Menu

Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

Find your soulmate on LatinoLicious

Join Free

Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

Related Stories

More Opinion Articles

8097 responses to "Why white men love the black woman"

Leave a reply

You must be logged in to post a comment.

  1.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Puter? lol, I haven't heard that one before. I'm actually in the process of checking it out.....

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  2.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Illinois? That blows. I know what you mean about getting it the same day. That's why I don't order stuff online...unless it's through eBay or something I can download. Plus, if it's defective, you can't just swap it out immediately. Okay, try Best Buy then. May not be the lowest price or the latest models, but it's going to be quality. My first 'puter was from Best Buy.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  3.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Thanks for the help bro. Unfortunately, the closest one is in Illinois. And I don't want to order it online because I want to get it the same day....lol

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  4.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 09

    Check the CompUSA website and see if there is one near you. They have the best deals on just about everything electronic.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  5.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    I told you, I am a quick responder. LOL....I am a very attentive person and pay close attention to details. Well that's it, I'm buying you a plane ticket so you can help me choose a computer. LOL......and Best Buy is probably where I will go unless somebody else has the Best Buy....lol Are you telling me to go to bed? How rude! LOL J/K. I love electronics too. I'm very good with my hands. Especially with tools. I take things apart and put them back together for the heck of it. I like to fix things, and sometimes my dad will ask me to put something together for him and I will do it just by looking at the picture on the box it came in, and no instructions. I might go online (wait aren't I already?....lol) to Best Buy and see their prices and maybe a few other places as well. I'm looking for something in the 500-700 dollar range. I don't need anything spectacular. Something preferably with 160-250 GB of hard drive, Windows Vista Home Premium, a webcam, and lightscribe. I'll see what I can find. Hope you have a good evening, check back in if you have a chance. If not, then have a good night and be careful out there.... "You make a living by what you get and make a life by what you give." One of my favorite sayings of all time.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  6.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    Azrazyel Awwwwh you are so sweet. I should have known, anyone who can write poetry so well knows just what to say. Thank you very much Michael. I'm Natalie by the way. I'm going to lastfm and check them out. I love how your being so gentle with me(lol). This is my computer but I meant that is not my computer causing the slow down. I would never ever try to tell a man what to do(lol, notice the sarcasm) but I recommend an HP but It's not even one of your choices. So between the two choices named, I would go with Dell. I wish I could be there when you buy it(lol). I love shopping for electronics anyway. I was helping complete strangers at Best Buy when I bought mine(lol) , I'm foolish). I have never worked there in my life. I like Next Friday(sequel to Friday) too but I like Friday better because of Chris Tucker. He owned it. Well I wish you a goodnight's sleep and don't YOU let the bed bugs bite.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  7.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    Hi bigeyes. Do you have a name I can call you? I feel like I'm insulting you by calling you 'bigeyes'....lol. You can call me Mike or Michael by the way, I'm sure you already know that from my profile. And about time you put your beautiful face behind your words. Yes, this page takes for ever because it has to load the 50,000,000 comments posted. I noticed the pages with fewer comments load instantly. This isn't my computer either...it's my brothers and he is in Florida. Normally I am not on this much. But, I'm finally getting my own computer in 2 weeks. One more paycheck (next Friday....good movie too by the way...lol) I will have enough. I just don't exactly know what kind I want. I'm thinking Dell or Acer (which I am using now). Oh by the way, if you said you wanted to listen to some metal bands? I won't throw anything too harsh your way...lol. Check out a band called 'Ashes You Leave', very beautiful Gothic Doom Metal with clean female and harsh male vocals. Just found them today. Well if I don't speak to you again today, you have a wonderful evening and have a nice day tomorrow too. Talk to you soon....

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  8.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    without sorry guys.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  9.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    Azrazyel I'm so glad to hear that you have a prayer life! I firmly believe in having a prayer life and reading my bible. I don't think I could make it with God as my source. Prayer is definitely the way I cope with things, knowing God has given me everything I need to make it.(smile). I'm not perfect though so sometimes I might get off track but always return to the source. I enjoy typing with you as well(lol) I understood what you meant about having a better way of communicating. This blog is NOT leting me type very fast and the page loads even slower. Having to post over and over under those conditions...well you get the picture. BTW it's not my computer because I increased my memory(RAM). That's for all my fellow pc geeks(lol, I love y'all) I hope you have had a great day and an even better evening. Talk to you soon.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  10.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    Nah, I don't look for booty calls anyway Queens. And if I did, it wouldn't be from her. (Oops, was that out loud)?

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  11.   Member says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    lol bigeyes I couldn't help myself. Tatt is "steaming mad" for being embarrassed on here. Azrazyel you was better off accepting the booty call from Tatt. Then to do what you did. UGH White guys will never understand black women EVER!

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  12.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    Hello Everyone! I hope eveyone has had a good day today! Mr. Laurelton I thought you had put us down, man! LOL

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  13.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    Whoa!

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  14.   Member says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    (Eating popcorn) Tatted is a spoiled child. You can tell she is vindictive woman. I love that about her. She straight giving you the cold shoulder Azrazyel. Black women tend to have a vindictive streak to them when they don't get their way. I still admire you Azrazyek for turning down the "booty call" from Tatt. She need a real black man in her life. She a little to much for some white guys. Plain and simple.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  15.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    Tatted: I wasn't meaning it the way you interpreted it. I was trying to say I feel weird posting in a public place such as this blog. If that is what you meant anyway.....like us trying to hit it off or something. I just thought I would correct you. No harm. (: Have a good one.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  16.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    I just wanted to be one to say that I certainly don't mind you guys continuing your exchange here...like I have said before, it is very refreshing......and very much in the TRUE spirit of this place (it was once known as the "Love Oasis/Lounge....lol). I am wishing you both well on your journey of getting to know one another...it seems as you both are approaching this in the right spirit. I am a private person as well, so I understand the "unease" here but just know that people here are sending you both positive vibes....And I am pretty sure where there is the will there will be a way for you guys to communicate in other ways.... ...As always.... Peace and Blessings tatted2death

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  17.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    You are so sweet bigeyes. Thank you for encouraging me. I really appreciate that. So sweet of you. (big grin). Actually, "My Deepest Sorrow" was my most recent before the others. It has been done for about 4-5 months now. I should have stated that. My bad....lol No I don't feel that way. I truly appreciate your concern though. All of us have times in life when we feel lonely or depressed about something. Poetry is a good way for me to vent. Not only does it help for the current moment, but if I feel sad again sometime, I can just read that and it helps me to cope. Kind of like the Bible, when I need inspiration I turn to it for answers and through prayer. And of course you will hear from me soon. I really enjoy speaking (er, typing..lol) with you. I'm glad you accept my company. I just wish there was a different way instead of posting multiple times in this blog...lol I am off to bed now, gotta work in the morning. I want to wish you a safe day tomorrow, and be careful in whatever you do. And I hope to speak with you soon. Goodnight, sleep tight and don't let the bed bugs bite....I know that was corny. LOL Have a good night and day. Talk to you soon.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  18.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    Stay encouraged Azrazyel. Peace and blessings to you. hear from you soon?

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  19.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 15 Jul 09

    Azrazyel Hello. No fun today just cooking cabbage ,okra, cornbread , baked barbeque chicken and for my mom and grandma. Have you ever eaten soul food before? (smile). Your poems are nice. I agree with them being an outlet for your feelings. Is that what you are feeling right now? Why are you feeling this way? I hope it gets better for you. I think it's wonderful that you have a place for your feelings! So many men don't.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  20.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 09

    Hi bigeyes. I'm doing good. Much more awake today. Slept pretty well last night. Just completed a few brand new poems. One is titled..."My Deepest Sorrow"(about personal struggles), and the other..."Whispers in the Forest(nature)". I'm working on a 3rd now already titled..."From the Shadows We Are Silenced(politics disguised and hidden truth)". And actually a 4th, which has been uncompleted for a while, of which I tend to focus on later called...."Descending Darkness"(about the hatred, sadness, suffering, and evil of mankind). I like to write about anything, but I only write about the moment, or what I am feeling. That way I can get my true emotions and thoughts onto paper. For instance....here are a few lines from..."My Deepest Sorrow". The beginning starts with.....(a few preview lines) "Lost in hate, I try to see, what has brought my iniquity. All my hope I try to flee, what holds me down inside of me". And,... "An evil thought is on my mind, a crooked trail I leave behind. The things I do are all a crime, a piece of mind I have yet to find". Pretty deep emotions there. But writing helps to relieve a lot of that. I hope you had a good day today. Anything fun? I'll talk to you soon....

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  21.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 09

    sorry godiva 61 meant literally. I have got to stop wearing acrylic nails LOL Peace and rest

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  22.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 09

    Azrazyel How's it going? Great I hope! Thank you for turning me on to Lastfm.com. That's a great little site. While I was there I checkedout some the metal ,alternative, and softrock sounds. I'm not a complete stranger to metal. I'm more familiar with it than I thought. I was bobbing my head before I knew it. You know, I hadn't thought that talent had to be refined , practiced and improved upon. It never occurred to me. I just figured people who are talented just wake up everyday and bam their the sh!t. This comes from a place of slight jealousy too though. I have a different mindset now. Well, I wish you a great evening.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  23.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 09

    Hey Godiva61 You are welcomed. Everyone needs encouragement from time.That was no picnic you had to deal with. Yes , thanks for telling me about the U2 tour! I last saw them in 2005 the Vertigo tour. I got the t-shirt AND the key chain! Litterally...like for real(LOL). Man I don't know how I got a ticket wayback then. It was private seller I think.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  24.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 09

    Get the DVD, man!!!.....lol (I did...AND the CD...but then again I am a sucker for a good laugh and good music....delightful). Robot Chicken is sick too.....haven't seen any recent episodes but I love Seth Green's sense of humor so..... anyways.... Peace and Blessings, people tatted2death

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  25.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 09

    I'm more into Robot Chicken. Dethlock comes on past my bedtime. I'm watching RC right now.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  26.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 09

    Hello Good People/Music Luvas... Well, well, well....I see you all have had a busy Monday......LOL. But it's all been positive so I am NOT complaining one bit (more music chat.....GOTTA LUV THAT....lol). Anywho....I thought I typed in here before that I am NOT a premium member (if I was I would have avoided sending that "confusing" flirt....lol....good googa mooga, that got FUBARed real quick...lol).....I just don't see the point in paying for something I don't really use that often....every once in a great while I might search the profiles but it's even rarer still that I want to do more than just "flirt"/acknowledge and move on. Hey, does anyone here watch/listen to Dethklok(Metalocaypse on adultswim)???? I know they are a satire/parody group....but I think that guy, Brandon Small, has some real skills on the guitar and he is a comic genius....the show is hilarious in my humble opinion. Ok enough with the blog misdirection....LOL. Gotta say I am loving the vibe in here......"Don't stop til ya get enough...." (lol.....R.I.P. MJ). Peace and Blessings tatted2death P.S. To Godiva...of course, you know you are more than welcome, sis.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  27.   austere says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 09

    Hello all, I have been reading this blog for a while ; quite fascinating. But Remember...amongst all the critisms and speculations only God alone knows the true story that is why HE alone can judge. We love whomever we love and is attracted to whomever we want to be attracted to. simple Thanks, Austere

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  28.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 09

    To: bigeyes31 and tatted, From the bottom of my heart I would like to thank you both for the word's of encouragement, much needed, and appreciated... We all need to be uplifted from time to time... Yes, bigeyes, I am a believer, and I know that there is no me without HIM!! By the way bigeyes, I am a Rolling Stones, Fleetwood Mac, and U2 kinda girl as well... Did you know U2 is touring this summer into autumn but tickets are almost impossible to come by.... Gotta go for now, TONS of paperwork(YUK). I hope that EVERYONE had a wonderful weekend!! Hello, Ich, and World Citizen!!! love godiva

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  29.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 09

    It's okay, I'm still here. Just cruising around the web for various stuff to kill my boredom. Checking out some new soft rock bands like Wilco, Del Amitri (awesome), Son Volt, Sam Roberts, and Pat Monohan. I am always on the mend to find new bands. Actually, about 80% of my computer time is spent finding new bands I've never heard of. Last.fm is an excellent site to go to. I also go to Encyclopaedia Metallum for new metal bands. I'm also researching new ways to improve my poetic experience and how I can use my GOD given talent in brand new ways. Like certain ways of writing, how to articulate words to keep the reader/listener's attention, when and where to use specific words on how to further my emotions and give the reader/listener a better experience when they read or hear my poetry. Pretty interesting stuff I've gotten into. I love to learn and be able to articulate my talents in various and refreshing ways of ideas. I'm still here. I'll check back in here and there. I hope your day was good. I'll talk to you later......

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  30.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 09

    Azrazyel well no one else is talking either, so that's my que to shut the f..up. lol Well just imagine having had a real connection with someone from Germany! Now that's some sh!@t(lol)but that was when I was a premie. It wasn't our race,cultures, no not even several countries and bodies of water that divided us. It was our faith or his lack thereof. hope you get some rest. I'll let someone else talk to now(smile)and lol

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  31.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 09

    godiva61 You are God's asngel on earth. I don't know what your faith is but I think God chose you to help that woman because He knew you could do it. He will strengthen you to handle your purpose. I have said a prayer for you the woman and her family. My faith will stand in for you if feel like you have none. Peace and rest.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  32.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 09

    65 Cuda I don't know if you are ever coming back here or not but you spoke volumes and I enjoyed your comments.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  33.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 09

    Hi bigeyes. For some reason I always seem to log on when you submit a new post. Kinda weird I suppose. I had a good day, just tired. I know what you mean by being private about certain things for I wouldn't want the world to know, ya know? I'm sorry you got frustrated. Don't we all. I mean most of the people on here that I am compatible with are out of state. Isn't that some sh!t?....lol. A few around here, but I doubt it's worth it to pay. I dunno, maybe I'm wrong. Maybe one of these days I will become premium. We'll see. And yes compatibility IS everything. I mean you have to be physically attracted to them first, but personality and heart is where it's at. It's really a joy talking to you. (I'm not really talkative today, I guess because I didn't sleep very well last night, sorry). Well I'll see ya around. Take care.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  34.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 09

    Azrazyel I hope you had a great day at work today. Your poetry is great. I had the thought about the publishing ideas as well.I had thought maybe you do some song writing, either way you are talented. I didn't want to say too much because I remembered that everyone can read what I write. I didn't know if you wanted everyone to know or not. I'm a private person sometimes I can get unnecessarily secretive so please excuse me. I listen to some of the very same artist you named. I have been to see U2 and Fleetwoodmac in concert. Love them! Tom petty, have the best of collection. I don't really like country but I like his kinda country swing on rock. It would be cool to learn more about metal. I can just see myself headbanging and having a headache afterward because it's my first time.(LOL). I love to laugh and make jokes. Yes, I had gotten frustrated for awhile.Flirts and emails from guys so not of my interest. I don't want to sound like a b..ch or anything but for me compatibility IS everything. You have said such sweet things! Thank you for calling me beautiful. That just made me smile. I don't take it as flirt but a compliment. I believe there is a difference. You are an angel(interpretation from profile). Have a good day

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  35.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 09

    bigeyes: I wished you to be safe, well because I wanted you to be safe...lol. It was just a nice gesture from me to you (smile). Gosh, you have me doing that now...lol. Yes, the writing (I'm guessing your talking about my poetry?...lol) is mine. I have many, many more to share to whomever wants to see. Some people have told me I should try and get some published, but it's a helluva lot of work and a helluva lot of money to do so. Maybe one of these days. I can write about any topic with ease. The thoughts/images I see during writing leads to my words. Straight from the heart. I'd be more than happy to share my metal repertoire with you. And yes I don't just strictly listen to metal. Also Pink Floyd, Don Henley, Tom Petty, The Killers, Bloc Party , U2, Fleetwood Mac, The Cars, Jimmy Eat World, Yellowcard, Blink-182, Sum 41, on and on and on....lol. Black Sabbath and Alice Cooper are old school metal. Like Ozzy, Led Zeppelin, Lynard Skynard, etc. I'm glad you decided to unhide your profile. Maybe you were having some tough times here? Sorry to hear if that is the case. I will do my best and make you stay here and feel comfortable talking to me (smile)<<<<<lol. Oh and by the way, another nice gesture from me to you. I checked your profile and saw your pictures, and I must say you are very beautiful. I'm not trying to flirt with you...lol...(blush), but I truly mean it. I am off to bed now in a few, I have to work in the morning (blah). You have a wonderful night and be careful in whatever you do tomorrow. It's a blessing to talk to you. I hope to hear from you soon. Have a wonderful night. Goodnight.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  36.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 09

    Azrazyel That was very sweet of you to wish me safety. Thank you. I have unhidden my prof. I somehow bungled my main photo so when I post there won't be a photo beside mine. There are photos there though. I hid it becasuse I got tired of being on this site so I decided to take a break. Death Metal huh,you probably think Coldplay is for girls then, lol? I don't know much about Metal. I have heard of some the groups Ich mentioned like godsmack korn and Metalica. I'm more of a Stones and U2 girl. Does Black Sabbath and Alice Cooper classify as metal? I know these are old. You would have to fill me in on the metal scene(smile).I never run into these kinds of black men(the different ones)lol. Yes, you can address me. This is what it is all about, dialogue. Conversation, debate, discussion,learning. This is part of our problem with racial tension. We don't try to understand one another's differences so we never find how much we have in common. That's just WRONG and it is a terrible waste. I thought your profile was great. Helping others and the writing was a nice touch. Were those yours? Nice. About the music again;before I found out what kind of music you liked;I wondered had you ever worn your hair long. Thanks for making me feel confortable about my post. And I hope to hear from you soon. Have a good day.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  37.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 09

    Ok you talking about "Geetars"(lol)......I will totally throw this blog into left field over some music now(my first "love").....LMAO...don't temp me, ICH....lol.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  38.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 09

    Question for you tatted. Are you a premium member? Just curious, tell you why later. Hey Ich! Yeah man, guitars being shredded to pieces. Can't beat that. And double bass and blast beats are always an added bonus. (;

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  39.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 09

    I was going to mention Children of Bodom, but I haven't heard that much from them. I love anything with guitars being shredded to pieces.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  40.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 13 Jul 09

    Me, quiet????.....on this board???....lol. I guess I am just more at peace here seeing as how...well..you all know where I am coming from, I suppose. I love to see people connect in a positive way and give off that "little light". Glad to see you are letting "the Angel" win... HIYA, Ich.....love your music selections!!!....Azra had some good additions as well(In Flames, Cannibal Corpse, m/)......try a little Ammon Amarth and some Children of Bodem and Cradle of Filth. Man, you all have got me wanting to "tuck my thumbs"....lol. Peace and Blessings tatted2death P.S. To Godiva: I am sending you all the strength and love you need, sis....I understand....more than you might realize.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  41.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 12 Jul 09

    Oh, and what's up tatted. You've been quiet recently. Just wondering how life is treating you. Just thought I would say hi. Later.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  42.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 12 Jul 09

    Quick response: LOL Okay see you later and be safe.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  43.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 12 Jul 09

    Hey Azrazyel Just a short reply gotta go pick up grandma from church LOL. I DID hide my profile and I thought it still WAS(LOL) It's okay though just says to me this was meant to happen( I know... a little korny). I'll say more later . Have to check into that though(smile) Have a good one Hey Ich!

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  44.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 12 Jul 09

    That's sweet as hell Ichibod. Check out Killswitch Engage, pretty awesome band you might enjoy. Insomnium, Universum, Misery Index, Dark Tranquility, In Flames, Black Comedy, Sybreed, Be'lakor, Cannibal Corpse, Cattle Decapitation, Draconian, Gorod, Ghost Brigade are just a few of many I like.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  45.   godiva61 says:
    Posted: 12 Jul 09

    To: Tattoo You, We must have some cosmic thing going on here because it seems that we often arrive here, on the same day, within a matter of minutes, very interesting. By the way....and I holwed at my ma in the driving rain, but it's all right now, in fact is a gas... If I may I want to co-sign on what you said about the change of pace and the tone here, and why I have a tendency to PURPOSEDLY avoid certain nonsense. I normally would not say this, but the truth is MY HEART AND SPIRIT IS BROKEN TODAY!!! I was on call again this weekend and on yesterday I got the call to come in to work, my patient was a mother who found her 16 yr old dead from a self inflicted wouund. This is the 3rd suicide in the past 6 mos. Suicide among the very young is growing at a rapid rate. I chose the medical field to make the difference in the lives of other's but last night I felt totally inadeqaute. I'm very disciplined and focused but yesterday I could feel my discipline and focus slowly slip away. How do you look in the eyes of a mother whose child has just intentionally ended his life? She literally collapsed in my arms, causing both of us to end up on the floor. It seemed as if it were a matter of hours that we were on that floor, but it was actually at matter of minutes. Then the moment came when her composure took over and she disclosed the content's of the letter that was left by her child, and it was, as it is almost alway's, "the intentional, hateful, mean spirited word's, of another or other's". Basically she was tired of being bullied, she was fed up with being the intenional target of someone else's anger and resentment in their own lives, and she paid the price by being the target. I see the destruction, and the disregard and non compassion of people toward's their fellow man on a daily basis, so when I visit here I'd rather focus and conversate with people who is like minded, fair, tolerant, good hearted with good intentions. Conversation, free speech should come with with a "moral" obligation to be DECENT!!! If you don't know what to say, say nothing!! If you don't think that you can connect with another, be still and be quiet and allow someone else to try and connect,(Azrazyel and bigeyes31) is a great example.. NONE of us has ALL the answer's and sometimes there are MANY answer's.... There is enough room for us all to be here.... The vulgarity, and the ill will intentions should not take priority and set the tone, when we allow it, and constantly indulge in the negative mentality, we let them win and it make us lose site of what's really important here, and the genuine concept for this site, and the topics of these blogs... I have been TEMPTED as well, but my personal COMMITTMENT to being fair, and peaceful takes precedence over the nonsense, and I do UNDESRTAND why some people respond to other's, so know that I'm not judging people who have tackled certain ignorance, as I said before, I have been TEMPTED many, many times.... There are some good hearted and genuine people here, and I for one am very grateful that your presence is here. Love over evil wil alway's win.. Tatted just remember the word's of Mick.. Please allow me to introduce myself I'm a man of wealth and taste I've been around for a long, long year Stole many a mans soul and faith Please to meet you, hope you guessed my NAME? Say a prayer for me today, I need it. I'm on my way to follow up with a broken hearted Mother, and I just don't have it in me today. love godiva

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  46.   Ichibod says:
    Posted: 12 Jul 09

    Avenged Sevenfold, Dragonforce, A Plea For Purging. Metallica, My Chemical Romance, Korn, Godsmack, Sevendust... oh yes, I love to rock! Hey look! It's my buddy Tats. What's up, girl?

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  47.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 12 Jul 09

    This is a nice change of pace...(gotta love it). I am soooo glad that you have found someone to have a positive exchange with here (pleasantly surprised, I am...lol). The tone in hear had gotten a bit too defensive (yes, I except my role in it WHOLEHEARTEDLY) and I almost forgot what REALLY matters. And just for the record, Black men are NOT the only ones into the metal scene (I have been a metalhead since I was 10.....but anyways...). Yes....I really am glad to see some more newcomers surface and I always have much love for the "oldies but goodies" (Ash, smooches, etc.) and even those that just pop in to give us the "golden" (kentucky joe, world citizen, etc.) PEACE TO ALL. tatted2death

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  48.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 12 Jul 09

    Oh nevermind about the profile. I thought you had hidden it before? lol....sorry. Just checked.

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  49.   Azrazyel says:
    Posted: 12 Jul 09

    bigeyes31: Well I'M glad I can address YOU! (: Not many people here want to talk about things on a more serious note, well it seems so anyway. I am willing to learn from anyone. But you are right in talking to the right people. Some may have views that would lead me astray, and of course (me not knowing all about your culture) I wouldn't know anyway. Except for some common sense reasoning. The hip-hop culture is a good point. I'm sure many white people think Black people are all into gangsta rap/hip-hop etc. etc. I personally listen to Death Metal. I am a headbanger....lol. I used to listen to rap in high school, but grew out of it. Everyone has their preferences for music, and that's the joy....something for everyone. I have noticed since being in the metal scene (about 10 years now) more Black men are popping up in the metal scene. Some may think..."Black guys listen to metal?" lol. I think it's cool though. I would like to see more of it. I'm glad you accept my company here. I speak my mind with complete and utter honesty upon my foundations of belief. And Black people should NEVER give up, because there are many people (such as me) who would stick up for a Black person if I ever saw injustice of any sort. I cannot stand the sight of whites who disregard Blacks. They are a disgrace to not just my own race, but for everyone as a whole. It is your option if you see me as 'real'. I cannot persuade your thinking, but I know I am honest and upfront. I am not telling you things you want to hear. I am real and speak from the heart. I'm not saying you have to completely open up to me, just letting you know you can take solace in what I say and truly believe in. And I do not mind how long your posts are. No need to apologize. Well I am off to bed now, and I hope to hear from you soon. P.S. Why do you have your profile hidden for? And can you put a face behind your words? I was just curious for reasoning. Don't feel pressured in anyway to do so. That's all it is....curiosity. Have a good one and speak to you again soon. (:

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment
  50.   bigeyes31 says:
    Posted: 12 Jul 09

    Azrazye Hi again. I'm glad you're ok with me constantly addressing you,LOL. I am so proud of the fact that you are interested in learning the culture because that is THE place to begin. I hope you are not just talking because I have tears in my eyes right now(lol). That is absolutely great. I just have one caution about that though, be careful about who your sources are. I have withheld a little about my contact with white guys. I met this guy (yes in my little town) he was from even an smaller neighboring town. Judging from some of the things he assumed about me seemed to all stem from the hip-hop culture and thinking. I think maybe all his encounters with blacks may have behaved in that manner. I don't think he quite knew how to take me. There we were riding in the car and COLDPLAY is in disc-player. I have been listening to rock music since I was seven years old, it's natural for me. He literally turn in the seat and stared at me. I guess by us being in the south and my being black, I wasn't supposed to like rock music(LOL) Hip-hop is a subculture and not neccessarily black culture. I think most whites may perceive that incorrectly. You may not, but you seem to be a different subject completely(smile).I have noticed that when non black people want to learn our culture they chose the worst people to learn from. I think a guy like Ichibod would be a good representation of black man to learn from. Hello Ichibod.I've been watching you!LOL You seem like a cool dude! Yes it does feel great to have black president and I wish we had the exact opportunities as well Az. I think blacks pretty much have given up on that happening but we keep fighting,never giving up completely. I enjoy talking with you too! I'm interested in learning too,always have been! sorry for the long post but I had to tell that story Have a good day

    Like or Dislike: or 0 (0)
    Reply to this comment

Opinion

Find your soulmate on LatinoLicious

Join Free

Coaching Testimonial

"The Coaching Service served as an incredible perk and has really enhanced my online dating experience"

Submitted by: Karen, USA, 34

My Dating Coach really took the time to go through my profile thoroughly. First she viewed my pictures and gave me great feedback.

She read through the written portion of my profile, line by line, and gave direct feedback on how to add my personality to it.

My amazing consultant, even asked how my contacts where going and offered a few suggestions to increase my interactions with new men.

I took her advice and made the suggested adjustments.

I have received more contact from men, more views, and have started communicating with more people which was the whole point of joining the site in the first place.

The Coaching Service served as an incredible perk and has really enhanced my online dating experience. Thanks!

Find out more

Most Popular

Your Comments