care to) through my eyes and I think you will understand where I was coming from a bit better. Continued Peace and Blessings tatted2death

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  40.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Hey Michael Woot! Friday off!May I ask what are you going to get into?????LOL. I'm so sorry about the computer's terminal condition(lol). I know NOW that Toshiba's not so good. Hey that was back in 2001! I was brand new and didn't know. I said I didn't like to do long post and here I am doing them. Okay then well I'll let you go too then. Have a good one

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  41.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Hello there Natalie. I hope you had a nice day too. I have off tomorrow. Woot! The problem with your first laptop was.....TOSHIBA!!! lol. Yes I am getting a warranty because hard drives suck and don't last very long. As a matter of fact, the one I am using now is failing. Every time I start it it says, "Smart Detection has detected a hard drive failure. Backup immediately. Contact your computer manufacturer if you need to repair or replace the hard drive. Failure is imminent". I checked online, and it seems pretty easy to replace myself (for my brother that is). 'A few screws and a popping out of the hard drive to replace with a new one after putting the screws back in'....should do the trick. Looks like a 10 minute non-big deal. By the way, I am very tired today and I am not talkative...didn't sleep well and had a bad day.........LMAO....I kid you I kid you. I like Best Buy even without the coffee shop....I stay in there for hours anyway lol. I'll let you go so you don't have to read a whole page worth of nonsense. lol Talk to you soon.

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  42.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Hazel That was so touching what you said. I believe mainly because I can relate to living someplace where one race actively separates from another. In my town there is literally a white side and a black side of town. East side(white) and west side (black). I also find interacial dating a fascinating prospect as well. Simply because I don't see it( the wm/bw).I't just interesting that someone halfway across the world has such a similar situation. Nice comments. By the way, I live in the U.S.

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  43.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Hey Michael(Azrazyel) Did You have decent day today? I hope you did. Hey those specs on that last choice sounds really good! I have never owned anuthing but a laptop. I purchased my first one in 2001, it was a Toshiba. That brings me to an important suggestion. Please purchase the EXTENDED WARRANTY. It is well worth it. The toshiba started giving me problems about a month before my factory warrnty was up. Toshiba fixed it but it started having problems again. So by this time I had to use the extended warranty. It was fixed a total of 3 times. My warranty had a clause that would replaced it with something equal in specs. So I ended up with an HP. Then it was stolen from me. I fell in love with HP's. So now I have another HP. My baby just turned 2 on June 30, 2007, lol. My hard drive went out but was replaced for free because I had the extended warranty. It is worth it, the warranty. My hard drive JUST went out after two years, I thought that was pretty good for a laptop. Hp has great customer service because they sent me a repair box twice long after my factory waranty was expired.I didn't need them though. I paid about $800 for the pc. I don't know though, you might not need the warranty if you can take things apart. You may be able to fix your computer yourself. If you ever need parts Tigerdirect is an ok site. No, I wasn't telling you to go to bed(smile). I can though if you want me to. I don't want anymore(I'm not that talkative today,sorry)days, lol. Lol about the Best Buy joke. If they put a coffee shop in there I'd hang out there(lol)(I'm foolish).'Puter(lol)I heard of it before. I suggested Best Buy because it's all know. Circuit City's gone out of business and there's only Wal-Mart.Oh there's an HH gregg but I've never been in there. Anyway I hope to talk to you soon.

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  44.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    justcommenting: ("that cruelty and racism will one day be put to rest, and people will be free to love whoever they want).” You are setting yourself up for a massive disappointment. It's a stain that cannot be removed. Yes I want to have a perfect world too, 'robots that do everything for us, cars that fly in the air, going to live on Mars, a spaceship that travels to other galaxies, vehicles that run on air, .....you get the point.

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  45.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Dear Tatted: Next time I will be sure to put 'SARCASM' next to any word or phrase that may indicate any uprising against my comments. It was a joke, relax. I was a little more upset that I was mentioned in the same sentence as 'booty call', I am not like that. I was when I was younger, those days are over and I will be 29 in a few months. I'm finally ready to settle down with somebody I feel comfortable with. I probably would have said that to anyone.....(I said that to expose any untold sentiments you may have for me.....'SARCASM'. lol Have a good day.

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  46.   justcommenting says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Correction to last sentence of last post: I meant to say: "I still always feel happy when I see a black woman with a white man. I think it is because it makes me have hope (that cruelty and racism will one day be put to rest, and people will be free to love whoever they want)." [Some of my stuffy German white friends will say I made a Freudian slip. Well I do feel happy when I see a black woman with a black man too! I feel happy when I see a black woman with a man of any color. It's about time that the incredible beauty of black women is finally appreciated in this country as it has been for thousands of years in other lands.] Hope I'm not being too corny and PollyAnna but hey I'm just a dumb blond. LOL (that means lots of love)

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  47.   justcommenting says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    In general I very much admire black women. I find many black women to be very real, friendly, usually very confident in a certain way, and not full of it. (I am a white female, not gay or out to stalk black women but just to say I get a kick out of it when I see my black friends (or black women in general) dating white men. I haven't dated a white man since 1982! I tried a few times but it didn't go anywhere - either because of them or me. I was married to an Asian man for seventeen years and have dated mostly younger black men for the past eight years due to circumstances and of course my attraction. I always love their sisters and Moms who have often been even more of an emotional support to me than the men themselves, who were great but who were, after all, simply being men. Contrary to the movies and what some people say, the black women I have met have always been extremely open minded when I dated black men and sometimes even hooked me up (with brothers, cousins,fathers, friends... ) So I just want to say thank you to all of you who have been so open minded considering how badly most white people have treated black people historically. And if all you wonderful black ladies are finding love with white men, (or men of any race) I think it's a beautiful thing. Even though I once lost a good white man to a beautiful black woman (not because they cheated) I still always feel happy when I see a black woman with a black man. I think it is because it makes me have hope (that cruelty and racism will one day be put to rest, and people will be free to love whoever they want.)

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  48.   Hazel says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Hello! I am an eighteen year old student from South Africa. I am currently attending a university in a country that is no stranger to racial tensions. However, South Africa differs from America as the white community forms the minority. We have no shortage of black men. In terms of dating, individuals tend to stick to their own race. It is unlikely to see a white male; black female couple on campus. I consider the prospect of dating outside of ones race is interesting. We are lucky enough to live on a planet bursting with variety. We are lucky enough to live of a planet that has differences to inspire and derive enrichment from. People (in my eyes) who date outside their race are resilient. Constantly facing and combating racial stigmas or social prejudice must be straining on any relationship. I believe that whom one falls in love with is insignificant. It is of greater weight that the individual has fallen in love and is pleased to hold onto it. Hopefully things will lighten up here so that I can have a wider pool to swim in – not that I am unwilling to dive into a larger one at present. Vive la variete! Vive la difference! ( I hope my French is intact-it has been a while)

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  49.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Wow ...I am sorry, Azra.....for one I was not meaning any harm in the way I was expressing my sincere best wishes for whatever is developing between you and bigeyes..(it could be just a really good friendship..those are just as treasured)....not trying to stick my nose in; I was simply pleased for all parties here. And also I obviously misjudged you ......I thought you just might have been a little more compassionate and a little less of a follower. For you to even respond to what L.Queens is saying about me is some real SHYTE. I have consistantly offered you respect and understanding here (or at least trying to...) but you in turn try weak attempts at insults (like I was even ever offering you a chance at any such "booty call"....YOU KNOW BETTER)......NOW I AM STEAMING MAD???!??!!(lol at L.Queens still desperate for someone to be as hateful and bitter as he is....tsk tsk) ...not at being embarassed (still don't understand why I should be....pfft) but at the fact that people in here are actually going back to the same ole cynical bullshit that is the core cause to all breakdown of any sort of reasonable communication. I offer sincere good vibes to the some of the bloggers here and I all I receive in return is more mindless B.S. about some ego rubbing.....GET OVER YOURSELVES!!!! Why is everyone so base with their thought processes here?? And one white man's so-called "rejection" of me, does not make me categorically "too much" for the entire lot of them. But then again, who really gives a hoot about all that when I DO NOT NEED A MAN TO "HANDLE" ME...in that manner.... ...man, I guess I will never learn....."pearls before swine".....WOW!!! but still wishing all.....Peace and Blessings ...I think some of you all REALLY need them now....(more than Xanax even...lol) tatted2death

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  50.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    I found a nice Dell Inspiron laptop with Intel Pentium processor. 3GB DDR2 memory, DVD+CD-RW drive, 15.6" widescreen, 250GB hard drive, built-in webcam and Vista home premium for $500. Also, Studio laptop with Intel Core 2 Duo Processor..... Intel® Core™2 Duo mobile processor T6500; 4GB DDR2 memory; DVD±RW/CD-RW drive; 17" widescreen; 500GB hard drive; Windows Vista Home Premium with SP1. That one is for $750. The best two that interest me so far.

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