Why white men love the black woman
Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?
It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.
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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.
However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.
So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?
Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.
Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.
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tatted2death says:Posted: 09 Jun 09.....oh yes!!!....Last but NOT least I want to thank Becky for sharing her story. INDEED, we can NEVER let miserable people steal our joy....EVEN IF THEY HAPPEN TO CLAIM TO BE THE SAME "RACE" AS US. You are young in years, Becky but your wisdom has you waaaay ahead of the game.....Keep on keeping on. Peace.
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tatted2death says:Posted: 09 Jun 09
Welcome, CEG.....I agree with you completely. People's genuine opinions (positive or negative) are good to know. But once it has been expressed in the same venomous manner about 100 thousand times the negativity does wear a bit thin. Despite some imps wanting to take things "so personal" (sensitive, aren't we???....LOL), my comments are toward anyone that has such an abundance of time to sit on here and twist every comment to suit their agenda. The times I have actually agreed with this one particular imp have been ignored so I choose to "talk around" that one.....something I choose to do with anyone that refuses to lift the veil of "ignorance"....I mean, seriously......who here saw/read that I gave any guy my email addy (beside Ashley....and that was TOTALLY different)??? If this imp were't so offensive he might actually be funny....LOL. People living inside their own sick, sad little worlds seriously need to be checked. And while I have no major issue with anyone's "opinions", I DO have issue with those with "missions" to "spread the sickness"......FOR PROFIT (i.e. bookdeals, tv appearances, etc......DID ANYONE ELSE CATCH THAT SHYT???????I know it was on another blog topic BUT it should be obvious what our imp is trying to do. Sensationalism sells!!!!)....and using bogus statistics to "support" their madness. But again you are right, CEG....the fact that you found so many site dedicated to this topic shows that people are interested. And as with everything else you are likely to get closer to the heart of the matter when online due to the anonymity factor. Yes, there are still racists out there that find the need to spew the hatred. Some just state their opinions and push on. I have stated time and time again why I am here and it does no include pervasive, inflammatory name-calling or trying to leave anyone feeling less about themselves. If anything I am preaching self-love......GET SOME AND GET A LIFE!!!...itcould make a world of difference. ...I also want to thank BLUESCENE for the lovely, on-point sentiments....a breath of fresh air. HAYYYYY YAAAAAA!!!! BEAUTY......glad to hear things have been moving along for you...but hey did you notice???....Mr. Queens didn't have anything to say to you (yet....still "loosening the tie" maybe...LMAO)......continues to confirm my theory. I think YOU know what I am talking about. Peace and Blessings to ALL tatted2death P.S. (not that I really feel the need to address this, but just an interesting sidenote).....just for the record I have experienced MORE hatred and "weirdness" in dealing with black and Latino "in-laws". But do I let that stop me from dating WHOMEVER I choose....ummmm....NO!!! Man, it would be wonderful if more people thought for themselves instead of "buying-in" to some recycled BS......*smilez*..I'll expect nothing but more "cuck-coo clock" reasoning in response to this, of course....(always with the same "tattoo on your forehead" nonsense.......HILARIOUS)
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CEG says:Posted: 08 Jun 09Just wanted to say hello to everyone involved in this discussion and I appreciate everyone's honesty, negative or positive. I actually searched this topic several days ago after I was a engaged in the same conversation at a social gathering. Since I was amongst friends and individuals who share similar open minded views, there weren't many varied opinions. So, when I got home, I googled it! To my surprise, countless sites, forums and blogs appeared. After surfing and sifting through random one's, this one caught my attention because it seems to be the longest running! It is refreshing to see people open up and share their TRUE views. I'm not really here to philosophize or share my opinions on this subject because just about everything that could be said has been said (just a new member to this site seeking true friendship...check out my profile...smile!) What I will add is this, I hope this continues and I hope that more people will catch on to the change that is taking place in this country and embrace it. If you are not apart of that change or just choose not to accept it, well, sooner or later you're gonna have to.
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Becky says:Posted: 08 Jun 09
Hi everyone My name's Rebecca, i'm an 18 year old girl(Turning 19 soon). I live in a country called Namibia, which is situated in South West,Africa. I came across this blog and loved some of the comments made, so i decided to share my experience on this subject... i'm currently in my 2nd year of Varsity, studying IT(information technology). When I was in high school, i attended an almost all white school. My first day, was one of the worst. It was a (Boer)White Afrikaans school. They put me in an all white class, I was the only (black)person, I didnt have a problem with it but apparently 99.8% of my class didnt want me there, they didnt speak to me, they called me names etc..There were two classmates however who tried to make me feel more welcome. As the years went on, i changed classes, but the constant teasing and taunting didnt change. I have been spat on, called a (Kafar)which means (nigga)in afrikaans. It hurt i assure you, but i showed those miserable people that they cant bring me down. I felt sorry for them, how can they hold such hatred and resentment towards someone they dont even know and all because of their skin colour. And after all I have experienced, I dont hold a grudge against them, cause that would make me exactly like them. And yes I an attracted to (white)guys. my freinds try to discourage me but their plee's dont fase me. Cause at the end of the day, its about my happiness, not theirs and if that means being with someone out of my race, SO BE IT!!!!!
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bluescene says:Posted: 08 Jun 09
Soon, when we are all ... beige...we will laugh at how much quality time we wasted with negativity. There is so much good in all of us and we all just want to be loved. We all get hurt and that is probably why we are seemingly so angry.When I find myself feeling angry, jealous...etc, I ask myself what is hurting and that sets me free.We are all good and deserve love.
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bluescene says:Posted: 08 Jun 09
You know, if we can find someone in this place with whom we connect we should be celebrating and dancing! Who cares what tint in on our flesh, what accents we use with our tongues, how we look, speak, walk, crawl. If you are fortunate enough FORTUNATE to find a real connection, go with that and be grateful that you have found a soul mate my friends. That what it's all about! I wish that for all of you! If you wait for that you will be happy for all others who have waited for that soul as well. Go with that. ;)
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Member says:Posted: 07 Jun 09
Dear Gene You said this "First of all Arnold Chao Mis quoted the Study which I am sure that you are aware of! That article that you posted is from a Writer Just as yourself! The actual case study says nothing of the sort! “African American women bear the brunt of discrimination from Caucasian men.” In any case study people interpret the study the way they want too. Are you saying black women are not discriminated against when it comes to dating? You also said this "Notice the ‘faced high levels of rejection among MEN” Comment! Just like in all other cases with you Queens you take what you want from it! You find some BS article on the web and you try back up your whack A$$ theory’s as to why you are right and speak the truth! You a sad case bro!" So basically I am taking what I want from it. Exactly how, that men, somehow, do not reject black women for a serious relationship. If that wasn't the case more of them would be married. Black men currently marry black women more than any other race of men. Now the case study is "wack". What else you said "As I stated before in my statistics post a few months back there have not been any real nationally covered studies done since the late 80’s and early 90’s! There have been some small stuff here and there in Small articles but nothing Covering the entire populous! Trying to use stats from over a decade ago are not going to help you! Find a new avenue of proving your point!" Interesting you would say this. Perhaps you need their Faculty pages. Here is the methodology of the study. "Cynthia Feliciano and Belinda Robnett collected data from Yahoo personals between September 2004 and May 2005, randomly selecting profiles of people ages 18-50 in the Los Angeles, New York, Chicago and Atlanta metropolitan regions. While white men were more open to dating outside their race than white women, both had specific racial preferences. White men preferred Asian and Latino dating partners to African Americans; white women were more likely to exclude Asian men." Demographic changes brought about by the recent influx of immigrants from Asia and Latin America have the potential to alter race relations in the United States. But if a study by UC Irvine sociologists is any indication, the cross-cultural revolution is not going to be launched on the internet dating scene, where people often follow racial stereotypes when looking for love. Nothing about this is a decade ago. This is the most objective study to date in my opinion. Instead of attacking me, how about you back up why THIS STUDY IS WRONG. Your going to say you see you random friends in relationships with black women in your little town right. Sorry anecdotal stories do not count. Good day
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geneandthem says:Posted: 07 Jun 09
First of all Arnold Chao Mis quoted the Study which I am sure that you are aware of! That article that you posted is from a Writer Just as yourself! The actual case study says nothing of the sort! "African American women bear the brunt of discrimination from Caucasian men." This is not stated in the Study! Only Arnold Chao said that, and he my friend was not involved in the study! This is the actual Quote!!!!! "In comparison, the image of the strong African American woman is at odds with idealized notions of submissive and frail women. This may explain why African American women faced high levels of rejection among men, researchers say." Notice the 'faced high levels of rejection among MEN" Comment! Just like in all other cases with you Queens you take what you want from it! You find some BS article on the web and you try back up your whack A$$ theory's as to why you are right and speak the truth! You a sad case bro! They need to do a case study on you! But if they did I would advise against Arnold Chao Writing the article about that case study! Because like you he would only write about what he takes from the study and not what is actual stated!!! The funny thing about all this is there are no National Studies done by any nationally Recognized Statistic entities! Just like this article was done off of one Dating Site and not off of all! And not from all of the population! There for IT really has no merit or relation to the Entire world or Population! Only to Yahoo personals users! Your so funny and ridiculous! Dang I was laughing after I read the real case study and compared it to his article! I suggest that from now on before you try to gain followers to your little and I mean Little cult, Study up on the data a little better and use a better example! As I stated before in my statistics post a few months back there have not been any real nationally covered studies done since the late 80's and early 90's! There have been some small stuff here and there in Small articles but nothing Covering the entire populous! Trying to use stats from over a decade ago are not going to help you! Find a new avenue of proving your point!
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BeautyBeyondWords says:Posted: 07 Jun 09
By the way.... Shut up Queens..... You are still not making any sense with your comments and logic. I always call my son... "my black baby" When will my black baby grow up- you? I haven't been on this blog in, I don't how long... And you are still in here trippin. That is one problem with black men.. They are still doing the same thing, they did 10 or more years ago! That should stir you up a little! lol... Do something different. Speak a little wiser. Mature. Oh... You are a black man.... Ha!Ha! Don't get it twisted- I do love my black men. This comment is for you Queens and those like you! Now, it don't take away my love for you. We established a love/distasteful relationship before I left. lol.. Let me go... I'l be here all night with your crazy self-hatred, couldn't get a black girl-but wanted one self. lol... Yes, I am messing with your coffee tonight! Good night everyone.
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BeautyBeyondWords says:Posted: 07 Jun 09
Where are the white men? I love ya'll in here, but there is never enough white men commenting. And Lord knows.... We don't want to hear what Queens is saying...lol.... Yes, I've sold out.... You want a copy, too? lol... I don't discriminate (that word doesn't look spelled right) Is that right? lol... Well, I don't discriminate on any man that treats me right. Chinese, white.. black... Who cares. I meet good men, too. But, they are good for someone else. We usually end up being best friends, because I am not feeling them like that. Pluzzzz... I love me a big ole' bald-head man. That man from "Let's make a deal" - He does something to me.lol.... Well, I just wanted to say Hi to you guys and let you know that I miss you and haven't forgot about you crazy people.... The search continues...... Jarrita Hotsauce is still holding it down! Keep it rocking!
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BeautyBeyondWords says:Posted: 07 Jun 09
Hey everyone.... Boy, I haven't been here in awhile. I've been sooooo busy. Hey Hotsauce (tatted)! Legal, Ashley (cupid), Rocker! It's been a long time and I hope everyone is doing just fine!Do you still remember me? lol.... I am still loving me a white man.... lol.... Yes, I said it Queens! I see you are still bothering the blog. lol... Much love to you! Well, I am still working on my gospel album. I've had some problems. I am working and still attending school. But, I haven't found the love of my life, yet. I've been dating some good brothas, but no spark. I meet men at the gym like crazy.... Mostly white and hispanic,but nothing solid. Probably, because of my stand for God. lol..... You got to buy my pie to get it. Anything else is stealing! lol.... Meaning - why buy it, when you can get it free. I am no prostitute - so don't take the comment wrong.
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Member says:Posted: 06 Jun 09
Dear E dub and Legion I am glad we could have a civilized conversation without the emotional outbursts by "some". I read an interesting article on yahoo. A woman did a case study on who white men date on yahoo. Basically online dating case study. If this does not cement what white men think. Then there is no use arguing the point. http://mrlaureltonqueens.blogspot.com/ Of course I am promoting this on my blog. Here are some excerpts for those that hate me. If you click the link in the title it will bring you do this Article written by Arnold Chao. I found this very interesting. Here are some excerpts from the article. "A recent study on racial preferences of online daters provides some interesting findings. Based on profile-searching criteria set by singles using Yahoo! Personals, the UCI case study reveals that gender plays an important role in interracial preferences: “Asian American men are the least preferred mate for Caucasian women” Asian American men are the least preferred mate for Caucasian women, and African American women bear the brunt of discrimination from Caucasian men. UCI researchers say that "the stereotypical images of masculinity and femininity shape dating choices" and are a contributing factor." "Cynthia Feliciano and Belinda Robnett collected data from Yahoo personals between September 2004 and May 2005, randomly selecting profiles of people ages 18-50 in the Los Angeles, New York, Chicago and Atlanta metropolitan regions. While white men were more open to dating outside their race than white women, both had specific racial preferences. White men preferred Asian and Latino dating partners to African Americans; white women were more likely to exclude Asian men." I will say this white men are "open" to dating outside their race MORE THAN white women. This whole idea white women date black men is basically not true. Black women make accusations that black men are chasing white women. All false.
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_Legion_ says:Posted: 06 Jun 09I do somewhat agree queens. My relationships with white girls have been bitter in the recent past. Now I know it's not all white girls, just the ones I've unfortunately gotten to know. I would love Asian or Latino, but there is not enough here in Akron, OH. I guess I'm seeking black maybe hoping for a change in experience. Now not to disregard black women as 3rd rate, I am just confused and trying to find solace somewhere else.
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e-dub says:Posted: 06 Jun 09
Dear Mr. Queens; Your statistics are correct but you are using them in a misleading way. As long as white population is the largest in the USA then of course white population is the least likely to date outside their race. The white population is 76% of the USA if dating were just random chance than 76% of all white people would date inside the white race and by extension 76% of all black people were be dating white people. However, relationships are not random chance and this is gross simplification. You present interesting arguments; you use a real statistic to justify a fallacious conclusion. I expect better.
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Member says:Posted: 06 Jun 09
Dear Kingpin What comment you left for me 6/3? Oh why do I say white men pick black women last? The statistics show white men are the last to date outside their race just like black women. Research it!
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Daydreamer says:Posted: 06 Jun 09
I WAS SURFING THE WEB AN I STUBBLED ACROSS THIS WEB SITE, IM GLAD I DID ,EVENTHOUGH IM A HAPPILY MARRIED BLACK FEMALE MARRIED TO A BLACK MAN.SOMETIMES WHEN I LOOK BACK ON MY PAST I WISH I WOULD HAVE DATED OUTSIDE MY RACE JUST TO EXPLORE THE DIFFERENT CULTURES. I THINK I HAD ALOT TO GIVE AND SHOW WHITE MEN.(GOOD THINGS)BLACK WOMEN ARE SO LOVING AND VERY PLEASING TO THEIR MEN.REGARDLESS OF WHAT THEIR PREFERNCES ARE.WE ARE JUST THAT WAY.I FEEL EVEN THOUGH WHITE WOMEN ARE IDOLIZE IN THE PUBLIC EYE BLACK WOMEN WILL ALWAYS BE HIGH ON THE TOTUM POLE, EVERY MANS DREAM .BUT SOME MEN JUST DONT KNOW IT YET.
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wyattearp5 says:Posted: 05 Jun 09
I just love black women...they are ALL sexy...love it
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kingpin78 says:Posted: 05 Jun 09
Mr Queens: you sure say some stupid shyt. Just because a black woman goes with a white man, or gives her email to him, it doesnt mean she is "desperate". Stop being so racist please. And you say..." I wonder how much anger and disdain you must have to date outside of the race."....Excuse me sir, but you are one very confused individual. Just because someone dates outside their race, it doesnt mean they have anger and disdain. Are you trying to say, just because my wife is black i have anger and hate towards my own race, and vise versa?...I am so very sick n tired of racist people like you. You make me sick! And why do you say..." They never question their partner’s “family members” hidden racism towards them.".....who is they?. Who are you talking about? There is not one bit of racism in mine or my wife's family. And you never responded to my comment left to you on 6/3
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Member says:Posted: 05 Jun 09
Here we go. I hate when people "talk around" people. I wonder how much anger and disdain you must have to date outside of the race. Ultimately that is the real question. You can always point your finger at people that have a "difference" of an opinion when it comes to interracial dating. Yet, they can never explain why they hate themselves. They never have anything bad to say about the race they are so infatuated with. They never question their partner's "family members" hidden racism towards them. It is always easier to point the finger at people that are vocal about their beliefs. It is never positive when you attack other people for their beliefs and then turn around and say "they want a positive conversation". They engage in the same behavior they accuse other people of. Maybe they should "tattoo' that on their forehead. Then they might get the message. Look my new post on my blog "The Last King of Blog Scotland". It will answer all the dusty ashy sellout black girls that are so desperate that they will give their email address to a redneck in Kentucky. Good day to everyone
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godiva61 says:Posted: 04 Jun 09To: tatted2death, As always, it's a pleasure to hear from you, you always brighten up and inspire here, and we need more positive thought's to circulate here.. I know it's unrealistic to think that the negative mind's would just stay away, but unfortunately it doesn't work that way, it would be nice, but oh well, life will go on, in spite of the nonsense. I must admit, that I am curious as to what events that took place in such lives to cause so much contempt, bitterness, anger, and distortion, how very, very, sad to know someone has lived such a life, and what's even more disheartening is how he relives his pain, day in and day out, by the word's that he speaks, the name calling, the lies, and the hypocrisy, still the victim. Someone did a number on him, and he has to dump it somewhere, but why here? What a heavy load to carry around on a daily basis, the load of living and dwelling in the pain of yesterday.... At any rate, it's a constant reminder to me that I have had a very BLESSED life, and for that I am very grateful, and I am grateful for the good people of this world such as yourself, and the other good people here.. What can I say, sometimes I like to play matchmaker(KentuckyJoe). I just want my sister to have that special love in her life(lol). Saw an opening, and ran with it.. I had to take a shot(smile)..and he did pay you a nice compliment.. Ashley is good people, he's also honest and a gentlemen.... WE LOVE YOU ASHLEY!!! love godiva61
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tatted2death says:Posted: 04 Jun 09
Ahhhhh...yes......it's good to see Ashley back in the place and doing the job again....(and doing it WELL to boot....lol). He is the perfect answer and example of a guy that WILL defend and protect his woman (in REAL LIFE and on the "net"...LOL). No one should ever get it twisted.....he is passionate and has that right dose of a REAL SENSE OF HUMOR......love it. Yeah, I am holding him up....SO THE F*%K WHAT?!?!?! Positive people tend to do that with each other and if any negative internet imp that might have a problem with that....OH WELL. My issue with any and all the imps that make their appearances here is that they claim this or that and then turn right around and fill up space with BS. I mean, if you are what you say you are, state it once and push on. And with this one particular imp, he states that he "cares" about black women and then proceeds to put them all in one neat and tidy stereotypical phucked up hand bag at the same time berating any "other" woman he can't shove into that bag (yes, you can take that the other way as well....I AM A BIG GIRL....LOL)......what a "man"!!!! Anywho...on to more positive things.....Yes, GODIVA61.....it would be nice if Kentucky Joe and I were to get better acquainted.....BUT that is not my sole agenda here. Joe responded positively (btw, THANK YOU IMMENSELY FOR THAT K-JOE)......JOB DONE. I really just enjoy honing my writing skills and connecting with other positive, like-minded people (like yourself, GODIVA) and this blog provides an excellent opportunity for both...makes me the happiest camper (even with the random clueless imp....LOL)...... ...as always.... Peace and Blessings tatted2death
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geneandthem says:Posted: 04 Jun 09
Van Damme???? Lionheart?? HAHAHA your funny! For once you actually said some funny shhhh! You talk about Royce Gracie ?? I know him, trained with him, and his brother Royler Gracie, and his half brother Relson in Hawaii. And many other Gracie's for that! Ate dinner with them, been to family functions with them! So why should I tell you this, why should you or anybody believe me? Your a idiot. And you think Kimbo is the only real street fighter you are seriously a idiot! You seen kimbo? HAHAHA I trained with him. He going on the new season of TURF and will be going up against one of my homeboys. Oh you need to know his name before it is even released? Scott Junk is his name! You act like by me giving you all of my info makes me credible with you. Nah it doesn't you will still sit and judge just like you do all people! And if you were really in the fight scene you might know me! Since you are only a Internet made or reality show made fan you only know the basics. I could sit here all day and give you my credentials and what would that accomplish with you? Nothing you are a hard headed racist, it is in your blood. Your mind cant change. Your stuck in your lil F#$KED up world for life! Anyway you are boring me now. The fact that you can sit up here and assume as to who Ii am or who I know is just to funny. Just stay in the Internet world, thats where you belong. Good day to you Mr. Racist from Queens!
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reservationguy says:Posted: 04 Jun 09
I know interracial dating can be controversial. I know there was more racial tension and resentment against it in the past. For example, the social stigmatization was worse in the 1950s for a black male and white female when compared to the 1970s. But the 70s and 80s were less tolerant when compared to 2009. I want to focus on the young generation. It seems like the current generation of teenagers and young college students is extremely tolerant of interracial dating. I see black/white couples on campus or at the gym, and the young crowd seems completely nonchalant (on the surface). But I am a minority too - Native American. I know what is going on "behind the scenes." These days, there will most likely not be a KKK lynching of a black football player with a blonde sorority girlfriend. That type of racism has faded (though it can still exist). I took race & ethnicity in college. There is still institutional racism in the media and society, which is more subtle. The media and white society promote the blonde, white female as the highest standard of white beauty. During the adolescent years, girls form their own cliches based on perception of beauty. The darker minority females are often left out, and the "elite" are blonde females who look like bikinis models. This type of "subtle" white racism still exists (in my opinion). And the unfortunate reality is that some minorities (not just African Americans) have submitted to that mindset. At Gold's Gym, I overheard an African American bodybuilder tell a friend that he "doesn't like black women." He clearly has an obsession with white, blonde college females who look like bikinis models or sorority girls. He hits on them nearly everyday. The obsession is extreme. Some of them respond, and some don't. He's been with a lot and wants many more. I like white women too, but usually I like brunetttes. It must be because I am Native American - the long dark hair is my preference if the woman is white (e.g. Liv Tyler, Anne Hathaway, Rebekah Wainwright from Tudors, etc). I am not 100% against blondes, but it generally seems like they are spoiled with attention because of the racist white media. However, there are exceptions. But the racism on white beauty standards is very real, and darker minority women get left out. As for interracial dating, the highest frequency occurs with Native Americans (both sexes). It is extremely rare to find a Native American who truly is 100% full blooded. Even the Navajos are usually part Spanish (though in small percentages). The east coast tribes have already integrated. FYI - most Latinos are part Native American, part European, and part West African. Most people don't know about the latter.
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Member says:Posted: 03 Jun 09
Dear "Lionheart" You are funny even when you don't mean to be. You are either a "crazy white boy" or "you had to many head injuries trying to get into MMA. For the record I am glad one of your guys will debut. Since you did not name of any of them. I can't take what you say as fact. You talk about I am an out of shape "blogger". Yea I am out of shape. I am making an effort to go to the gym lol. You say you are "scrapper". What the hell is a 'scrapper". I see kids scrap, I rarely see grown men fight anymore. I see a scuffle than I hear gun shots. Don't come on here like you are "Lionheart" fighting in the slums for some money. You god damn jerk you! You said you were a "street fighter". The only street fighter I ever saw as Kimbo Slice when I used to live in Florida. If you are not one of the guys he fought back then. I can't really respect you. What is your name, you legendary street fighter you? I will talk about dusty ashy black girl and you won't do nothing about it! Then you said you got shot and stabbed. I never got shot or stabbed. That is the difference between me and you. I don't even want to know why a white boy gets shot. That is strange to me. Did you shoot yourself by accident? Where do you live MMA retired fighter. Your woman needs a REAL MAN not one that is trying to relive his glory days in MMA. You don't count if you fought before Royce Gracie, Ken Shamrock. You clown, stop making up stories about being a trainer and nobody even knows who you are. Who wants to be trained by a loser. Stop playing games on here. You quit MMA due to "injuries". Yea ok. You sit on the couch and watch Ultimate Fighter. By the way I was watching "Blood Sport" with Jean Claude Van Damme". Another white boy hyping himself up again. Man stop watching Jean Claude Van Damme movies. You down syndrome white boy!
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geneandthem says:Posted: 03 Jun 09
Well Just so you know I do not compete! To many Injuries! I am a trainer. I have several Fighters pro and AM. My star Fighter is about to make his debut! And if you didn't only take what you want from what people say you would notice that I said "Boxing" as well! And believe me I ain't no Muscle head! You think I work out everyday! I'm not a Body builder! I am a scrapper there is a difference! Just like I have beat A$$ I have had my share of the losing end! But then again you can only know what I tell you! Out side of that you can preconceive what ever you want about me! I know who I am and what I'm capable of! I don't underestimate no man! I go into any battle with the thought of knowing i could lose! But see you with all the jobs you work, and then your life with your girl and all the time you spend on your weak pathetic blogging I know you couldn't hang with a finely tuned scrapping machine! And I was a street fighter before I ever started training! And you know what I promise you that in the streets you would need a guy or a Knife against me! That isn't even an opinion that is a fact! I would love for a out of shape Web-blogger like you try and front me! That would be a very fun day! And what you been in jail before? So? So Have I??? Whats the point? I ain't trying to go back either! What did that just prove? You are so Cake everybody here sees it! You are weak! Pathetic! The fact that you talk about everybody's girl as if you know them! That shhh just kills me. You assume, and rant off of BS and expect to look credible! Your a joke! You just keep living in your lil blog world ok! One day when your a$$ is alone and all F#$KED up wondering what happened to your lil weak life. Just think back to your blogging days and how all the wonderful people that you tried to school are deep into there wonderful happy lives while your a$$ is sitting up still Blogging BS talking about people that you don't even know! You cant be talked to! Your mind is set! Sad sight! I post up if when come to scrap in a area near you! Then maybe you can see some real bout it cats not some keyboard warriors like yourself! Good day Racist black boy
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geneandthem says:Posted: 03 Jun 09
Hey Dumb F#$K My friends were black! They were ahead of me! The White guys passed my friends on there way out! The white guys were talking shhh about my friends that they had just passed! I would never have racist friends you Idiot! Black or White! And hey Racist Black Boy! Thats what I am going to call you every time you call me White boy anything! Just wanted to clear that up for you! I'm still reading the Diarrhea that you spewed on the page! PS I been shot! And Stabbed? What was your point?
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_Legion_ says:Posted: 03 Jun 09
Comment by freeya on 28 May 2009: I know this is going to come as a surprise to everyone, but I’ve never dated a white man in my life….ever. I grew up in the south during the 70s and my father is from Mississippi. I remember him coming home angry and slightly tipsy one day after an unfair and bad business deal with what he called racist white bastards and saying at the dinner table to me and my sister: ” If you ever, EVER bring a cracka in my house, I’ll disown you; hear me?” Perhpas that’s what did it. Plus, white guys always seemed so afraid of me and my friends. They wouldn’t say a word. It was as if we didn’t exist. So it seemed flirting would be awkward. To even think of it just seemed absurd and off limits. We were always told that if a white man was interested in us, it was simply and only for sex, period; that they thought of us only as whores and prostitutes; and that they still had fantasies of “plantation f-ing”. Now that I’m older, and painfully aware of the plight of black women when it comes to marriage or just healthy companionship, I’ve begun to think about how it would be to date outside of my race. My friends and I have plenty of jokes about it. We always say that if we dated a white man, we’d have to only go to multicultural places where no one would seem to care; that we couldn’t take him to the hood or else we’d get our “ghetto license” revoked. Truth is, I have no idea about white men, but I am somewhat curious. I’ve been told by black women who have been brave enough to venture to date a white man, that they are very attentive and caring….but of course I know that depends on the individual. Jerks come in all colors. Same boat here freeya. Never dated a black woman, but I have become interested only the past few years. I guess that's why I'm here, seeking advice from other white men and their experiences. I have no real particular reason why, I mean I never sat down and asked myself..."hmmmmmmmm....I wonder why I like black women for". I just knew that's what I wanted to go for and it was good enough for me. I guess at has become more of a curiosity and almost a preference thing.
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kingpin78 says:Posted: 03 Jun 09
Mr Queens: First off, i never said you were the "primary cause" of racism. Its just when i start to think racism is slightly dying out, someone like you makes me painfully aware it is still there. And please stop insulting my wife. She surely has a "backbone" as you call it. She loves the fact that she is black, and she takes pride in her heritage. And just like i respect her heritage and vise versa. We love each other, and thats that. There are no other determining factors that we are together other than we are in love. And why do you say white men pick black women last. Stop generalizing a whole race. I happen to love black women and truthfully i would pick a black woman first over any other race of women...Believe it or not my friend, there are some people in this world that are not racist. Why do you automatically assume i have to "convince" my family to accept my black woman. My family doesnt have a racist bone in their body and neither does her family. My family loves my wife and her whole family loves me. Please stop insulting me and my wife. That just shows me how ignorant and prejudice you are. How do you get off saying i am "shallow about black people in general?" And you say my wife doesnt have a backbone just because she's with me. YOU MAKE ME SICK. PLEEEASE GET OFF THIS BLOG WITH YOUR RACISM
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briala says:Posted: 03 Jun 09
Im a Jamaican living in the UK and Ive dated my first white guy a year ago and it turned out to be a psycopath lol
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Member says:Posted: 03 Jun 09
Dear MMA white boy I read your long speech. I don't care if you trained your whole life to be a MMA fighter. It is usually the toughest guys getting shot up or stabbed. Since you claim you live in a black neighborhood you should know that. You claim talk shit to everyone. Your full of shit.I assure you, you can slap your friends but you couldn't slap me period. I don't care how long you studied martial arts. That is a fight with "rules", there shouldn't be rules in a fight. I am racist, how the fuck I am racist and you run around talking about I slapped my racist friends for saying the word nigger. Those are still your friends, so what are you really saying. Most of my the black guys out here in PA call you cracker and shit. I don't slap them, that is their opinion about white boys. Obviously I don't ride the fence. They are my associates. If shit went down in this little town. I would be a black man on the same side with other black men. I don't give a fuck if you call me racist. The black man that slapped your drink and beat your ass ( You claim you won that fight with one punch). Oh he is not racist for what he did to you. Why is that exactly? Allegedly because you 'won" that fight. I took losses in many fights. In my early years in New York, I use to fight a lot of white boys. They felt "tough" because the city at the time was filled with white people. Diversity changed that in the 90s and they ended up on the "receiving" end of losses. Your right you wouldn't want to run into me. I would hate to run into you. Simply because somebody would end up hurt seriously. Since I don't want to go to jail again but if it happens I can't control that. I am trying to rise above a pussy like you. Your black girlfriend lies to you pussy. You can't fathom a black girl lying to you because you are soft. Instead of seeing that you want to fight every black man because you 'work out". As if that will stop anything. I don't like violence to tell you the truth. Most guys I know will shoot you. That is not bragging but that is just what would happen. I rather talk to you before it gets to that point. If it can't be talked out we can take it to the street. I don't care you understand. Instead of working out, take an English class. Stop fighting soft people trying to pump yourself up. You mention your family good for you. You ate dinner with your family every night. Now your a white super thug. I don't label groups. I didn't call black people negros and nigger. I don't recall calling black women "negress". Yet you slapping other white men like you are the speech police. I don't even believe that shit. You claim you still live in a black hood. Where is your black 'hood". When are you going to be on Ultimate fighter MMA tough guy. What is your win and loss record. I am a big fight fan. You beat up two black men and call them racial slurs. I want you come do that to me. Come drop me with one punch. I will slice you up. I don't care if I won the fight. I don't a give a fuck about what black guys know you in your hood and all that shit. You know a couple black people in a black neighborhood. So they are suppose to respect you. They fucked your girl before you met her. You want to fight them too right. I told you where I use to live at in New York City. I am telling you I live in PA. I am heading back to New York for a court case in Brooklyn. June 11 and June 23. The case will get thrown out no problem. MMA jerk tell me when your next fight is. Are you even ranked???? The only white man I ever saw that was the real deal lives in Long Island Huntington. You figure out who he is! He gave Matt Hughes a whipping. The only white man I respect and is really from the streets. You fake bitch. Stop lying about how tough you are on here.
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geneandthem says:Posted: 03 Jun 09
(Loosening my tie up)putting my drink down.???? WTF?? When you do that, what is that suppose to do? Make you Cool? Or front like you are about to School somebody? Because to date I have yet to see you do that, so the whole implication like you are about to get down and dirty just makes you look like and even bigger idiot then you already are! Now to your response! You are Most Defiantly, for sure 100%, absolutely racist! You are the Exact Definition and the utmost epitome of a racist! Everyone here has mentioned it, and stated it in every response to you since your time of arrival here in this thread! Go and read what all of your post entail and you will see the racism yourself! And if you cant see it then you are even more deranged then once thought! In Fact it is right there in the Second Sentence of your message! " The same white man that doesn't even ......" the Same white man? The same any man? The fact that you have to and feel the need to separate every statement that you make with either a Black or white says it all! How do you know what I have addressed or not addressed? How do you know anything about me other then what I tell you? You don't, so you cant speak on it! And then the whole "these type of men have the nerve to stand up to me" You as in who? Who the F#$$ are you? God? A higher being then me or anyone else that you address?? I think not! You are absolutely one of the easiest people to address, because you are stupid! And that makes you a Easy target! Your whole Town hall meetings thing is just absolutely Absurd! IT makes no sense and it is not even a valid point to make! The fact that you even get out and try to bring this type of stuff to collage campuses is absolutely Ridiculous! I would love to see the look on people's faces when you approach them with your nonsense! You probably get the same look that the Crazy man that talks to him self, and panhandler gets! "anytime I hear about white man treating black women better than we do, I think that is self hate." In what way? If I date a White girl and then after I date a Black girl Telling anybody about it is just that, Telling somebody about it! If I say the white girl treated me better, then that is what she did! If I say the black girl treated me better, then that is what it is! It has nothing to do with Self hate it has to do with the explanation as to who treated me better! You read between the lines way to much! You try to turn a simple little way of explaining something into a Race argument. And like I said it is Racist! I know that I treat My Girlfriend better then her Ex boyfriend? But it has nothing to do with Self hate it is just a fact? He cheated on her and even hit her! So I don't do anything of the sort So there for I am Better! It does not mean I am Better to her Because I am White? That is just what you take from it! Me dating and being with the woman that I am with right now has to do with the Quality of our relationship! It has nothing to do with the fact that she is white or black! And it defiantly has nothing to do with Me not likening my own race! I love people from all races! Just as I dislike people from all races! This one White guys robs me then I hate that White guy! This one black guy robs me then I hate that black Guy! Those two Guys, the white one and the black one I hate them for robbing me! I don't hate all white people and all black folk because I got robbed by them! This is how it went down!!! I met my Current girlfriend, everything clicked, We feel in love and we are still in love! I don't love my Girlfriend because I hate White people? Are you F#$%ing Drunk! Where do you come up with this????? Attacks get hurled at you because you are closed minded and an absolute idiot! "Your a sucka to believe what black women tell you." Why is that? My black Girlfriend tells me that she loves me? So what you are telling me is that this is a lie? How do you know this? You have spoken with My Girlfriend? My girl has a better Job then I do so why would she date me for money? Look, you are so Delusional you are on the brink of Psychotic! Just like you, I can go and ask people questions and I am going to get different Answers from everybody! I could ask a black girl the same question "why would you date a white boy" and she could say the answer you gave, but another girl might say I just love white boys? And another could say she just has a fetish for White guys! And another could say Well its because I want a mixed baby? And another could say It is just my preference! Now from there You got a whole bunch of answers, but from those answers you only take the one away from that! I would only date a white boy for his money and after you take that one answer you automatically label all black woman for dating white boys for that one reason and that one reason only! Bro you are wrong! You cant label all black woman for being like that or dating outside there race for that reason! There are a bunch of reason why people date outside there own race! Some of them are negative and some are purely Innocent and have only to do with love and preference! Just like you could go and ask a white boy "why do you date a black girls" What answers you going to get? I wanted to experiment? I love that A$$$! I never been with a Black Girl before? I'm Curious? Because I want to exploit black woman? Or what? Because I have only ever dated black woman? It is my preference? That is the type of woman that I am attracted to? You are going to get a ton of answers when asking people questions like that but you can not label a entire race or group of people as being the same way or having the same reasons! It doesn't work out even mathematically! It is Absurd! And so now here you are Saying all black woman that date outside there race are liars? How can you possible say or know that? Because you went to a town hall meeting??? WTF??? Where is this real world at that you live in? Because I live in a world where there are a bunch of different people, all of them with different views and preferences! No one alike! Some close to the same! Racist! Non-racist! And everything in between! I cant label everybody in to one category! Your white so You are racist against black folk and you cant date out side your race or you hate your own race? Who made that Rule??? You???? I never shy away from Conflict when it comes to racism! Let me give you a example! One time I was going out with my friends I fell behind them because I was putting on cologne at the car, they were almost to the front door and I was closing up the car! A group of all white guys were walking past my friends and by the time they got to me they were talking about N this and N that? What did I do? I slapped the main guy in the face so hard that his hat flew off and his cheek was red! It looked as if I took his soul from him! I told him don't you every say no SHHH like that in your entire life again? They all looked at me shocked and scurried to there cars and burned out tails tucked! Now on the other hand I was at a party, With friends. I was standing next to another one of my friends talking! A black guy came up and batted my drink out of my hand and pushed me out of the way and started talking to the girl that I was talking to! (Yes my friend was a black girl)! He then said "he ain't gona to do SHHHH, White boys cant scrap" I dropped him with one punch and then slammed his friend on his head! Now! In these two instances there was some racial slurs involved! Do I hate all white people because of what the White guys did? No! Do I hate all black folk because of what the black guys did? NO! Am I racist? No! Would I blast you for saying some racial SHH around me? Hell Mother F#$#ing yes I would in a heart beat! because me, like I said before I don't play that shhhh! While your sitting up here assuming that you know everybody and who they are, and there reasons for being with who they are with! Let me Tell you something about me so you don't have to just stew in your Little F#$%ED up world and Guess as to who I am! I am a white boy! That grew up in a Mexican hood! That only Hung out with black folk! Since I was a kid! My best friends were black! Still are! My friends momma and whole family raised me! As did my grandmother raise my best friends! And our whole little crew! What YouDontBelieveFatMeatGreasy? A lil something my BLACK mother use to tell us! Just before she Beat our A$$es. Now am I one of the "wigger types" as you call them? No! I am me I look like a normal everyday white boy wi th A little bit of a difference to you I guess! I would put some shhh on your A$$ that Ajax wouldn't take off if you ran that lil racist mouth like you do here around me in the streets! And a lil something about me just so you know! I know you work two jobs, and Do the whole Soon to be married thing and any free time you got post in your thread and write messed up shhh in what ever blogs that you can find! But the thing about me is I'm not up in here all the time, because I'm a trainer, I been in Boxing and MMA now for over 17 years! And train and live that life 24 hours a day! And yes I would work you over if we were ever to cross paths and you were spewing that crap, but then again you would never even know it until you woke up because just like how you label all the people that you talk about in here, "sell out black woman" "White boys" and all the other labels that you use! I would defiantly look like the lil white boy that you would normally underestimate as I'm sure you usually do! Only difference about me is I got game YAAAA DIGGGG!!! The fact that you call me a Coward is a sick Joke! Sounds like to me your girl using you for bread? You paying everything? Where is the difference! If A white man is with a black woman and he is paying all the bills that you say you are paying then the black woman is using him? But if it is you a black man paying all the bills you say you pay then your black woman isn't using you? Nahhh you see how your lil statements can turn on you! That same sell out black woman is using you to pay all of her bills but only she ain't a sell out because you are black right??? What a Dumb A$$. And who ever said that they bow there head here in this blog? I know I don't do anything to keep my girl except for be me and nothing I do involves bowing my head! But you see your whole racist statement there??? You don't see it??? "I don't have to bow my head like a white man does to keep my woman" like a white man does??? Who? Where? I seen plenty of black men bowing there head in the same instance that you are talking about? The stuff that you try to make A black issue or a white issue happens in all races and all instances you just try to single everything out and place a Entire or WHOLE on it! It makes you look Naive and quite hypocritical! Just like you used this statement I can use it as well "My fiance is a good person. The men she was with before really never did anything for her." That has nothing to do with white or black! That is just a fact, hence we are still together! So you still not seeing what I am talking about? Am I waking you up a lil bit yet? Are you here still there Mo Fo??? My Father was strong? My Parents been together for 45 years?? So what is the point? I any lecturing you on how to Run your Relationship? Where the F@#$ did you get that! I am Bucking at yo a$$ for the F#$@ed up shhhhh that you spew! To this day I have never had a woman walk over me! And all my Girlfriends since I was a kid have been black, so where did you get that info about me and who has walked over me?? You see you pull shh out of the air like you are GOD the all knowing! And yet you don't know shhhh??? You see why everybody always Blowing you out of the water and lashing out at you! Its like this! Everybody had one friend that wasn't all there, and you and all your friends dissed them all the time! And then every once in a while it was just to much for him/her then they would blow up and you would say "well you just make yourself a easy target" That is you to a T! You are a easy target for getting lashed out at because you say ridiculous stuff that doesn't make sense! Somethings you say could make sense but that way you label race and entire groups of people as if they are the same it just makes you look stupid and like I said a easy target! I know for a fact that my girl would never cheat on me! With any man! White, black, Green, Purple or blue! That is just who she is! You can speculate all you want but you don't know her and you never will! "You provoke the dog and then wonder why it wants to bite you" Who's the dog??? You ??? And with what bite?? The short bus bite??? That's more like a Nibble you little cake batter a$$ man! You are weak? Sick? And actually Funny! Keep posting, and Blogging and wasting you short and insignificant life! After you are gone? You will not have left anything in the history books! You will not have any existence other then with your friends and family! Your words are minuscule and of nothingness! You are quite entertaining! And If I ever did meet you in person I would say a lot of SHHH to your face! Racist! Bigot! FOOL! Cake! BI#$H! WHAT?! And PS I still live in the black hood! Not that I need to tell you that! And I am a active member in my Hood! What a pathetic fool you are! You lil B#$%H!
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Member says:Posted: 02 Jun 09
Dear Kingpin I never referred to your wife specifically. I just state my opinions whether you disagree with them or not. Racism was alive and kicking before you were with a black woman. I highly doubt you could relate to her background and what discrimination she has to go through as a black woman. The fact you think I am the primary cause of racism still being "alive". Proves to me how painfully shallow you are about black people in general. Secondly, white men pick black women last. Until you show me data that proves differently. I will stick to that statement. I have yet to see anybody disagree with my points. They think personally attacking me is the solution. I just represent what some people think. There is people that agree with me. In your little world being politically correct is more important than learning the truth. Your wife, more than likely, does not have a backbone. Since a majority of the time the white man's family does not "agree" with you being with a black woman. I guess racism is never alive and kicking when you have to convince them that your mate is a black woman. Instead it's "oh they will come around to the idea". Good day Look for my new post soon. Check out the racist white boy abandoning a black woman on the Montell Williams show. All on my blog. Good day to everyone.
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kingpin78 says:Posted: 02 Jun 09
Mr Queens: "The sellout black women and their blogs started this war. They are so pathetic they would rather be picked last by white men to be in relationships instead getting a back bone." Are you serious? Get a life man. please So just because my wife married me, she doesnt have a backone? You are so sad. Such a sad human being. Truthfully, I feel sorry for you.....And you say "picked last by white men", like the only reason she had to "settle" for a white man is because no black man "picked" her?...You are a really confused person. You have a sad, pathetic sense of reality. I truly, sincerely hope you dont make any children and pass on your twisted, racist way of thinking to another generation of people. Because real people, like me, my wife, geneandthem, and mackwhitedaddy are actually trying to ignore people like you and hope racism is dying out. Thanks for reminding me that racism is still alive and kicking.
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kingpin78 says:Posted: 02 Jun 09
Mr Queens?.....in your twisted sense of reality, do you even think a black woman can date outside her race without being what you call a "sellout"? You are insulting me and my beautiful black wife when you say that. Just because she is with me (a white man) it doesnt mean she hates her own race. PLEASE STOP BEING SO RACIST!
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Member says:Posted: 30 May 09
Dear Mack Your dating three black women (clapping for you). I am done with college for now. I don't work for free. Never did an internship in my whole life. I never dated three black women at the same time. I was always in serious relationships. I bet none of the black girls are "fat bitches" that you supposedly consort with. Judging for your face I would doubt anything you say about dating any black woman for that matter. They know about each other. Stop coming on the internet making up stories pussy. Good day.
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MackWhiteDaddy28 says:Posted: 29 May 09
(Zipping my pants up)putting Lil Miss Laura Queenie 2 Bed. I have been extremely busy with my 3 Engineering Internships this summer; I have 2 for the City & one for the County. I also have been dating 3 different black women...they all know about each other; my lil lesbian I converted says I'm a Playa. It's funny how all Queenies bitch ass could attack is my hat; I don't even have that hat anymore, but I always got compliments when I wore it. As for the fat bitch comment~sounds like your just jealous becuase white boys got more game than you!
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Member says:Posted: 29 May 09
(Loosening my tie up)putting my drink down. I have been called racist, bigot, and beast. Let me address the white gentleman that has the audacity to call me racist. The same white man that doesn't even address his family and friends about the derogatory statements said in the past and present about black women. It always amusing how these type of men have the nerve to stand up to me. I will tell you something. I have said what I feel about sellout black women in town hall meetings. I will go to a college campus and address people. I don't duck anybody. Also, I am never hostile until they get hostile towards me. Most of the time in town hall meeting black women agree with me. 90 percent of the time white men don't say shit at a townhall meeting. I get into it with other black women. The first thing I say to them is "when the last time a white man was in your neighborhood actively searching for a date? No answer. I ask them when was the last time a white man approached for your number. They say "1 time". Once only once. Where you see white man giving you love at. No answer and they cut my mic off. Now let address Gene. I don't even mention your name but since you want to debate this. It is quite easy, anytime I hear about white man treating black women better than we do, I think that is self hate. For you to date someone outside your race you would automatically dislike people in your own race. You said that is not the case. Alright, you tell why that is not the case. Instead of hurling attacks at me. Contrary to what you believe on this blog. I go outside and get support on what I believe in. Most African Americans live in black neighborhoods. I can go to you a young black girl and she will say the only reason I would date a white boy would be for money. Now you can dispute that on this little blog. I don't speculate on anything. I ask them that shit. Your a sucka to believe what black women tell you. I live in the real world you understand. Normally people shy away from racial conflict. Especially white men so this whole idea of being blasted is a joke. I live in PA now. I used to see the Black Israelites intimidate white men in New York. I didn't even see a white man defend his black woman when those black men get on her ass. I see black men defend their women. All the way to gun violence. So let's not talk about who is scared of who. I didn't start this war. The sellout black women and their blogs started this war. They are so pathetic they would rather be picked last by white men to be in relationships instead getting a back bone. Where is the criticism for white men picking you last. I don't put my foot on a black woman's neck. That is a false statement. They have to promote themselves to convince white men they are interested in them. They caused that on themselves. How black men even get dragged into this. A white men does not pick you on E Harmony so you lash out at black men. Your a god damn coward. I don't even beef with white men really. They just stand too close to the the drama some black men is having with black women. To me it is not even a big conflict. I am just protecting the interests of black men at any means necessary. As for my fiancee, she knows what she got herself into. I pay the car notes, bills for the house. I work hard for what I have. I don't have to bow my head like a white man does to keep my woman. My fiancee is a good person. The men she was with before really never did anything for her. I was just raised differently with a strong father. My parents have been married 30 years. You will not lecture me on how to run my relationship. Obviously it works. You let black women walk over you so you equate that to love. That is not love, that is you being her doormat. Plus black men is still sleeping with your black wife or girlfriend. Despite the bullshit she is saying on here. We still got a majority of black women with us. Just like a majority of white men got white women. You want to kiss white ass keep black men out of your shit. Then I wouldn't need to do my blog. You provoke the dog and then wonder why it wants to bite you. If white men are so great why the fuck you mention our names. You don't give a fuck about the average black girl struggling out there. Yet, I am the bigot white boy. I wish you said that to myself in person. You won't because I don't see you in a black neighborhood.
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geneandthem says:Posted: 29 May 09
How does dating or being with a person translate into hate??? Where do you come up with this shhhh? Thats like saying I live in America so I hate the Bahamas? I like Fish so I hate Chicken? How does dating outside your own race translate into Hate? So because you date black woman you hate White people? Of course you do because you are Racist! Dating Interracial does not translate into a bigot. No way shape or form! There is no Teacher or professor or scientist or genius in the world that will say different! Most of the people that Date interracial are so Lax they could give a Flying F#$@ What you or any other color of person is dating blue, green, purple, or yellow! None of the people here in this thread except for you Give a SHHHH who dates who? Which means that in that sense they are not bigots! You on the other hand are the problem! We don't care about your lifestyle! Or your identity! Now your opinion is crazy and actually quit insane! I been slowly seeing the people from this blog disappear! You probably think its because you feel like you got the best of the blog! The crazy thing is that you are the only person here in this entire site that is on the wrong page! People are just Bored with you and actually sick! I think you are amusing! I know you are just like some of the people that you have talked about before! Living it up big in the web! But when you in public you ain't saying SHHH! I know you couldn't say nothing around me or any of the cats I know! You would get drilled! All of my friends and family are from a wide variety of races! And nobody I know plays that shhh you spewing! Like I said In the end I just feel sorry for you! That you live in this lil F#$@ed up world of yours! It must be lonely! Well I guess you got your 11 followers and you Girl for the time being that is! Sad sight brah! I'm out for a while You made me tired! This blog turned from fun and inspiring to Ridiculous!
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kingpin78 says:Posted: 29 May 09
Mr Laurelton Queens....i am so seriously sick of your racism on here. I really cant stand people like you. Just answer me this one question, regarding your last post...Why cant someone date outside their race and not hate their race?? I am a 30 year old white man who is married to a beautiful 25 year old black woman. Are you trying to say that she hates her own race just because she is with me??...she totally respects and appreciates her heritage and her African roots just like i respect and appreciate my European heritage...Why cant 2 people love each other without even considering what race they are??...We fell in love. She happens to be black and i happen to be white. Big friggin deal. We are together for no other reason other then we love each other. There is no other reason. She is not a "sellout", she or i are not self-hating. We just love each other. Is that really a crime??..
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Member says:Posted: 29 May 09
No you reread my post It wasn't directed at anyone but the general sellouts that date white men. It is funny how people go on and on about hate. Yet hate their own race enough to date outside of it. Yet, I am the bigot. Definition: BIGOT - A person who is intolerant of or takes offense to the opinions, lifestyles or identities differing from his or her own. You made an excellent entry of the definition of bigot. This definition does not apply to sellout black women dating outside their race. If it doesn't WHY???????????? Good day
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godiva61 says:Posted: 29 May 09
Man is man because he is free to operate within the framework of his destiny. He is free to deliberate, to make decisions, and to choose between alternatives. He is distinguished from ANIMALS by his freedom to do EVIL or to do GOOD and to walk the HIGH road of beauty or tread the LOW road of UGLY degeneracy... Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Where do we go from here: Chaos or Community? 1967
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godiva61 says:Posted: 29 May 09
Like an unchecked cancer, hate corrodes the personality and eats away it's vital unity. Hate destroys a man's sense of values and his objectivity. It causes him to describe the beautiful as ugly, and the ugly as beautiful, and causes him to confuse the truth with the false, and the false with the truth... Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., "Strength to Love" 1963
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geneandthem says:Posted: 29 May 09
She really didn't mean other people only you? Not sure why you said "We"? WHat you think by saying "Now we" is going to bring people on your side? No, that was Indirectly Directed at you and you only! Where do you come up with your breakdown of other people??? "You are never a bigot when you bash black men." When did she do that? Hey man seriously are you drunk? You try so hard to read between lines to try and find some dirt that you cant find, so you just make stuff up out of the thin air! Your rants are off the charts? You even look more ridiculous then before! She said her preference is Black men? And all in all I think she is dating a black man? Do you even read the post that you respond to? Or do you just take what you think they meant to say and twist it to make it sound like you have a good point? You got Serious problems man For real! Wouldn't be surprised if we see you on the TV one day Shooting up peeps in the streets! You take stuff and make it into your own lil translation and try and feed off of it! It makes you seriously look like a Psycho. All that stuff that you commented on in your last thread she never even hinted toward! And in your response we see what you took from what she said! Re-read her post and then re-read yours? Do it like 5 times in a row If you cant see the problem you got, I'm sorry. And just to clear it up with you(it seems like I am always doing this for you Like teaching a child) YOU ARE A BIGOT!!!!! Definition: BIGOT - A person who is intolerant of or takes offense to the opinions, lifestyles or identities differing from his or her own. That's you brah all the way YAAA DIGGGGGG
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_Legion_ says:Posted: 28 May 09
Cafe: just to let you know that you are already feeding the bigots by responding regardless. Best to just leave it all alone, makes things much easier.
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Member says:Posted: 28 May 09
Oh now we are BIGOTS. Mrs Hypocrite. You are never a bigot when you bash black men. You always act like the victim when you hide your own self hatred towards black people. Stop complaining about your own race of men or women. I read a white man say his own race of white women is dishonest to him. I figure he is angel. Considering his marriage crumbled and he ran back to black women as a "crutch". These people got some nerve blaming other people for their failures in relationships. Just because you are a loser in life and have to date outside your race. Stop acting self righteous on here like black men are the problem. You are the problem with you selfish and pathetic ways. You can walk over a white man and use your vagina to get what you want. Black men don't go for that. I am not going to apologize you understand. Your negative once you speak negatively about people in general. You have people saying to you "you don't act like other blacks". Sit there cheesing and smiling like they accomplished something. Guess what, I am like "other blacks". Your worst nightmare.
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freeya says:Posted: 28 May 09
I know this is going to come as a surprise to everyone, but I've never dated a white man in my life....ever. I grew up in the south during the 70s and my father is from Mississippi. I remember him coming home angry and slightly tipsy one day after an unfair and bad business deal with what he called racist white bastards and saying at the dinner table to me and my sister: " If you ever, EVER bring a cracka in my house, I'll disown you; hear me?" Perhpas that's what did it. Plus, white guys always seemed so afraid of me and my friends. They wouldn't say a word. It was as if we didn't exist. So it seemed flirting would be awkward. To even think of it just seemed absurd and off limits. We were always told that if a white man was interested in us, it was simply and only for sex, period; that they thought of us only as whores and prostitutes; and that they still had fantasies of "plantation f-ing". Now that I'm older, and painfully aware of the plight of black women when it comes to marriage or just healthy companionship, I've begun to think about how it would be to date outside of my race. My friends and I have plenty of jokes about it. We always say that if we dated a white man, we'd have to only go to multicultural places where no one would seem to care; that we couldn't take him to the hood or else we'd get our "ghetto license" revoked. Truth is, I have no idea about white men, but I am somewhat curious. I've been told by black women who have been brave enough to venture to date a white man, that they are very attentive and caring....but of course I know that depends on the individual. Jerks come in all colors.
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CafeAuLait39 says:Posted: 28 May 09I have been reading the blogs here and have been a member on this site for quite some time now. However, I rarely vocalize my opinions as I typically just lurk and shake my head. But I just could not sit back any longer. People, why do you even entertain the bigots and naysayers? They feed off of your energy. I know there are times you want to give them a piece of your mind but no matter what anyone says, no matter right it is, to the bigot you will always be wrong and a sellout and SO WHAT!!!! People who are typically as negative as the bigots on this board are just not happy with their own lives and they must find someone to take it out on. If everyone would just stop responding to ignorance, then eventually they will go away because who will be there to listen/read? Me personally, I like all men but my preference is Black men, but I do not discriminate at all. If I chose to marry a white man, I would not give a rip who had anything to say about it. I know who I am and what the racist Black brother on the corner, or the KKK member down the street thinks about means absolutely nada to me and shouldn't mean anything to you all. Let's just allow them to write their little hearts out and complain all they want. They are entitled to their opinions, but we don't have to let them bait us with those opinions. Not to mention, even though a lot of what they say is totally warped, there is typically a smidgen of truth to it. Not enough to start a war over, but enough for us to open our eyes. Love is a choice, but definitely hard to find. Should you find someone who defines love in a way you never expected then be thankful and stick with it. Forget all of those who have nothing but nasty things to say about it. At the end of the day they too desire the same thing, but perhaps their negativity is keeping their soul mate at bay. Nite all!
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Weatherman says:Posted: 27 May 09
For years I have been attracted to black women. I grew up in a very integrated neighborhood and my best friend was a black boy. His younger sister was madly "in love" with me and I surmise that is when the attraction began. As I got older, I tried to date blackladies, but for whatever reason, they were not interested. I eventually married a white lady, but the marriage ended for several reasosn. After my divorce, I was able to date two wonderful, charming black women. Unfortunately in each case, they took jobs in another state and the relationship ended. Now, I have resumed my serach to find a loving, caring black woman with whom I can share life's experiences. I have a lot of love to give and if I ever find her, she will never want for respect, honor and trust. So why do I prefer black women? I have found them to be more honest and sincere that Caucasian ladies. At the risk of using a cliche, black women do have more "soul". They care; they love; they have more emotion; and most of all they are real and not pretentious! I only wish this 49 year old, 6'2", blond haired, hazel eyed white male could find the love of his life. However, here in the northeast, I have doubts I will ever find her. Sigh....
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Renee says:Posted: 25 May 09
Wow! I have learned a lot just by reading the comments. I am a black women who lived in an all white town, I grew up with all white friends. I have never dated outside my race. It never occured to me that it was something I could do. Now that Iam older, and my children are growing up in a very different time and place than I did. It is very clear that it is okay to date other than black men. I am learning that what is really important is that we as black women need to love and be loved. It doesn't matter what race that love comes from. I guess I have always wanted to reprensent my people and let them know that I was down. But, that is the least of my concerns now. All I want is to be loved and respected, charished, and appresiated by a good man. Lets leave race out of the equation, because we could, if we are not careful, pass up an oppertunity to be loved the way God intented us to be.I am very open minded and I feel like I have let my need to be black hold me back. Meaning that it's okay for me to date a white man who is excepting of me and my culture.
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