5 First-Date Moves That Make Him Want More {VIDEO} Women think going on a date with a guy is simple. You dress up, groom yourself, and head to an overpriced bar. Then you talk, ask questions, blah blah blah. Gulp down a few drinks. Maybe a kiss. En...

Dating Advice That Might Make You Mad I was going to post this in the comments for my last blog, but felt it was worth its own post. It’s in response to another ad nauseum debate between two camps on this blog: Women who think that eve...

How Do I Finally Let Go Of My Ex For Good? I received a question from one of our readers, Jennifer on moving on after a break up. It read: Evan, I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of years and I’m a big fan. Your advice has helped me...

Weird: Get Over Him AND Get Him Back? {VIDEO} I have to be careful here because I know how so many women are desperate to hear the secrets of how to get a guy back in their lives. Maybe you feel in so much pain like you’ll never be happy again ...

QOTW: My Daughter's Father Doesn't Want Her to Like Non-Black Boys I received this note from a fan… Hi Christelyn! I need some advice…So I have a 6-year-old daughter & we live in a majority white community. I love it. Anyway, a little white boy has a crush...

You Have To Kiss A Lot of Princes Before You Marry The Frog You’ve been through a LOT when it comes to love. You’ve dated guys with whom you felt the most incredible connection, only to find out that they weren’t serious about you. You’ve dated guys wi...

Why Love Advice Doesn't Work For You... Yet {VIDEO} This is difficult for me to admit. But the truth is, the average woman who reads dating advice (yep, even mine, sadly) will never make it work. Maybe she’ll try a couple of lines on that cute guy a...

Everything You Know About Attraction is Wrong {Video} What is the secret that makes a man look into a woman’s eyes and think, “She is the one for me?” It isn’t her looks. It isn’t her masters degree in literature. It isn’t the fact that she ...

Matthew Knowles Blames His Mother for His Colorism. Who's Surprised? In an article that initially appeared in Ebony but then mysteriously disappeared that Madame Noire reported Matthew Knowles, patriarch of Beyonce and Solange, started dating his now ex-wife Tina beca...

4 Dangerous Reasons You Fall In Love Too Fast (VIDEO) Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas. He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour. Then it was on to talking all night. They ki...