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Why white men love the black woman

Posted by James, 31 Aug

Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much?

It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but also romantically) may lead to a lot of controversial and dangerous things. Let’s leave the debate of why more black women may be opening themselves up to white guys. The main focus of this debate is: why some white guys are opening themselves to black women. Let’s concentrate on that.

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Most white males don’t feel like they are running short of white women to marry. White males just marry at high rates. So question is: Why black women? The thing is it will not be fair to bundle up black women as one since everyone is their own person… be it in appearance or personality.

However, one thing that a white male friend of mine said… and I let him get away with bundling it all up is: “We love a black woman's confidence, her tenacity and her undeniable achievements in the face of great adversity...᾿ Since this info was coming from a man, there was definitely the mention of the lips, the curves, and that wonderful skin as well.

So what about stereotypes like “black women are either sexually conservative or total sluts?" Many people give so much lip service to interracial dating sites. You would think they have never done it. But those uptight individuals are the ones that spread these stereotypes. What happened to the highly educated black woman? How about the caring, decent and involved black woman?

Probably most white guys and others are confused with the stereotypical trash people spread around and if you are one that falls for such lame ol’ lines, then you sure as hell haven’t dated a black woman.

Bottom line, you don't have to sacrifice who you are for a white guy. They will love you anyway. Just be you and open yourself up… and if you like white guys, some white guy will find you too.

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  1.   thecuddaking says:
    Posted: 20 Jan 09

    I am also italian and part native part austrian and find a black woman more appealing in life love and happiness! i feel as it is more of a feeling inside my heart and blood to be attracted more to black women. however i have not had that much luck with them treating me like they would a black man. any ideas or comments or insight to this subject would be an extremely interesting topic for me! thanks Michael

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  2.   SanAntonioBeauty says:
    Posted: 20 Jan 09

    I have long asked myself why in this century, we have seen an increase in dating and marriage between white men and black women. What makes it more palatable now. As I look back on what was going on in society, I can't give much credit to the media. So, I asked myself "what is it then". As I watch Senator Obama become the 44th president of the United States, one of the answers came to me, Former President George W. Bush. I can hear the vitriol now. Why George Bush? Because he was very attentive in public with Condelezza Rice (I hope I spelled her name correctly). The frequent kisses on the cheek, holding her hand, verbal slips (from her) and the apparent admiration they have for each other. I, being from Texas, remember when Bush made the surprise Thanksgiving trip to Afganistan during his first adminstration. They were able to get through the Crawford airport by holding Condelezza's hand, both wearing baseball caps, with plain clothed Secret Service men and women walking around them. Yes, the couple was noticed, not as the president and his adviser, but as a interracial couple. Many people from Crawford commited seeing the interracial couple at the airport, but had no idea who they were, even after looking at their faces. The media made much of that event. However, little was made of their unusual relationship throughout his administration, other than general hints. Nevertheless, we were able to see a white man and black women who respected each other and showed admiration for each other, albeit plutonic. That's my take on it. What is yours?

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  3.   kirche says:
    Posted: 18 Jan 09

    initial attraction is always based on the physical... and for white men who are attracted to black women, i would say the other variable is the different, the unknown, the exotic. getting away from the norm, if you like. when i sleep, i'm a prolific dreamer. very vivid and realistic dreams, including the erotic. which are my favorite... big surprise to you women, huh? anyway, my erotic dreams are predominantly with black women. last night was one of the better dreams which had me thinking about "her" all day. so, who would like to interpret for me?

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  4.   thekid47 says:
    Posted: 11 Jan 09

    Yes, people should be looking for the person who is right for them, but that is not attached to a 'skin' color. I must say again, I am amazed at some of the stereotypes that I see across these blogs-as if 'black' men are all like 'this', or 'black' women are like 'that', and 'white' men, 'white' women are like 'this' and 'that'. One would hope, that in a interracial dating site, that one would attract persons who have not only gotten beyond the classic stereotypes, but don't go and place the classic stereotypes, and stereotypes at all for that matter, on a particular 'group'.

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  5.   Member says:
    Posted: 11 Jan 09

    Hey! East Indian guy: I'm also from the island of Trinidad, and I've always been attracted to east Indian men. They're very attractive to me. My grandmother is east Indian, and I've been around a few east Indians. Anyway my parents moved from Trinidad to the U.S when I was 7, and I was good friends with an Indian boy, I really liked him. I haven't seen him in years....Hmmmm your name is not mark is it...lol I make a mean Roti w/curry chicken, and calaloo, etc. ANYWAY, I think white men and other men are becoming more open-minded about being in relationships with black women. And black women are starting to realize that they should not be looking for an IBM(ideal black man), instead they should be looking for an ideal man PERIOD! p.s Are you ready for CARNIVAL!

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  6.   Member says:
    Posted: 11 Jan 09

    Hey! East Indian guy: I'm also from the island of Trinidad, and I've always been attracted to east Indian men. They're very attractive to me. My grandmother is east Indian, and I've been around a few east Indians. Anyway my parents moved from Trinidad to the U.S when I was 7, and I was good friends with an Indian boy, I really liked him. I haven't seen him in years....Hmmmm your name is not mark is it...lol I make a mean Roti w/curry chicken, and calaloo, etc. ANYWAY, I think white men and other men are becoming more open-minded about being in relationships with black women. And black women are starting to realize that they should not be looking for an IBM(ideal black man), instead they should be looking for an ideal man PERIOD!

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  7.   Zaikikoa says:
    Posted: 11 Jan 09

    I am a 25 yr young mother of a biracial (2) year old (who by the way is very stunning and constantly complimented by EVERYONE). I met her father during my college years while pursuing my BBA in Accounting. Although we are no longer in a relationship, I will say that during the time we were dating, he surpassed my expectations on several levels. He was very attentive to my emotional needs (not the rollover type- if you ladies know what I mean *wink), he made me feel confident and told me several times that he was the "lucky" one. Whenever we made a public appearance he would squeeze my hand and wink at me when the stares started coming in (sometimes racist comments). I asked him (out of curiosity) why he approached me the day we first met and he said he just felt so attracted to me he couldn't resist (he later confessed that it was becuase he sensed there was something different abouy me, but couldn't figure out what the difference was at that moment)- undeniably West Indian maybe? wink* I will also say that he has expressed his love for my kinky hair and dark skin as well as intelligence and wittiness countless times. We have maintained a good relationship between us, so that my daughter has some stability in her life. I will say though, if ever I decide to commit to a relationship or marriage, (based on MY experience) I will definitely be interested in guy that is not black, becuase I have been THERE before and unfortunately was terribly disappointed, whereas my daughter's father has not left me feeling empty or unappreciated, and with no regrets or baggage. My advice: It may not be because something is wrong with you or men....you may just be at the wrong destination. Ladies, be brave, be bold and venture into the "unknown". Be Blessed

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  8.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 10 Jan 09

    Dear OtherBrother, we can definitely agree to disagree here (especially considering you were not the person who originally used the phrase here.....GiveLove has already confirmed what SHE meant). I DO know what you are saying and what the literal definitions of "citizen" and "citizenship" are....the difference is you cannot tell someone else what they meant unless you can read minds (if you can, let me know.....I got a business venture we can look into....LOL). You mentioned being open and honest about one's feelings....well, that is what give love did. And while her feelings may not exactly be the same as yours she chose to express them. It seems that she does not feel the need to have someone "give" her the "right" to be what she already is....a HUMAN being that SHOULD automatically have HUMAN rights...now matter where she might roam (within reason...LOL). Peace and Blessings tatted2death P.S. Cocobaker.....your post really warmed the "cockles of my heart"...(lol). I am glad you are back and hope you continue to be energized and motivated.

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  9.   BritishBlackFemale says:
    Posted: 09 Jan 09

    Interesting blog. It's stopped me from revising and my English exam is very soon. I'll come back and comment asap as soon as revision is over. BBF x

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  10.   otherbrother says:
    Posted: 07 Jan 09

    tatted2death. I usually do not attempt to debate, because I have found that most people debate with emotion not facts. I have to however agree to disagree with you tatted2death. The statement I am a citizen of the universe says nothing of what you stated. Citizenship and religion/race/politcal affiliation ETC... have nothing in comman. Citizenship is nothing more than a right given by a country. Race the Human race is a right given by God. I could go on and on but It would make no sense, because I know U know what I mean. See I get it! I get it more than most people do! I consider myself a pretty average doe, but when it comes to relationships, and race relations I cosider myself a step ahead of the average joe. I love your interaction and free spirited willingness to say what U feel, that is what makes us great people and if we are good listeners then we all learn something from people who are willing to be open and honest in their feelings.

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  11.   MSAGB4 says:
    Posted: 07 Jan 09

    Kissing is key, black or white. I need to make out!!

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  12.   MSAGB4 says:
    Posted: 07 Jan 09

    Marry who you love.

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  13.   cocobaker813 says:
    Posted: 07 Jan 09

    First off, Happy New Year to all. I commented on this question all the way back in Jan'08, and it does my heart good to see that the conversation is STILL being answered, debated, discussed and relevant! I read everyone, and it's a blast! I took myself out of the dating pool for a bit, mainly because I was tired! Thanks to all the people who posted throughout the year(and I read them all in one sitting! WHEW!!!), I'm feeling energized, and now I feel as if I can contribute with a whole heart. Thanks to tatted2death for the shot in the arm I needed to get the juices back! You, along with givelove and RockerChick27(and my realife girlfriends), geneandthem and otherbrother, and Chronik made me laugh and think. You'll see more of me in other places. It's making my heart feel good to see more men on the boards commenting and contributing to the conversation.

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  14.   haitiangirl says:
    Posted: 06 Jan 09

    I am 29 years old and married to a white man. We met at work. We have a 2 year old and I am 5 months pregnant now. We get alot of attention in public- which you get used to. Our daughter gets tons of compliments everyday. I feel so blessed. He is such a good man, husband and father. We have so much fun everyday. And when I get my "blackgirl" attitudes he totally knows how to deal with it now. I will never take him and his kindness for granted. I cherish him and treat him like a king. He says that I made him stronger and he has shown me how to enjoy life and relax.

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  15.   givelove says:
    Posted: 05 Jan 09

    Thank you tatted2death. You definitely correct. That is what I meant. I just stated it indirectly.

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  16.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 04 Jan 09

    Welcome to the discussion, GiveLove. I completely get where you are coming from....The "citizen of the universe" thing is not really literal, correct??. I mean, I have used this term (and others similiar to it) to describe how I feel about myself and how I fit in this world. I don't think arrogance is necessarily implied here....just a sense of not letting simple things (race/religion/location on this planet) "get in the way". This is just the way I interpreted what you had to say, givelove......forgive me if they are off base. But I actually think you just stated how you felt...nothing more, nothing less (nice change of pace here.....muchas gracias for that.....REALLY). Peace and Blessings tatted2death

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  17.   MackWhiteDaddy28 says:
    Posted: 04 Jan 09

    Yes, attraction is an imperative aspect of all relations, but does attraction equal real & pure love? For that matter, do ideals equal real & pure love? To address cocoa&nut question; even though I'm probably not the most qualified candidate to do so because I simply don't have that complex. I don't know what's up with that. I only date really hot chicks though, it don't matter what color the girl is because everyone always stops & stares...mostly guys checking out my Lady...wishing they were me and shi. Had several black dueds come up & tell me it must be nice. Peace Luv & Happy belated B-Day Rocker...rock on!

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  18.   otherbrother says:
    Posted: 03 Jan 09

    givelove! go to another country beside yours and America tell their government that you R a Citizen of the Universe and demand government assistance, IE welfare, voting rights, ect... see what they say! I think you will find out that you will not be considered a citizen of their country just because U say. I understand what U R trying to say, but unfortunatly some people R not able to read between the words.

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  19.   cocoa&nut says:
    Posted: 03 Jan 09

    Attraction is important. Givelove you say you do not see color but you are on the site which specifically states its purpose. I was also raised to see the beauty in people and look pass the colors but attraction still stands. And just like many post conclude it is still just a matter of preference. So what is yours??

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  20.   cocoa&nut says:
    Posted: 03 Jan 09

    i love the fact that people keep it real here. I am Caribbean but i do recall the OP just saying black and not African or African American for all those who wanted to insult. It just says black. I may not be 100% American but i did find it insulting to hear someone insulting the American nationality and/or any other. Also i wanted to know what is the big deal with some White guys who like to see the face white women give them when they are with a Black woman? Can someone clarify why you care what white women think it you are so much in love?

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  21.   givelove says:
    Posted: 31 Dec 08

    In addition, I am a CITIZEN of the UNIVERSE. Give Love

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  22.   givelove says:
    Posted: 31 Dec 08

    Interesting blog I must say. I am a double master student in Public Policy/Administration and Public Health. I am from the human race. I see no color in people. I only look for what is in the heart, a person views of the World, intellect and spirituality. I have friends from all over the world. So, I don’t view the world in “black and white”. Who cares what color you are or what ethnic background you are from? What we should look for in people is their compassion for others, loves, passion for life and God creations. My view of the universe originated from my upbringing. I was born in West Africa to an African mother and an American father who is of an African American, Irish, and Cherokee Indian Background. I was raised in America and I travel a lot. Due to all of these factors, I see no color in people. I just look for the best in them. I LOVE intellectual stimulation, discussions and spirituality. So, I tend to look for that in a partner. I want to be with a person that is capable of loving me the way I need to be LOVE. I have dated “black”, “Islander”, “Hispanics” and “white”. However, my preferences to date “white” men have nothing to do with their skin color. It is just what I prefer. INSTEAD OF FOCUSING ON SOMEONE SKIN COLOR, WE NEED TO LEARN TO LOVE ALL PEOPLE REGARDLESS. *Some words are in quote because I try not to use those words to refer to any groups of people. *This is not meant to offend anyone.

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  23.   RockerChick27 says:
    Posted: 29 Dec 08

    Eh... kinda feelin' the need to apologize to Chronik. Heh, been on my mind for a while. Sorry, bud XD Hope we're still cool. Yipes! I forgot to say yo' to Smoooches! Where ya been, girl? And I miss poetlove... I'm officially 22 today! Wh00t! -RoChi

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  24.   RockerChick27 says:
    Posted: 29 Dec 08

    Tatted, you know I was referring to what you say about me after just about every post I make. How many times have you called me sad, insecure (of course, "attacking people in order to feel better about myself” >.>), and other shit (such as a "coal in the stocking")? I've addressed you after nearly every disdainful thing you've said about me and I've asked you to lay off it more than once. If it's not constructive, it's not worth saying. Remember that. -RoChi

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  25.   Member says:
    Posted: 26 Dec 08

    I feel sorry {kind of.....?} I think I,m just a new comer to this site I read some of the response to the issue of white men being atrackted to black females .here's my clumziy exspireance.../in high school I met denice walton ,we were teenagers at the time she was black I was white ,I dumly choies to /after 3 weeks time/ ,to ackt like an asshole with a person by calling her a{here it comes}nigger, showing her the bird, talking about her buttand how it mached her boobs! and etc....22 yrs latter,we met again this time ,she was 38 and I was 40 going on 41 we reunited at hour Buena vista high school 20th reunion in july 9th and 10th ,had every chance to apoligiuze "that I failed to do so in the past" it just sliped my mind . {some things happend 5yrs priyer to that} so up to now I've felt sorry about it from 5 days before the reunion she rrrrreeeeeeaaaaallllllllyyyyyyyy turn out to be a vvvvvvvaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrryyyyyyyyy!!!! atractive "young" lady, she's had ethidiemeia since she was 8 yrs old ,and she....died ... in 2005 at 39years old, she was a vary nice lady ,and one day I ,desided to " make an apointment with God to tell her how much Iam sorry and how much I could have built a relationship with if I did't ackted like I did ,if and when I,like all of us will go to haven........well I'm 45 now , and I got to go now be fore I get to crying on this bloge thanks for raeding this is mike mueller / saginaw michigan etc

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  26.   Member says:
    Posted: 26 Dec 08

    I feel sorry {kind of.....?} I think I,m just a new comer to this site I read some of the response to the issue of white men being atrackted to black females .here's my clumziy exspireance.../in high school I met denice walton ,we were teenagers at the time she was black I was white ,I dumly choies to /after 3 weeks time/ ,to ackt like an asshole with a person by calling her a{here it comes}nigger, showing her the bird, talking about her buttand how it mached her boobs! and etc....22 yrs latter,we met again this time ,she was 38 and I was 40 going on 41 we reunited at hour Buena vista high school 20th reunion in july 9th and 10th ,had every chance to apoligiuze "that I failed to do so in the past" it just sliped my mind . {some things happend 5yrs priyer to that} so up to now I've felt sorry about it from 5 days before the reunion she rrrrreeeeeeaaaaallllllllyyyyyyyy turn out to be a vvvvvvvaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrryyyyyyyyy!!!! atractive "young" lady, she's had ethidiemeia since she was 8 yrs old ,and she....died ... in 2005 at 39years old, she was a vary nice lady ,and one day I ,desided to " make an apointment with God to tell her how much Iam sorry and how much I could have built a relationship with if I did't ackted like I did ,if and when I,like all of us will go to haven........well I'm 45 now , and I got to go now be fore I get to crying on this bloge thanks for raeding this is mike mueller / saginaw michigan etc

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  27.   gettnwizer says:
    Posted: 26 Dec 08

    I grew up in a large midwestern city, I had the good fortune not to be taught to hate. I have dated out side of my faith and my race and have found one thing to be true. People are really all the same. I have had a loving relationship for many years with a lovely, bright and gentle woman from one of the islands. I would not trade one minute of the time we have spent together. My regrets are that we did not meet sooner and had a family. With a woman as wonderful and gentle as she. I would feel like I am king of the world!

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  28.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 26 Dec 08

    Oh yeah....I am "bringing someone down" by just telling them to love themselves.....(LMAO.....to any "normal thinking" person it quite the opposite; I don't think you can get much more positive than that....but I digress). OOOOOOO....I am just sooo twisted 8^/ Anywho....thanks are surely due to otherbrother for sharing his anecdotes with us......peace and love, brother.

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  29.   RockerChick27 says:
    Posted: 26 Dec 08

    God, tatted, you can't ever give it a rest, huh? Even on Christmas Day? Oh well. I guess I'll just conclude that you have nothing positive left to say (to me, anyways). Anyway, my holiday was awesome and I hope you all had fun as well. And, hehehe Otherbrother, I'm glad your festivities were pleasing! Seems like you're the only returning poster not trying to bring someone down. Keep the awesome updates comin' =D Anyway, I live near Lizzie (you know her as Elsie... yup Joshua's daughter) and her boyfriend, Caedyne, just proposed to her a little while ago. I donno, you always expect this stuff around the holidays but it still manages to take ya by surprise! Well, me anyways. Heh, they're leaving for Sweden early next week to visit her good ol' daddy and mommy. Just thought you'd be interested. Oh, and MackWhiteDaddy! You seem to stray away from trying to annihilate and ridicule and belittle every other poster too. I think you make... what? One of three or so (returning posters)? Lulz. And I wish LegalEase would drop by sometime! Haven't heard from her in forever. Miss her voice. And you too, CopperLovely! You still have much respect from me! And BeautyBeyondWords (happy birthday, btw! We're both Decemberists, LOL)! I'm sure I'm missing somebody but I hope all of you have an excellent time! -RoChi

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  30.   otherbrother says:
    Posted: 25 Dec 08

    I am sitting here in my chair my children up stairs playing with there Christmas presents, and my wife sleeping besides me on the couch. What a wonderful time of year, my wife was up late yesterday cooking her heart out, she skipped the traditional Christmas dinner, she made Swedish Meatballs, Lasgana, Soup, these huge cookies, and some punch. Why? I wonder why? see my wife asked me what I wanted to have for Christmas dinner, I told her and she made it, of course all her food is excellent as she makes 95% of all our dinners homemade. She rarely makes things out of a box, the Meatballs were awesome, the Lasagna superb, the soup was wonderful, I thanked my wife and told her I love her. That's right I love her, she treats me good, like a man, she supports me, and sometimes just sometimes we argue and fight like cats and dogs, but oh boy is making up so much fun. I do not question my love, nor do I take it for granted, see I know from the past that what is here today can be gone tommorow. Oh Yeah I almost forgot my wife is a black woman. "WHY DO WHITE MEN LOVE BLACK WOMEN"? I only know why I love my woman who happens to be black.

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  31.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 25 Dec 08

    .....and so there it lies.....the "coal in the stocking"...... ...Seeming to prove that no matter where some people go or what time of year it is they will continue to be miserable and insufferable.....(and they seem to also come to the defense of other "sad" people.....interesting). But no matter what, everyone continues to be welcome here....(just be prepared to have your azz handed to you if you make a statement within a question that is not fully fleshed out....leaving the door open for varied interpretations). Peace and Blessings (today and everyday) tatted2death

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  32.   RockerChick27 says:
    Posted: 25 Dec 08

    Exactly where was I policing the thread? --You-- stated that he reversed the question as if it’s not allowed. And please note that I am not involved in most of the conversation on this blog. I pop up every once in a while, so I am not provided the opportunity to debate with everyone OR police the thread. (And I’m not sure if you’re one to say anything, seeing as you asked Geneandthem, possibly the most impulsive and hostile person on this blog, to basically tear someone apart). Besides, when I do ‘debate’ with someone, the intension is not to belittle them or engage in a childish debate but to express my knowledge. Notice how the majority of my strikes at people have not been conveyed with feelings but facts. Anyway, there are quite a few points I disagree with that I have not commented on because I know that it doesn’t really matter. Recognize that it can have two (maybe more) possible implications. But, as Talmund said, “We don’t see things the way they are. We see things the way we are.” I never said there’s anything wrong with someone voicing their opinion. I said to—think—first. That being said, don’t bitch when I voice my opinion about something you said. Anyway, I am not arguing with you over something so dim-witted. Laterz =) -RoChi

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  33.   PSICOHEALTH says:
    Posted: 25 Dec 08

    Hello to all The main factor of a good relaciòn should be the spiritual love of the couple, they be of the same color or different color, therefore not all the couples of different races have spiritual love, the psicologia SAYS: when the atracciòn is an opposite model to the image of the parents (DAD AND MOM), that is to say when the atracciòn or excitaciòn is generated for eventual or stable couples of A different race we owe then to say that exists a desviacion sexual or parafilia called ALOTRIORASTIA. (search with google)

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  34.   Chronik says:
    Posted: 24 Dec 08

    RoChi, if he was simply "reversing" the question, it would be "why do black women love the white man". Not, why do we (white people) deserve a black person's love. Like I am not worthy of a black woman's love or something. Thats what he/she was implying. And gimme a break..policing the thread? What is the whole point of a blog? To voice ur opinion about the topic given. And if someone says something as ridiculous as mythos said, whats wrong with responding? You, more than anyone on here has consistently turned everything into a debate and an argument. And yes i have read every single post on here. I've been here since the beginning.

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  35.   RockerChick27 says:
    Posted: 24 Dec 08

    Chronik, you need to stop policing the thread. I can’t find this site’s ToS or rules for the life of me, so I’m just assuming that reversing the question isn’t violating anything. At any rate, if you thoroughly read the original post—in addition to the title—you’ll notice that “black-white relationships” (which is general) is one of the tags, making Mythos’ reversal acceptable. Besides, any fool’s dictionary will tell you that deserve has more than one contextual implication.(Or really, depending on his tone, he could also be stating that white people don't deserve to be loved by black people). Seriously though, if you guys just want something to shit about, don’t let me stop you. -RoChi

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  36.   Chronik says:
    Posted: 24 Dec 08

    ok RoChi, ummm, think a little? obviously, he was flipping around the original question. That wasnt hard to figure out. It was a stupid, ignorant and racist thing to say. Like someone's skin color determines what they "deserve". Ridiculous. Like you said, for fuck's sake!

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  37.   RockerChick27 says:
    Posted: 24 Dec 08

    Hello all from Australia! It's been a while, no? =D There's a lot I want to respond to but I'm not gonna 'cause it seems useless. I'll just say that... damn. You guys are snapping at the tiniest things these days. As for Mythos, he is obviously responding to the main topic, which is "Why WHITE MEN Love the BLACK WOMAN." He's reversing it by asking how the WHITE MAN deserves the BLACK WOMAN'S love. Think a little, people. For fuck's sake. And I hope you all have a Merry Christmas, or Happy Holidays if you prefer XD -RoChi

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  38.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 23 Dec 08

    Ash....you...stumped????.....lol. No, but seriously, mythos is on that "sad, sorry" tip...obviously. Because neither the title nor the present discussion is "glorifing the white man" in any way. There are just some people out there who can't be happy...whether it is something about themselves or "their little world" they are always going to find something wrong. I do a lot of thinking (sometimes too much...LOL).....and all I could come up with is this. You, too, mythos could get some of that same "love" that you think is only reserved for a few if you only took a good look in the mirror and started there......LOVE YOURSELF....FIRST....FOREMOST...ALWAYS. Peace and Blessings tatted2death

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  39.   MackWhiteDaddy28 says:
    Posted: 22 Dec 08

    I love the BW because she's f*%!ing amazingly beautiful, sexual, spiritual & emotional. Can't get enough...

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  40.   geneandthem says:
    Posted: 21 Dec 08

    Chronik I mean I really don't even know what to say to that! I'm still in shock? I mean, when I see or hear stuff like that from White or black folk I am just dumfounded! I really don't think that half of the people on this beautiful planet deserve it! I try to hope and think that it is getting better everyday for us, our future generations but man I don't think we will ever get there! That was probably the stupidest comment that I have ever heard and the farthest from thinking for sure! Really I am stumped!

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  41.   Chronik says:
    Posted: 21 Dec 08

    awwwww, geanandthem, i thought you were gonna rip him up harder than that. mythos, please stop being so racist. I hope someday you wake up and see the light. No matter what race you are, someone deserves love by showing love. Its as simple as that. In case you didnt notice, most people nowadays dont see in color. They see love in someone that can make them happy.

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  42.   geneandthem says:
    Posted: 21 Dec 08

    What has the caucasian man and woman done to deserve such love and admiration? WTF??????? Well What has any man or woman done to deserve such love and admiration? I mean where did that come from? Are you saying that all black folks, and people that speak, english, spanish, french, or any other dialect do not get love and admiration? Or are incapable? Wow you are racist!!! Talk about "if you do not fear thinking" But I don't think you were even thinking when you posted that comment? I just remembered why I stopped coming to this post! Man there are a lot of crazy cats out there!

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  43.   Chronik says:
    Posted: 21 Dec 08

    Ashley.....i really hope you respond to this last post by ummm mythos. I wanna say a million things to him/her, but you are much better at telling people how it is. Putting them in their place. Tell me brother, what have we done to deserve such love and admiration from the black woman. what a ridiculous statement

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  44.   mythos says:
    Posted: 21 Dec 08

    I have one simple question towards all black folks, whether you speak, english, spanish, frnch, or any other dialect... What has the caucasian man and woman done to deserve such love and admiration? Pontificated on this if you do not fear thinking

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  45.   BeautyBeyondWords says:
    Posted: 21 Dec 08

    I love it - The otherbrother. You seem like such a beautiful person. Once again - I really enjoyed your comments. I believe that woman realized something that day and I bet that she often think about what you illustrated so beautifully to her. I am so glad that I can look beyond the simple stuff.... I've been exposed to so much more... We need to stop living in a box. Next month, I am taking my son snow tubing and skiing. It is so unfortunate that you can't find a black face no where. I can't even talk any of my black associates to come along. Log Cabins.... Telling funny stories in front of the fireplace.... Eating a beautiful dinner.... Playing board games.... Hot Tubs.... Oh my... I can't wait. I loved skiing, since I was a little girl and I am glad that I was exposed to that. Different races can learn so much from each other. I was so "Afro-centric" as a young girl. I used to rap and I have mades songs like "Raped by the white man" and all that....At one time, I was prejudice and yet became good friends with a filipino (spelled right? ) girl named Anna and then we started hanging out with a white girl name JoAnna and then.... by the time that I knew it.... I learned how to love. I learned how to laugh... I learned that fun was not always going to the mall and talking to boys...lol... We went camping... We went skiing... We did everything!A whole new world opened up to me that I didn't know existed!

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  46.   otherbrother says:
    Posted: 20 Dec 08

    Let me tell you a true story, I recently Retired from the military with 24 years service, as a leader of soldiers I had to deal with their personal issues at time. I remember having this young white female soldier she had a lot of dating issues and was pregnant by 19 and once told me she ouldn't figure out why she couldn't find a decent man. (She only dated white men) I asked her one day to list 10 things she looked for in a man and 5 things that turned her off about a man. She listed things like he had to be good looking, make good money, have a good personality, be tall, ECT... she also listed on the other side she didn't like men who were stuck up, who couldn't hold a job, didn't have god in their life, stuff like that. When she came back in with her list and we talked, I explained to her that she had minimized her pool of men by only dating white men, she stated she couldn't date a black man or mexican man, all I said to her was show me anywhere on your list of things you look for in a man where is says he must be WHITE and the show me on your list of turn off Show me where it says Black Mem or Mexican Men. She looked at me dumb founded and stuttered a little bit. See a white sergeant and a black sergeant make exactly the same amount of money being that time in service matches, grade matches, ECT... Just simply being in the military met 3/4 of here list. The problem is just for an example we had three single men in my section, all of them good guys but all of them black. So if she used our section to choose from to get her white man she would be miserably single as I was the only white guy in the section and was currently engaged to my late wife who happened to be black. I do not know what happened to that young lady, but i felt sorry for her because she let something a silly as race determine her happiness when all she wanted by her own hand written list was a good solid quality man, we have those in all races and religions, the same as women. It seems to be the few are fighting desperatly to stop what can not be stopped. LOVE love sees no color nor race nor religion love does not see at all it only feels and it feels to good to let it be because of the past. We have moved forward the train is in motion you can either get on the train and feel the love or you can chase the train and feel the pain. to all of you may you all have a blessed and joyous holiday and happy new year.

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  47.   tatted2death says:
    Posted: 18 Dec 08

    Yes, you are, Ash......a passionate man....and I am sure your lady is NOT complaining (that's the only woman's opinion you need to worry about now....LOL). If anything I think it is the opposite.....a man that won't stand up for anything is a little less than....well, I think you get my drift. Peace and Blessings to ALL tatted2death

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  48.   geneandthem says:
    Posted: 17 Dec 08

    First off JamaicanInToronto! Mi throw mi caorn mi neva call nuh fowl!!! I just cant Agree with you! I can see that at times I have been a A@#HOLE To people I find Ignorant! And I see that I am Very Passionate about who I love and what I want! But to Me there is nothing effeminate about how I am or Who I am! Just because I get hot when I see a stupid post about race and relationships, that does not mean I am feminine! And you were the one that said you wanted to go back to where the "real men" were! Yuh cawna dark!! Why you found a interracial dating site is beyond me but there seems to be some curiosity there, and maybe a undiscovered want or need! But its cool! Just stay racist, closed minded and SINGLE!Fire de a Mus Mus tail, she tink a cool breeze Ashley

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  49.   Chronik says:
    Posted: 17 Dec 08

    JamaicaninTor....just because a black woman is attracted to white guys or vice versa, it doesnt mean they are limiting themselves to that particular race. Its called preference. Like, just because I prefer black women doesnt mean i will only limit myself to them. You sound very racist to me, and that shit will not fly here.

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  50.   BeautyBeyondWords says:
    Posted: 17 Dec 08

    OtherBrother - Do you have a brother? lol...lol... That is what I am talking about. I really liked your comments. You didn't have to downplay anyone's feelings to get yours across. Well done! Most people are just looking for companionship and someone to treat them right. I am glad that you are in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful woman. May the Lord bless your family! Don't worry about what anyone says about your family. Let them talk. They are probably talking, because they are not happy. It is definitely a blessing to find someone that makes you happy and is happy with you. Love her and treat her like a queen forever! ..... Let them talk about that! lol....lol... Thanks Jarrita Hotsauce!

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